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LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Just say that it depends on the benefits package and with the benefits they presented you need at least <new number within their budget>

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LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Casual Yogurt posted:

I applied and interviewed for a specialist role, I got a call today from the hiring manager and she offered an administrative role "just below" this specialist role with the opportunity to move into the specialist role within "months" pending they approve of the work I do. The pay they offered is basically the same as I make now and probably slightly less as I would be losing my public transit subsidy. I'm not sure if I should negotiate to just cover what the loss of that subsidy would be or to try to negotiate for the title and compensation for the job if I originally applied for. Their rationale for offering me a lower position was that I've been out of that specific business for two years and their company is more unique and niche than where I was before.

I dislike my current job, want to leave but I feel like this is some bait and switch.

This is bait and switch 101. For me it’s a big red flag and I wouldn’t be able to trust the company enough to take a job there.

You could try and negotiate a better deal and set your goal for whatever you see fit. If you get it, quit your job and see what the new company is like. If their hiring practise is as bad as their daily operations you can start looking for something new.
If they don’t budge you at least have had some practise negotiating which is always useful.

Whatever you do though, do not accept lower benefits/pay than you have now.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


However much this bait and switch sucks, keep in mind you are dodging a major bullet here.

Imagine how you’d feel working your rear end off for a year and get completely boned on all false promises made with regards to performance management. That’s 10x worse then this.

Now you got aome interview and negotiation practise. So go do it again. Until you find something you do like, a company that’ll gladly and get paid properly. Don’t accept less (unless you are literally homeless).

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


SA Forums Poster posted:

What do I do in this situation?

On the job application under salary I put "negotiable", then during the first phone interview the person asked me "I see you put negotiable for salary, what is your salary expectations?"

Tell them absolute same thing: “I expect them to be negotiable as it depends on the whole package, salary, bonuses, pto, health insurance, etc”.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


You could also keeo it generic saying that you know the department and company are doing great and that should be reflected in salary as it’s because of how well you and your coworkers do your jobs.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Eric the Mauve posted:

Pretty sure he means 800 per week = 40,000 per year.

Of course he doesn't seem to (want to) understand that an increase of even like 25,000 per year now is far, far better than a maybe-possibly increase of 40,000 per year in four years.

Things are probably different in Europe though, I don't know.

It works exactly the same way over here. Switch company; make bank.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Succes story: my wife got told that her employer decided to move the office which meant a 300% increase in commute time.

She decided to start looking for a new job immediately. A company she interviewed at before but didn’t agree to her salary demands a few months ago reached out again and she anchored above the number that was declined previously and saying she wasn’t interviewing again unless they were able to make it work.

After 2 rounds of interviews they decided to offer her a 20% higher salary and overall better benefits (company car for private use, more training budget and ability to visit multiple conferences). She’d lose 2 vacation days though. She was ready to accept but I told her to at least ask for extra vacation days and/or compensation. They were (or acted) really reluctant and said they had to get CEO approval, but added 5% more salary to make up for the vacation days. Only thing she had to do was ask.

Where she was paid market value previously, she now made a pretty nice leap in both salary as well as benefits.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Dik Hz posted:

Homeboy, I don't know anything about you, but I think you outkicked your coverage. You have a real winner there.

I'm fully aware of that.

We had a lot of discussion (based on this threads knowledge) on how to approach the company this time and she played the game perfectly. She didn't have a great BATNA now since she wanted to leave her old company, but the new company didn't know that. They only knew that she was willing to walk away if the offer wasn't good enough as she did exactly that the last time they were negotiating.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


If he pushes for a number you can first ask him what their salary range is for the position. When you feel like you absolutely have to name a number, pick the highest number you're comfortable asking and add 10-20% on top of it.

In your case you could tell him you'd immediately accept for 150k. If he balks at that tell him to make you an offer.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


StonedogJones posted:

So all the posts are about negotiating pay raises etc. I'm in a position where as strange as it seems, i am looking for the opposite.

I hate my job. I am in IT, and have been at the same company now for 11 years. I have gotten large pay raises and bonuses, but nothing the last few years. I work from home, $105k, 27 days vacation, 10 public holidays, good health insurance that only costs me $40 a month. the pay and benefits are awesome and the reason I have stuck around for so long.

