Facebook Aunt posted:

Despite what incels imagine about the pre-feminism utopia, there were always sexless losers. A fair number of them seem to be NEETs, living with their parents or on disability, on the spectrum, unemployable, with no social skills at all and no status in the community. There was no point in history where fathers were happily handing off their daughters to guys like that.

HAT FETISH posted:

incel as a concept is inextricably wrapped up in middle class aspirational bullshit, imo

nigga crab pollock posted:

i dunno the kid was clearly mentally ill. like not just a narcissist but a venomous narcissist. regular ol narcissists dont have problems getting sex, how lovely of a person do you have to be to be decent looking, be set up with rich parents, and still never even manage to get anyone to bone you? narcissism to the extreme that you cannot even bear the implicit social mores required in the presence of other people and writing a hundred page manifesto entirely about why he deserves sex

incels just lack the social skills to even understand what they're doing wrong and feel entitled to hot babes

nigga crab pollock posted:

idk just casually reading into The Curious Case Of Elliot Rodger its very clear his parents were only vaguely aware of his personal issues that were very obviously the fulcrum of his identity and had been since puberty and caused by a mix of severe developmental neglect and showering with grandiose empty praise because they saw their child as a tool to further their self image despite clearly ignoring him

nerd plus rage posted:

In all the hilarious stuff in the Elliot Rodger saga the image of him having a sobbing meltdown over not winning the lottery is the funniest to me.

Ups_rail posted:

Is there anime for incels?

fruit on the bottom posted:

Well, nobody's perfect!

fruit on the bottom posted:

Indeed.

It's probably the only "guys go undercover as women" movie that actually did it well, though I hear Marilyn Monroe was a complete mess on set.

Who What Now posted:

Coast Guard Reserves

Guy Mann posted:

Incels are so repulsive and broken that it loops around to making me want to hold one in my arms as he cries and raise him like a baby bird that has fallen out of its nest, teaching him how to cook and clean and take care of himself, working through all his neuroses with lots of patience and lube, pushing him into getting a job and therapy with a stern but caring hand, eventually letting him back into the world just a little better than he was when we first met. Sadly it will never be because the fantasy of fixing someone with the power of love and good intentions is just that: a fantasy.

SaltyJesus posted:

Ups_rail posted:

Hey pick glade your okay but


HAHAHA....HAHAHA

I wont continue the story of the lady or giving any more information on her, for fear of doxx'ing her, but she didnt have a happily ever after with the pizza dude, or the dude after that, or the dude after that or the two marriages after that.


So I am engaged right, I've also been in some pretty lovely lovely relationships and I will man up and admit that i ve been both the lovely person in some and the receiver in others.

My gf resents that she is paying for the mistakes of my ex's (her words) and I got a friends mom saying

"its all about compromise"

and other women saying

"you just need to communicate"

I just laugh at them and say "gently caress no"

For dinner she wants chinese? you want mexican? you compromise and get Italian? WTF

Compromise is not a panacea, I've seen first hand a friend wanted a hard mattress and his wife wanted a soft mattress so they compromised and spent a few years both sleeping lovely and finally got their own beds

She wants to go to paris for vacation you want to go to germany so you go to spain?

You wanna have kids she doesnt wanna have kids? I've loving seen that one play out, there is no loving compromise in that issue, and it got loving ugly. gently caress I lost that relationship cause I flat out told them

"this isnt something you can compromise on, poo poo it happened in my extended family and it was a god drat deal breaker"

Communication? That can make poo poo a million times worse

In my youth I believed in being emotionally available to my gf, in telling everything in being open.

I learned you dont tell them poo poo about your ex's period and that its best to



Because the truth is she doesnt need to know, she might want to know or think she wants to know but that knowledge will not make her happy.

I finally got that lesson from two experiences when I've had partners out of the loving blue bring up my ex's, Like literally out of the blue they are angry that I was with that black girl in college, I was stunned going "I never bring up your two marriages why are you bringing that up?" Then years later a woman I've had a long and unhealthy relationship with started bring up my ex's name in angry texts. That time I had the sense to say

"Those are my ex's name and I was with them, that is my past, nothing will ever change it, and I will never apologize for it, bringing it up doesnt hurt me or really matter."

The other reason I hate the "just communicate" advice is that they never loving mention something even more important

YOU CAN NEVER TAKE IT BACK

Be loving careful about what you say. Me and the girl had a thing happen. The result was her crying and me in whirlwind of anger/depression/rejection.

I kept my mouth shut because I knew expressing how I felt in the moment would not be constructive and it would be best to wait and see how I felt later, and honestly that issue has been worked on and improved.

Okay to swing back around to incels my idea is that they start at some point in their youth with a hosed up socialization. I bet the internet has exacerbated this, as they get older they get more bitter at their failure with girls, and pretty soon they internalize their being losers untill it becomes part of their own identity.

bewbies posted:

I share a lot of this incel content with my wife and she demands to know what percent can be reliably counted as genuine.

Who What Now posted:

You tried to gently caress one for years. Further proof incels don't actually want sex.

Mak0rz posted:

The piece is called "The Undatables" but only one of them seems to fit that description 🤔

Literally A Person posted:

In the incel fantasy though aren't modern women only happy with Chadly S. Chadmire anyway?

Barudak posted:

Yo if you put a white mask over your face and show off your six pack abs there is a literally endless supply of theater people who will listen to your music of the night.

Literally A Person posted:

Sometimes you almost feel sympathy. Then the whole "this person is probably a rapist" thing kicks in and your like, Nah, this person is not cool or good.

Quote-Unquote posted:

Empathy is only for beta cucks. You wouldn't understand this though, you stupid femoid, because you're too busy loving three or four chads at once and your worthless FHO brain can't understand the true nature of The Pulse.

Barudak posted:

Like, literally the first thing developed for them. There are videos mocking 3d Anime dress up and Anime upskirt simulator betas from like 5-6 years ago now.

Barudak posted:

Let me make your question skeeve you out, of course. You name a physical disability and their is an option in a simulator to add it to your waifu if not a full blown game where every waifu has that issue. Dependent neediness is the most desrible trait in an anime waifu, so why not make her physically dependent on you too?

fruit on the bottom posted:

Katawa Shoujo, according to the googs.

Dienes posted:

Didn't he also sleep with some of his slaves?

That, at least, fits with incel values.

Barudak posted:

Ken actually comes in a variety or skin tones and body shapes now. If youve not read it the Elle article "All the Ken's You Will Meet" is worth a read both because its funny and because its basically a catalog of Chads in doll form.

Barudak posted:

Being Chad.

If its not obvious Calvinism and Incels have extremely similar views on predestination and the elect.

Mak0rz posted:

I'm not a historian or anything so I could be naive but wouldn't the "good life" by feudal Europe standards be still generally shittier than common life in the western world today?

Breetai posted:

Submitted for your approval.

gnarlyhotep posted:

that explains pretty much everything I've seen out of Japan in my lifetime