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Knyteguy posted:Well I'm at work but the gist of it is I got a speeding ticket at Christmas 2 years ago that I need to start paying, and we thought the credit card was in collections but they contacted us yesterday to give us a chance to start making payments so it doesn't go that way. I'm sure we won't get an actual credit limit after we pay it, but since our credit will matter a bit in the next 2 years we need to pay it. I know you said most of the $1100 was late fees, but jeez. That's an expensive speeding ticket.
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# ¿ Dec 6, 2013 18:05 |
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# ¿ May 2, 2024 07:22 |
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So, just to confirm: You're spending $1200 to break a lease plus moving expenses. And you've saved a grand total of $70 towards the baby? Health plan and health savings account aside, that's utterly ridiculous.
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# ¿ Oct 26, 2014 21:14 |
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How much time and effort are you putting into your business in order to get that return? $260 in 2 months isn't bad if it's 2-3 hours a week. $260 in 2 months is terrible if that's 10-15 hours a week.
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# ¿ Nov 25, 2014 21:21 |
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It's been a while since I've re-read your posts but the thing that jumps out to me is that your car payment is the same cost as your fixed baby costs, plus you have bike expenditures? Remind me again what the car situation is and why that couldn't be reduced? Edit: Also, for the student loans if you have any forbearance time left I might consider using that for the first few months after the baby is born- even the extra $100/month there would probably really help.
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# ¿ Dec 26, 2014 23:03 |
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Knyteguy posted:ufsteph: we're using the insurance company's estimate of the expected birth cost @ $10,000. We're going with the cheaper hospital in town also. All of our hospitals are good here so it shouldn't matter. So you took a financial estimate from an insurance company which presumably has every incentive to lowball that number and went "yup, that's good" and can't see why everyone in this thread has been saying for months that you need to be prepared for the worst, not the best? Based on the graph ufsteph posted $10K would have just, JUST barely covered a 100% normal delivery five years ago. But sure, let's just go ahead and assume $10K will be the number. Nothing could possibly go wrong, right? Edit: Whoops, it would have just barely covered it in 2008. By 2009 you're already behind. So seven years ago your $10K would have been okay. Referee fucked around with this message at 19:25 on Dec 30, 2014 |
# ¿ Dec 30, 2014 19:23 |
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It's very simple. Look at the title of the thread.
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# ¿ Jan 5, 2015 06:19 |
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Old Fart posted:It's hard not to see you playing the victim when you can't even take a breath after "accepting responsibility" before saying how shady they are. This. You yourself say you already knew they were shady from the slab leak crap. That means you should have prepared for them to try to screw you over on move out. The fact that you didn't and you then also didn't follow up after move out with any kind of contact to ensure nothing was pulled is completely on you. Own it.
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2015 08:51 |
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Knyteguy posted:There was a carpet cleaning fee, Jan/Sham whatever the gently caress that is @ $150 (we cleaned the place pretty good, so "walkthrough"), we had a wall painted so that was like $96 (which I'm fine with we did paint a wall), and one or two more things. As mentioned, this is exactly why people get frustrated with you. You either don't provide details or when you do you don't give the whole story and on top of that your first defense is almost always "well, let's just move on, lesson learned." I'll give you a personal example. I got a doctor bill for $188 last Friday which I thought seemed pretty high for what I usually pay. So yesterday I called the doctor and asked about it and followed up with a call to my insurance company to verify that my deductible was what I thought it was. In this particular case the bill was completely legit and valid and I called the doctor right back and paid them. No harm done, took maybe fifteen minutes of my day. But what if it wasn't valid? Then that fifteen minutes saves me $100+. When you don't understand what you're being charged for, then you ask about it. You don't go "eh, whatever the gently caress that is" and pay it. You don't go "eh, lesson learned." And you don't be intentionally vague to a thread full of people who are taking time out of their day to give you advice that might help you.
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# ¿ Jan 6, 2015 21:59 |
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I don't think people would be nearly as upset/worried/terrified without the fact that the oncoming financial train wreck (the impending childbirth) is coming in about a month and the underlying behavior doesn't seem to have changed. (Note that I am in no way referring to children as financial train wrecks- just KG's situation changing.)
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# ¿ Jan 7, 2015 21:31 |
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My opinion on your budgets (food, trips, and otherwise) would be that you wait to make any meaningful changes to anything until after the baby is born next month. This is the time where you should be trying to make everything in your life as stable as possible, not trying to change things when you already have a massive change coming that you know about and that has an arrival date.
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# ¿ Jan 21, 2015 22:59 |
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Knyteguy posted:
Remind me because I might have forgotten. You said your plan is to re-finance the car and I know you've posted in the past about how happy you are your credit score is going up. Are these hospital bills far enough in the past that they aren't going to affect either of these goals?
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# ¿ Jan 25, 2015 08:39 |
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Knyteguy posted:Last night we divvyed up chores and what day we need to do them. The penalty for missing a day is $5 in discretionary. I hope the split on this was you 99% and her 1% because I cannot imagine in what universe doing this with an eight-months-pregnant wife ends well.
