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DNK posted:Also as an end-of-life plan I'd consider transferring money over into relatives' accounts slowly. This is ~14k per year ("gifted") that is tax free and legal. Unless she's past the exemption (measured in millions) the money is better spent making sure her estate plan in order and everything is in a trust. Don't start doling out grandma's money willy nilly.
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# ¿ Jul 18, 2017 00:05 |
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# ¿ May 10, 2024 20:06 |
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Phone posted:I'm toying around with the idea of becoming an ex-pat and possibly moving overseas permanently. I have some soft goals to meet, but I'd have at least $40k in cash by then so setting up shop shouldn't be too bad. I'm 29 now, will be 30 or 31 when I'm looking to move. Leave it for your retirement. You still retire regardless of where you go.
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# ¿ Aug 28, 2017 16:17 |
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Ramrod Hotshot posted:Should a cover letter be attached to the email or should it be in the body of the email? Don't overthink it, but definitely also attach it and reference it in the email. "To whom it may concern, My name is Firstname Lastname, I am writing to apply to Exact Title From Website job position. Please see my attached Cover Letter and Resume. You can contact me at Phone Number. Thank you, Firstname Lastname" Also even if it's not tailored title them both: Firstname-Lastname-Resume-Companyname.pdf, Firstname-Lastname-Cover-Letter-Companyname.pdf.
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# ¿ Aug 30, 2017 20:50 |
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My favorite part of owning individual securities are the batshit insane shareholder proposals. I voted yes on several simply because my tiny position could never sway the vote compared to institutional and insider votes. (and then we got brexit)
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# ¿ Sep 3, 2017 19:27 |
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Disco Salmon posted:My husband is being offered an FBA (Flex) acct that will cover both of us when the benefits pkg gets sent out this fall, and I am seriously considering taking it up for us since I am in charge of all that fun stuff. Ask the HR person how that rollover works, they will tell you. Otherwise, you've got it. Anything non-cosmetic you get done at the doctor it pays the out of pocket cost. There is also a big PDF they can provide you of everything that is and isn't covered. There is a lot of OTC stuff you can put in there too. Condoms (birth control), Sunscreen (must be primarily sunscreen >= 35SPF, not "makeup with SPF"), bandaids, and almost all OTC drugs with a prescription from your doctor count. There are new anti-hoarding rules because of the braindead use-it-or-lose-it bullshit. My doctor has a sheet that has everything commonly used OTC that she signs for me once a year at my physical, it's great. Means Sudafed, Advil, etc is all covered. Even the most braindead portal tends to be easy enough to work. Take a picture of the receipt with your phone, resize it if you are feeling generous, fill in a few lines, submit. Don't overthink it. They'll tell you if you did something marginally wrong, but honestly they don't look too closely at 99% of it.
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# ¿ Sep 6, 2017 21:25 |
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Motronic posted:This is illegal in California. You need to tell them they will have it for you by close of business tomorrow with all outstanding reimbursements or you will be filing with CA Labor and Workforce the following morning. Or let them sweat it, they owe him his daily wage until it is provided. They are digging this hole, not him. Let the ink dry on your i-9 at the new gig in two weeks then email and ask where your paycheck is at, assuming you haven't received it. Then it's a 2 week paid vacation, magic! H110Hawk fucked around with this message at 02:23 on Sep 15, 2017 |
# ¿ Sep 15, 2017 02:17 |
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Bob Log posted:TL/DR: Can't find housing in SoCal. You need to post a budget, and why you are comingling 4 vehicles+2trailers in with your personal housing situation. Those are two different problems which probably involved selling some of that stuff. $8k saved isn't much, do you also have an emergency fund?
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# ¿ Sep 19, 2017 18:54 |
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Bob Log posted:I have a motorcycle and a car, my s/o has a car and a truck. Arguably I am willing to sell my car and she's willing to sell her car, it's a matter of when and how. There is something you aren't telling us about this scenario. $5k is a lot of credit checks. Are you a practicing sex offender? Call a realtor and tell them you want to rent a house and explain your situation. Give them a copy of your free tri-agency credit report and stop paying for checks until someone agrees they will rent if your paid report matches the free one. Rent space to store your work stuff.
