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Gaunab posted:Being stylish comes at a cost he's not actually mad at himself, she just doesn't realize she's being played
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I hope it's terrible like trying to wear 1940s zoot suits with big wide brimmed fedora and saying poo poo like, "Hey ho daddy O" and snapping his fingers and doing shooty hands and clicking his tongue.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 20:30 |
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My [18F] now ex girlfriend isn't able to forgive me for watching pornreddit posted:Background on the relationship. Was nearly together for a year. The relationship was okay at first then became rocky and she had little trust for me. Despite this, we decided to give it a go and rebuild. She wasn't okay about her appearance before this. We couldn't be sexually intimate with each other due to circumstances. (Parents, houses)
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 20:47 |
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*huge info dump* edit: oh yeah her head is hosed is that important?
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 20:57 |
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Gaunab posted:You're getting weird man. Nah, I've always been a weird, goony gently caress. I'm just better at filtering it on some days rather than others. That comment was expressly intended to be as inappropriate as possible, so go me. Sometimes I get the hankering to write terrible prose, so I do. Then things like "Atlas Shrugs About Big Gym" happens. It's fun, for me at least. Kid should stop being a creep and playing with his wiener while in the presence of company. corn on the cop posted:*huge info dump* My own mental issues are why I've actively not sought out a relationship for more than six years now. I'd say it's not important at all to most people. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 21:06 on Oct 21, 2016 |
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Someone find me a "my girlfriend thinks porn is the devil" or "help reddit my boyfriend watches porn sometimes and LOVE is OVER" story where the girl is over, say, 25, I want to test my earlier hypothesis edit: also not schizophrenic
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china bot posted:My [18F] now ex girlfriend isn't able to forgive me for watching porn Jack Trades posted:Aaargh! Come oon. EDIT: I can answer my own question. It's low self-esteem. But still, come the gently caress on.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 21:06 |
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Reports that the groups of friends are called by the name "Roc Pile" remain unconfirmed. Making my(27f) husband(33m) choose between his "hobby" and me. My husband of 3 years, together 8+ years, has spent the last 2 years pursuing a (rap) music career. We have 2 boys, 8y and 5y. At first it started casual, Tuesday's at a friends just messing around in the studio, and has escalated to him actively trying to make this his career, building a studio in our basement and having up to 5-6 guys here daily (usually only half bother to show) "working on music" (usually just partying in the basement although I know my husband is trying to do more than party). He's gone through 3 groups of artists in 2 years, built 4 studios in various peoples houses which he lost access to after the groups fell apart, he's had 1 small show in which half his partners forgot their words, and 3 or 4 cancelled shows. We've financed everything alone from all these studios to CDs to liquor and snacks everyday and had my electic bills ran up since sometimes people are here for literally 12 hours, my house shaking with repetitive beats. Our finances are joint and, truthfully I bring in more money. So, basically I'm financing most of it. I've been unbelievably supportive. From helping promote to dealing with his adding every girl in a bikini on facebook to "promote" his music to, to paying out so much money and never making a single dime back or getting a dime of financial help from his partners, to spending long nights in studios with him just so we could still be with eachother, to now losing him every second of the day except maybe an hour late at night to the studio. He still seems to think that this money and time suck is going to make him a millionaire someday despite his being a 33 year old white guy. I've tried talking to him and compromising a million times and I've finally admitted to myself that I can't live this life. I've decided he has to choose between me and his music. I feel so guilty for considering an ultimatum, but at this point we want drastically different things in life. He wanted to settle down and have kids and so we did, and i'm focused on mothering and adulting. Then a year after marriage he decided to become a rapper. If this is what's most important to him, he should be able to choose that and eventually find a woman who wants to live that way. I don't, I've tried and I'm now a miserable snappy person because I'm alone all the time because I don't want to go party in the freaking basement like I'm 17. It's not like he doesn't have other hobbies. Its not like we didn't have career plans. But instead of trying to write a book or open a restaurant like we planned, he delivers pizza and raps. I bartend because it gives me the most time at home with the best income, but now that both kids are in school we had always planned to get day jobs and frankly I want to be able to retire someday. I need a "real job" for that and so does he. Anyways, I know this was a novel. My question is, is this wrong for me to make him choose? I'm against ultimatums. They're not healthy. But I feel like he has to choose. Choose music and seperate and live our seperate lives, or choose me and hang up his mic for good. I feel like a rotten wife but also know at this point neither of us can be happy with this arrangement. Tl;dr: husband wants to be a famous rapper, spends all his time and our money trying to make it happen, I want him to quit it or I'm out. Feel bad for planning to give him an ultimatum, but it I don't, divorce is inevitable anyways.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 21:09 |
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How can I get my husband to consider a sensible career, like restaurant ownership or self-publishing?