I hate the work. Went from being jack off all trades type where i had my finger in all the pies and was part of a large team where we had a good bit of fun, stress was low. now i work on one particular item, not applicable to any other company out there, have no interaction with co workers and my boss (new) has absolutely no idea what my skill set is or what my day to day is (not as awesome as it sounds, believe me). I'm isolated, all my old team members have been laid off over the last few years, stressed to the eyeballs and generally just hating work. it sucks. i realize it sounds ideal to lots of folks, but I hate it.

I am looking for more of a sys admin type job, on premise, with a team. because i have been so heavily silo'd the last few years a lot of my skill set is older (SQL server 2008, exchange 2005 etc). a level 1 or 2 sys admin position in my area makes around 60k - 80k. I would be extremely happy to make north of 70k. thankfully I knew this day was coming and i have spent the last 2 years getting completely out of debt other than mortgage, so we can take the pay cut, and if it increases the quality of my work life, its well worth it to me.

Not sure how to negotiate though. I have an interview coming up, if i cannot avoid the what are you making now question, do I lie and say lower? Lying does not feel like its the way to go, I would rather be honest and then try and explain why I want this job. Just worried that asking for much lower than I make now will raise some red flags with the interviewer. Is it rare to choose a job thats lower paid for quality of life reasons?

Don't tell them what you make, just keep saying that if they pay market rate you can work something out or that you'll evaluate the complete package and aren't focussing on salary alone. Let them make the first offer.

Also, have a look at an AWS or Azure entry level certificate. It'll do wonders for your skillset. On udemy.com you can find ones from A Cloud Guru or Linux Academy that are realllly good for only 15-20 bucks. Certs are 150ish too and even with no knowledge whatsoever up front you probably only need 2-3 months to get ready. If you get it you probably don't even have to take a paycut.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


BadSamaritan posted:

Turns out it’s worth changing for and my current employer will likely not be able/willing to compete.

Not what I was expecting, but it’ll be a pretty big lifestyle improvement that will set me up for a massive salary increase in ~5 years.

Usually when companies dangle a "huge increase in x years" in front of you, you're better off switching jobs to get an even bigger increase. There are of course exceptions to this.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Vogelspinne posted:

Hi Goons, I could use some advice.

A year and a half ago I got laid off from my in-house design job and was hired as a graphic designer at a design/branding agency to support their branding team. My compensation was inline with the type of work I was doing. About 6 or so months into the job they asked me to help on some website projects and quickly realized that I was well-suited for digital projects (I did a lot of web stuff at my previous job and while freelancing) so they gradually shifted me from branding to web. By around December-January I was basically doing web projects full time but in a supportive capacity - the design directors were doing most of the heavy lifting and I was just making revisions or expanding on their ideas. 

At my annual review, the digital creative director (the branding creative director I was initially reporting had just been fired so the digital creative director was managing me in the interim) gave my glowing reviews and wanted me to continue supporting the digital team however I'd be 50-50 with digital and branding. They gave me a raise which I was fine with and matched the level of responsibility we discussed.

Well Covid happened and they laid off a bunch of digital designers and a lot of that work was shifted to me. Instead of supporting web projects I am essentially doing the work of a UX/UI designer and this type of work is significantly more complex and valuable than the branding work I was doing. So while my salary for a Graphic Designer is accurate, for a UX/UI person I'm ~15k underpaid. The website that I had the greatest level of involvement (basically owned it from wireframe to launch) is going live in a few weeks so I'm thinking of broaching the topic of a title change/raise after that happens.

My question is, is there any reason to not ask? We seem to be okay business wise now but I worry they're not even going to consider my request due to the employment climate and that this is something I should raised during my annual review or will need to wait until my next one to do so. I'm pretty sure the only reason I wasn't laid off is because it was significantly cheaper to have me learn website stuff than keep the actual UX/UI designers on. I'm also afraid if I ask and they say no they'll rightfully assume that I would seek employment elsewhere - I'm wondering if I should wait until I have some interviews lined up so I don't end up blind-sided. If/when I do ask, should I ask about titles and compensation at the same time or should I start the conversation off around the title and then bring up compensation mid-way into things? 

