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mind the walrus posted:1. You work in finance and you let your husband do the home accounting? I get not wanting to bring work home but this seems like you were asking for trouble. she should stay. Anyone looking at a model 3 in 2019 has brain worms.
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Clark Nova posted:The isle of Lesbos I've always wondered if their gift shops sell items as tacky as I can imagine.
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FoolyCharged posted:I just googled up an au pair to see what the hell that was. The way it's supposed to work is that a young woman (or man, though in practice that nearly never happens) comes to the foreign country, either to study or to learn the language or just to see the world, and lives with a host family who give her room and board. In exchange, she does general domestic childcare tasks. The au pair is supposed to be treated like a big sister, sort of, and shares meals with the rest of the family, etc where a nanny usually would not. The au pair is also paid an allowance and is not expected to be on-call 24/7, because it's supposed to be a cultural exchange, not a cheap servant. In reality of course the main reason that people hire au pairs is that they want a full-time nanny, but they specifically want a white nanny, and they don't want to pay her anything. Au pairs are treated exactly like hired servants and yes the dad will always try to gently caress them.
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Too strong to be sexy... submitted 8 hours ago by nutinmybuttagainquote:I (f21) and my bf(M24) have been together for a few years. We go to the gym regularly together which used to be nice. ( Before I started getting into building a bit of muscle) I by no means am a body builder or anything of the sort. Just like eating and want a bigger arse.
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Sagebrush posted:In reality of course the main reason that people hire au pairs is that they want a full-time nanny, but they specifically want a white nanny, Ohhhhhhhh.
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May 27, 2019 00:45
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Beachcomber posted:I've always wondered if their gift shops sell items as tacky as I can imagine. I'm guessing much like I (HEART) WEED California and I (HEART) BEAVER Utah it's I (HEART) the Isle of LESBOS
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I tell women I want kids but I really don't.quote:I(35M) feel like I do this because it's a defense mechanism for women who would want to have my kids. Some people swear they must create problems where there are none. Also, love the people who approach dating apps like a pool for arranged marriages. Like, you can just date and find out if you are compatible. You don’t need some grand strategy.
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May 27, 2019 00:50
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Why are the weapon-obsessed poo poo-monglers so loving reluctant to lock things up? It doesn't matter if it's a gun or a battle-axe, it is not a goddamn toy, put it the gently caress away. Probably because they realize if they can't just casually grab it and wave it around for a bit at any time, they'll never actually do anything with them or see them, and therefore it was a huge loving waste of money in the first place. DemoneeHo posted:AITA for backing out of sex after finding out I was with a 27 year old virgin? This one hurt to read. Three dates that seemed to go well, leading up to what was going to be sex, and then "lol no I'm not going to be your girlfriend and you just DQ'd yourself from casual sex, gtfo." I bet that guy will be plagued with doubt on every future date: "is she really into me or am I just kidding myself again? There's literally no way for me to tell!  "She's absolutely not obligated to gently caress him but (and not saying she's necessarily ~~the rear end in a top hat~~) she definitely hurt him.
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May 27, 2019 00:51
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welcome to hell posted:Too strong to be sexy... submitted 8 hours ago by nutinmybuttagain 
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Farmer Crack-rear end posted:Probably because they realize if they can't just casually grab it and wave it around for a bit at any time, they'll never actually do anything with them or see them, and therefore it was a huge loving waste of money in the first place. She HURT him? Are dudes really that fragile?
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May 27, 2019 00:55
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MasBrillante posted:She HURT him? Are dudes really that fragile? lol is that really an honest question?
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May 27, 2019 00:58
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MasBrillante posted:I tell women I want kids but I really don't. You're just leaving yourself wide open for Paradox game jokes here. If you're calling her an au pair you're definitely going to try to gently caress them. Just hire a childcare professional.
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May 27, 2019 00:58
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MasBrillante posted:She HURT him? Are dudes really that fragile? *Points to 85% of the stories ITT* Yup.
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May 27, 2019 00:58
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Kamikaze Raider posted:lol. Is that really an honest question? Lol, for someone it is.
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May 27, 2019 00:59
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MasBrillante posted:She HURT him? Are dudes really that fragile? Lol this is a pretty spicy take. Are guys supposed to have emotions or not? I’m getting confused here.
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May 27, 2019 00:59
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MarcusSA posted:Lol this is a pretty spicy take. Absolutely. I just think that being “hurt” by someone you haven’t been dating for more than a couple weeks, as opposed to disappointed and maybe a little insecure is a lot. I think this about women too. Please do not hurt yourself jumping to the conclusion that this is about gender as opposed to about my opinion as to how long it takes people to attach themselves on the dating market. Edit: To clarify my question, I genuinely hope that it is not the consensus among dudes in this thread that that is a normal reaction. But I’m not a dude, so do weigh in.