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 21:14 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Nah, I've always been a weird, goony gently caress. I'm just better at filtering it on some days rather than others. That comment was expressly intended to be as inappropriate as possible, so go me. Hmm, hth you might want to reign it in, friend.
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Pvt.Scott posted:Nah, I've always been a weird, goony gently caress. I'm just better at filtering it on some days rather than others. That comment was expressly intended to be as inappropriate as possible, so go me. its only okay to sperg about being a sadbrains weirdo that cant get laid in gibbis if ur drunk hth
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:How can I get my husband to consider a sensible career, like restaurant ownership or self-publishing? I bet he talked her into it by saying that his rapping was just like publishing a book of poetry, if you think about it.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:How can I get my husband to consider a sensible career, like restaurant ownership or self-publishing? At least writing a book only requires a copy of Word. But restaurant starting would definitely put them into bankruptcy far more rapidly than Vanilla Ice Jr farting around in the basement with his friends.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:How can I get my husband to consider a sensible career, like restaurant ownership or self-publishing? I didn't even notice this detail, the poo poo she wishes he'd do instead is just as much of a money pit as the indie rap scene scrubs season six posted:At least writing a book only requires a copy of Word. being An Author who is Working On A Book is also a powerful mental enabler for sitting around doing jack poo poo for literal years
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I (26m) took a girl (22f) out on a date, is it a deal breaker that she had a machete in her car? Real talk I met up with a girl who pulled a knife on me the very first time we saw each other in person and told me not to try anything shady. After 10 min of her talking about her life, she wanted to go gently caress in her car, to which I politely declined and severed forever. So like, don't do that.
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Regulation Size posted:Real talk I met up with a girl who pulled a knife on me the very first time we saw each other in person and told me not to try anything shady. After 10 min of her talking about her life, she wanted to go gently caress in her car, to which I politely declined and severed forever. I don't know. She sounds like fun.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:How can I get my husband to consider a sensible career, like restaurant ownership or self-publishing? After working with a number of neophyte, small-time restaurant owners, I no longer consider owning a restaurant a sensible career. Working for an owner is a great job if you love watching failure and neglect slowly consume a business though, and if the owner checks out mentally/emotionally, you can eat for free every day and get away with doing a terrible loving job. im cute fucked around with this message at 21:33 on Oct 21, 2016 |
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Regulation Size posted:After working with a number of neophyte, small-time restaurant owners, I no longer consider owning a restaurant a sensible career.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 21:34 |
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At least a failing restaurant owner can put food on the table, that is not something 30 something failing rappers are known for
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Doomy posted:At least a failing restaurant owner can put food on the table Noice.
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loquacius posted:Someone find me a "my girlfriend thinks porn is the devil" or "help reddit my boyfriend watches porn sometimes and LOVE is OVER" story where the girl is over, say, 25, I want to test my earlier hypothesis I'm actually less tolerant of porn than I used to be because of how many guys have demonstrated to me that it informs their thinking and approach. If it didn't then I wouldn't care.
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i literally cant think of a single white rapper ever that became successful after starting a career in their 30s dudes clearly lookin to make history
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loquacius posted:Someone find me a "my girlfriend thinks porn is the devil" or "help reddit my boyfriend watches porn sometimes and LOVE is OVER" story where the girl is over, say, 25, I want to test my earlier hypothesis quote:My wife [f27] found porn on my [m30] pc and is threatening divorce.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 22:23 |
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Ugh, divorce that wife. She can roam the earth searching for the guy that doesn't jerk it and die alone.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 22:25 |
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jfc beezys be crazy about porn
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Pick posted:I'm actually less tolerant of porn than I used to be because of how many guys have demonstrated to me that it informs their thinking and approach. If it didn't then I wouldn't care. Cause the guys that try to apply porn logic to the real life are just as retarded as the gals that get their knickers in a twist when their dudes whack it to porn.
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Nooner posted:jfc beezys be crazy about porn
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Gaunab posted:My wife [f27] found porn on my [m30] pc and is threatening divorce. Is it because people who don't validate ridiculous views have this problem just go away on its own? Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:38 on Oct 21, 2016 |
# ? Oct 21, 2016 22:35 |
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How insecure do you have to be to be jealous of masturbation.
