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So women have some sensory organ that detects virginity in guys?
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Whenever I hear these people accommodating their partners ridiculous fetishes I always wonder how much reciprocation they're getting in exchange, because it never seems to be considered. It's one thing if the guy had this extreme humiliation fetish and his girlfriend went along with it because he would give her really amazing back rubs on request. But these redditors always grossly overstate what their partner is doing for them and make it sound like it is much more of a dilemma than it is.
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Sep 29, 2016 16:24
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loquacius posted:In return for putting up with his extreme humiliation fetish, the fiancee got to repeatedly have sex with someone else much more virile, competent, and well-adjusted than him Yeah this is still a plus for humiliation fetish guy though. Quid pro quo would be him doing something for her that she would enjoy that doesn't indirectly interact with his fetish so that it is clear he's doing it to meet her needs and not just because it's convenient for him.
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Sep 29, 2016 16:38
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A lot of these stories have the woman inexplicably coming in to the room/overhearing at just the right moment or have some strawman of a lovely partner.
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Sep 29, 2016 20:15
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I really think this 'I don't wanna teach a virgin' thing needs to stop. People have such a diverse variety of preferences that someone with multiple partners really doesn't have nearly as much experience as they might think they do. A virgin with good active listening skills is going to be a better lay than a selfish person with ten previous partners. The problem is if the virgin is terrible, it gets attributed to their lack of experience but if a non virgin is awful it gets treated like a fluke. I think the reasons leading up to the persons virginity have a lot more relevance than their actual virginity.
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Oct 1, 2016 21:37
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Rockin Orthodontist posted:Does watching porn teach you how to be good in bed? At all? Most of the postures are chosen for how they look on camera not how good they feel, and certainly not how good they feel for the lady. Even the orgasms in most I guess you'd have to be watching legit amateur stuff to get a more 'realistic' idea. But even then, it is all very subjective (maybe they're getting off because they know they're recording it/showing it to people, for example). I don't put intercourse in the same category as say playing an instrument or martial arts or something that requires a lot of practice and form to master. Honestly the best way to be good in bed is to just be a good listener; it doesn't really take any practical experience outside of that. For every terrible male virgin there are probably a hundred nonvirgins as bad if not worse because they built bad habits, act selfishly or assume they know what they're doing. Also there is this rubber band effect that's happening where we went from people assuming sex will be amazing the first time to having a really low expectation to avoid getting disappointed. How about not assuming it will be either of the extremes and just don't over-think it? If a person's expectations are too high, then they get disappointed. If they assume it is going to be terrible, they're probably not going to try as hard. Communication is the best way to learn.
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Oct 2, 2016 19:11
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Rockin Orthodontist posted:What's worse, a guy who has no idea how sex works, or a guy who has watched this gif a thousand times and thinks this is how sex works? "this kills the mood. "
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Oct 2, 2016 19:43
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remigious posted:It is super loving obvious when you're with a guy that learned how to have sex from watching porn. *Spits in woman's vagina, slaps her face with his flaccid wiener *
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Oct 2, 2016 23:14
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Dial-a-Dog posted:I will never understand these people who stay in loveless/sexless relationships and marriages for years and decades. Twenty five years of trying to fix your marriage? Holy lol you'd be happier single and certain you'd die alone Sunk cost fallacy. You get so invested in trying to work things out, quitting at any point feels like all the years up to that point were a waste of time. A loveless marraige can also feel harder to justify to others vs a partner that is outwardly abusive, cheats, etc.
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Oct 3, 2016 04:47
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The followup is inevitably going to be that the Catholic guy has a micropenis and learned all his sex moves from Brazzers.
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Oct 3, 2016 16:21
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Nazzadan posted:No you don't understand, their apartment is shaped weird. She should slip anti diarrhea pills in his food so he doesn't have to poo poo every single day. Alternatively he should poo poo at work since he's at least getting paid for it and not messing up his wife's morning routine by unplugging stuff.
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Oct 4, 2016 20:20
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Next time she rubs one out he should scream that he's straight edge and lob a printer at her tent.
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Oct 4, 2016 20:31
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Snatched a pube like Smeagol 
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Oct 5, 2016 01:35
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Tom Gorman posted:If she wears earplugs and the guy puts down soundproofing tape, carpets, sleeps in a different room and tiptoes around the house like sylvester the cat lol I think you'll be living alone forever lady. This sounds like my mom. She is an incredibly light sleeper and even closing a door quietly in the house will startle her awake. My stepdad snored pretty bad. So something had to give. She made him sleep in the attic.
