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Antivehicular posted:My favorite part of childfree rant communities is how the posters always have the most juvenile taste possible, setting up an infinite cycle of self-ownage where they go out to Harry Potter events/children's films/McDonalds/etc. and are totally incensed that their childish hobby is shared by children. If I couldn't stand the thought of seeing a kid when I go out, I'd probably take up wine tasting or skydiving or going to hardcore punk shows or something, but what do I know? quote:I collect toys, specifically 80s My Little Pony and Care Bears. My town has a nice antique mall, and sometimes I visit store to store. Every once in a while I'll pop in a store and the owner will ask me what exactly it is I'm looking for.
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Antivehicular posted:My favorite part of childfree rant communities is how the posters always have the most juvenile taste possible, setting up an infinite cycle of self-ownage where they go out to Harry Potter events/children's films/McDonalds/etc. and are totally incensed that their childish hobby is shared by children. If I couldn't stand the thought of seeing a kid when I go out, I'd probably take up wine tasting or skydiving or going to hardcore punk shows or something, but what do I know? "I sleep in a racing car. Do you?" "I sleep in a big bed with my wife."
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From ChildFree.quote:Was in a car accident, sister lost her baby. No one cares that I lost my cat.
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Nov 23, 2016 03:29
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I mean without the childfree flavor I'm kinda sympathizing with her? Especially since the sister didn't seem actually hurt during the accident. That sucks for both of them.
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That's not funny, that sucks.  Vitriolic and unreliable a narrator as she is, that sister still is pretty directly responsible for her cat being gone forever and almost certainly dead.
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Tender Bender posted:I mean without the childfree flavor I'm kinda sympathizing with her? Especially since the sister didn't seem actually hurt during the accident. That sucks for both of them. yuh it sucks that she lost the cat, but it's like.... "everyone cares that my sister miscarried, and no-one wants to look for my cat (except all the people that offered to look for my cat)"
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Tears In A Vial posted:From ChildFree. What. The. gently caress. And the sister was probably rightly freaking out, in shock, likely in pain. Responsible yes, blame worthy no.
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Nov 23, 2016 03:50
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I wonder how reliable the part that said the sister wanted to abort the baby anyway was, because that is a key point
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loquacius posted:I wonder how reliable the part that said the sister wanted to abort the baby anyway was, because that is a key point That bit and the whole "My sister did the exact thing I yelled at her not to at the very specific moment where a truck hit our car" sound like STDH to me. She comes off like she's trying really hard to make her sister out as the bad guy in order to justify the whole "lol miscarriages who cares" stance which holy gently caress she failed at 
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Tears In A Vial posted:From ChildFree. While this is sad, all I can picture is a cat flying out of a window into the forest complete with the stock cat scream.
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Gaunab posted:While this is sad, all I can picture is a cat flying out of a window into the forest complete with the stock cat scream. Slasher films have to get their spring-loaded cats from somewhere, right?
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boner confessor posted:if you actively dislike children at all you are broken  I don't feel the same way most 'childfree' people do (I usually don't use that word to describe myself because I don't base my whole personality around not having kids lmao). I don't go out of my way to be an rear end in a top hat to parents and their children, I don't want to hurt children and I don't wish for bad things to happen to them, and I'm glad for my friends who had kids and are happy. but I still dislike being around children a lot. so does my husband.  like for me it's just personal stuff (trauma, etc) and I can't stand loud noises/screaming so I don't wanna deal with that, and I'm lucky to have a partner who feels the same way. but I think the people on the childfree subreddit are lovely and gross, and usually really drat childish. I'm probably broken tho, you're right
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Gaunab posted:While this is sad, all I can picture is a cat flying out of a window into the forest complete with the stock cat scream. thank you for this image because it's hilarious, and I can hear the exact cat scream you're referring to.
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The Snoo posted:
Well that's not actively disliking them is it, you're not complaining when you see them places and insulting people with kids.
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My dad summed it up probably decently with "you give a poo poo about your kids. Idgaf about other people's kids"
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Kids are great, I just want to not pay for them/be able to lounge around/drink irresponsibly
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54 40 or gently caress posted:My best friend doesn't like kids, and she never wants kids. She is still super pumped to be a "vodka aunt" and hang out with this mombie's crotchspawn. I feel this gets thrown out a lot but I genuinely think a good deal of the people on that subreddit are autistic. when they talk about the sounds they talk about their ears ringing, how hearing the loud noises drives them into a fit of anger etc and it just pings the spectrum alarm for overstimulation I've experienced this during periods of extreme social anxiety, mania and hypomania. It wasn't just screaming children, but any very loud noises were like daggers in my brain. My first reaction is just to go make it stop, OH GOD gently caress SHUT IT UUUUUUP! Fortunately, I possess a modicum of self-control and empathy and realize that the roofer/screaming child across the street is not trying to ruin my day. I still spend time with my little cousins even if I'm not super feeling it, because kids are cool and they won't be young forever. So maybe I have to sneak off for a smoke every once in a while for some quiet on my bad days, at least I exist in their world. I'd love my own little chilluns, but I don't have the means, so I help my cousin with her kids. Anyway, not autistic.
