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Ugly In The Morning posted:One of my friends in college ended up with some dude buying her a new iPod. Not a nano or shuffle, one of those 60GB ones. I told her “he’s into you, big time, to like seriously unhealthy levels” but she was kind of oblivious and sheltered and insisted that he was just a really good friend. Even doing that too early in a relationship is a screaming red flag. "Happy 2 month anniversary here's a diamond tiara like the one you like from that movie!" Slightly later "You can't break up with me I spent so much money on you!"
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Xenocides posted:I (27F) might break up with my boyfriend (25M) for beating up a guy who was sexually harassing me. The ordeal resulted in a gun pulled on us. Am I right in doing this? Anyone who initiates a conflict like this with a full on physical escalation probably has a wardrobe full of Ed Hardy shirts and tries to starts fights the second anyone cross them. 99% chance he uses the words "alpha male" on his social media profiles. He's going to beat her at some point, either from jealousy or rage over her disagreeing with him. Also, calling the cops in that situation is probably tied with what happened for "what will have the greatest chance of someone being shot" pentyne fucked around with this message at 18:47 on Jan 11, 2020 |
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DemoneeHo posted:My SO thinks a regular massage is cheating Can't you just default assume that any immediate leap to cheating for any life situation is either raging red flag insecurity or projecting their own infidelity? It's not even like "she'll give you a hand job" its the idea that a women would be capable of a task that the man somehow enjoys regardless of being non sexual. Will she freak out if he visits a female hair stylist because he finds combs through his hair enjoyable? Her then clinging onto the idea even after he says he'll get a male massage therapist is pretty telling that she's a compulsive cheater or she assumes he'll cheat at the drop of a hat.
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Pirate Radar posted:This isn't a WIBTA post, and it shouldn't be, because the answer would be "gently caress no" quote:It's a complicated story, but what my family and I have worked out over the, nearly 9 years, is that he was a high functioning sociopath who, as my Mum quickly found at when he left, owed £125,750, mostly brought on through scamming business, families and maxing out credit cards. My Mum was taken to court, the house was seized, I had a mental breakdown and we nearly ended up homeless and we spent the next 5 years on the poverty line. Wait, so if the father had been the one scamming people and maxing out cards, why is the mother the one being taken to court and why were they paying off the $125K for the next several years? Does the UK have some arcane debtor's law where when you commit a bunch of financial crimes and skip town the govt goes after your immediate family like they committed the crimes?
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Midnight Voyager posted:Maybe related to real estate? My family lost a solid family surveying business when all that poo poo went crazy and it sounds exactly like what he's describing. It was a one man business so it could be something as basic as tree removal and stump grinding.
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Bruceski posted:Venmo is like Paypal but without the web integration. It's just folks through the app sending money to each other. As far as I know the app's not shady, but last I heard it was treated like sending cash so if, for example, someone got ahold of your phone and sent themselves your bank account's contents Venmo wouldn't do anything to help. A while back there was a convoluted post in legal advice about a guy claiming he was robbed by an escort who also accessed his phone and sent $2k from his account to hers and what were his legal options. The vast majority of responses were "you learned an expensive lesson" with a follow up of "lock your drat phone you moron"
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