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# ¿ Sep 19, 2017 19:59 |
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Do the current bwm thread rules allow us to cross post this?
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# ¿ Sep 22, 2017 20:05 |
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Fozzy The Bear posted:How long are you guys staying at jobs? I'm averaging 2 years per job, mainly because I just haven't found the right fit yet. It wouldn't affect my deposits because I max my IRA and 401k annually. If you go past your IRA limit its generally the next best thing. The vesting is a way to try and retain you by deferring some of your compensation. Jumping ship tends to have a better impact on your compensation but make sure you are running the numbers on it.
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# ¿ Oct 10, 2017 15:18 |
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devicenull posted:So Capital One 360 has finally ruined the old ING Direct website. Their updates make it way slower and less usable. Ugh. When did that go live? Their mobile app has been getting better and better. They *do* listen to constructive feedback based on personal anecdotal experience. I spent 10 minutes describing my use case and reasoning behind their previously absurdly low deposit limits (they reduced them from 10k to 1k or similar, I literally thought it was a typo in the app at first. Now they are 50k.) they got 2 other people on the line, listened, and took notes. Not the first time this has happened, either I am part of a chorus of complaints or it really works to spend the time. Explain it all in terms of how that is how they differentiate themselves from the competition and don't be a screaming lunatic.
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# ¿ Oct 14, 2017 16:07 |
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devicenull posted:I got the updated website a couple weeks ago. Sounds atrocious. I haven't gotten that yet. I don't do any recurring transfers so who knows. Their money market account is 1.2%. Buyer beware.
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# ¿ Oct 14, 2017 23:36 |
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Sirotan posted:Sorry if this is a dumb question, but why buyer beware? I've got almost all my short-term savings in Capital One 360 accounts, and will probably move them to either the 360 MM fund or Ally since the rate is better. Feels like it would be easier to just keep it at Capital One vs a new bank, but I can be convinced to move it if there's a compelling reason. Money market accounts have vaguely more risk. I personally have 6 months of emergency funds in the capital one 360 money market account.
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# ¿ Oct 18, 2017 02:25 |
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ohgodwhat posted:Is that a humble brag or an idiot brag? When have you known him to be humble?
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# ¿ Nov 1, 2017 17:53 |
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Pollyanna posted:I'm going to be starting a remote position with a company based in California soon, while I'm living in Massachusetts. They are offering a BCBS plan for my health insurance, and I'm wondering how that would work since we're on opposite sides of the country. Would I be getting a BCBS plan under California law and policy, or would it be contracted out to an insurance provider in Massachusetts (if not BCBS itself)? Would there be a difference? This is a question for your benefits person. Ask them about how to look at in-network doctors, hospitals, etc on the patient portal.
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# ¿ Nov 15, 2017 00:51 |
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KitConstantine posted:Financial comfort is when some scammer can access your old forgotten paypal and transfer out 1000 bucks the day rent is due and its an annoyance rather than an emergency. A year ago and I would have been stuck paying the 35 dollar stop transfer fee or (so much worse) had to borrow money from my parents Nice! Protip if you have a bank account from capital one 360 (ex ingdirect) you can just make a PayPal only bank account with 0 overdraft. PayPal can play whatever games they want that account has $1 in it unless I am actively paying for something. Mobile app takes a minute to click all the right buttons to move money into or out of it. Click open account, savings, deposit a dollar. If you let it drop to 0 it automatically closes.
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# ¿ Dec 1, 2017 17:24 |
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William Munny posted:I was thinking more like a person he could talk to that could say "No, all the things you're doing/your family is making you do is not normal" in person rather than over the internet If this is elder abuse or similar it's an attorney. If it's just your friend doesn't know how to tell their spouse/children "no" to the latest horse lease then it's therapy. They might be depressed, they might not have any self esteem, etc.
