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yeah whenever i've had a difficult partner it hasn't been physical it's been mental so you gotta trick the girl into liking what you're doing to her is what i'm saying
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ice never had an orgasm
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:25 |
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that didn't get me kicked out of cvs
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:25 |
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timefly posted:Sometimes you're the only one who can do it and sex doesn't provide the right type of stimulation, and/or you can't get in the zone mentally if you're distracted by a partner "You're just knocking me out of the zone flailing around back there, you hairy oaf. Just nut already so I can get myself off to this 100,000 word Brisco County Jr./Dr. Who slash fiction."
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:28 |
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quote:My (22F) mom (52F) refuses to attend college graduation unless I lose 20 lbs, fat shames me and I've started loathing myself because of it.
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Leon Einstein posted:I guess some women might be physically incapable of orgasms, but I'm guessing the ones that never cum have never masturbated and feel it is shameful. I'm confused are you making a distinction between cumming and an orgasm? Or are you just saying that in most cases not having had an orgasm is a mental thing rather than a physical thing? timefly posted:Sometimes you're the only one who can do it and sex doesn't provide the right type of stimulation, and/or you can't get in the zone mentally if you're distracted by a partner Yes both of these are a thing. When I can tell I'm just not figuring out what needs to be done I'll just ask them "how do you do it when you're alone, I need some guidance here" *admittedly awkward laugh*. Often they're happy to oblige. Sometimes I've heard "ewww I don't do that I'm not a pervert" and been really confused on how to take that because here you are having sex with a man you barely know and yet masturbation seems perverted to you. Those also tended to be the ones who didn't do their part and seemed to think that a woman's job in the bedroom is to simply lay back and be humped. I remember when I was in high school it was called the starfish, that is just spreading out all of your limbs and laying unmoving on the bed. It can be very disturbing. I hate to be dramatic but it feels quite a bit like rape when there is no movement and little feedback.
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:31 |
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that one is just really sad not opening up the argument about posting/not posting the sad ones, just that's insanely depressing
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:32 |
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Exercise is only one component of weight loss, and has less impact than diet. Eat less, fatty. Also, punch your mom.
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:33 |
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Gaunab posted:My (22F) mom (52F) refuses to attend college graduation unless I lose 20 lbs, fat shames me and I've started loathing myself because of it. In my somewhat limited experience, the parents are very often the cause of preteen and teenage eating disorders. Fathers and mothers equally. This girl is going to be fine because she's grown up and knows full well how full of poo poo her mom is. Still, it'd be hard to feel close to someone that shallow. I'd say just invite everyone else you want to to the graduation and tell her she can come if she wants, either way who cares.
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:34 |
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My boyfriend [22m of 8 months] suddenly started smelling like.... ammonia?! What do I do? This one is funnier without the details quote:My 32F Boyfriend 34M of 3 years. His ex (34F) from when he was in his 20s, has had access to his Facebook for years, compiled all of his messages. And wants to give them to me and says I need to see them, not sure how to navigate this. What do I do?? Trust my significant other of three years or his insane ex suffering from borderline personality disorder? Tough.. quote:My (21M) family just had an intervention with me regarding my GF (27F) of two years. I am so broken. I know what I need to do, but I lack the wherewithal to do it. Codependency is a HELLUVA drug Play fucked around with this message at 23:46 on Dec 6, 2016 |
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quote:My [25M] brother [19M] has become a misogynist
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:45 |
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Another victim of Reddit propaganda.
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# ? Dec 6, 2016 23:47 |
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Gaunab posted:tl;dr: My brother made some misogynist remarks toward our sister and revealed that he holds some unsavory opinions about women. Haven't talked to him since, how should I approach him and try to get him to change his outlook? You can't. He's found a place to lay the blame for all of his inadequacies and everything that has gone wrong with his life. Likely these opinions have been brewing for a while due to a lack of sexual and employment opportunities. Now the same group of people can be blamed for it all, and very likely he's got an online community ready to enable and reinforce these opinions. If you don't share them you're just a dumb sheep who hasn't taken the red pill, so it double as a way to make himself feel better and more intelligent than those around him. I wouldn't say its impossible, but it is depressingly hard to break someone from this pattern of thinking. And the more it begins to effect their lives in a negative way, the more "confirmation" they see of their beliefs.
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Play posted:My boyfriend [22m of 8 months] suddenly started smelling like.... ammonia?! What do I do? I started reading the one about the crazy ex thinking it was the ammonia one and was really confused. Anyone, if the ex has had his facebook log in for months and months, how can she be sure the ex didn't fabricate those messages herself?
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 00:06 |
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Play posted:I'm confused are you making a distinction between cumming and an orgasm? Or are you just saying that in most cases not having had an orgasm is a mental thing rather than a physical thing?
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 00:10 |
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That 19 year old that no longer lives at home who is eating a free meal with his family that is still together and interacting has it all figured out.
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Syncopated posted:I[27 M] asked my girlfriend of 4 months [24 F] to leave last night. Was I wrong to do so? as the bard said, And that's about the time she walked away from me Nobody likes you when you're 23 And you're still more amused by TV shows What the hell is ADD? My friends say I should act my age What's my age again? What's my age again?
