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I don't believe 'black out drunk' is real in that way. I mean look I fully believe you can't remember poo poo the next day because you were just so wasted (although tbh, even then... gently caress you rear end in a top hat you remember that!) but uh idc how drunk I am it's not gonna change my core personality to the point that now I'm trying to rape my friends. People use that as a way to excuse so much lovely behavior and it is really irritating to me.
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datajugend posted:I wouldnt be surprised that she didnt stack the tupperware and just dumped it in the cupboard or something. If tupperware is what i think it is, plastic containers that fit into each other? Because i cant see any other way on how to do that wrong. They fit into each other except everyone ends up having 6 different brands and 12 different sizes so they actually don't fit into each other at all so the best thing you can do it with it is just leave it in a pile on the floor of your pantry where it'll get cat hair in it but you can just rinse it out before you use it.
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Ride The Gravitron posted:We've been together a year and we rarely have sex anymore. Maybe once every 4-5 days?  at this dude's definition of "rarely."Sure, that might be less sex than you want dude, but once a week or more is not "rarely."
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scrubs season six posted:What the gently caress is she talking about? You spray the poo poo on and then wait 2 minutes and knock it down. Or you don't. It takes 3 minutes but she spent a long weekend on it? What's the second way? Putting a flat layer on and then sculpting it like pottery? Putting it on one dot at a time with a brush? I'm gonna go ahead and  project on to this story and say that her helplessness and shortcomings in Independence are the results of the abusive rear end in a top hat.
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Jan 11, 2017 18:56
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Ride The Gravitron posted:I'm gonna go ahead and Yeah, that makes sense. e: I still wanna know how she put on the texture though.
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extra row of teeth posted:Aaaand of course this story happened in Tampa Bay. Bad pitbull owners make me really sad because behavioral issues always stem from how their lovely owners treat them and not the innocent, adorable dogs. I'm glad your old neighbors had an unaggressive dog, but that's still a terrible story. I have the cutest pitbull and she would never hurt a fly. Well, maybe she would cuddle with the fly. I love pitbulls. 
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scrubs season six posted:Yeah, that makes sense. she prolly sat there with the paint and a tiny sponge trying to make it 'juuuust right' so that maybe this time the bf wouldn't scream at her for the slightest imperfection tbh if someone responded like that to me after I tried to fix some poo poo I'd probably kick a new hole in the drywall and go 'you fix it then rear end in a top hat' but perhaps that would only escalate the situation
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Moridin920 posted:I don't believe 'black out drunk' is real in that way. I mean look I fully believe you can't remember poo poo the next day because you were just so wasted (although tbh, even then... gently caress you rear end in a top hat you remember that!) but uh idc how drunk I am it's not gonna change my core personality to the point that now I'm trying to rape my friends.
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Moridin920 posted:I don't believe 'black out drunk' is real in that way. I mean look I fully believe you can't remember poo poo the next day because you were just so wasted (although tbh, even then... gently caress you rear end in a top hat you remember that!) but uh idc how drunk I am it's not gonna change my core personality to the point that now I'm trying to rape my friends. Maybe you won't get drunk enough to try to rape your friend but I wonder if you can get drunk enough that you forget it's your friend. That is absolutely not an attempt to defend the guy because he's scum. I was just thinking about whether you can get drunk enough to genuinely forget that you're in bed with your friend and not your S/O.
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Jan 11, 2017 19:11
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Pick posted:Me [22 F] with my one of my best friends [21 M]. He assaulted me while blackout drunk. This story is really sad and depressing. I hope this girl press charges and gets her reprehensible "friend" who disavows all knowledge of assaulting her thrown in the slammer, so he doesn't do this to other women. 
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Jan 11, 2017 19:12
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Leon Einstein posted:It's a real thing. It's very possible he had no idea what he was doing. It's also possible he was very aware of what he was doing. If he was a good person, you'd thing he'd be more upset with himself and seeking therapy or something, not acting like it was a drunken party foul.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Bad pitbull owners make me really sad because behavioral issues always stem from how their lovely owners treat them and not the innocent, adorable dogs. I'm glad your old neighbors had an unaggressive dog, but that's still a terrible story. I have the cutest pitbull and she would never hurt a fly. Well, maybe she would cuddle with the fly. There are a hundred other adorable breeds of dog, that when poorly trained, don't kill people. There is no reason for them to continue to exist. Make it illegal to breed them, but legal to own, and slowly phase them out. So you can go rescue them to your hearts content, but eliminate the breed over time.