I think your analysis is pretty spot on. There is no initial harm in asking, they could say no and still get your UX/UI designer services for cheap. The only downside to this is that they might see you as a flight risk and start looking to replace you. The chance of this happening is something you are more likely to assess properly than any of us can. It's probably a mix between company policy, your relationship with your manager and the likeliness of him/her thinking you're actually going to leave. When brought up in a normal way I wouldn't expect your manager to immediately flag you as a flight risk. Especially if you can convincingly say you understand that in the current environment there's no room for payraises and you can wait until things are a bit more stable.

It's always best to have something lined up when asking/demanding changes to your employment agreement simply because you can say "ok, I'll quit" and actually follow through with it. The standard advice of the thread is to switch jobs anyways, because even if they give in to your raise, they might only do this to buy time to hire/train a replacement for you. Same reason why you shouldn't take a counter offer when quitting. More often than not, the payraise from switching jobs is a lot higher than the one you'd get for staying at your current company.

With the whole COVID situation going on I can imagine people would rather play it safe. So what's best for you kind of also depends on how happy you are with your current company and how easy it'd be for you to get new employment if they do decide to get rid of you unexpectedly. If your relationship with your manager is ok, I'd bring it up and see how he responds. For them finding and training someone (as underpaid as you are) to take over is probably more difficult than keeping you on board. If your manager acts weird about, start sending out resumes and interviewing as soon as the meeting ends.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Barudak posted:

A family member just got a job in china and as I learned, apparently companies don't just ask for your salary goal, they ask for bank statements to prove your current salary.

I’ve had a company ask that once too. Either bank statement or a pay slip not older than 6 months.

They said it was so they could make me a tailor made offer. Obviously I refused.

Did take the job because the hiring manager hosed up negotiating. He had 2 offers (initial and final) and accidentily started with the final offer.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Guinness posted:

The real thing that fucks you long term is getting mis-leveled as an incoming hire, because it will take you years to get that promo internally rather than as a new hire.

This is the case for lots of enterprises. It’s extremely worthwile to get information about this during an interview. Ask how many roles in your team are toed to specific levels and if what requirements need to be met to move up a level.

A financial institution I once worked for deliberately tried to put new hires one level below their actual skills and then made it virtually impossible to move into a higher level role. Luckily I was aware of this and told them I’d not join unless I got a role for the level I wanted. All my coworkers didn’t know this when being hired and all got placed 1-2 levels below me.

Pretty nasty behaviour but almost everyone accepted the situation due to the pay being above market rate for most of them.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Chalets the Baka posted:

Welp in a sudden turn of events, they bumped me up to $90,000. With the benefits adjustment, it looks like I can continue to max out my retirement contributions and end up with more take-home pay at the same time - so I'm now coming out better than at my current gig.

I literally can't believe they did that, but it looks like I'm finally escaping hell and getting a better deal at the same time. I'll take a look through the final offer letter to make sure there's no funny business and that I can get my time off before starting, but drat. Thanks for all the insight and help everyone, it looks like everything's coming together.

Congratulations, really happy for you to get out of such a lovely environment while improving your pay as well. Thread delivers once again!

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


The threads strategy paid off again for me. So happy I stumbled into this thread years ago. In my earlier years I had no idea how to negotiate and after practicing on several interviews, this time things lined up perfectly.

I did name a number first this time. It’s because I knew the market rate and company pay range as the guy in charge of it is an old coworker I know well and fully trust to be honest. The company had no idea what I am currently making so the information advantage was on my side. I also nailed all the interview rounds getting feedback saying they absolutely loved to get me on board. I was pretty confident I was their first choice as they rushed the last rounds of interviews to make sure I could give notice before the end of the month (which is custom in some Euro countries)

Purposely anchored above their range which would’ve been a 30% increase in pay. If I let them make the first offer it’d be inside the range, probably somewhere in the middle.

They countered with a number that’d be a 20% raise which I would’ve taken regardless if they could go higher or not. With the “always negotiate” mantra of the thread in mind I told them I’d accept if they could make it 25% which was slightly above the top of their pay range for the role. They came back with the top of the range saying it was the best they could do. I took their offer which means a 24% raise.

