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Tiny Deer posted:They're poor, but they're nerd poor--they live in squalor and desperate poverty because they spend their money on toys and games. tattoos oh god tattoos & tattoo culture "i'm living in and out of a homeless shelter, but check out my sick ink" (I'm talking, like, the dudes who make getting tattoos their hobby)
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Report them to the police.
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Mirthless posted:sounds like a good position to be in provided they don't expect him to join the gang I mean, as long as a rival doesn't decide "You know, this would be a nice time to throw a Molotov at the pool party" while he's there.
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Ive always wanted to be a side story in a Bolaño novel so I would stick with it
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Tiny Deer posted:Sorry, I should clarify: where I'm from sleep sex is literally legally sexual assault regardless of advanced consent. Man that case is all kinds of hosed up. The main hosed up thing on the guy's part was tying the girl up after she lost consciousness, but her whole "I consented, but then I didn't, but then I consented again" thing sounds like a total poo poo show. quote:On May 27, 2007, J.A. and his long-term partner, K.D., began having consensual sexual activity together. During the sexual activity, K.D. consented for J.A. to choke her as part of the sexual activity. K.D. lost consciousness for approximately three minutes, and she understood this might happen when she consented to being choked. I mean, obviously she didn't consent to being tied up and stuff. That's pretty clearly sexual assault, but the final judgment goes way overboard creating this dumb scenario: quote:It would mean that cohabiting partners, including spouses, risk having one partner commit a sexual assault when that partner kisses or caresses their sleeping partner, even with that sleeping partner's prior express consent. Not likely that anyone would ever be prosecuted for something like that, but the possibility is hilariously stupid. Personal Lucubrant fucked around with this message at 21:08 on Jan 13, 2017 |
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chitoryu12 posted:I mean, as long as a rival doesn't decide "You know, this would be a nice time to throw a Molotov at the pool party" while he's there. Assuming he's in the US, how likely is this to actually happen, really? A friend of mine was in the bloods and had gang members over all the time, I never worried about getting attacked when I was over there because he lived in a pretty nice neighborhood with fast police response times. There's a lot of room between pablo escobar and the corner pusher and most of that is pretty safe territory.
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# ? Jan 13, 2017 21:07 |
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The sleep bondage community has ruined sleep romance for the rest of us.
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chitoryu12 posted:I mean, as long as a rival doesn't decide "You know, this would be a nice time to throw a Molotov at the pool party" while he's there. and so long as they never, ever break up.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:and so long as they never, ever break up. I'm sure a breakup is fine, as long as it's not on bad terms and as long as she isn't crazy she's probably crazy
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100 degrees Calcium posted:The sleep bondage community has ruined sleep romance for the rest of us. If you live in Canada don't even glance in your partner's general direction while they are asleep. I mean, according to that court case you probably shouldn't even be in the same room while they're asleep.
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Mirthless posted:Assuming he's in the US, how likely is this to actually happen, really? varies wildly by where in the US, which is most of a continent with extremely inconsistent background levels of violence literal crime family is bad news but he's probably fine so long as the family isn't in the most dangerous gang of all A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 21:22 on Jan 13, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:tattoos It's an asset on your skin, man! The government can't make you pay court fines if out of your awesome eagle loving a wolverine tattoo!