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Sorry guys I did not mean to start the tired old "pitbulls are good" chat. I do believe they are good too, with good owners; the story I posted clearly did not have good owners, rendering arguing about that particular situation pointless. Let's not poo poo up this thread with that. Could we also post less depressing stories and more funny ones? The abuse ones are just sad, especially when the OP in the comments goes "But I LOOOOOOVE HIM"
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almightyerin posted:I like to think the waiter had the guys back and threw that girl under the bus. from pages ago but yeah. the guy had enough sense to give the waiter a heads up. he's under no legal compulsion to stay and pay for the meal, the restaurant doesn't care who pays for it so long as it gets paid for. if the gold digger lady refused to pay then she has a choice, run or explain it to the cops. the cops wouldn't bother over a $30 meal and probably just write a ticket unless some kind of freakout scene is happening but if you run up a $250 tab and cant pay you're probably getting arrested lol. worst case scenario for the waiter is they had to pay for it but if they were smart they told the manager asap before gold digger could run and then all waiter is loses is the tip
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Pick posted:he's notttt yourrr friiiennnddd Don't friendshame, Pick. Some friend can't cook pasta, some friends commit sexual assault in their drunken stupors. Diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folk.
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Yes, let's not rehash dumb and bad pitbull tangents. Sorry for bothering. My girlfriend (19F) has been posting nudes on Twitter without my knowledge and I (23M) don't know how to feel. quote:My girlfriend is an excellent artist. She started a Twitter back in September to share her art, which was something that I fully supported. From what she had shown me and what little I had seen, she shared other peoples' art (mostly lewd stuff) and cosplays. Not really my bag, I don't do Twitter, lewd anime girls, or cosplay, so I wasn't exactly keeping up with it on the daily.
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WampaLord posted:If he was a good person, you'd thing he'd be more upset with himself and seeking therapy or something, not acting like it was a drunken party foul.
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Pitbull derail is bad but I will say that my cousin came home to a blood bath when her very sweet, trained, and well taken care of pitbull decided to murder her other dogs. She was one of those Pit lovers that constantly posted "It's the owner...not the breed" pictures and statuses on Facebook.Ride The Gravitron posted:My [22 M] girlfriend [22 F] constantly posting porn? I'm confused, is she posting porn of herself? quote:I have always thought of myself as sex positive and do not want to police her body or choices One of the themes in this entire thread seems to be people confusing policing other's choices with policing their own. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 19:24 on Jan 11, 2017 |
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I am sorry I posted that story with a pitbull in it I forgot any mention of them spawns an instant derail of idiots with strong opinions nobody cares about
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dude who "blackout drunk fingered" his "best friend" is beyond lucky the girl didn't report him to the cops, tell every single one of their friends, or rightfully gotten his loving fingers broken by her boyfriend. Amazing how the girl he's dating just doesn't give a poo poo.
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loving hell what an absolute shitbag of a man. If I gave my wife a LIST of chores to do she'd piss herself laughing. If she thought I was serious she'd go loving nuclear. (And vice versa). Why do people treat their 'loved' ones like this and why the gently caress do people put up with it? God what a oval office.
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Leon Einstein posted:It's a lovely situation, but why would therapy help someone who did something while they were blacked out and had no memory of it? Would you suggest potty training to a drunk idiot that pissed in a closet? Do you not understand how the two situations are different? extra row of teeth posted:Could we also post less depressing stories and more funny ones? I tried fighting this fight and was shamed and lost, sorry.
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MinibarMatchman posted:dude who "blackout drunk fingered" his "best friend" is beyond lucky the girl didn't report him to the cops, tell every single one of their friends, or rightfully gotten his loving fingers broken by her boyfriend. Amazing how the girl he's dating just doesn't give a poo poo. While he is extremely lucky that everyone else involved in this story didn't call the cops or beat the poo poo out of his sorry rear end, yeah, his own girlfriend not caring is pretty much expected and nothing extraordinary, sadly. People who date abusers and rapists tend to have similar depressingly horrid opinions on sexual assault. Why else do you think she's fine with dating him?
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Leon Einstein posted:It's a lovely situation, but why would therapy help someone who did something while they were blacked out and had no memory of it? Would you suggest potty training to a drunk idiot that pissed in a closet? Attempted rape is a little different than pissing inappropriately.
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Pick posted:I [28F] need help measuring up to my husband's [31M] standards I have ADHD, and came from a family that found cleaning optional. My wife was borderline OCD about keeping the house clean. That was a painful mountain to climb, and it took literally years of work to fully partner together in a way we were both happy with. It can be hard for a partner to discern a symptom from a personality trait. It's a disorder that, when moderate/severe and under-treated, literally sets you up to look like the least considerate, laziest and most aloof person in the world. Try to discuss it with them and you risk sounding like you're arguing why it's OK that you're lazy or that your partner has to do even more just to get you engaged each time with shared chores. I hope she is either in therapy or headed back to it, 'cause it's sorta easy to clone that relationship experience over and over otherwise. FAN OF NICKELBACK fucked around with this message at 19:27 on Jan 11, 2017 |
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54 40 or gently caress posted:I have told my wife I don't like her taking naked or risky photos I'd like to think the wife is taking selfies of herself juggling chainsaws instead of the husband just being illiterate
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Leon Einstein posted:It's a lovely situation, but why would therapy help someone who did something while they were blacked out and had no memory of it? Would you suggest potty training to a drunk idiot that pissed in a closet? therapy for alcoholism than, since no one in a healthy mental state does that.