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Pvt.Scott posted:during periods of extreme social anxiety, mania and hypomania. It wasn't just screaming children, but any very loud noises were like daggers in my brain. Similarly (bipolar I) I have issues with loud noises, busy places, social anxiety, etc, particularly when strange children are running rampant in public places, I get super frustrated and really pissed off. I have definitely uttered "I loving hate kids", and it makes me worried when I have nieces/nephews/god kids. That said, one on one, I generally get along with a solitary child and I'm super excited to give the phrase "vodka aunt" to my soon to be pregnant best friends.
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Naerasa posted:r/childfree makes me embarassed to not want kids because I don't want people thinking I'm judging them for their broodlings or fuckwads or whatever. I love kids and I think they're awesome, I just don't think I'd be a good parent based on a variety of genetic/personality factors. I'll spoil the poo poo out of other people's kids though, don't you worry. Gimme five minutes with a kid and I'm buying him an ice cream and a nintendo. hey i have a kid and it sucks sometimes. it's also really great sometimes, like the best thing ever. but kids aren't for everyone. if you dont feel like kids fit into your lifestyle, don't have kids, there's nothing wrong with that. it's actually really good to have the confidence to say you don't want to take this huge life step. maybe you're missing out, maybe you aren't. in fact, there's a good symbiotic relationship between people who don't have kids but like kids and parents, when i'm at a party and i bring my kid i'm like yes please play with my kid, get your fun in, you get 15-20 minutes of low key babysitting for kicks and i get that same time to just sort of keep an eye out but also not have to watch my kid for once. a kid can't have enough fun uncles or aunties. dont feel guilty, it's the people who get soured on guilt or anger or stress or whatever re: kids who end up posting creepy rants on r/childfree
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Devian666 posted:That shouldn't have been posted to childfree the cat is obviously his child. this is the other creepy thing, all the childfree people i know irl way overcompensate with animals as surrogate children The Snoo posted:like for me it's just personal stuff (trauma, etc) and I can't stand loud noises/screaming so I don't wanna deal with that, and I'm lucky to have a partner who feels the same way. but I think the people on the childfree subreddit are lovely and gross, and usually really drat childish. i have a toddler, i get it, kids can be obnoxious little fuckers sometimes, but if someone is all "a kid made loud noises and RUINED my trip to the ice cream store" something is wrong with them e: i taught my daughter how to hit me in the face with a pillow tonight pros: she spontaneously started counting 1-2-3 before she hit me with it, which made me proud cons: she was way too into the idea of beating me about the head and neck with some object. it's weird because all kids are literally sociopaths because they haven't learned empathy and or social behavior yet boner confessor fucked around with this message at 08:08 on Nov 23, 2016 |
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54 40 or gently caress posted:thank you for this image because it's hilarious, and I can hear the exact cat scream you're referring to. Right here, dog. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvxDs7jGBHM
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Submitted 7 hours ago:quote:Girl [23F] I was dating ghost me [27M]. Still suffering Meanwhile, in his post history, on a post submitted 9 months ago: quote:After a few more days of her seeming distant, I told her that we seemed out of sync for the past few days and that if something was bothering her that she should let me know. She replied by saying she didn't think she was ready for things to be serious between us. Surprised and thinking she was breaking things off, I came back with a snappy response and we didn't talk for two days, the longest we had gone without talking since our first date 3 months earlier. quote:After about 10 more days, I texted her again saying that I was really sorry about her dog and asking if we could please talk. I finally got a response... Buddy got dumped straight up almost a year ago and still hasn't realized it. She even told him and he still didn't notice. 
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How soon is too soon to make the move to close the distance? Or, how do I judge whether doing so is too hasty? 1727 MILES OR-MNquote:So here's the long of it: my SO and I met through facebook months ago, and we have a rather serendipitous story.....it still awes both of us that we found each other and actually made things come to pass. I had been in a 7-year relationship that I had been dissatisfied with for the better part of a year, and had questioned on and off for even longer--particularly after meeting my now-SO in person for the first time. He was very supportive through the messy breakup, and after a short but painful period spent not speaking because it was dishonest to my now-ex, we've enjoyed a deluge of pent-up expressions of the love we've known we have for one another. I've been "officially" with him for about a month now, although the clear inevitability of us made it feel like it's been official since the beginning. Our love really feels like the soulmate variety, and our energies, personalities, and head spaces match up so incredibly well it's almost surreal that we were brought together. In person, the connection is electric, kinetic, and better than I've ever experienced. I normally consider myself a skeptic rivaling Dana Scully, but even I started wondering if some unknowable force in the universe wasn't bringing us together. His is a presence I want and need featured prominently in my life. Yall.. 