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There is a post in purgatory, I'm posting to try to fix it.Nooner posted:jfc beezys be crazy about porn
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quote:I [20F] just found that my friend's [20F] parents [40s F/M] warned my boyfriend's [23M] parents [60s M/F] about me when we started dating. I don't know if it's because I read so many of these, but the first thing that popped into my head was that he was lying to her. Most of the comments on reddit are telling her to ghost her friend though.
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Pick posted:I'm actually less tolerant of porn than I used to be because of how many guys have demonstrated to me that it informs their thinking and approach. If it didn't then I wouldn't care. I'm gonna invert an axiom here and say "don't hate the game, hate the player" because it's not hard to be able to tell porn fiction from reality as an adult Gaunab posted:I don't know if it's because I read so many of these, but the first thing that popped into my head was that he was lying to her. Most of the comments on reddit are telling her to ghost her friend though. I honestly blame the friend's parents on this one. My take is that they saw their daughter hanging out with "the bad crowd" and decided that the problem was the big bad OP corrupting their pure sweet angel and then proceeded to be middle-aged busybodies about it. Also the boyfriend was being an idiot letting that inform his perception of her (also: a manchild about alcohol, I wonder if his family is Mormon) Leon Einstein posted:Ugh, divorce that wife. She can roam the earth searching for the guy that doesn't jerk it and die alone. honestly even more than the porn thing I thought the "there are plenty of guys who'd love to be in your shoes" thing was a red flag but yeah a good comeback to that would have been "they'd change their minds if they knew your porn policy"
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Glenn Quebec posted:I hope it's terrible like trying to wear 1940s zoot suits with big wide brimmed fedora and saying poo poo like, "Hey ho daddy O" and snapping his fingers and doing shooty hands and clicking his tongue. I hope he visited You Look Like poo poo and is following goon advice to buy sheets of raw denim to cut and sew into his own jeans, which he never washes.
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Leon Einstein posted:Ugh, divorce that wife. She can roam the earth searching for the guy that doesn't jerk it and die alone. I'm the guy. I've never jerked it.
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loquacius posted:I'm gonna invert an axiom here and say "don't hate the game, hate the player" because it's not hard to be able to tell porn fiction from reality as an adult I know we often agree on stuff, but I disagree on this. I don't think people are nearly as good at separating fiction and reality as they think they are. If they were, advertising and marketing wouldn't work. It's quite clear that there are grown-rear end loving adults who are influenced by the media they consume, in this case pornography. I think a lot of men thinking that all women are size queens is an attitude that is heavily reinforced by pornography, for example.
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Pick posted:I know we often agree on stuff, but I disagree on this. I don't think people are nearly as good at separating fiction and reality as they think they are. If they were, advertising and marketing wouldn't work. It's quite clear that there are grown-rear end loving adults who are influenced by the media they consume, in this case pornography. I think a lot of men thinking that all women are size queens is an attitude that is heavily reinforced by pornography, for example. I freely admit that I was working off of no knowledge of the exact thinking and approach you were making reference to and assumed it was guys thinking women love it when you bust in their faces or tear their clothing or something (e: or do the James Deen thing where you grab their cheeks and stare intensely into their eyes), but I am gonna say that if you're waiting for a guy who is not corrupted by porn and also isn't a fundie with really weird views RE sex for a multitude of non-porn-related reasons, you might be waiting a while.
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quote:Because of this, my aunt & uncle treat him like he’s made of glass, but they also treat him like he’s much younger than he is. They have issues letting him grow up, basically. So real quick, here’s some of the weird stuff they do: Would you rather: have alcoholics for parents or have these people for parents? I'm going with the people who at least let me poo poo on my own schedule.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:21 |
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Pick posted:I know we often agree on stuff, but I disagree on this. I don't think people are nearly as good at separating fiction and reality as they think they are. If they were, advertising and marketing wouldn't work. It's quite clear that there are grown-rear end loving adults who are influenced by the media they consume, in this case pornography. I think a lot of men thinking that all women are size queens is an attitude that is heavily reinforced by pornography, for example. It's not the porn. It's that the guys are retarded. Or extremely inexperienced. Or both. As a non retard I can watch pornography without thinking that women want nine inch hog legs and the most appropriate place for semen is always in her eyeballs.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:23 |
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My girlfriend tells me to jerk it and has no qualms about it because we both know that the mood strikes us sometimes and it's perfectly healthy. I don't get these crazy weirdos who think that porn and masturbation is the worst thing ever. It's bizarre to shame people for the most normal thing in human history.
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I [26M] slept with my best friend's sister [19F].quote:I've been best friends with the same guy since college and have known his sister for about 3 years. She decided to go to the same college that we did (which is close to where we both live) and would occasionally come hang out with us or bring her friends over to his house.
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