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Gaunab posted:Mentioned running over black protesters if they got in his way on the interstate. Gaunab posted:Roommate might be racist. This is a hard one.
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Gaunab posted:Things are going better now although there was one hiccup of him getting turned on during the therapist's meeting and later admitting in private that he was playing with himself in the bathroom (apparently when the two of us were discussing how he was being selfish it set him off?). I was too confused to know what to say, but shaming him for having sexual desires doesn't seem right either. I don't know if I want to bring this up in our next session.  Libelous Slander posted:what a bad therapist I dunno, seems pretty reasonable to me. I don't think the sex therapist, of all people, would be the one to tell him to cut it out.
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Sep 29, 2016 14:51
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What's up with friends/family of these people always saying it's an overreaction on their part?
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Sep 29, 2016 17:55
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mind the walrus posted:I've met a lot of people for whom rocking the boat is way worse than letting one person (who happens to not be them) suffer immensely. I see. I guess it also makes sense to think that they don't want to be blamed for when/if the person they are giving advice to actually breaks up.
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LethalGeek posted:I asked him why and tried to get him to explain himself and he told me that my going away was to see "another man" a deal-breaker, that he'd been in this type of situation before and wasn't going to go through it again. I asked him if this was an ultimatum - I hate ultimatums, they are tools of abusers - and he said "No, its not an ultimatum. I've decided to break up with you. I have not presented you with any options. I just came to say goodbye." Stone cold. 
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Sep 30, 2016 15:15
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Bonzo posted:This is a difficult question to ask because I (35m) may be the bad guy. But I am utterly not attracted to my wife (34f) of 10 years (19 years together) because of her weight and the attitude that got her there. Is it time to split the family? They need to have that router checked up.
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Sep 30, 2016 22:45
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Dial-a-Dog posted:Hahaha I cannot imagine using that kind of cutesy language. Kissy wissy? It must feel like texting a weird aunt, or perhaps a particularly gross uncle The cutesy language is the worse of the two, but when she says her womb/vagina is sad/cringing it's also really bad.
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Oct 3, 2016 15:15
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Pick posted:You think this is bad, try dating them! Gaunab posted:3) Don't talk about how cool your relationships or sex life is; no one cares.
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Oct 3, 2016 15:25
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:Years ago, I sent my girlfriend at the time a "texty text" as a How I Met Your Mother reference, and she responded with a similar vagina clamming up comment. It did kill any desire I had to be cutesy, that's for sure. Gotcha. I just felt a bit weirded out because she wrote that three times in that post when once was enough to get the point across. Bonzo posted:Religion, Irrational anger, treating people like possessions, this one has it all. Both are terrible people 
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Oct 3, 2016 15:38
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loquacius posted:I guess if you're into that it's probably ok its called negging bro
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Oct 3, 2016 16:27
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Nazzadan posted:poo poo I don't remember if I posted any of these in the last thread. Lock the door how is this hard?
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Oct 4, 2016 20:21
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Khorne posted:She wants him to take the initiative and has done everything short of suspending herself from the tent ceiling with her legs spread for him to accidentally walk his dick into her. worked out pretty well for her
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Oct 4, 2016 21:18
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Chomp8645 posted:Oh man I like this boy how can I get his attention??? Masturbating in the tent is somehow more acceptable than just saying that because of the patriarchy
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Oct 4, 2016 21:56
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pete and eagle guy owns
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Pick posted:I want to know where these incredible men are whose only flaw is that they listen to a singer I don't really like. If this is the only thing I have to compromise on in a relationship, well, I guess I'll take that bullet.  How did you read that the guy was incredible in that post?
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Oct 5, 2016 21:33
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pick, they are joking
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Oct 5, 2016 21:35
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Tom Gorman posted:i crafted my engagement rings out of rebar and we had our wedding at the town dump. at the end we gathered 2 truckloads of recyclables and came out with a slick net profit in the end. also I found a pair of doc martens that fit.
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It's the most idiotic thing too. Would anyone sane take advice from people that didn't read the whole thing?
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Oct 6, 2016 16:07
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I [30 F] have a medical problem and my husband [36 M] is being unsupportivequote:
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Oct 6, 2016 17:03
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Husband [30m] wants to split joint accountquote:Husband and I [27F] have been married for 2 years and we have had a joint account from the beginning. He contributes a lot more, but I do most of the household chores. Anyways, I recently bought a pair of running earphones but I have been using his regular kinds occasionally to commute. He wanted to use it today but I had already left with them. He now claims that I am irresponsible with money because I buy things (running earphones) and not use them. I only use them for running and I haven't had a chance to run much because of the rain. Aside from that I never spend for myself and really only use money for groceries. But now he wants me to open my own account and have our finances split in half. He said that I am wasting his money when I make less than him. On top of that, he wants me to pay him back for the tuition we paid from the joint account. I just don't think it's fair. And if we split finances, it just feels like we're not a team anymore. He said we're not a team... but that we can still be married and be a couple. What should I do? He said regardless if I consent or not, he's going to split our finances and take the tuition money back.
