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That lady's SIL prevented a gender reveal party so she's a hero
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# ? May 19, 2019 01:22 |
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ScentOfAnOtaku posted:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrL5tqFczPE I remember around the time I joined SA (maybe even before), there was a thread about people trying to be masked crime fighters IRL. Most of it was to gawk and laugh, but a true hero was found... Angle Grinder Man! He would wear his costume and go around London angle grinding the boots off of cars.
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# ? May 19, 2019 01:23 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA I'm terminally ill and don't want to give closure to my sister? Do you believe in Hell? If not this is a perfect opportunity to scar her for life. With acid.
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# ? May 19, 2019 01:31 |
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Picnic Princess posted:So wait, was he or wasn't he loving his teacher? Right? Way to leave us hanging
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# ? May 19, 2019 01:33 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA I'm terminally ill and don't want to give closure to my sister? This one REALLY depends on what the sister told them. I can conceive of some things that would make OP the rear end in a top hat instead.
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# ? May 19, 2019 01:35 |
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therobit posted:This one REALLY depends on what the sister told them. I can conceive of some things that would make OP the rear end in a top hat instead. In the thread she said the husband knew about it already. Edit: also, quote:They say that what she did was despicable and I'm completely right to despise her, but that if I don't forgive her before I pass she'll never get closure Beachcomber fucked around with this message at 01:42 on May 19, 2019 |
# ? May 19, 2019 01:36 |
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Haifisch posted:My girlfriend (25f) moved in with me (30m) and she's been very rude and confrontational with my neighbors Wow, it's the complete inverse of the guy who had trouble with his girlfriend in the rough neighborhood he lived in
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# ? May 19, 2019 01:36 |
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Beachcomber posted:In the thread she said the husband knew about it already. Yeah they're basically saying that they know the sister doesn't deserve closure but should be given it anyway
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:18 |
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therobit posted:This one REALLY depends on what the sister told them. I can conceive of some things that would make OP the rear end in a top hat instead.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:20 |
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FactsAreUseless posted:Closure is a fake idea, and nobody owes their lovely family members anything. It's her life and her death and she can do it however she wants. Her sister ruined her marriage. gently caress her. I think it depends on what the sister told them and how that went down. Chances are it was something like a secret abortion, and if the sister did it on purpose then gently caress her. If it let slip on accident then maybe OP should forgive her. If the secret was about how OP was using meth and stealing to buy it, then the OP was the one in the wrong all along. I think the first scenario is more likely, and then it comes down to intent for me. I think OP should forgive for her own good, not her sister's, and also I think that she is better off without a dude that would leave his wife because his parents told her to.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:26 |
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therobit posted:I think it depends on what the sister told them and how that went down. Chances are it was something like a secret abortion, and if the sister did it on purpose then gently caress her. If it let slip on accident then maybe OP should forgive her. If the secret was about how OP was using meth and stealing to buy it, then the OP was the one in the wrong all along. I think the first scenario is more likely, and then it comes down to intent for me. The entire family says that what the sister did was despicable
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:29 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:You better be prepared to loving fight for that disability rating, My cousin burned out his lungs from a gun backfire in Desert Storm and it took him until I was twenty to get his disability properly. For context, I'm 32. That was roughly 10-ish years and many legal battles. He can barely walk in from a parking lot, his lungs are shot. I seriously don’t believe this. I have a 50% service connected disability that’s not even directly tied to my military service, I have anxiety and depression and never got treated for it till the stress of the flight line broke me, and my disability is basically due to it being exacerbated by my service. Like literally I went to the VA, told what was up, waited a few months and started getting paid. So I’m not sure what’s up that it took your cousin 10 years and going to court but everyone I know who also has SCD had a similar experience to me with no issues. Also, ummmm gently caress you very much for that second paragraph. Sorry that some paperwork hurt your feelings, but without the coverage I receive I would probably be on the street, dead, or both by now. I love when people tell how sorry they are I have to endure the VA and it’s like, gently caress yourself, you have no idea how it works. I’m saying it’s super easy street, or that there’s never headaches, but jesus christ stop saying this poo poo.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:36 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting to report my friend to all the stores he rips off? People who only blow the whistle because they’re jealous they’re too timid to break the rules themselves are the worst. They definitely are just pissed because they’re not the one benefiting from all the theft.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:36 |
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therobit posted:I think it depends on what the sister told them and how that went down. Chances are it was something like a secret abortion, and if the sister did it on purpose then gently caress her. If it let slip on accident then maybe OP should forgive her. If the secret was about how OP was using meth and stealing to buy it, then the OP was the one in the wrong all along. I think the first scenario is more likely, and then it comes down to intent for me.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:41 |