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Made a slight change to the emote so it to lines up more nicely on the off chance Gang Girlfriend Guy updates and ends up being forced to someone. e: It only aligned nicely in preview. Themata fucked around with this message at 21:30 on Jan 13, 2017 |
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Tiny Deer posted:It's an asset on your skin, man! The government can't make you pay court fines if out of your awesome eagle loving a wolverine tattoo! Sounds like you've been readin my Don Henley/Hugh Jackman slash fiction
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oh jesus i just remembered the shittiest irresponsible nerd story, it's /r/relationships material and the dude is a redditor so i feel like it counts This guy was a hardcore gamer nerd type, he lived in a nerd house with a couple of other guys, we worked in IT. We'll call him Marvin. Marvin had a friend named Jim. Marvin and Jim did everything together, they struggled to get matching shifts, hung out after work, lived in the same house, it was a platonic friendship (supposedly) but like way way codependent. I want to say Marvin was a year older than me (I was 26?) and Jim was in his 30s. Marvin and Jim spent all the disposable income they could get their hands on on stupid nerd poo poo. Videogames, multiple concurrent MMO subscriptions (DAOC, WoW, Everquest and also LOTRO for a while there) technology that they really didn't need, brand new smartphones every year, that sort of thing. Well, about three or four months after I met them, Jim meets a girl. Jim has never had a serious girlfriend. Jim may have even been a virgin? despite being in his 30s. She's way younger than him (early 20s) and super into him, their relationship moves way way way too fast and they decide to cohabitate. Well, she tries living in the nerd house for a while, and it's completely intolerable. Turns out, Jim is actually a homeowner, but he's been leaving the property abandoned because some renters destroyed it and he owes a lot in taxes on it. Jim realizes this is the only way he's going to keep this, the only relationship he's ever had intact, so he decides to renovate the house, move his poo poo in, and pay the taxes off. We're talking tens of thousands of dollars in damage and tens of thousands of dollars in taxes. He asks Marvin to move with them. Marvin, meanwhile, has been pouting this whole loving time about Jim's new girlfriend. I mean, he's acting like a full on jilted lover. He's mad because Jim doesn't want to play games with him all night or go out drinking after work every day. He's mad because Jim doesn't listen to him as much anymore or pay attention to him. He's mad that Jim's spending money on his girlfriend instead of him. He doesn't want to move in with Jim because he doesn't want to have to help pay to repair the house and he hates Jim's girlfriend. He says he can't afford to help repair the house. Here's where I slammed the brakes. I knew how much Marvin and Jim made because we got hired on the same contract at the same time. Jim had way more experience than me and they both worked out of the florida office (I was in Tulsa) where the base pay was higher. I knew Marvin was making $17.50 an hour (he told me) and George was making north of $20. So why the gently caress can't he afford the house? I kind of pressed him on this, I was trying to get him to chill out on Jim b/c Jim was clearly in love and there's no way he was keeping this friendship intact if he was going to step in between the two of them. Turns out, Marvin had a girlfriend once. They had sex a couple of times, he enjoyed the relationship, but then she got pregnant, and decided to keep the kid, so he has to pay a huge chunk of his income in child support every check. He goes as long as he can without paying, but the state "always finds me eventually". Seriously, this guy would quit a job and not report it until they tracked him down and started garnishing the wages at the new job. He talked about her getting pregnant like it was something she did on purpose to betray him, I don't mean like the "She was trying to trap me!" kind of thing, like he had such a juvenile way of approaching the topic that it really felt like he was mad at her for the thing her uterus did. He confided that he didn't trust women anymore, didn't date, didn't pursue them romantically, and didn't believe other men should either. You see, that's why he was trying to desperately to break up Jim's new relationship, he was trying to save him from the inevitable betrayal that the deceitful woman was going to attack him with. He eventually determined that the only way he was going to fix this was by giving Jim an ultimatum. guess who jim picked I don't keep track of Marvin but last time I checked in on him he was bitter and extremely alone. edit: oh and he loving hated and resented his kid too, wanted no contact and didn't want to know anything about her. He was the biggest piece of garbage in the world. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 21:38 on Jan 13, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:oh jesus i just remembered the shittiest irresponsible nerd story, it's /r/relationships material and the dude is a redditor so i feel like it counts
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Pearnicious posted:If you live in Canada don't even glance in your partner's general direction while they are asleep. I think as long as you don't rape them you should be good.
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My [32M] girlfriend [23F] got pregnant when I sleep-hosed her. That's right, she spermjacked me in her sleep!
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:p much. like 99% of what's wrong their is the boyfriend acting super creepy like he violated her, instead of was just clumsy with their weirdo awkward corpse-sex roleplay Yeah but if you're a socially awkward and not someone who's into loving unconscious girls because it's weird and rapey, and a girl asks you to gently caress her while she's unconscious and then midway wakes up and goes "what are you doing, stop that" I can understand your kneejerk response being to flail around in a confused fashion and say a bunch of stupid poo poo.
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Like honestly I've never met anyone who was at risk for being accused of rape if they weren't already doing rapey things, minus that tiny fraction of men who have legitimately been falsely accused of rape to get them in trouble. If you think your behavior is going to get you mistaken for committing sexual assault, maybe you want to rethink your decisions?
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# ? Jan 13, 2017 22:08 |
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unless you're in Canada, wherefleeing the room making Zoidberg noises any time your significant other yawns will probably still get you branded a weirdo
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My boyfriend (28M) won't let me (30F) peg himquote:My boyfriend and I have been together a little over the year. With my prior boyfriend of five years, we eventually progressed to mutual anal. I ended up enjoying it more than PIV and I prefer at least some kind of butt play during sex. I(30F) am a weirdo that can't comprehend that my boyfriend(28M) won't let me do something he has done before and not enjoyed!