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# ¿ Jan 29, 2015 05:38 |
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Bugamol posted:At least with my spreadsheet it's extremely easy and straightforward to see where I over under spent! Along this line, what did you use to create this sheet?
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# ¿ Jan 31, 2015 02:02 |
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Congrats KG and Janus Owl!
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# ¿ Feb 20, 2015 21:05 |
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Inverse Icarus posted:You're the one doing it. The entire thread has been shouting "MAKE A BUDGET AND STICK TO IT FOR THREE MONTHS" for about a year now, and every month it's like you're discovering how to make a budget all over again, shifting things around in a shell game to make yourself feel better about the numbers. This seems like something everyone should empty-quote for a page or so.
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# ¿ Apr 4, 2015 17:29 |
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Knyteguy posted:April: I don't use YNAB but can someone who does enlighten me as to why some of these categories match up but not others? For example: Groceries: 150.00 - 9.99 = 155.14? Renter's Insurance: 21.37 - 16.58 = 31.59?
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# ¿ Apr 5, 2015 22:11 |
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Knyteguy posted:More income won't help anyway right? Unless we take care of the bad with money habits. Well, I mean yes you need to take care of the money habits but it certainly wouldn't hurt to give you some wiggle room!
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# ¿ Apr 10, 2015 21:21 |
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Veskit posted:Is nobody else concerned that we're 11 days into the month and the budget still isn't complete? Anyone? He's just on the Slow Motion
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# ¿ Apr 11, 2015 21:32 |
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Knyteguy, post your finished April budget.
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# ¿ Apr 13, 2015 19:05 |
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Knyteguy posted:I know I was being a wuss with the bike ride Knyteguy posted:The difficulty of the ride isn't what was holding me back
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# ¿ Apr 14, 2015 22:59 |
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Knyteguy posted:OK cool Horking you've definitely got a deal then. I'll do my best for charity! And the family of course. What would be your choice of charity?
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# ¿ Apr 15, 2015 03:08 |
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Knyteguy posted:My first thought is the http://www.nevadahumanesociety.org/ since they're the pinnacle of animal control (we have no state 'pound') and absolutely need the funding. They have acres of dirt and grass for daily exercise, take on just about the entire burden of homeless and abandoned animals in the city, do free/cheap spays and neuters, and they're no kill. I try to donate when I can. Good answer. I'm also in for $100.
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# ¿ Apr 16, 2015 05:00 |
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Knyteguy posted:Eh I'm not telling this one. It was expensive though. Alcohol is an expensive habit all by itself without throwing more money at it, Knyte!
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# ¿ Apr 17, 2015 01:57 |
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Knyteguy posted:Progress. Despite wanting to go I skipped the bachelor party completely to stay on track with finances, studying, and the alcohol goal. The result of this means I have a small sum of discretionary left to get me through the month. So I proved you wrong something clever you said I was going to go over by mid month I think. Once is an aberration. Multiple times is a pattern. Develop this into a pattern and I think you'll have something, Knyteguy. (But really, good going.)
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# ¿ Apr 18, 2015 21:00 |
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Uncle Jam posted:You probably shouldn't let your boss know you are entertaining offers unless you already have something lined up. You don't even have a finalized resume yet. This. I'm very confused why you would bring this up to your current employer when you have nothing in-hand. Unless you're trying to get let go.
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# ¿ Apr 20, 2015 21:54 |
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Knyteguy posted:Alright so here's how my company works, and how it worked in the past. If Bar is already paying your salary and offering to make you a permanent employee, where does this really leave you any leverage to negotiate in this scenario? They already have decided what you're worth because they're currently the ones paying you as I understand it, correct?
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# ¿ Apr 21, 2015 22:06 |
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Inept posted:Hahaha how is that even legal? What incentive would they have to quickly get the house rented out again if you're obligated to pay for as long as its vacant? Why in the world would you sign a lease like this?
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# ¿ Apr 21, 2015 22:40 |
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Star War Sex Parrot posted:The law requires the landlord to make reasonable efforts to mitigate damages. The landlord can't just sit back and let the place sit empty, and then sue you for the remaining term of the lease. I'm certainly not versed in this area, but that sounds so ambiguous as to be pretty unenforceable.
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# ¿ Apr 21, 2015 22:47 |
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in_cahoots posted:You're still not understanding what people are saying. The recruiter's goal is to get you a job as quickly as possible. When you say $60k they frame it as, "this guy will be happy with 75k so I'll shoot for jobs in the 70-90k range". You'll interview for the job without knowing the salary, and then they'll come back saying 75k is the best they could do. It's a waste of your time and motivation. Worst case, there's a job out there that you would love for 100k but now you've poisoned the well and can't get more than 80k from them. Yup, going to agree here. All of this is spot-on. You KNOW giving out that information is bad for you, whether it's to a recruiter or to an interviewer. Don't volunteer it. Period.