I’m now looking forward to start with them in an extremely challenging role a bit out of my comfort zone while getting paid more than I ever imagined earning.

Thanks Neg Thread.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


My last exit interview was done by the HR Director. He tried to threaten me to sign a non compete for the roughly 250 companies they do busines with.

I told him the non compete in my employment contract was the one that I signed and that stated only the customer I worked for and/or interacted with on behalf of employer were subject to the non compete. He asked me to sign the exit interview papers (which included the new non compete) which I refused.

This was at the very end of the exit interview which was a completely normal discussion. I told him the reasons which made me leave and he acknowledged some of the issues and explained how they are working on resolving the others. The ending caught me completely by surprise.

My team lead at that company and I go way back so when he was briefed about the outcome of my exit interview gave me a call. HR Director had completely lied about everything I said to the rest of the management team (including team lead). Apparently he took my reasons personal as most of my reasons came from the merger he was responsible for so he made up a lot of BS. Team lead knew that and gave me the heads up on what was relayed to the company. He also mentioned that HR Director tried to bully everyone who left into signing that non compete and that he knows of several people who signed it and then got sued for breaking it. Incredibly lovely thing to do and I’m glad I was aware of the poo poo he was trying to pull there.

I certainly am not doing exit interviews anymore and that team lead is the only reference I’ll ever list for that role.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


This can vary from country to country though. Where I live there's plenty of court cases where non competes held up in court for IC's.

They had to be reasonable though, which more or less means it's only valid for companies you directly interacted with and/or direct competitors in a limited distance of your currenct company (usually for brick & mortar stores). Still the thought of a lawsuit against you is a lot more threatening for an individual who's not familiar with non competes, which is probably what companies aim for anyway. Most of them know they won't win in court and won't let it come to that when push comes to shove. If only 1 in 10 does adhere to it, it's still an easy win for them.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:

If you leave without a job lined up you've probably been fired or been told you will be fired and are therefore probably someone I don't like or am uninterested in professionally.

Are you seriously saying that you are not interested in anyone that got fired unexpectantly? :eyepop:

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:

This is discussion about people leaving a specific job, not the general population. I have no issue with people in general who got fired unexpectedly, but If you get fired from my firm it's for a consistent, documented track record of poor performance, full stop, and therefore I only care about where you end up in the specific context of "let me make it so I never have to interact with you again"

I didn't read that you only meant at your current employer, but that can make sense. As a blanket statement it'd be pretty weird as I've seen bad managers fire a plenty of decent people for BS or no reasons at all.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Eric the Mauve posted:


Dwight, I am at best a B list poster but thanks for the kind words.

Don’t sell yourself short. (It’s a horrible negotiation tactic. :v:)

Plenty of great and accurate advice. Might come across as a bit harsh to first time thread visitors when it’s not the anwser they were hoping for, but always fair.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


shadow puppet of a posted:

real talk I needed a job and have a resume that resembles swiss cheese so in my last interview they asked about salary and I said anything in the posted range is fine because I want to work for their company and you know what they did?

came in eight cents over the highest number in that range.

sometimes, it pays to throw yourself entirely at the mercy and pity of the hiring manager.

eight whole cents baby.

This however has nothing to do with negotiating and should not be used as an advice.

Sure it can work, just as you could win hit the jackpot in a casino. It's just not very likely.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Guinness posted:

When I briefly had to deal with invoicing as a consultant, the customers with $50k invoices never complained and paid right away. The customers with $5k invoices were enormous shitheels about it and I never want to work with them again.

Same experience here. Larger clients recognize the value they are getting from the deal, the ROI of the money they are spending and that it's an investment in the future. SMB usually just see a large number and want to squeeze out every little cent they pay.

As for negotiation on my hourly rate. My rate is 10-15% above what I'd consider minimum and I'd only lower it if there's something in it for me. Like new technology I'd be hardpressed to get experience with somewhere else, (almost) guaranteed return business or a client with a great name that will vastly improve my resume and results in bigger/better opportunities in the future.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Take a few weeks of unpaid leave, come back for the final day (which you take off at the new job).