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# ¿ Jan 28, 2018 23:28 |
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William Munny posted:Well its more like he doesn't know how to tell his parent no to things, but that would fall under therapy I suppose. Yeah that's therapy. Elder abuse is when your grandmother is unable to care for herself and you spend her social security on hookers and blow instead of a nursing home, not when grandma convinces you to buy her hookers and blow.
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# ¿ Jan 29, 2018 02:55 |
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:I brought up the Prenup Conversation today and the fiancee has absolutely lost her poo poo that I'm "already thinking it's not gonna work out", and thinks I'm crazy for considering this since "we're not celebrities" Is this net worth some business asset or something family related you want to ensure stays that way? Otherwise you're about to combine your lives. You should be having a conversation about updating your trust beneficiaries and getting a joint checking account. She's way more right than you are in this circumstance.
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# ¿ Jan 30, 2018 03:39 |
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No Butt Stuff posted:Uh with that disparity if poo poo goes tits up and he doesn't have a prenuptial then it's gonna loving suck. A ton of people who are happy get married and eventually divorce. It's protecting yourself. There is way too much to know in this internet comedy forum. Consult an attorney to see what makes sense for your circumstances.
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# ¿ Jan 30, 2018 04:16 |
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:Yeah, I'll consult an attorney, I was just curious if anyone else had experience with it since I doubt we're the first couple in history to have very different views on finances (she views her paycheck as "this is how many dollars I can spend this month" and her retirement plan is "I like work, why would I want to retire?". Yeah I would also consider couples counseling. You're about to be a team. This smells like there is at least a little bit of goony mine vs yours instead of "how can we budget together so both of us are happy with reasonable compromises." Couples counseling is really useful in general and I feel most people could benefit from it to a degree.
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# ¿ Jan 30, 2018 04:40 |
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:What's the actionable item from "prenups should not be relied on"? Don't marry below your caste? Live in a community property state, don't comingle pre-marital assets with your marriage.
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# ¿ Jan 30, 2018 19:44 |
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GoGoGadgetChris posted:We don't live together yet, so no, we haven't needed to know each other's income and expenses. Got our own apartments, cars, groceries, gas, etc. This gets better and better. Are you strongly religious? ("pre-marital counseling") living together is a whole different ball game. I'm still surprised you never mentioned a 401k or whatever to your girlfriend.
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# ¿ Jan 31, 2018 03:44 |
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Spatulater bro! posted:Can someone please help reassure me that it's safe to exclusively use a debit card instead of a credit card? It's absolutely not a good idea for the reasons you laid out. One mistake anywhere can result in at best a bounced check. You also have an uphill battle to get your money back. Meanwhile your credit score could take a beating that no amount of "getting your money back" will resolve due to all of your late payments. Worst case you permanently lose the money, your payments are late or not paid, your car insurance is suspended automatically, and you are in an accident uninsured. Then you're arrested and your house burns down from the melodramatic narrative. If you insist you can mitigate the risk by opening a second checking account to use for non-essential spending (anything online). H110Hawk fucked around with this message at 04:17 on Feb 21, 2018 |
# ¿ Feb 21, 2018 04:14 |
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Spatulater bro! posted:I actually don't overspend. I keep a budget and have been paying the card off every month for the three+ years I've had it, with the exception of one month late last year where we had some unexpected expenses. If you have the self control not to overspend on it the upsides greatly outweigh the downsides. Try and remap it in your brain from borrowing money to the bank being your insurance policy instead of self insuring. I've been on the merchant side of a "whoops our billing system had a bug which ran your card 28 times last night" and you get a shocking number of people talking about bounced mortgage checks.
