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Johnny Truant posted:Shut the gently caress up and gently caress off, your idiotic posts were never funny to begin with you fuckwit.
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Do you feel like you have a normal amount of sensation for other, non-sex stuff? Like, do you have a normal pain tolerance, do you have issues with fine manipulation, can you feel heat/cold easily? Everyone experiences sex differently, but it's unusual for it to not feel like anything. If your partner is up for it, try having your balls and/or taint licked - it's far more sensitive than a penis and I find regular oral kind of meh too, so that might help. You might want to consider seeing a regular doctor just to make sure it's not neurological. Edit: as for having stuff up your butt feel intense but not "good" I feel the exact same way so I don't think that's really that weird. Just feels like I'm poopin'  . Outside of the butt is where it's at - eat rear end erry day.
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Jan 5, 2021 05:41
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At the end of the day, your brain is responsible for interpreting signals. If there is nothing physiologically wrong with your nervous system, you enjoy what you enjoy. Some people get no pleasure out of eating a luxurious meal, some people don't like rollercoasters and some people don't get off on sex. As long as the emotional connection is there and you enjoy doing it, keep doing what you like and try new things as you think of them. There's no wrong way to do it and there's no way you're "supposed" to feel when you do. Edit: I don't think physical stimulus can be divided into purely sexual and not sexual. A light touch can be just as sexual as penetration if you treat it that way. Sexual contact feels good because it overloads the parts of our brain responsible for interpreting touch. Tickling can do the same thing. Touching my dick feels good but not in a completely different way than touching the back of my neck - it's just more sensitive. KillHour fucked around with this message at 08:27 on Jan 5, 2021 |
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There are times I'm super into it and it's just pure passion and energy and there are times I'm thinking about something else while I'm humping away, hoping she'll cum soon. Honestly, it has a lot more to do with being into it mentally and emotionally than it does the actual sensation of touch. Do you get horny? If you're not horny, you're not going to feel like that, even if everything works properly. The mushy leg thing comes from the anticipation and the mental part more than the sex.
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I've never been pregnant, but I can't imagine wanting to stick anything up there after what it's about to go through. Also, you won't have time.
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Agent355 posted:real talk tho this is probably the way to go about it. I'm a hip swinging bachelor so I only own one towel so I guess it's time to buy some spares. "I am an adult now. I have two towels - one for showering and one covered in lube stains!"
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Bomrek posted:You can tell real adults by their three towels: one for showering, one for butt stuff, one as relief pitcher for the lube towel. This person has learned their lessons the hard way. Johnny Truant posted:Bespoke: three showers, one only for Butt Stuff No, it's 3 showers, 1 for showering, 1 for butt stuff and one as backup for the butt stuff. Follow the pattern, man!
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Huxley posted:You ever seen the movie True Lies? That's basically the idea. You want your wife to have an affair with a used car salesman?
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Huxley posted:I brought this on myself, and I suppose I deserve it. Nah, I gotchu fam. https://www.amazon.com/ThinkMax-Changing-Recording-Microphone-Colorful/dp/B01N76O2E9/ It even has a flared base.  edit: quote:incredible fun from voice role play. 
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JesustheDarkLord posted:What do you want to say? I'll throw in a .wav to the goon sex command soundboard 2021 Goon Project found. Edit: I will absolutely donate my voice talents for your sexual escapades.
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Anne Whateley posted:They don't as part of a normal STI panel, you would have to request a herpes blood test specifically And the reason for this is it's so common and not really an STI (since you can get it from lots of stuff). I would say many, if not most, people don't think about it or care past the stigma of being an "STI" so definitely feel free to disclose but don't feel like a leper. Edit: Or maybe do because leprosy is easily curable and not a big deal at all 
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Jan 28, 2022 21:34
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Unless you live in the US and the FDA says condoms must be a certain size range that only a fraction of people actually fit in properly.
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Ok Comboomer posted:if you’re American and were allowed to keep all of your dong, and you find condoms uncomfortable, a good rule of thumb is to size up There are Americans without a chunk of their dong missing? Anne Whateley posted:That's old news, MyOne has been approved in the US since 2016, with a range of 45-64mm in width Good to know.
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Ok Comboomer posted:most of them, in fact. Also it’s a key part of multiple world religions, because humans are loving insane At first I didn't realize you misread my post and was very confused. I was making a joke that literally all Americans are circumcised.
