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WampaLord posted:I dunno, I think the idea that the girl's damaged goods just because she hosed his friend is stupid. There's literally nothing different about her from when he was interested in her. getting rejected and being the fall back choice is a great start to a relationship.
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WampaLord posted:I dunno, I think the idea that the girl's damaged goods just because she hosed his friend is stupid. There's literally nothing different about her from when he was interested in her. "I was wrong, she shot me down. No big deal I move on, one of my friends starts sleeping with her and as is par for his course dumps her after about a month. She then tries to hit me up again and this time I reject her, she flips her poo poo because she say's I'm sexist for rejecting her because she had sex with one of my friends. This was not the reason"
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 19:35 |
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Eh, the adult thing to do after someone says they're not interested in you is to move on. How she behaved after he said he wasn't interested just shows his decision was the right one.
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china bot posted:"I was wrong, she shot me down. No big deal I move on, one of my friends starts sleeping with her and as is par for his course dumps her after about a month. She then tries to hit me up again and this time I reject her, she flips her poo poo because she say's I'm sexist for rejecting her because she had sex with one of my friends. This was not the reason" Yea, he says that on the Internet so as to appeal cool and enlightened, but you know it's part of the reason. bone app the teeth posted:getting rejected and being the fall back choice is a great start to a relationship. Who said anything about relationship? You can try one date at first.
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 19:37 |
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WampaLord posted:There's literally nothing different about her from when he was interested in her. yes there is. the difference is that now he knows she's not really interested in him. it's usually a bad idea to try to start a relationship with someone who isn't really interested in you WampaLord posted:Yea, he says that on the Internet so as to appeal cool and enlightened, but you know it's part of the reason. ok i guess if we're just making things up then i wouldn't date someone with scraggly teeth either. nasty boner confessor fucked around with this message at 19:40 on Nov 16, 2016 |
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WampaLord posted:Yea, he says that on the Internet so as to appeal cool and enlightened, but you know it's part of the reason. You might as well also presume that she turned him down the first time because he asked her out at gun point this is "death of the author" the thread, motherfucker
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i respect him for not forcing a relationship because she wanted it
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 19:41 |
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WampaLord posted:Yea, he says that on the Internet so as to appeal cool and enlightened, but you know it's part of the reason. Why would he be obligated to give her a date? Nobody needs an excuse to not date someone, you weirdo.
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Leon Einstein posted:Why would he be obligated to give her a date? Nobody needs an excuse to not date someone, you weirdo. Where did I claim he was obligated? Calm your poo poo. I'm willing to accept that I'm wrong and that her post-rejection reaction is enough to put her in the "crazy" pile, honestly I just wanted to argue for the sake of arguing. Also the situation reminded me of the girl from Funny People who went on a pretty cool rant about how it was weird that the dude was no longer into her just cause she hosed his friend. E: VVV "used up psycho" okay then
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WampaLord posted:Yea, he says that on the Internet so as to appeal cool and enlightened, but you know it's part of the reason. Since you're not taking the author at his word, I'm going to do the same with you: stop projecting your weird insecurities onto the redditer, you used up psycho. Edit And it isn't a one way street. I'm sure plenty of women aren't interested in sleeping with their friend's ex-boyfriends.
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A good question to ask is why was she not interested in him before and interested in him later was it (a) he suddenly and inexplicably became more attractive, perhaps with Captain America's Super-Soldier Serum (b) she isn't really interested in him now either but wants to feel better after the other guy dumped her (c) she wants to use him to make the other guy jealous or (d) she already knew she wanted to get with the other guy instead and thought that getting involved with more than one person in the same friend group would complicate things It probably wasn't (a), he's totally in the right if it's (b) or (c), and she's a massive hypocrite if it's (d) But at any rate, if someone turns you down for a date, it's never the correct course of action to "argue the point". He didn't do it when she turned him down, and she doesn't really gain anything by doing it now. What is her goal here? Should he say "You're right, it is totally sexist of me to not date you, let's begin a healthy and stable relationship now"?
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Feeling differently after finding out you're a consolation prize is not the same as avoiding sloppy seconds.
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WampaLord posted:I dunno, I think the idea that the girl's damaged goods just because she hosed his friend is stupid. There's literally nothing different about her from when he was interested in her. There's also literally nothing different about him from when she was not interested in him.
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Leon Einstein posted:Feeling differently after finding out you're a consolation prize is not the same as avoiding sloppy seconds. No you don't understand he's literally sexist pig for not immediately being grateful to have this goddesses attention despite the fact that she's clearly only using him for a rebound.
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 19:58 |
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That mom should fill her kid's iPod with cool poo poo, like The Smiths, Morrissey, and Brand New. Throw in Mindless Self Indulgence, Iron Maiden, first wave punk, new wave 80s, classical, folk and country, old rear end blues and jazz, old and new hip hop, r&b, gently caress it, some bluegrass. Coheed, Rush, Bowie, Beatles, Elvis (The King and Costello) some solid house anthems and a bunch of other poo poo. Then be like, explore, try listening on random. Let me know what you like, or want to hear more of. Here's some Marvin Gaye and some Immortal Technique, now go play outside!