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It's not like she laughed in his face but idk, why mention it. Unless he genuinely didn't know what to do
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Farmer Crack-rear end posted:This one hurt to read. Three dates that seemed to go well, leading up to what was going to be sex, and then "lol no I'm not going to be your girlfriend and you just DQ'd yourself from casual sex, gtfo." I bet that guy will be plagued with doubt on every future date: "is she really into me or am I just kidding myself again? There's literally no way for me to tell! yeah she says in the same post that she's sick of awful guys, this guy seemed nice and friendly and she was looking forward to going on good dates with him, they went on a few and then got into bed...but all along she knows she isn't going to be this guy's girlfriend, no way, no how? she seems to want to keep spending time with the guy and was planning to have sex with him but uh how is that not a girlfriend again? like okay i get that she's worried that virgin guy will get super clingy afterwards. but if she's not going to give him a chance, then she should at least be up front "this is only about sex, not dating." but it doesn't even sound like that's what she actually wants anyway??? i mean i guess this is why she's asking on relationshits instead of just handling it like a normal person MasBrillante posted:Absolutely. I just think that being “hurt” by someone you haven’t been dating for more than a couple weeks, as opposed to disappointed and maybe a little insecure is a lot. I think this about women too. Please do not hurt yourself jumping to the conclusion that this is about gender as opposed to about my opinion as to how long it takes people to attach themselves on the dating market. you go on a few dates with someone, it seems to be going well, then you get in bed together and you're both into it and they find out you're a virgin and say "whoa, no, i'm not going to be your girlfriend/boyfriend, later" and then ghosts you. absolutely that is hurtful. you'd sit there thinking either "they are turned off because i'm still a virgin" or "they are turned off because they don't respect me enough to think i can be an adult about this." Sagebrush fucked around with this message at 01:07 on May 27, 2019 |
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if he's still a virgin at 27 there's something deeply, deeply wrong with him that she just hadn't uncovered yet. she was completely right to sever. e: hopefully the experience gets him to stop dating so he doesn't hurt anyone
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May 27, 2019 01:05
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Freudian posted:My [17M] parents [54M, 49F] have been having issues. I suspect that my dad is gay and is cheating on my mom. What do I do?
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Sagebrush posted:you go on a few dates with someone, it seems to be going well, then you get in bed together and you're both into it and she finds out you're a virgin and says "whoa, no, i'm not going to be your girlfriend, later" and then ghosts you. Like swap the genders if it helps as a thought exercise. carry on then posted:if he's still a virgin at 27 there's something deeply, deeply wrong with him that she just hadn't uncovered yet. she was completely right to sever.
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areyoucontagious posted:Isn’t au pair French for “bang-nanny” anyway? lol this guy posted 4 days ago that he and his wife successfully found a woman for a threesome and the replies are all "you paid for it, that's called an escort"
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mind the walrus posted:Wow for real? lol are you actually going to stan a school-shooter-in-training?
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mind the walrus posted:Wow for real? That was bait
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HMS Beagle posted:AITA for wanting a divorce from husband who lost 200k on bitcoin? this person is not the rear end in a top hat for wanting a divorce, but they are the rear end in a top hat for working in finance (in switzerland!) and having 800,000 dollars saved. up against the wall
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carry on then posted:if he's still a virgin at 27 there's something deeply, deeply wrong with him that she just hadn't uncovered yet. she was completely right to sever. He was stupid enough to blurt out the truth when it would have been harmless to say nothing at all, so yeah.
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carry on then posted:lol are you actually going to stan a school-shooter-in-training? Are you okay, this is a really weird meltdown
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Pinecone Sample posted:lol this guy posted 4 days ago that he and his wife successfully found a woman for a threesome and the replies are all "you paid for it, that's called an escort" That's probably the best way to handle a threesome tbh. I mean, if you're intent on putting your relationship at risk for a cheap thrill.
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Dazerbeams posted:He was stupid enough to blurt out the truth when it would have been harmless to say nothing at all, so yeah. "men should hide their red flags better" let me be clear, him not stating that up front is one hell of a lie of omission
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May 27, 2019 01:11
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carry on then posted:lol are you actually going to stan a school-shooter-in-training? Way to slow play your gimmick, rear end in a top hat
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IG-88 posted:Way to slow play your gimmick, rear end in a top hat It doesn’t even make sense, he isn’t in school
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please knock Mom! posted:That was bait
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carry on then posted:"men should hide their red flags better" Lol what? It was after three dates. You don’t owe your sexual history to a casual hook up.
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May 27, 2019 01:15
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welcome to hell posted:Too strong to be sexy... submitted 8 hours ago by nutinmybuttagain For every dude with a strength fetish there are a dozen who will weep in a pool of their own emasculation.
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Dazerbeams posted:Lol what? It was after three dates. You don’t owe your sexual history to a casual hook up. if you're so undesirable that no one would even think of touching you until you were twenty-loving-seven, you absolutely do
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mind the walrus posted:Yeah there's nothing mystical about this. If you're seeing someone, like them, and make yourself vulnerable and their response is "no thanks" it doesn't matter what the reasons are, that's a rejection and it hurts. I did it. I did the thought exercise. And my verdict is that some of y’all are sensitive as gently caress and dating must just chew you up and spit you out.
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MasBrillante posted:I did it. I did the thought exercise. And my verdict is that some of y’all are sensitive as gently caress and dating must just chew you up and spit you out.
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Do you not find rejection hurtful? Or do you consider "hurt" to be some really strong word? I would hope three dates followed by rejection after you've both consented to sex doesn't send him into a month long depressions spiral, but I don't think it's unreasonable to feel hurt for an evening. If he's been rejected this way before or it feeds into existing insecurities (likely) then even a few days of feeling down about it wouldn't be surprising. Perhaps yes to question 2? But also, I think his reaction was fine. It’s the goon reactions to it that I think are overwrought.
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MasBrillante posted:Perhaps yes to question 2? But also, I think his reaction was fine. It’s the goon reactions to it that I think are overwrought. It's because they're virgins who are still holding out hope that some woman will be willing to do the emotional labor of easing their damaged ego, and women reacting appropriately like the OP shine a little truth on that hope (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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carry on then posted:It's because they're virgins who are still holding out hope that some woman will be willing to do the emotional labor of easing their damaged ego Pls don’t quote me, thx.
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