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Ok Comboomer posted:but not literally all of them are tho Jokes aren't normally literally true
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credburn posted:...should I bring snacks...? Nah there will be plenty of food 
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Lead out in cuffs posted:Is it five friends getting together to gently caress for someone's birthday? This is a thing? Can I ask for this for my birthday?
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A bunch of thirsty men saying they're cool with other dudes so they can try to get 30 seconds of dick time with the one woman there definitely fits in with my preconceived notions of an "orgy"
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Xand_Man posted:what's center field in this analogy Belly button. Final answer.
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sebzilla posted:All the positions: on top, doggy and normal. gently caress what was this from
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I don't know about that guy, but my dick does not bend in that direction. Also that has to be bad for her back.
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Impressed or bored?
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Jedit posted:You could just cook some mushrooms and find out, you know. I think they know what mushrooms smell like but presumably haven't had first hand experience with semen.
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RFC2324 posted:Lol, a girl doesn't need her stories spread across the forums. Like, the buttplug was upstairs and you were chilling in the living room and it somehow made a telekenetic connection with your rear end? That's pretty cool. Edit: Or maybe you have a hole in your ceiling/floor so your rear end can be in one room while the rest of you isn't? Double Edit: Do you have a detachable butt!?
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FFT posted:That sounds like numbing lube was involved. Arc Hammer posted:When i used my fingers I knew what I was doing and could feel everything, Doesn't sound like it. How often do you jack off, OP? It definitely seems like you desensitized yourself. The good news is it's fairly common and generally reversible by abstaining from masturbation. In the mean time, IME, the secret to being more sensitive during sex is to be as horny and blueballed as you possibly can. If she's doing stuff to your dick out of the gate, you're going to aclimate to it and it won't be super intense. That might be good if you're trying to last longer, but bad if you can't nut. So do the opposite - do stuff to her that gets you horny. Have her tease you without touching your dick. Tongue on whatever non-penis parts of your body she is comfortable with can be just as sexy as a blowjob. At some point, if you're really horny, you're going to feel it throbbing like it's going to explode. Then it will feel great pretty much no matter what she does to it. It might take a few weeks (or more) of not jerking before it feels "normal" (or it might never feel exactly like you remember again - you're older now and poo poo changes down there), but hopefully that helps enough that you can have fun now and not worry about it. As an aside, this also applies equally to women and it's why foreplay not involving the vagina is so important if you actually want to get her off. KillHour fucked around with this message at 03:55 on Jan 28, 2023 |
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kalel posted:I experienced a similar situation recently and I've been trying to abstain from masturbation  Keep us updated and I hope you're okay.
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Arc Hammer posted:Could it also be an attraction thing? Like there's enough physical attraction to get the blood flowing for an erection but not enough to sustain any heightened feeling? No but also why are you having sex with people you aren't sure you're attracted to?
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Orgasms are mental. If she is feeling pressured to have one, it's going to be hard for her to relax and enjoy it. I'm basically the same way - if my partner approaches it like "I want to make you cum" they are going to have to work a lot harder than if we're just doing whatever is fun. Not that I don't think that's hot sometimes, it's just you spend more time thinking about performing than about enjoying. Also, a lot of people just have a hard time relaxing in sexual situations. You said she came from a very conservative background, and so there could be mental blocks / trauma around that stuff. If she wants to try to do something about that (this is very important - it has to be her wanting to be more comfortable with sexuality, not you pushing her to), a therapist or psychologist is the correct professional to help. KillHour fucked around with this message at 01:56 on Feb 9, 2023 |
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cum jabbar posted:I saw a woman through half of last year who was either atheist or Catholic depending on when you asked her. The only thing thing holding all the shards of her personality together was her unstoppable libido. As someone who went to Catholic school, this tracks with my experience as a not uncommon thing. It doesn't mean everyone is like that though.
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RFC2324 posted:Again, make sure clickers are available "Why does my dog start scratching at the door every time we have sex?"
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The Real Amethyst posted:I ejaculated blood Congratulations and/or condolences.
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Seeing a doctor is expensive but dying is even more expensive. Please see a doctor.
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Wait, so you're saying I shouldn't cum knives!?
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Look, I know you all played that flash pandemic game. HSV is clearly staying asymptomatic and saving up points until it gets a foothold in Madagascar. Then it will unlock necrosis and kill us all.
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Ok Comboomer posted:you can date, and have sex, and look at porn (and if you play your cards right, you could do all three simultaneously) Most nice date places will kick you out if you pull up pornhub on your phone and start having sex on the table or whatever. Surely, there are some that won't though.