Or if old job is remote, don’t quit and just phone it in while focussing on your new job.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


BonHair posted:

I just learned of this thread yesterday, and I've been to busy to read more than first and last pages. So sorry about asking stuff that's been answered a bunch before.

My situation is this: first of, I'm in Denmark. Strong public sector, very clear collective bargaining within the public sector. There is essentially a pretty decent minimum comp, plus room for negotiation, which can be high in certain positions. I'm currently employed in a public agency at the lowest level plus a small bit extra. Very common and quite acceptable, but also essentially the lowest they could possibly get away with (sound strange? Try collective bargaining). Now, this particular position sucks balls because management is ...not good. I am slowly getting back from sick leave due to very predictable and fixable bad conditions, and nothing has changed. I am in information security (not technical but organisational), a field with too few qualified candidates. I am great at my job, but I don't have much paper to prove it, despite being mentored by a well known and respected former coworker. I've been in the business around 3 years now, unfortunately with three different places of employment, all public agencies.

Getting to the point: tomorrow, I am going to have coffee with the CEO of a small company specialising in information security. And by coffee I'm pretty sure we're talking serious offer of employment. They have a pretty good piece of software that I have a lot of experience in, and then they do consulting work. Presumably I will be doing consulting work. I know the CEO from my previous employment, and he seems to have been impressed by my abilities (and I said nice things about his software). Essentially, I want to work for this guy, he's pretty sensible, but I also kind of want more money because I'm honestly worth it. My current salary is roughly DKK 35000, which he can basically look up on loenoverblik.dk - but my realistic BATNA would be waiting around (very doable) and getting a better position in a different agency. This should also be fairly obvious to the guy, and honestly I'll probably mention it to him in the negotiation. I don't have any real realistic goal, but I'm hoping to settle for more than 40000, which seems pretty substantial.

In terms of alternative comp, I'm pretty firm on 37 hours and 6 weeks paid vacation, paid sick leave including first day off when my kid is sick and essentially a bunch of good stuff that strong unions have provided. That's completely standard in public agencies and common outside as well.

I guess my question is: how do I approach this casual kind of negotiation, where I'm gonna be pretty easy to read? My thought is also that a public sector job is gonna be more cozy, so he's gonna have to pay me meaningfully more than I could get even after two years of experience as a consultant, because I would honestly be tempted. That is also something I expect to be upfront about. I basically welcome any thoughts, and just writing this out is honestly pretty helpful.

I’ve been in a situation like this in the past a few times. By the sound of it you’re a SME with regards to his core business. This means he’ll be likely to get a nice rate straight out of the gate when you start working for him with no ot only a small ramp up period. This is pretty important for small companies. InfoSec is firld with scarce resources, finding someone that fits the needs of a niche (and is willing to switch jobs) is going to be rven more difficult.

Assuming you interview well, he’ll likely ask you to join. As per thread advice, don’t say a number. In my experience I’ve dealt with 2 types of people in this situation. The people who value your knowledge/skills and try to apropriately compensate you and the penny pinchers. If the guy throws out lowball numbers during your conversation you’re probably be dealing with the latter. I had it happen once, after the CEO of a small consultancy company asked me to come over to discuss if I wanted to work for them. In the second interview the hiring manager said they wouldn’t be able to offer more than X, which was 10% less than I was making in public sector. I told them that I’d be losing salary if I’d accept that number and they downtalked my resume as a reason why it wouldn’t be profitable for them to pay me more. I reminded them I was perfectly happy with my job and only came to talk to them because their CEO asked me to come interview with them. I told them I wouldn’t be entertaining any offers and thanked them for their time. I had 2 other interviews in the same niche market, direct competitors of eachother (which I also told all 3 companies). After walking out I got 7 or 8 calls from their CEO in the next week as well as 3 calls from their COO (whom I worked with on a project before and who apparently recommended me to the CEO). Suddenly my resume wasn’t poo poo anymore and salary could easily be increased by 15-20%. I declined politely but their behaviour was such a red flag I couldn’t imagine what they’d do to employees if this was their best behaviour trying to get a potential employee to start working for them. Be prepared to walk away, don’t make yourself think this is your 1 shot to glory. There will be more opportunities so if this doesn’t feel right, pass on the offer.