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Me [36M] with my wife [29F] of 6 years, I tried frame tactics on my brother's [30M] advice, she knew them, can I fix this?quote:My wife had started a new job last year, and I had been honestly feeling weird about it. She's now the breadwinner, which didn't come as a surprise, and I guess I felt emasculated. Instead of taking to her about it, I took my brother's advice and started reading about PUA/RP tactics.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:42 |
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The only thing wrong with this is that the wife is even considering going to counseling with him instead of telling her ex-husband and his dipshit brother to gently caress off for eternity.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:45 |
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Haifisch posted:Me [36M] with my wife [29F] of 6 years, I tried frame tactics on my brother's [30M] advice, she knew them, can I fix this? ahahahahaha get hosed, son
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:47 |
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FactsAreUseless posted:The reason people give you a hard time in this thread, as well as your red text, is that you are naive to the point of being a little delusional. You're clearly not dumb or evil, just try a little less hard to see everyone's idealized perspective. I think most people are good at heart, and I believe in trying to see the good in people most of the time. It seems to serve me pretty well in life, but I am also a naturally suspicious person to it is tempered by that when I meet people in person. I also think that this particular post is WAY more interesting if I imagine all the ways that OP could be the rear end in a top hat. Like I said, I think probably the sister blew it and if that was intentional, which is likely as well, then gently caress her. But I enjoy imagining all the weird ways in which the narrator might be the rear end in a top hat instead. Also in the reddit thread she is very, very careful not to ever explain what happened, and refuses to give any additional details when asked. I find that interesting.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:49 |
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therobit posted:I am also a naturally suspicious person
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:51 |
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therobit posted:I think most people are good at heart, and I believe in trying to see the good in people most of the time. It seems to serve me pretty well in life, but I am also a naturally suspicious person to it is tempered by that when I meet people in person. She might be a little sensitive about the thing that ruined her entire life and death because she's dying alone and going through cancer alone.
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:54 |
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Haifisch posted:Me [36M] with my wife [29F] of 6 years, I tried frame tactics on my brother's [30M] advice, she knew them, can I fix this? “I psychologically abused my wife because I’m a literal child and didn’t talk to her like a human - why won’t she come back I love her why” Do men really get that bent out of shape because of women making more?
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:56 |
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FactsAreUseless posted:You're clearly not dumb
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# ? May 19, 2019 02:58 |
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teen witch posted:“I psychologically abused my wife because I’m a literal child and didn’t talk to her like a human - why won’t she come back I love her why” Plenty of guys don't care, but I feel like the kind of dude who marries a 23-year-old at 30 is definitely going to feel emasculated by his younger wife becoming his equal or "superior" in any way
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:01 |
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teen witch posted:“I psychologically abused my wife because I’m a literal child and didn’t talk to her like a human - why won’t she come back I love her why” Yes. The literal only role most men understand/are taught is masculine is that of "provider" so if thats not their function in the relationship they melt down because what else do they have to offer? Sure as poo poo not cooking, cleaning, planning, and emotional support.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:03 |
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it's weird how andrew dworkin was 100% right and yet we act like these things are mysteries
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:05 |
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therobit posted:I think most people are good at heart, and I believe in trying to see the good in people most of the time. It seems to serve me pretty well in life, but I am also a naturally suspicious person to it is tempered by that when I meet people in person. One of your "what if" theories for justifying the sister's behavior was that maybe the OP used to steal poo poo to fund a drug addiction. What happened to this belief that all people are good when you were writing that?
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:09 |
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Barudak posted:Yes. The literal only role most men understand/are taught is masculine is that of "provider" so if thats not their function in the relationship they melt down because what else do they have to offer? Sure as poo poo not cooking, cleaning, planning, and emotional support. You uh, do realize they have to do all those things except the last while single, right? And that if they don't do the last they will be single.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:15 |
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FoolyCharged posted:You uh, do realize they have to do all those things except the last while single, right? And that if they don't do the last they will be single. After reading this thread, do you really believe what you wrote here? Women are marrying men who literally can't wipe their asses.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:18 |
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QuarkJets posted:One of your "what if" theories for justifying the sister's behavior was that maybe the OP used to steal poo poo to fund a drug addiction. What happened to this belief that all people are good when you were writing that? OP is really hesitant to say what went down. I find the possibility that she could be the rear end in a top hat here more interesting than just a run of the mill "I was so wronged by my sister and she ruined my life" sob story. I don't know what happened, but neither do you or anyone else except the OP, her sister, and the ex husband. Because she won't say what terrible secret was so bad that her ex husband felt compelled to divorce her after his parents found out. She obviously isn't willing to forgive her sister and if this is the first time her sister has tried to make amends, then it is a little late since OP is dying and all. That's too bad for both of them, but I don't necessarily know who the rear end in a top hat is here without knowing what caused the whole situation.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:20 |