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Ok Comboomer posted:is the date over when you're at somebody's house? Speaking as a married person, yes. The date ends when you pull in the driveway.
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RFC2324 posted:if you do not keep a list of establishments that allow table sex on your phone, I don't think anyone can help you You can help me by sending me your list
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This kind of feels like poop that I shouldn't touch but I think there's a pretty big difference between finding a physical quality sexually attractive and only being interested in someone because they have that physical quality and forcing them to acknowledge that without prior consent. Sexual attraction is not something we have direct control over. Finding someone hot is not a conscious decision. If I find redheads particularly attractive, there's nothing objectionable about only asking redheads out. It doesn't make me a "redhead chaser." Even if I see a redhead and think to myself "oh man that redhead is so hot," that's not a problem - that's normal. It's objectifying, but it's also something totally out of my control. We objectify people constantly. The person cashing me out at the grocery store is an object to me - they exist to take my money in exchange for goods. But it's fine because I am also an object to them. We are both objectifying each other - caring about literally every person we come across beyond their function to us at the moment is impossible. But we also consented to that because that's how a grocery store works and we both knew that going in. It becomes a problem when it's one sided and the other side is forced to face that objectification unwillingly. That can happen in a lot of ways. Ogling someone is an example of that. So is cat calling. Thoughts aren't doing that, and neither is swiping right on only people who are [x] on Tinder. I'm sure people exist that are so enlightened that they enjoy sex but never have impure thoughts about other people's genitals, but that sure as hell isn't me. RFC2324, I'm going to spoil this in case talking about dysphoria is triggering. Also, I'm going to apologize in advance for what is admittedly a rough analogy because I legitimately can't think of a way to get my point across without it so please don't focus too much on the comparison itself. RFC2324's thing is a little more complicated because being attracted to someone with gender dysphoria feels (to me) kind of like being attracted to someone with cancer. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone who has cancer, and there's also nothing morally wrong, per-se, with being exclusively attracted to people with cancer (though I really hope that's not a common fetish because oh boy). Telling someone you are super into their cancer is really hosed up though. Don't do that. Also, don't go around saying you jack off to the Mayo Clinic website because it's going to make a lot of people really uncomfortable and that's the bad part. Just keep that poo poo to yourself! Edit: Organza Quiz posted:The underlying internal consistent logic is "treat people as people, not as things." Chasers are bad because they only care about specific bodyparts, not the person attached. I think the first half of this is correct and the second half is less correct (but not completely wrong). "Treat people as people" is really the important part because how we treat people is external and directed. Going back to the grocery store example, it's why we say "how are you?" to the clerk even though we don't actually care. We both know neither person cares, but we go through the motions to act like we do because it establishes that we're treating each other as people (even if we're not actively thinking about it). Caring is different though. Caring is a lot more effort than pretending to care. But pretending to care is honestly good enough for 90% of casual human interaction*. Actually telling someone you're objectifying them is breaking that illusion and treating them as an object, so that's bad. *Being in a relationship with someone is not casual interaction and one person actually caring but the other person only pretending to care is problematic for totally different and hopefully obvious reasons. But it does start as casual interaction and I think saying you started talking to that stranger at the bar because you care about them as a person and not because you thought they were hot is a total lie and everyone knows it. KillHour fucked around with this message at 13:07 on Nov 16, 2023 |
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Grassy Knowles posted:You’re correct in the statement I’ve quoted. I'm not saying everyone thinks like me. I'm saying literally the opposite - that there is no wrong way to think. I have no interest in dating someone I am but physically attracted to and I cannot become physically attracted to someone based solely on their personality. That is not true for everyone, but you are straight up saying that I'm somehow bad or immoral because it is true for me. BirdOfPlay posted:Pretending to care about someone for sex is kinda hosed up, op. Outside of this discussion about chasers, it's kinda hosed up. I literally said this exact thing, yes. BlankSystemDaemon posted:Who gives a gently caress about what bits someone has? Yes, your bi colors are showing. Literally most people care and most people would not have sex with someone that has the bits that they don't prefer. RFC2324 posted:Physical attraction is a thing, and genital preference is valid, but if you are with someone because of their genitals you are a chaser. This is as ridiculous as saying that a gay man should be okay with sleeping with a cis woman if she presents as masculine ("dyes her hair"). It completely erases sexual orientation and that's  No, I would never date someone with a penis. I have no interest in doing so and that's okay because it's literally my prerogative to not date someone for any reason whatsoever. KillHour fucked around with this message at 21:19 on Nov 16, 2023 |
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