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It's not like she'd even feel pleasure while pegging him. Humiliate him some other way you can agree on.
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Nazzadan posted:My boyfriend (28M) won't let me (30F) peg him I know a trans dude who's really insistent that cis men should love pegging and are just refusing to try it because they're homophobic babies who don't want to shove things up their butts. He's a guy who loves anal so much he once hurt himself doing it too much.
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Sometimes you think it would be really fun to really trash the poo poo out of a guy that you're loving, just whale on him with a dick and your fists and the whole bit, but if he is not on board with that, then it is super messed up. Don't rape! honeypot post
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Nazzadan posted:My boyfriend (28M) won't let me (30F) peg him This is the EXACT equivalent of the dude who keeps pressing his girlfriend for anal when she doesn't want to.
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This thread is seriously making me consider taking my PS4 and the 4 games I own the thrift shop.
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chitoryu12 posted:I know a trans dude who's really insistent that cis men should love pegging and are just refusing to try it because they're homophobic babies who don't want to shove things up their butts. I think I found him in the comments of that post! quote:Listen to the advice in this sub, OP. Asking twice pretty much makes you a rapist. So does wanting a partner who's willing to experience some minor inconvenience to please you. /s Of course, he was downvoted. Bonzo posted:This thread is seriously making me consider taking my PS4 and the 4 games I own the thrift shop. Probably should, or at least the 3 games that aren't Bloodborne.
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Leon Einstein posted:It's not like she'd even feel pleasure while pegging him. they have dildos with attachments that allow the pegger to be stimulated as they thrust, just saying
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Asking twice does not make you a rapist. And in the context of the post it sounds like a lot of time went between the two talks. I think it's reasonable to have a discussion of "hey maybe you feel differently now" coming to Reddit all"make him change his mind" is where the rapey vibes come in
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Me (22M) with my GF (22F) of 2 years, she wants more piercings and tattoos, I'm not too crazy about them but she wants my support...I can't do itquote:Hi guys,
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YeahTubaMike posted:they have dildos with attachments that allow the pegger to be stimulated as they thrust, just saying Oh, in that case. .
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Ride The Gravitron posted:Asking twice does not make you a rapist. And in the context of the post it sounds like a lot of time went between the two talks. I think it's reasonable to have a discussion of "hey maybe you feel differently now" coming to Reddit all"make him change his mind" is where the rapey vibes come in Call me some kind of freaky-deaky wierdo but if your partner isn't okay with something sexually, how about you wait for them to come to you saying they are open to it instead of bringing it up every once in a while. "Oh my, it has been 6-months, time for my bi-annual asking to stick a foreign object up your rear end" Edit: I agree she isn't a rapist. Just a scumbag for shaming her partner for trying something with their ex, not liking it, then turning down the same thing from her.
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Nazzadan posted:Call me some kind of freaky-deaky wierdo but if your partner isn't okay with something sexually, how about you wait for them to come to you saying they are open to it instead of bringing it up every once in a while. Probably because the partner hasn't thought about it at all. They are unlikely to bring it up. It's up to the partner looking to introduce it to open the line of communication.
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I think that it is a nuanced communication issue that the Internet cannot really help them with. I do not think that it is wrong to float an idea occasionally, but at the same time, it is not fair to badger someone about something they know that they do not want to do.
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Bonzo posted:Me (22M) with my GF (22F) of 2 years, she wants more piercings and tattoos, I'm not too crazy about them but she wants my support...I can't do it separation would probably be the best thing for both parties. I don't get the aversion to tattoos and piercings to such a weird degree at that age. the "standing at the altar" comment is so ridiculously old fashioned, i just don't get it.
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I think that tattoos and piercings are a big turn off. I would certainly rather marry someone who did not have any piercings or any tattoos, although, like this guy, I don't think I would consider it a dealbreaker. Forcing me to say that I like it though, that is pretty loving annoying.
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Bonzo posted:Me (22M) with my GF (22F) of 2 years, she wants more piercings and tattoos, I'm not too crazy about them but she wants my support...I can't do it they both sound like babies, but she sounds worse. how needy do you have to be to demand your SO's 'support' to get metal shoved through your face? quote:1, i want to move out my parents house and she doesn't agree I should because she wants me to go to grad school (which is the 2nd thing I don't want to do). this part's just bizarre.
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