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cis autodrag posted:So on a more serous note, I wanted to talk about the stereotype that trans people are drawn to tech. Anecdotally, there do seem to be more trans people in tech than in the wider population, but my thinking is that the truth is that there's just more out trans people. also: Sagebrush posted:anyway this is an interesting topic to me but i don't wanna be another heterosexual male occupying lgbt space so if this isn't cool tell me so and i will go away
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# ¿ May 9, 2024 03:51 |
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my ma’s p tall and she got called sir all the time, so it’s mosdef a thing, but doing it after you get handed ID is kinda naff
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# ¿ Dec 9, 2017 09:55 |
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Pikavangelist posted:i'm told that fake pockets are a thing in some cases - the openings for pockets are there, but sewn shut Shifty Pony posted:often the sewing which closes the pocket is also holding something else together.
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# ¿ Jan 13, 2018 18:08 |
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cis autodrag posted:Lol. Typical male to think women want bionic piston dicks and not humans who listen to and respect them.
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# ¿ Feb 13, 2018 08:29 |
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ate all the Oreos posted:meanwhile my nearly-90 year old grandma dgaf and just thinks it's nice that i got married, thanks grandma
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# ¿ Feb 13, 2018 15:53 |
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Pollyanna posted:poo poo she said: for those unaware, compensation should always, always be negotiated after you’ve been offered a position, and never, ever tell anyone what you made at the previous place.
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# ¿ Feb 17, 2018 00:24 |
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speaking of work, aclu just won against an org that fired a worker for coming out as trans: https://twitter.com/aclu/status/971472463044497409?s=21
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# ¿ Mar 8, 2018 01:07 |
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it’s a fine line between asking candid honest questions and "When PoC are expected to educate white ppl as to their humanity, when women are expected to educate men, lesbians and gay men are expected to educate the heterosexual world, the oppressors maintain their position and evade their responsibility for their own actions" -Audre Lorde
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2018 11:25 |
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FAT32 SHAMER posted:on the other hand I think most of the people lurking itt recognize that they are idiot dipshit oppressors in some way and wish to learn how so they don’t keep doing that; in a way they are not evading their responsibility but owning it and hoping not to make the same mistake again
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# ¿ Mar 18, 2018 12:46 |
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cis autodrag posted:Also cis people treat your differently when they know regardless of how open they claim to be. There was a lady at my old job who had met me 100 times and would still loudly ask me about my pronouns every time I saw her, regardless of who was in earshot, for example.
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# ¿ Mar 19, 2018 12:55 |
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gently caress yeah bud, glad it’s going to work out.
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# ¿ Mar 22, 2018 18:52 |
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cis autodrag posted:I like that roller Derby seems to be universally accepting of trans women. I've seen rec leagues for other sports that don't allow trans women and it's so hosed.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2018 22:23 |
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Avenging_Mikon posted:I'm out. I'm fragile as gently caress. Dainty as all get out, too.
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# ¿ Mar 29, 2018 22:35 |
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ate all the Oreos posted:e: i'd give you the benefit of the doubt but the only reason i even remember your username is because of that screenshot of you asking sarah jeong to be your submissive asian waifu sooooo
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# ¿ Apr 3, 2018 15:27 |
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hurray!
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# ¿ Apr 8, 2018 16:19 |
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they weren’t funny
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# ¿ Apr 8, 2018 16:50 |
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cis autodrag posted:See u guys when the anesthesia wears off...
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# ¿ Apr 11, 2018 17:58 |
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cis autodrag posted:No, I mean the shoulder straps. This thing looks like overalls. The shoulder straps are designed for a much shorter person.
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# ¿ Apr 12, 2018 07:20 |
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yo auto drag if you want an av change just PM me what’s you’d like
evil_bunnY fucked around with this message at 13:34 on Apr 17, 2018 |
# ¿ Apr 17, 2018 12:18 |
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cis autodrag posted:D'awwww, look at this adorable pupper
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# ¿ Apr 22, 2018 06:58 |
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SENSUAL DAD KISS posted:cqs: a very close friend who's always kept his sexuality close to his chest said that watching me go through the process of coming out years ago inspired him to work through his own sexuality and chose me as the first person he wanted come out to as bisexual the other day Shaman Linavi posted:how do you all feel about a site like Hired asking about sexual orientation and transgender status in their optional information section? personally i think its a little weird and they can gently caress off SENSUAL DAD KISS posted:i have done genetic anomaly where I don't get any euphoria from opioids and I'm thankful for it every goddamn day because holy poo poo I know Iwould be volumetrically Chinese lofentanyl in bathroom otherwise. evil_bunnY fucked around with this message at 10:59 on Apr 24, 2018 |
# ¿ Apr 24, 2018 10:55 |
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Peeny Cheez posted:Also, General Anesthesia terrifies me as a concept.