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Ride The Gravitron posted:No you don't understand he's literally sexist pig for not immediately being grateful to have this goddesses attention despite the fact that she's clearly only using him for a rebound. Feminism means I can gently caress whoever I want and they're not allowed to say no, right
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 20:02 |
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Immortal Technique is not a very good rapper and has a song called Bush Brought Down the Towers e/ I mean his heart is in the right place, but goddamn having been at a show and seeing people chanting that along at the chorus was loving lol worthy in the extreme
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JFairfax posted:Immortal Technique is not a very good rapper and has a song called Bush Brought Down the Towers
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I'm Immortal Technique and I'm here to say steel beams 9/11 cuck & I am gay
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 20:11 |
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immortal technique sucks poo poo
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 20:41 |
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Not very funny but geez:quote:So, let me start from the beginning.
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 20:54 |
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stump collector posted:i'd much rather smell like poo poo out of spite than spend 5-10 minutes cleaning something. such is the way of the bushido Guessing if the whole place smells like poo poo and piss, the cat is probably going elsewhere because the idiot owners don't clean its box. I say gently caress it, if they don't want to do the bare minimum to clean up and use the roomie's weed habit against him, then take the cat to a shelter and dump the litterbox. At least the cat will get cared for and potentially adopted by someone that knows what the gently caress they're doing.
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 20:55 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Not very funny but geez:
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:01 |
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"overall a good guy"
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P-Mack posted:"overall a good guy" Only good guy in that story is the cop who said 'sever'. Jfc.
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:14 |
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what's so bad about a guy who destroys your credit, skeeves out your parents, abuses substances, lies and emotionally abuses you? High standards ITT
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54 40 or gently caress posted:what's so bad about a guy who destroys your credit, skeeves out your parents, abuses substances, lies and emotionally abuses you? High standards ITT they had sex three times a day before his dick swole up like a clown's balloon
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:17 |
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:oh lol woops 2016 encapsulated in three words!
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:21 |
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quote:My boyfriend [24] made me [20] cry in public last night
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:22 |
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loving teenagers
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That's the point though. You have to put some legitimately bad music with terrible opinions in there. Like put some Hollywood Undead and Insane Clown Posse on that iPod and use the Rod of Correction if your spawn starts jamming on it. E: oh man, I forgot all the cool chick singers I like. Tori Amos, Björk, PJ Harvey, Portishead, Garbage, Hole...Placebo... Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 21:38 on Nov 16, 2016 |
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Leon Einstein posted:loving teenagers
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:35 |
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Is breaking up really really hard? I've never had to do it, so that's the only reason I have in my head as to why so many people are staying with these loving terrible people.
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WampaLord posted:Is breaking up really really hard? I've never had to do it, so that's the only reason I have in my head as to why so many people are staying with these loving terrible people. Yes. Loss and rejection can cause extreme emotional pain and even causes physical pain. Heartbreak is literal. People tend to avoid discomfort. E: your brain is a strange and wondrous meat computer. Physical pain due to severance in order to make you averse to ending relationships is nature's way of encouraging you to stay together to have and raise children. Once you experience it a few times you don't want to continue the trend. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 22:03 on Nov 16, 2016 |
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Khorne posted:There's no way she didn't add 5 years to each of their ages.
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 21:58 |
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WampaLord posted:Is breaking up really really hard? I've never had to do it, so that's the only reason I have in my head as to why so many people are staying with these loving terrible people.
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WampaLord posted:Is breaking up really really hard? I've never had to do it, so that's the only reason I have in my head as to why so many people are staying with these loving terrible people. It's actually kind of difficult considering all of the societal and emotional baggage people bring into relationships. Also a lot of these posters likely have co-dependent tendencies and wrap themselves up in their partners enough to not see the damage until it's too late.
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So it's not on r/relationships (yet!) but I saw a shitshow explode over the past week I wouldn't be surprised to see pop up there. If he posts it'll be "My girlfriend (21F) dumped me, got me (28M) evicted from my home and stole my friends stuff and money what can I do?" and she might post the follow up "My roommate/ex (28m) got black out drunk and smashed our apartment and everything in it, now I'm (21F) in trouble for a 'self remedy' eviction!" It really is a bingo card of bad choices made. A 20 year old following her 27 year old boyfriend across the country, addiction, choosing to live with an ex to try and win them back, and punching a guitar. Should I post the details or is that too off topic? Since it's technically not on reddit?
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# ? Nov 16, 2016 22:15 |
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Not relationships butquote:
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gentle pete posted:Not relationships but I'm honestly a little surprised the firefighters didn't hurt him for that.
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