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Oct 6, 2016 17:06
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CharlestonJew posted:if he was showing off his boner to his friend why did he have to get completely naked for it why wouldn't you get naked to show off your boner?
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Oct 6, 2016 17:44
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quote:TL;DR - stole my gfs vase, it was her mothers urn. It's now broken ok scratch what i said about the tldrs this one is pure gold.
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loquacius posted:*opens jewelry box full of intricate rings, necklaces, bracelets, and earrings, each adorned with a beautiful diamond which seems to glow faintly in the evening gloom* And these are all my other wives.
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Tolkien minority posted:My [27/f] with my husband [25/m] : he tells me he hates me everyday. and people are saying men are oblivious
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Pick posted:Much as the case for the African lion, protecting the family is the one goddamn thing that women expect men to loving do yeah let me try to punch the poo poo out of two people with guns that will end well
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Oct 7, 2016 14:52
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Glenn Quebec posted:I would rather stand my ground at the minimum than abandon my son and wife to a gunman. yeah and then they take your wife and kids hostage instead of just grabbing the TV
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Our [14F&13M] brother [30M] cheated on 5 of his ex fiances/wives. We don't want to go to his wedding to the 6th girl because it's just going to happen againquote:Hi Reddit.
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My dad [48M] keeps telling me that I'm too stupid to go to college despite me [19F] having straight A's.quote:Okay, I don't know what to do to convince my dad that I'm not too stupid to go to school. I had over 44 credits at the end of my freshman year, currently have straight A's, but he's so loving convinced that I am too stupid to go to college. He ended up telling me I'm stupid so much, I purposely missed the deadlines for my FAFSA form and scholarships because I thought that there was a chance that I just got lucky like he said and that next year I would do terrible. I didn't bother at all signing up for classes. I'm at a loss here because no matter what I do he thinks I'm stupid.
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WampaLord posted:
sorry  here's another to make up for it My (33M) Sis-in-law (41F) is coming to our house because hers is haunted. quote:I cross-posted this to the ask Doctors sub.
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Dial-a-Dog posted:It sounds like that dad did a really bad job of instilling an inferiority complex early on, and is trying his best to do it now before it's too late
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Leon Einstein posted:Some of you will believe anything. no one cares
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remigious posted:I've never really had many female friends and I'm not proud of it, in fact it really bums me out.  but in general
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remigious posted:I'll be your goon friend wanna go out and get some beers? 
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remigious posted:Yeah! I'm near Denver. I'm near São Paulo. 
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When my wife [37F] turns me down for sex, it's fine, but when I [38M] turn her down, it's "abusive". Married 12 yearsquote:Pretty much what the title says. My wife and I don't have sex very often anymore, perhaps 3-4 times a month. I work a very demanding job, she's a stay-at-home mom for our 3 kids. I try to initiate several times a week and get turned down 9 times out of 10. Although it does upset me to be rejected so often, I just say "whatever" and either go to sleep or jerk off (I keep this secret from her because she would flip out and it's not a fight worth having). For the very few times she agrees to have sex, it's always great and she enjoys it very much, as do I.
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I [29F] was helping my friend set up a dating site profile and accidentally found my husband [33M] on there in the "people in your area" section.quote:Long story short: I was helping my friend to set up a profile on a dating site for her to find someone new after recovering from a really bad breakup, and I accidentally came across my husband having a profile on there. I'm in shock. We have had our fair share of issues in the past 8 years of marriage and had been attending marriage counselling due to him abusing me in the past, things seemed to be improving between us over the past year or so. In retrospect in the past few weeks there have been some red flags such as him never being home, always being distant from me (he claims this is due to work related issues which I respected and patiently waited to things to improve) and just yesterday he was at the jewellers and a perfume shop with no explanation (he was with a friend so I presumed he was there because his friend was after something). I'm fuming and have a billion thoughts running through my head, I don't know what to do. I know for a fact I want a divorce, but I want him to suffer repercussions for what he has done! I want to go about this in the smartest way possible. I have seen stories over the years of people confronting their cheating partners in clever ways or exposing them and dumping them in clever ways, but my mind is blank right now as I'm that hurt. Please help. Bolding mine
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Me [25M] and my girlfriend [25F]. She wants to go back to having protected sex (after years of unprotected) because she has a new job where she'll be out of town 5 days a week.quote:Me and my girlfriend Kim been together for 3 years. About 6 months in, we agreed to have unprotected sex from then on. It felt way better plus she was on birth control and we were both clean & exclusive with each other. is she doing porn?
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Bonzo posted:Porn starts are tested all the time for STDs so its unlikely. But she's definitely planning on getting some strange on this job, whatever it is.  that guy then
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i love how "cultural differences" is a get out of jail free card for the rest of the world to mess with americans
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