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# ¿ Apr 24, 2018 18:02 |
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Lain Iwakura posted:this is sort of a broad message: i get that some of you are allies (or perceive yourself as one), but you need to listen to those who identify as queer and not make your own assertions. there's a lot of sensitivity by those of us who are queer in whatever capacity and if you're cis, hetero, and especially white, you're going to come off as intrusive if you start to make statements that while in your own head may seem supportive but are otherwise are borderline or outright offensive evil_bunnY fucked around with this message at 09:18 on Apr 27, 2018 |
# ¿ Apr 27, 2018 09:15 |
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ate all the Oreos posted:idk if i'd go that far, I think you can absolutely put yourself in our shoes and i'm really happy to see people try to understand each other that way, just like, don't think that cuz you wore those shoes for 5 minutes mentally you're now an authority on shoe fashions
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# ¿ Apr 27, 2018 15:06 |
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jit bull transpile posted:People can try to empathize. They can't literally know our experiences, and quite frankly fear, danger, and alienation are a huge part of the queer experience that your average white cishet ally cannot possibly comprehend to the degree that we live with every day.
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# ¿ Apr 28, 2018 18:29 |
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jit bull transpile posted:Yeah, but I have an evil doubt demon that lives in my brain I'm fighting with
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# ¿ May 23, 2018 17:56 |
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you just change the path reference and rename the dir manually AFAIK, provided you’re not an AD. if you are just log into a new machine to see what’s carried over and decide whether that’s enough. it’ll have your new name as user dir.
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# ¿ May 26, 2018 07:50 |
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ate all the Oreos posted:i think "queer" works better and doesn't inadvertently exclude people or group them into "and the rest"
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# ¿ May 30, 2018 11:47 |
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Lain Iwakura posted:https://twitter.com/CBSNews/status/1001523674594381825
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# ¿ May 30, 2018 15:01 |
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jit bull transpile posted:I've used it, but I will say I'd probably not like the sound of it coming out of a non-queer's mouth. Would feel kind of mocky.
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# ¿ Jun 6, 2018 19:14 |
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jit bull transpile posted:So here's the critical thing with therapy (and this applies to any therapy, not just trans specific stuff):
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# ¿ Jun 14, 2018 19:11 |
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Captain Capacitor posted:Also, on a more serious note...has anyone else Bi (and possibly Canadian) had to deal with the incorrigible shame? Like those feelings coming from someone dealing with a far more complex journey (especially in the states) I could understand but I never once experienced any homophobia in my family or, to my recollection, my social group growing up. Yet I am having so much trouble admitting and integrating the idea right now. I've been invited to LGBTQregex events at work (because MS loves regex people) and I feel...undeserving? Does that make sense?
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# ¿ Jun 20, 2018 19:33 |
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Casual Encountess posted:i'd love to find a queer street hockey league or something because I feel like that's way more my thing.
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# ¿ Jun 20, 2018 21:21 |
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eschaton posted:please be careful and check it out thoroughly beforehand, some derby leagues have very toxic people, structures, or both, and can vary greatly in their actual inclusivity regardless of what they state evil_bunnY fucked around with this message at 11:27 on Jun 21, 2018 |
# ¿ Jun 21, 2018 11:23 |
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Zamujasa posted:i'm wondering where the line between "~gatekeeping~" and flat out gaslighting is, if there even is a line
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# ¿ Jun 28, 2018 20:27 |
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ate all the Oreos posted:also idk if i mentioned it in this thread but her mom used to be really lovely towards her being trans, hated it, refused to acknowledge it in any way, etc. however in the last two years or so she's apparently done a lot of thinking and reflecting and pulled a total 180, apologized profusely saying stuff like "i let my ideas of how the world was supposed to work take priority over my own child's happiness and wellbeing and that's inexcusably horrible." now she's the kind, loving mother she should have been the whole time, introduces her as "my daughter" to acquaintances and calls out people who are lovely to her, and they've even gone out on a few fun mother-daughter clothes shopping trips. took her nearly 20 years to come around but she finally did and it's pretty wonderful Our OTOH was a loving trooper and worked through her poo poo on her own time/dime and is actually good to him, and I loving love her for it.
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# ¿ Jun 28, 2018 21:10 |
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WrenP-Complete posted:In positive news, I've been thinking about ways to carry stuff that doesn't load weight onto my collarbones/shoulders. Today I have been experimenting with hip bags with leg straps - like tool belts or in fallout/pubg - and I think I'm happy with this level of eccentric presentation. My collarbones are certainly happier.
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# ¿ Jun 30, 2018 23:01 |
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ynohtna posted:I'd suggest using microporous surgical tape to keep patches on. please don't ruin your skin with nail polish!
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# ¿ Jul 4, 2018 16:34 |
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Silver Alicorn posted:tag yourself omg
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# ¿ Jul 31, 2018 09:51 |
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Tatrakrad posted:It's not this place is it? http://www.electrology3000.com
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