That said, there also companies that realize your value and make you a decent offer. Make sure you do market research on your position/experience salary because if you like this job and you want to stay there for a long time, this is likely your only good chance at negotiating. Taking 1000DKK less now, means you’ll be losing a multitude of it over the years. Whatever you do, don’t name a number. Deflect saying you’d need to review the whole package and you’ll get back to them. If he does pressure you, name a number substantially higher than the 40k you are aiming for (48-50k is probably what I’d do based on the numbers you gave).

Keep in mind consultancy can be very different from public sector though. Not sure what amount of travel is involved but adding a daily 1.5hr of commute can be pretty draining. Always evaluate the whole package.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:

Please make sure you completely understand the duties and requirements. Consulting is a very broad umbrella. Transitioning from a collectively bargained public sector job to a consulting could be quite jarring, depending on what that consulting looks like. Since you are the product, it's going to be challenging to adhere to a 37 hour workweek.

In the EU this might not be as big of a problem. Lots of Govnerment/Financial industries have sub 40 hour work weeks ib my country. I’ve had a 36 hour workweek for over a decade as a consultant. Some companies didn’t even allow contractors to be hired for 40 hours a week. The latter was a pain in the rear end for some contractors as their companies made them take a 10% paycut or ordered them to be in the office for the remaining 4 hours a week. Decent companies calculated this into their hourly rate and let it be.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Not naming a number against experienced negotiatora while your inexperienced yourself can be incredibly difficult. You tried and did the bext best thing (anchoring high). Next time you negotiate, it’ll be easier.

That said, you can still negotiate as you don’t have an offer in hand. You can still tell them you want 50k DKK and pension/bonus/etc on top of it. You anwsered the question about what you want to make, that did not include the whole package. When you get informed about the whole package, you can value that, and still say you need 50k.

Whatever you do, do NOT sign anything in that meeting. Some folks (mostly recruiters) try to get you to sign on the spot.
Take it home, review it, talk it over with your SO/relatives/friends/SA neg thread and get back to them with a counter offer. Unless they match your “gently caress off number”, you take it and realize you won.

And realize you might even anchor higher next time :v:

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


paradoxGentleman posted:

I've read the OP with great attention, and I greatly appreciate this information. I do, however, have a couple of questions.

A lot of online job offers I've looked up have a questionnaire, and one of the one I'm applying to now asks me about my current salary/job position. This is explicitly the kind of thing I absolutely should not disclose to them, but I'm worried that if I ignore that question my application isn't even going to be considered. Having a good BATNA is an excellent principle, but until I can find a job, mine is always going to be "keep being a leech on my parents' back", which is kind of a depressing position to be in.

Do you think I should avoid answering anyway?

Common advice here is to fill in 0 or 1. If this results in not getting an interview, it's probably a lovely company to work for. They can still ask you in an in person interview (and you should still not disclose that information then either).

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

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BonHair posted:

Final update: I landed on 47.000 dkk per month all inclusive, which is slightly higher than the average for my educational background and year of graduation, which in turn is more than my messy career trajectory would imply. It was really helpful with you guys, and also having the union help me look up averages and look over the kinks in the contract. I maintained IP rights to stuff I do outside of work on that account. I got offered 45, pointed out that the average is 46 and asked if he considered me below average in a slightly joking way. This was apparently the right move and I got more than I expected or hoped for really. And this was after agreeing that I might not be working 100% the first month since I'm recovering from stress.
All in all pretty good.

Also, there was no mention of restricting me from seeking employment at a customer, except that I can't have a competing simultaneous job. So that's nice if it turns out I want to go back to the public sector.

I gotta say that negotiating with a guy who's both the business owner, a future close colleague and my immediate superior has a weird power dynamic, because I also want to essentially be friends with him to some extent from here on out.

Congrats on your new job. :yotj:

Awesome to see that while you were ok with settling with (anything?) over 40k, you managed to get an offer 17.5% above your target. If you would've anchored on 40k (instead of naming a very high number when he pressed you for it), your offer would've likely been somewhere between 37.5-40k.