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WampaLord posted:Do you not understand how the two situations are different? We need the wretched stories of abuse to appreciate the open relationships and tism tales
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I am not a fan of the ones where incredibly sad things happen with no punchline or the ones where people line up to slam dunk on someone who ain't ever gonna read that poo poo
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WoodrowSkillson posted:therapy for alcoholism than, since no one in a healthy mental state does that. Definitely agree with this.
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I'd be willing to forgive nude Twitter gal if there were no DMs or private nudes sent. Sounds like it's just different boundaries and expectations. Of course they'd have to find a middle ground. Comedy option: post the Twitter
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Leon Einstein posted:It's a real thing. It's very possible he had no idea what he was doing. It's also possible he was very aware of what he was doing. Yeeaaaaaah idk man. Even still if I was 100% on autopilot no idea what I'm doing I don't think I'd do something like that. I ain't no medical doctor so you might be right re the blackout drunk being a real thing where people have no control over themselves anymore but still it seems hella like an excuse to me in 95% of situations. WampaLord posted:If he was a good person, you'd thing he'd be more upset with himself and seeking therapy or something, not acting like it was a drunken party foul. Yeah for real idk. It's like he expected just a 'lol OOPS SORRY' and that'd be that. Leon Einstein posted:It's a lovely situation, but why would therapy help someone who did something while they were blacked out and had no memory of it? Would you suggest potty training to a drunk idiot that pissed in a closet? Incontinence while super drunk is not quite the same as repeatedly attempting to sexually assault someone though fam.
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Leon Einstein posted:It's a real thing. It's very possible he had no idea what he was doing. It's also possible he was very aware of what he was doing. Blacking out from drinking is a weird experience. I've never experienced it from alcohol alone, but when I was prescribed Ambien for sleep problems several years ago, hoo boy. Never did anything unusual, it's just a strange feeling to just completely blank on what you did before going to sleep. I was playing Oblivion at the time, and a few times in the evening when I started up the game I wouldn't remember how my character got to where he was, where I got the equipment he was wearing, or when I completed the quests in my log. It was like finding evidence of my brain being on auto-pilot. Obviously I still had the presence of mind to play the game and complete objectives, but I just had no recollection of doing it.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I'm confused, is she posting porn of herself? It sounds like his girlfriend has a porn blog on Tumblr and reblogs a lot of kinky poo poo, and he's offended because she's not banging him every other day and thinks she doesn't like him any more.
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Grandad's cool art causing trouble quote:My grandad [82] has an extremely ofensive decorative piece of my fiance's [28m] religion hanging on the wall. Help me not blowing this up [25f]
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Ride The Gravitron posted:I'd be willing to forgive nude Twitter gal if there were no DMs or private nudes sent. Sounds like it's just different boundaries and expectations. Of course they'd have to find a middle ground. Yup, as long as there isn't emotional cheating involved like flirting or sending pictures to other people, then I think it's fine and even healthy for his girlfriend's body image and sexuality, but dude definitely needs to have a talk with her about their shared expectations. It's just really dang weird that she didn't tell her boyfriend about it at any point, assuming she isn't cheating on him or otherwise checked out of the relationship. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 19:37 on Jan 11, 2017 |
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Pearnicious posted:Blacking out from drinking is a weird experience. I've never experienced it from alcohol alone, but when I was prescribed Ambien for sleep problems several years ago, hoo boy. I stopped taking ambien when I suddenly snapped into consciousness in my car in a CVS parking lot. The last conscious thought I had was in while I was in bed several hours earlier. I didn't even wake up. It was like my eyes were already open but my brain suddenly started back up.
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Leon Einstein posted:I'm not talking incontinence; I'm talking about people who pissed in closets because they literally thought they were in the bathroom. I guess I'm just more used to seeing extreme drinking here in Wisconsin. I guess but tbh I'd still think it was some bullshit and they were just too drunk and couldn't make it to the actual bathroom. I mean okay if he thought it was HIS gf like was suggested that's a LITTLE better I guess but even so she clearly said 'stop' a few times and then finally woke up to him fingering her and fumbling at her bra. That's not confusion or a misunderstanding really, that's just "I don't care I wanna get my nut off" on his part.
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