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Oct 5, 2016 05:44
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If he's not getting laid, I really wonder what the guy is getting out of this. Does she cook for him? Pay his bills? How old is this guy to not have a license, sixteen? (probably)
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Oct 5, 2016 15:27
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lazorexplosion posted:We spent like $2000 on a tiny picnic wedding and it was fantastic fun and chill as heck to plan. Just lol at people who start their marriages off by blowing a shitload of money and getting massively stressed about organizing a huge event. Some people actually know how to save and budget for the wedding they want? Also, big parties are fun.
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Oct 6, 2016 01:28
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loquacius posted:P much everybody goes to college in America these days, though. There is no way that kid is "too dumb" to go to college. He'd have a point if what he said was "going to college is a waste of time and lots and lots of money unless you go to a good school and pick your major well and get a scholarship, so let's choose your applications carefully" but that's not what he said. I knew a girl whose dad was a major hard rear end about grades, she had a 4.0 in HS went to UC Irvine and graduated summa cum laude with a degree in sociology and did fuckall with it because she works in a call center. Apparently all their efforts were centered on "get good grades" vs "how can I market this into a fun and stable career" 
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Oct 7, 2016 19:06
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Pick posted:Smartest guy I know ended up working at a call center. Took him like five years to get out of that poo poo On the flip side, my wife did average in undergrad but got a solid job straight away because she spent years working toward that goal (and later went back for grad school and makes bank now). But maybe it's because she was the first in her family to go to college in the first place, and when you grow up seeing your parents treated like poo poo in their strawberry picking/toilet scrubbing jobs it sets a much higher standard.
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Oct 7, 2016 19:34
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Worldshatter posted:the 13 year old boy peeking through curtains into your room is totally just checking up on you and not praying for nips Guaranteed that 13 year old has nutted on every square inch of fabric the nanny has sat on/worn by now.
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Oct 10, 2016 15:39
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La Brea Carpet posted:The post just says 4-5 days per week which could be Thursday through Monday for all we know. Comedy option is some sort of traveling evangelical revival show, but more likely a traveling theater troupe of some kind. Bimonthly Comedy evangelical orgies.
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Oct 10, 2016 21:00
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CharlestonJew posted:ahaha if he marries her he's hosed and probably going to be cucked Better prep the Bull just to be on the safe side.
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Oct 11, 2016 14:40
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People having issues with porn should be proportional to their sex life. I don't think it's unreasonable a woman be upset her boyfriend watches porn all the time but doesn't want to have sex much - it's not necessarily an insecurity on her part.
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Oct 11, 2016 19:47
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HardDiskD posted:I hope you have a better MIL now and congrats on all accounts. Having great in laws can be a big deal if your partner is close with their family. I think it's more likely (not guaranteed though) to have a good partner if their family is kind and respectful to you. I am very lucky to have in laws that are 1000's times nicer than my friends' respective in laws and its a huge truckload of drama I don't have to deal with in my marriage
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Oct 11, 2016 21:10
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Regulation Size posted:i feel good for the Chlamydia trachomatis in that story, knowing it will have a long and prolific life at the hands of those two morons. Like a game of ping pong that never ends!
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Oct 12, 2016 17:25
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But how does that explain the fact that many religious young people get married very young specifically so they can get down to loving?
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Oct 23, 2016 17:34
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A rumor got started that one of my coworkers had a tiny wiener and none of the homeless women who give blow jobs in exchange for vending machine food out by shipping and receiving will even talk to him 
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Oct 24, 2016 01:36
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Engaged people really need to see how their partner lives before they get married and be realistic about how much one person is going to change about it before making a long term commitment. Because I doubt most people that are slobs are going to do a total 180 about it, even through ~luv~
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Oct 25, 2016 01:21
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Dirtbag Diva posted:Depending on where they live, it might be a Fragile Masculinity thing. My husband and I live in the south and when we first started dating, we both had a clean record and massive 90s steel tanks of sedans and we'd drive them interchangeably depending who was the DD/who was more tired and men were astonished he "let" me drive his car while him driving mine was a matter of fact. Even nowadays, if we're riding with another couple, the man always drives even if it's his female partner's car unless they're super liberal types. Wow, I'm a guy and totally the opposite about this. I don't mind at all if my wife drives. She can be the DD all she wants. I feel like men that make a big deal about it are just embarrassing themselves.