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# ¿ Feb 21, 2018 16:41 |
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Did my taxes last night for 2016 and 2017, getting a pretty decent return because of over-withholding from switching jobs. Wasting it all on
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# ¿ Feb 23, 2018 18:25 |
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KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:while you are correct that uber covers for liability when signed in to the app now, limits are quite low And reads on that page like secondary insurance which only exists if you have primary coverage. Given all of majors now drop you or deny any claim while the Uber app is open those might not cover you. (looking at the "driving to a pickup" section.) Secondary to all of that your insurance is going to ding you for all the miles you drive regardless of how many are personal likely unless you have really good documentation showing when they are covering you. Like, odometer readings every time you change coverage.
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# ¿ Mar 4, 2018 21:08 |
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potatoducks posted:Hahaha what? This was my read on it too. Obvious "ask me about my giant
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# ¿ Mar 13, 2018 18:18 |
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DJCobol posted:I've been paying down my mortgage with extra principal payments that cut my schedule from 30 years to 15 ($610 mortgage, extra $340 a month roughly). I don't plan on being in this house for 30 years, and not for even 15 honestly. I'm hoping to get out within the next few years, especially if Amazon's HQ2 comes to Nashville. Would it make more sense to dump that extra $340 into something else? I already max out a Roth IRA, 401(k), and HSA account. No debt except the mortgage, and a small amount left on a car payment. I already have a decent emergency fund as well. What's your interest rate? Is it fixed? How many years have you been in this mortgage? What is the LTV? If the answers are low interest (<4%? <3.5%?) / 5+ years in / >20% ltv / no pmi etc then your option is to basically put it in a taxable brokerage account/CDs (2%) /high interest savings(1.5%) and save it to move and buy at your destination. This spreads your risk out of your house in case you have trouble selling it. How stable are home values around you? How long do houses like yours (price, neighborhood, quality) sit on the market?
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# ¿ Mar 23, 2018 15:19 |
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DJCobol posted:4% fixed, 1.5 years in. $124k loan, $115k left. No PMI since I put down 20% when I bought. Home values are increasing because Nashville is still growing like crazy. The 3 most recent condo sales around me similar to mine sold in a couple days. I would pay down my mortgage for a bit longer so if you want to sell it isn't a problem to clear the mortgage. 4% isn't low and 1.5 years you are still paying a huge amount of interest. You can always recast your mortgage in another year or two and compound your early payoff amount. (reduce your payment but go down to just your current payments.)
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# ¿ Mar 23, 2018 15:48 |
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The Slack Lagoon posted:Went out to lunch yesterday for a coworker birthday and the bill got split equally by the non employee birthdays and also we paid for the interns lunch so lunch cost way more than I anticipated Unless your "share" of the tab was way under 50% of everyone else's I would consider this getting off lucky that 10 people didn't wind up with 3 people footing the bill. (Everyone throwing in $20 because they got a $5 app, $11 plate, and a $3 soda, ignoring/forgetting about tax and tip.)
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# ¿ Mar 23, 2018 17:40 |
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hmmxkrazee posted:Had a quick question that I don't think required a new thread. Wire transfer. Seriously. Pay the $100-250 to wire it and you don't have to risk the bullshit at the border, including civil forfeiture.
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# ¿ Apr 18, 2018 21:34 |
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Sundae posted:Wow, is this the one and only circumstance where wire transfer is actually the right answer? Or if you 100% want to guarantee that funds aren't sitting in ACH limbo, or to get above ACH limits, gently caress checks, double gently caress cashiers checks, etc. I used a wire to fund my house because they are free for my account and I can get instantaneous updates on where they are going. If you coordinate everything on both sides you can have fully cleared money to someone in under an hour.