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 00:54 |
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Leon Einstein posted:No distinction. I'm just saying that if a woman can't get herself off, she can't expect a guy to do it. And yes, I believe it's mostly mental. How many poor, poor women go through life chasing the orgasm dragon and never seem to catch it? That's a depressing thought.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 01:24 |
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Tom Gorman posted:In my opinion as an old dude, video games are a goddamn menace to relationships. I'll just say that. If she seems like she doesn't care that you're playing Dark Souls for 6 hours, she really does but isn't at the point where it has become frustrating yet. Or maybe she doesn't give a poo poo, in which case, good on you. But be sure before you assume that. Sometimes a game can be the thing that couples can do together and enjoy their free time. But most commonly, it isn't. Spending time together is important, and 6 hours is a hell of a long stretch of time to spend in a computer cave if you have a job and a relationship. It may seem counter intuitive but bringing my xbox and gaming chair into our bedroom helped my wife and I out with this. Even though we're doing completely different things, just being in the same room is still spending time together because we can still talk, laugh, etc. I do use a headset but try to reserve it for when she's asleep or heavily invested in something. I wasn't heavily obsessed with video games or anything. It was just frustrating that the room our interests took place in rarely aligned. Granted, this relies heavily on my wife being able to go to sleep regardless of light or noise but whatever. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 01:26 on Dec 7, 2016 |
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My (22 F) boyfriend (23 M) has poop stains in his underwear all the time. Help.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 01:46 |
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100 degrees Calcium posted:My (22 F) boyfriend (23 M) has poop stains in his underwear all the time. Help. oh poo poo don't skidmarkshame me
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 01:48 |
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black boxer briefs = best underwear
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 01:54 |
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:It may seem counter intuitive but bringing my xbox and gaming chair into our bedroom helped my wife and I out with this. Even though we're doing completely different things, just being in the same room is still spending time together because we can still talk, laugh, etc. I do use a headset but try to reserve it for when she's asleep or heavily invested in something. Yeah it's the same for me. Obviously there still has to be boundaries, even though you are physically together and that's nice a distinction needs to be drawn between that and actually "being there" with full attention for your SO. But my girlfriend and I have lived together for some time, we spend a lot of time together, and a lot of the time there's really no pressing need to talk about anything. Sometimes we watch a movie or show together, sometimes I want to watch something she doesn't really like (action movies, thriller, animated poo poo, one player video games) or just want to browse and read websites. She does her own thing on her tablet/phone and watches the shows I can't stand. It's much better than doing the same thing alone, somehow. Tom Gorman posted:brown boxer briefs = best underwear
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:09 |
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MF_James posted:oh poo poo don't skidmarkshame me You definitely need clean underwear if you are going to be dominated by a white master with your buff girlfriend.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:18 |
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If my GF made a rude remark about my skidded grundies i'd fly off the handle and rummage through the dirty washing trying to find something, anything that will prove that she is also disgusting (like any normal man would)
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:22 |
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Jeff Sichoe posted:If my GF made a rude remark about my skidded grundies i'd fly off the handle and rummage through the dirty washing trying to find something, anything that will prove that she is also disgusting (like any normal man would) Oh that's easy, period panties.every woman has at least one pair.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Oh that's easy, period panties.every woman has at least one pair. one pair more like most pairs you can try your hardest not to get your good panties dirty but aunt flo will sneak up on you and ruin all your best laid plans
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:32 |
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Troposphere posted:one pair more like most pairs Isn't that the worst!?
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:34 |
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why is that a free pass tho? like I could say something cute about ole unkle terd man who visits my lowers and deposits a little brown present for me every couple of days still gross
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Jeff Sichoe posted:why is that a free pass tho? like I could say something cute about ole unkle terd man who visits my lowers and deposits a little brown present for me every couple of days I mean you can stop yourself from making GBS threads your pants or you know, wipe correctly and not get skid marks but sometimes vags just spray blood unexpectedly and theres nothing you can do about it
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:37 |
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like I have colitis and have the worst shits and I don't leave skid marks like drat just wipe your rear end it's not hard
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Jeff Sichoe posted:why is that a free pass tho? like I could say something cute about ole unkle terd man who visits my lowers and deposits a little brown present for me every couple of days Because you could have a tampon in, pad on and take every defensive measure but god help you if you sneeze. It's like that scene from The Shining when the elevator doors open
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:44 |
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I've skidded a time or two in my life, but I wouldn't call it a frequent experience.... like, south of yearly for sure.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:46 |
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My mid-30s co-worker told me once she's never had an orgasm and I'm pretty sure I stared at her with complete horror on my face. I don't even get it. I find it really easy to orgasm, but still...never once in 30+ years did this woman find anything to make her orgasm. Her husband cheats on her at least once a year and I'm sure it's because she hates sex, but then he married her knowing that so I think they both are kind of stupid. She did buy him a sextoy at last year's dildo party so I'm leaning more towards he's an rear end in a top hat because she at least spent $50 trying to make his dick feel good. She'll tell me about how she'll do anal for his sake a few times a month, because she hates it less than normal sex. I don't even know why people so incompatible married.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:46 |
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Apparently there's some kind of super-underwear that absorbs period blood and evenly distributes it throughout the fabric so you don't need a tampon or anything, but ewwwwwwwwwwwww
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:47 |
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There's a myth that sex isn't an important part of a romantic relationship.
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:47 |
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Maybe she's a sex repulsed demiromantic asexualNaerasa posted:Apparently there's some kind of super-underwear that absorbs period blood and evenly distributes it throughout the fabric so you don't need a tampon or anything, but ewwwwwwwwwwwww
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:47 |
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how does a man get skidmarks when boxers exist?
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 02:55 |
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because boxers are loving lame my dude, wear trunks like you're not a middle aged overweight dad who's given up
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# ? Dec 7, 2016 03:03 |
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The absorbent period undies are probably made with the same stuff washable pads are; don't recall the material atm, but it hasn't leaked/squished on me + feels nicer/less irritating than whatever the f disposable pads are made of, although I mostly wear them to bed/at end of period. You can find tons of them on etsy.
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