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Nov 1, 2016 20:18
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tactlessbastard posted:Go King Solomon on the cat, only with the follow through this time.  I don't mean to be a bitch or anything, but we both agree I'm entitled to the front half of the cat.
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Nov 2, 2016 06:43
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gently caress, here I am spending the last fifteen years of my life dedicated to being a more considerate and productive human being, and I'm reading about a legion of pissbabies that are getting away with poo poo my partners wouldn't tolerate 5% of. I've wasted my life 
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Nov 3, 2016 17:40
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While it would suck to deprive your kids fun things, on the other hand having good boundaries with them means they'll rebel in really mundane ways like buying a 3DS with their own money.
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Nov 3, 2016 22:46
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Regulation Size posted:Man, I don't think you grok "tiger" parents, which is how she described her own parents. It has been around forever as a parenting style but picked up its name from the Amy Chua book that came out like, five or six years ago, and made all sorts of parenting science types flip out. It's kind of interesting (but a little trite, and not super successful) as a philosophy, if you want to look it up. Yeah that's what I assumed. And I don't think a kid like this is going to pull some huge 180 in college either, usually if things go bad it manifests in some kind of mental breakdown but not necessarily drug or sex binges. Frankly if I were a parent having a secret Gameboy would be a much bigger relief than something like pregnancy, drug addiction, shoplifting, etc.
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Nov 4, 2016 00:55
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Pvt.Scott posted:"Porn addiction" in American evangelist Christian parlance tends to mean "looks at porn" in any and every capacity. It's an addiction because you can't stop doing it, despite being shamed by your religion and peers, and not even your wife refusing to sleep with you has helped to break you from its steely grip. It has to be an addiction, you see, because you don't murder people or rob strangers purely due to the influence of G*D, and looking at porn is just as bad, as all sin is equal. Truly, only the Lord Jesus can save you now, sinner. Eh, if people can get addicted to gambling or sex I can see porn addiction being a thing. Unless you think evangelists invented those two? A lot of people will blame the woman for being dumb/prudish/insecure about porn as well, but some guys can just be pretty lovely about their porn watching habits. There's probably plenty of guys that watch a lot of porn and turn down sex with their wife which is not prudish to say is a problem.
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Nov 30, 2016 06:00
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The child free people bitching about people getting family leave to care for a new baby conveniently forget that the only guarantee in the us is that they can't fire you for taking six unpaid weeks off or your have to blow sick/vacation time on it. For hating kids so much they sound awfully jealous of the people who have them.
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Nov 30, 2016 22:09
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Incoherence posted:I wasn't reading that one closely the first time and thought for a moment that the stripper was actually for the baby. They could probably find a ton of redditors willing to strip for a baby.
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Dec 2, 2016 06:41
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Please do not say WAAAAGH that is our word.
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Dec 2, 2016 21:19
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I'm guessing the religious convert has previous hangups about sex she never told he bf about before. Converting means the things that make her feel guilty don't have to anymore and she can start fresh. I've seen quite a few people treat being a born again Christian as some kind of get out of jail free card. They get to walk away from bad feelings or actions without having to put any effort in dealing with the actual problem. I'm surprised she stayed with him honestly. If he wasn't willing to convert and she doesn't want to have sex anymore and hates his Christmas ornaments what's she getting out of it?
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Dec 5, 2016 04:02
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Those r/childfree posts are  . I'm starting to think that some of them resent children solely because it brings to focus all the childish stuff they are into and embarrassing themselves by having to compete with literal children. Were they themselves filled with self loathing at being a child at one point in their own childhood? The other half seem jealous of all the social advantages of being a parent but obviously don't want to put in the sacrifices and work that goes into it.
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Dec 6, 2016 08:15
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It's probably good most of those childfree people aren't going to have kids otherwise there'd be more of them. And while most of their anecdotes are STDH I have witnessed situations where assholes tried to antagonize parents into getting hyper defensive about their kids, which more often than not backfires.
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Dec 6, 2016 14:41
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I work at a place where people not only have spouses that are their supervisors, but they cheat on said supervisor (often with other supervisors). If the supervisor makes any remotely passive aggressive behavior toward their (now ex) spouse the underling goes running to the union to file a grievance for workplace harassment. It's a lot of drama. Don't eat where you poo poo, people.
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Dec 6, 2016 21:57
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