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# ¿ Apr 18, 2018 22:57 |
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Trabant posted:We're 4 payments away from paying off the mortgage -- well ahead of original schedule Trabant posted:I mean, I do know what to do next: plow the newly freed cash flow into retirement accounts beyond what we're doing now, not so that we can retire at 50 but so that we can retire at some point. Continue the get-spending-under-control effort. Lean into the FIRE mindset, if not the extremes of it. Get off my rear end and finally see if a side gig is doable. https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=2892928 Have you been plowing money into your mortgage in lieu of tax advantaged retirement accounts? If so uh, oops. Ages, salary, intended retirement age, etc. Don't go all /r/frugal+/r/financialindependence those people are insane. Do you have a budget? While you get your wits about you, put money into something like the CapitalOne360 Money Market account is a decent way to earn a few dollars in interest.
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# ¿ Apr 23, 2018 22:24 |
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Coco13 posted:Drinking alone at home: GWM. Look at this rookie wasting electricity on lights. Jameson is my go to bar drink if I'm not getting a cocktail. Tends to be <=10/glass. My old dive bar it was $8/double. You couldn't order it smaller.
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# ¿ Jul 21, 2018 17:53 |
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f1av0r posted:She wanted to see if I would accept first, before drastically reorganizing our leadership org chart. Which will basically reduce my current bosses responsibilities, totally change my previous bosses responsibilities, and move our current executive manager into a program director role. Taking risks is a great way to get ahead in life, but a chain of demotions with a seeming rookie leap frogging every one seems like it would sow a lot of ill will into the organization. I would have a long hard talk with her about how this is going to be communicated out, how she will help you deal with the fallout, and why the current person you are taking over for isn't being fired. Finding work in the non-profit sector is not a cake walk, so carefully consider what would happen if you do not succeed in the role. I would make sure you have a clear set of guidelines that will demonstrate success from your ceo. Look up your orgs tax documents to see if they spell out salary information. You should be making at least as much as the person you are replacing, or have a clear and contractual description of how you're going to get there.
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# ¿ Jul 29, 2018 16:10 |
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f1av0r posted:The timeline is basically we have 4 directors and our executive manager reporting to our ceo. Our rising star director in the crisis department is leaving to take a new job. She and our ceo then had a meeting to plan out our organizations future. I was brought up in that meeting as someone who understands big picture, finances, etc This sounds way more reasonable. One way to help is to interview for the position. This would be potentially self limited due to the panel composition (you can either apply or be on the panel.) even if it's pre-ordained it can help others through the transition.
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# ¿ Jul 29, 2018 20:12 |
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DuckConference posted:What happened to the BWM thread? I can’t see it here or in the gas chamber. College finance thread
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# ¿ Aug 31, 2018 20:15 |
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Sirotan posted:For new AND existing Ally bank customers, they are offering a 1% bonus on cash moved to Ally (up to $1k), but you have to opt in before the 21st: https://allypaybacktime.com/ Oh for fucks sake I just moved my money into there a few weeks ago.
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# ¿ Oct 17, 2018 21:04 |
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# ¿ May 10, 2024 20:06 |
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Mocking Bird posted:Can someone reassure me that it's ok to spend $$$ on professional movers? I hate to pay for it after going broke on deposit/some overlapping rent/utility deposits, but otherwise it will be me, my medically disabled partner, and my 55 year old dad doing all the heavy lifting. Make sure you get a Certificate of Insurance from whomever you use, lookup their insurance company on the internet, call them to verify the insurance is in force, and if you are moving expensive medical equipment you need to get that value declared in writing. Otherwise it's something like $0.60 / lb if they break it. Often times this means the movers charge you to pack the item. For example if your medically disabled partner has a special bed, chairs, or transfer equipment pay them to pack it and insure it at the replacement cost. Movers are 100% worth it for the stuff that doesn't fit in standard size boxes. They can move in a few hours what it would take you all drat day. You will have enough to do post move that breaking your back moving isn't a great idea. Get everything (everything) into boxes before they arrive save for your suitcase of stuff you need to live for a day. You don't need to transfer it anywhere, on the floor where you packed it is fine. If something is "too precious" for movers, move it yourself ahead of time. Remember your 55 year old dad is probably stronger than you.
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# ¿ Nov 2, 2018 18:21 |