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# ¿ Apr 22, 2015 04:07 |
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More importantly, following today's interviews, you should probably start thinking about solidifying the budget for the next three months if you haven't already. Those kitties aren't going to spay themselves, you know. And if you have already solidified it, then post it. (And if you've already posted it and I missed it, tell me to shut up )
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# ¿ Apr 22, 2015 20:29 |
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Reminder that May 1 is TOMORROW and you still haven't "officially confirmed" the May budget yet!Horking Delight posted:$100 to the charity of your choice if you come under budget for three months in a row, starting in May, budgets posted before the first of the month and spending posted within 2 weeks after the end of the month. Referee fucked around with this message at 20:39 on Apr 30, 2015 |
# ¿ Apr 30, 2015 20:36 |
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Knyteguy posted:Final May Budget: Quoting this for challenge purposes. Good luck, Knyteguy!
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# ¿ May 1, 2015 09:45 |
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Knyteguy posted:OK so the recruiter doesn't know the company's availability times very well. We scheduled the interview for two Fridays from now. You know what the hassle and the time sink gets you? Extra money in your pocket. Please don't take this the wrong way but until you learn to do everything you can to succeed at this budget (which doesn't include e-shopping at expensive grocery stores) no one is going to believe you can do this. It's the 5th of Month 1. How much of your food budget for the month have you now spent?
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# ¿ May 6, 2015 06:11 |
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Knyteguy posted:I'm worried about finding a remote job because I've been having trouble getting motivated lately working remotely. Trouble getting motivated sounds like a great asset when considering switching jobs to one with a billable hours component. Knyteguy posted:This place has a good team, with good development standards, and it has that good sign of a developer being revenue generating rather than an expense. Plus the view the developers get is amazing. I've never been a developer but I'm guessing the amount of time staring out the window at the "view" probably isn't considered a positive in almost any job. Like really, this is enough of a "positive" for you to specifically mention it?
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# ¿ May 25, 2015 18:21 |
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Knyteguy posted:Yes I moved closer to my family very intentionally. However my mom and I had a huge rear end talk about us potentially moving out of state for this job about 3 weeks to a month ago. Is it ideal? No. It was also far from the only justification we made to move, which included being closer to family, washer-and-dryers outside the apartment (with a newborn baby pooping everywhere), 4 animals and 3 people in 700 sq/ft, a safety light outside that would light up our bedroom at night despite blinds, neighbors climbing a tree outside our balcony and looking in, a burst pipe under a concrete slab, rotten rancid apples everywhere on the ground walkways for months that would stick to our shoes, no good places to take our dogs for a walk, noise, and more. Is this referring to the place you are in now or the place you were in before?
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# ¿ May 26, 2015 21:30 |
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Knyteguy posted:To get back to the budget, Horking does June's budget have to be the same as May's for the competition? When I made May's I wasn't thinking it had to be the same, but if it does then it should be fine. If not I may adjust a thing or two (not sure). As someone on the payout side of this contest, I was under the impression that you had to make one budget that was the same for all three months and come in under that budget for all three months. I thought the whole point was to force you to set a reasonable budget that was for more than a month, not three more months of you shuffling it after you found out it didn't work. However, as Horking said, I'm willing to go with whatever the majority opinion is. This is all going to be a moot point anyway if you move to SD as that first budget won't apply and you'll have to change it, I suppose.
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# ¿ May 29, 2015 06:37 |
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Knyteguy posted:I don't have you blocked. I don't have anyone blocked (except for one TFF poster whose gimmick drives me insane). I'll be mad if the thread title comes true.
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# ¿ May 29, 2015 19:17 |
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I have a few thoughts but I'm going to wait until tomorrow to post them because I'm running on very little sleep and I'd kinda like to see where this conversation goes before I jump in. Knyteguy, good on you for posting results ASAP. Take the feedback to heart and try to look at it with an open mind. (This isn't to say you aren't doing that- but rather to keep doing that.)
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# ¿ Jun 2, 2015 02:59 |
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Bugamol posted:I don't have much constructive to say so instead of being a dick I'll say that you should have the SA resume guy put something together for you. You have tons of experience, but your resume feels very "fluff" and insubstantial. I don't think it's doing a good job of communicating what you can bring to the table. The biggest thing it seems to be missing is specific, concrete examples that are backed up with quantifiable improvement (for example, instead of "reorganized stock room leading to increased productivity," maybe something like "reorganized stock room for efficiency which directly contributed to a 24% increase in revenue the following month" or whatever.)
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# ¿ Jun 5, 2015 02:02 |
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# ¿ May 2, 2024 07:22 |
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Knyteguy posted:Yep it's slowed down for sure. June will be coming soon; I'm just waiting on one more thing to finalize before everything is done. I'm a little confused, it's July 6th and you're already working a month ahead on funds as you say. What are you waiting on from June that wasn't already accounted for?
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# ¿ Jul 7, 2015 05:47 |