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I don't know what would be more insane, moving that far for someone or doing a 9 year long distance relationship.
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gently caress it, move somewhere else equally distant and do both. When asked why just say love will prevail.
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loving 9 years, this guy is retarded.
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The X-Files reference and the fact that one person involved has a (presumably) 9-year-old daughter both point towards "everyone involved is way too loving old to be acting this adolescent," but I guess emotional adolescence doesn't really have an age ceiling.
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Antivehicular posted:My favorite part of childfree rant communities is how the posters always have the most juvenile taste possible, setting up an infinite cycle of self-ownage where they go out to Harry Potter events/children's films/McDonalds/etc. and are totally incensed that their childish hobby is shared by children. If I couldn't stand the thought of seeing a kid when I go out, I'd probably take up wine tasting or skydiving or going to hardcore punk shows or something, but what do I know? My favorite childfree rant post is still the infamous Harry Potter book unboxing event that made the rounds years back. I do admit to wondering what that person is up to and if they're still bemoaning the loss of the nerdly honor they swore they would've treasured forever.
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r/childfree is about to have a new member soon it seemsquote:My [30M] BIL is famous. He and his wife leave his children with us when they need to do Media appearances. I want to break up
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Gaunab posted:r/childfree is about to have a new member soon it seems What does she mean by "break up?" Like, get divorced so he's not her brother in law any more or "break up" with the BIL by no longer letting him hand off his kids?
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M_Sinistrari posted:My favorite childfree rant post is still the infamous Harry Potter book unboxing event that made the rounds years back. I do admit to wondering what that person is up to and if they're still bemoaning the loss of the nerdly honor they swore they would've treasured forever. RANT TIME Harry Potter book release: don't worry, no spoilers. Showed up at seven, in full costume for a nine am release. Devoted no? I was one of the few to dress up, and I was the best-dressed. I'm not being vain, I honestly had the most detailed and accurate costume there. We were told in line, that the best-dressed person in line gets to open the box and have the first Half-Blood Prince book. So, I'm a shoo-in, aren't I? WRONG. loving moo brings her bratty sprog in at 8:59am dressed in a generic Kmart cape with stars and glitter and loving gaudy BLAH. Twig for a wand. OMG WITTLE PWESHUS SO CUTE OMG YOU CAN OPEN THE BOX AND HAVE THIS BOOK YOU CAN'T READ AND *fawning fawning, blatant breederism etc* THE loving KID WON'T EVEN REMEMBER THIS. THE BOX OPENING WAS MINE. MIIIIINE. I wouldn't have minded if someone had said "Oh look Sass, you are best-dressed but would you mind if this land-mine amputee opened the box instead?" I would have said "Absolutely no problem. Go for it." But no. loving CROTCHDROPPING GETS THE HONOUR. I'm furious. On principle of course, not out of any sense of entitlement. Well yes, entitlement also. But I WORKED FOR IT, I DESERVED IT. I made an effort. I spent money making an effort. I showed up early. I will remember and treasure this event for ever and eternity. And I'm passed over for an ugly little brat with a sparkly tie. Woo loving woo. I didn't stab her in the eye with my wand. I WANTED to. I talked about doing so VERY loving LOUDLY. I was going to eviscerate her mother with the cover of my brand-new copy. I loving hate breeders and child-lovers. loving GO TO HELL. I'm so pissed about this, sorry. It's just that in ten years time, this kid won't remember what she was doing on July 16th 2005. In ten years time, I will be remembering how I was deprived of this nerdly honor by an opportunistic twat breeder and her shitling. I'm hurt. All my life, nothing has gotten to me more than being deliberately ignored, or passed over. Honestly; that's the sort of thing that can make me cry in public. Or key your car. Or viciously murder you and your family in the heat of frustration and never-ending denial Congratulations breeders, you win. Edited to add: To all of you who are calling me immature etc, I'd like to add that you make a very good point, but have you considered GO gently caress YOURSELF? If you're so anal-retentive, go back to the other community and go on with your breeder-humping. Also, to the person who submitted this to fandom_wank, I seriously (no sarcasm) thank you. I've always wanted to be there!
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WampaLord posted:What does she mean by "break up?" OP's comments in the thread: quote:My wife, I'm a man. She loves the kids because she barely see's them. Her brother naturally lives in a rich as gently caress part of the state which is a fair drive away. She's happy when she gets to see them. quote:She told me she's going to leave me anyway if we don't have kids soon, so may as well divorce.
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Bonzo posted:OP's comments in the thread: Wow. Prioritizing having children over your relationship is a sign that it's not a relationship worth having
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:Wow. Prioritizing having children over your relationship is a sign that it's not a relationship worth having This but without the implied judgment. Whether or not you want to have kids is an extremely important decision and you need to make sure your spouse is on the same page as you about it or one of you will be resentful for the rest of your life.
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Lmao 'breederism'. That's great, I know someone who would have a similar meltdown. I pity them, truly
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