And to top it off, it sounds like a nice company as well! I can see only wins here, well done.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Barudak posted:

A family member got a job offer below current salary and told them off, saying that it was below what they made and they expected a significant pay raise for the role. 6 months later the company calls back wanting to know if they're still interested in the job at the same previously offered rate.

Ballsy.

I’d probably counter by asking the recruiter if he was interested in washing my car for $5 every week.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Chaotic Flame posted:

Doesn't everyone fantasize about the shock/dismay their leaving is going to cause though? Especially if you don't like your boss.

Only once in an environment that was really toxic. As much as if saddens me, me leaving didn’t change a thing. Although after a year or so 2 people got terminated and 3 left after which they disbanded the whole team. It’s a great reminder that everyone is replacable no matter how much you think you’re not.

After that I’ve always hoped my coworkers won’t be inconvenienced too much by me leaving. That never plays a role in making the decision though.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


bamhand posted:

However, I did find out that they did not give him any benefit details and said he'll find that out during orientation. That sounds absolutely insane to me. The company is British, is that normal for a a European company?

No, this is not normal in the EU and I'd be incredibly wary for companies who don't try to spin their dime a dozen benefits as "we have a great / market rate secondary benefits package".

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


KYOON GRIFFEY JR posted:

IT consulting is hardly consulting :chord:

Everything below senior is just making powerpoints with 20 other juniors

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


stellers bae posted:

Oh hey, so that digital agency that was offering me $130k, I countered at $160k, and then strung me along for two weeks and gave me a decline afterwards?

Their VP just called me back and offered me $154k. Extremely tempted to take this, but a bit worried about two things:

* These guys literally wrote the book about what I do in my field. Serious, impending impostor syndrome doom on this one, I am literally 100% self taught and have zero (active) certifications (only expired ones from years ago)

* I'm... kinda lazy and worried about going back to the world where I literally keep track of every hour that I'm working

How do you weigh this kinda stuff?

On the plus side, validation achieved!

If the VP of an industry leading company thinks you’re worth 154k a year to them you have to trust their judgment on it.

They know what they’re doing and determined that out of all candidates you were the best fit. You got this.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


If it takes months to hire someone it seems it’d be unlikely for them to pull the offer after giving you the feedback that everyone wants you onboard.

If you didn’t name a number before and think 100k is reasonable, by all means ask for that (or 110k so you actually get 100k as an offer).

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


hobbez posted:

She did, however, say HR would handle discussing compensation after I accept the offer.

This is of course total BS. You don’t buy a car and hear the price after you agree to buy it.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


You may see this as how the market works but your employer will see this as “not a teamplayer”, “not loyal” and as Dik Hz said: “flight risk”.

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


My wife got out of an exceptionally bad job and was willing to take virtually anything to just get out of there. After interviewing at 2 companies where she didn't get an offer she had aced all her interviews in the last one. She liked the company, her new role and the pay was better than she expected it to be.

I gave her the same advice as this thread is giving everyone. Say that you're excited about the role/company and that you'd be willing to join if they can bump up the pay by x. She was also worried about rocking the boat and never negotiated about any job in the past (and hadn't been interviewing for ages). In the end she decided, what the hell, if I don't get the increase I'll still be happy so why not give it a shot. The company went out of their way to accommodate her request and (had to?) put her in a pay grade 1 level higher than what they were hiring for. This also resulted in several additional benefits that increased significantly. She was incredibly happy with the pay increase and for her it also showed the company appreciated her as a person as well as the skills she was bringing aboard.

Just ask, nobody gets punished for negotiating (except if a company is evil and then they're doing you a favor by letting you know before taking the job).

LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


jimmychoo posted:

thanks all, no surprise that it worked! saved by the goons again. i only had the guts to ask for a 3% salary increase and that's what i got. not unhappy of course because their original offer was great.

absolutely amazing, congrats on getting paid even better and becoming more comfortable negotiating!

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LochNessMonster
Feb 3, 2005

I need about three fitty


Xguard86 posted:


My point is: I wouldn't chase that comfortable middle manager position or get too institutionalized if you've got it. Too much in the hands of people and forces that dgaf about you.

This is extremely true. You're only one bad manager away from (looking for) your next job.

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