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Haifisch posted:Me [36M] with my wife [29F] of 6 years, I tried frame tactics on my brother's [30M] advice, she knew them, can I fix this? It's loving beautiful
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:22 |
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QuarkJets posted:After reading this thread, do you really believe what you wrote here? This thread's content is generated by idiots who think asking reddit for relationship advice is a type of decision other than horrible. I wouldn't exactly hold them up as the norm.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:23 |
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cultural appropriation is a goddamn crime because it results in depressed 30 something keyboard warlocks differentiating THOTs based on perceived fuckability. you pick that one up clubbing with Post Malone? how many times do you have to use it in casual conversation before it erases the stain of knowing what kind of RAM you use.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:25 |
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FoolyCharged posted:This thread's content is generated by idiots who think asking reddit for relationship advice is a type of decision other than horrible. I wouldn't exactly hold them up as the norm. it's surprisingly normal. although in the wild, a huge proportion are just the living embodiment of this tweet: https://twitter.com/steph_mcca/status/1065688411573383168?lang=en
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:26 |
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teen witch posted:Do men really get that bent out of shape because of women making more? My guess is something important but ultimately (generally) harmless, like the sister tattled to the in-laws that OP was bisexual or something to that effect. I'm of the opinion that she's not the rear end in a top hat and indeed it is her parents who are, because if, as you said, now is the only time her sister has ever shown any regret over it, well too fuckin' bad. Just because you share DNA with someone does not mean you owe them closure, or indeed anything at all. Malachite_Dragon fucked around with this message at 03:48 on May 19, 2019 |
# ? May 19, 2019 03:44 |
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AITA: Beach dad: leave to struggle and ultimately claim victory or help and prevent broken canopy.quote:I was at the beach today and witnessed a dad trying to set up a 10x10 canopy for his family. They were struggling, it was father, mother and one daughter. They were not locking things down, pulling up opposite legs, going the wrong directions. A female companion of mine was with me under my perfectly constructed canopy. quote:NAH - no self respecting Dad would even except/want/need your help and would be offended that you thought you even needed to ask. Mind your own business son. quote:NAH. You did the right thing. You let another man be a man. quote:YTA. Offering to help someone who is visibly struggling is just common courtesy. Instead of him reveling in beach dad glory, he could have been reveling in the spirit of cooperation AND had an intact tent.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:51 |
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Eagle scout my rear end, any of the ones I know would not have stopped to think "Hm, maybe I shouldn't, maybe they don't wan't my help"; you go the hell up and offer it. If they say no, a'ight, you tried, but if you rationalize yourself out of even doing that you didn't really want to help in the first place. Do not lie to us, the internet.
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# ? May 19, 2019 03:53 |
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:cultural appropriation is a goddamn crime because it results in depressed 30 something keyboard warlocks differentiating THOTs based on perceived fuckability. you pick that one up clubbing with Post Malone? how many times do you have to use it in casual conversation before it erases the stain of knowing what kind of RAM you use. i hate thot because it doesn't parse grammatically that that ho over there
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# ? May 19, 2019 04:11 |
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The White Dragon posted:i hate thot because it doesn't parse grammatically It’s not really an acronym.
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# ? May 19, 2019 04:15 |
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My family hate that there is an age gap between me [31F] and my boyfriend [19M]. u/throwaway12345ss I met someone 6 months ago and we have been together ever since. He prefers older women, says he doesn't like immature girls (the irony of his age eh?). I don't think he fetishes my age, we're both pretty silly as people, we spend our time together laughing a lot. We're very similar in many ways but obviously I have a lot more life experience. When I mention that, he gets a little annoyed as he thinks I'm sorta invalidating his life experience. We're hopeless in love, I am aware that that it's the honeymoon period but I honestly feel like he's my soulmate. We even have matching tattoos, because hey we're pathetic like that. Sexually, we're compatible - I know stereotypically its all about the mature woman being in charge but actually we're in a mild BDSM relationship, I'm the sub. I have finally told my parents and best friends about the age gap. They are horrified and have stopped speaking to me. I am devastated. I don't see what the problem is, I didn't pursue him, I resisted his charms for a good two months. He's my best friend, the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. They won't come round to the idea, my parents are strict Christians and were horrified when I got divorced (yeah there is that). My best friends think its gross and want me to find someone my own age. I know about power imbalances etc however honestly - he holds the power. Especially in the bedroom. He's in his 2nd year at university, I make sure that we don't see each other if he has exams or assignments due. I refuse to compromise his education for my happiness. We live in the same country but not in the same place. I just want to leave the country and start again where no one will know. Am I in the wrong for this relationship? TL;DR I am in an age gap relationship, everyone disapproves of it. Should I end it.
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MasBrillante posted:My family hate that there is an age gap between me [31F] and my boyfriend [19M]. She’s just as insanely immature as he most likely is. Like after 25 or so the age gap isn’t that big of a deal if you’re the younger partner but this? They sound catastrophically made for each other.
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