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quote:My husband (32M) is insisting that "we" impregnate his friend after finding I (32F) am unable to conceive Relationships
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 07:07 |
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# ? May 30, 2024 12:44 |
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Pick posted:logic He was running to secure a new fiance. Pick posted:butt also :redants: The sequel to Spiders in a Jar - Roach in a Crack! ... gently caress this.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 07:17 |
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I'm trying to figure out what the bigger is there -- that this dude is being all magnanimous about "forgiving" her for a traumatic stillbirth, or that he came up with this plan over drinks and oversharing with an attractive work friend she doesn't know. ... Okay, so it's the second, but the "forgiveness" thing really chaps my rear end. Unless she left out a part where she spent her whole pregnancy shooting heroin and going down to the boxing gym to get recreationally punched in the stomach, this isn't her fault, and the husband thinking he's the big man by "forgiving" her means he still loving resents her for a medical emergency entirely outside of her control.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 07:17 |
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he needs to dump that infertile piece of poo poo and spread his seed far and wide
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 07:37 |
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There is not enough for that guy in this world what a piece of poo poo.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 07:44 |
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Antivehicular posted:I'm trying to figure out what the bigger is there -- that this dude is being all magnanimous about "forgiving" her for a traumatic stillbirth, or that he came up with this plan over drinks and oversharing with an attractive work friend she doesn't know. This sums up my feeling:
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 07:51 |
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I think roach rear end in a top hat who also stole his girlfriend's keys so she couldn't go to her ex's funeral because "my woman shouldn't cry over another man" is worse than "you can't have kids so you should let me gently caress my coworker until I knock her up"
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 09:11 |
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Pick posted:logic She says she didn't want him to fight the two dudes with a knife (or maybe more) so what did she want him to do? Had he not run best case scenario is that everything happens the same way it did except they both lose their stuff. If things were going to get violent then it'd just be two victims instead of one.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 09:49 |
gently caress this guy. Also, how the hell is this the 3rd or 4th story of a woman losing a baby and the man going psycho? I think we've had at least 2 about a dude starting to block their SOs from doing things or saying stupid poo poo because they think their SO had a hand in the baby's death. I guess the answer is prob that they were psycho all along and it just came out with the miscarriage, but these women seem blindsided by this junk.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 12:03 |
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Men can be emotionally involved in a potential child that they see as an important part of their legacy, duty and identity to raise, love and protect. How is it hard to understand that some people flip their poo poo when one of the biggest responsibilities they were ready to take on and care for doesn't even manifest? If you thought men were dumb about birth control and women's bodies in general, why would you expect them to be suddenly up on miscarriage rates and the reasons behind them? Also, emotionally distraught people aren't very rational. Are they being assholes? Sure.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 12:32 |
Hey have a baby to I forgive you for killing the baby to no these options are not good I need to gently caress my coworker who I have apparently told all of our personal poo poo to is more than "being an rear end in a top hat" edit: like you don't need to be a loving miscarriage specialist to know that you shouldn't antagonize a woman for/after losing a kid; this is covered in "being a human being" 101 Nancy fucked around with this message at 12:42 on Jan 19, 2017 |
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 12:37 |
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That dude is an unbelievable piece of poo poo. He blames his wife for the miscarriage and her inability to carry a child, then got drunk with an attractive co-worker and told her all about his wife's infertility situation who she never met. Oh yeah, and then his co-worker conveniently wants to have a kid with him and he's all excited to conceive it naturally by cheating on OP extensively. gently caress this rear end in a top hat. Murder his sorry rear end and piss all over the corpse.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 12:51 |
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his throat.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 13:19 |
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Jesus okay they're different varieties of edit: someone buy it please
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 13:24 |
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Well, yeah, this specific guy is a total dickhoke.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 13:26 |
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After the last crop of unrelentingly horrible people it's nice to see someone whose only crime is being dumb. I [19M] feel stuck, sad, and regretful quote:I dont know anymore... Since my last and first breakup i have been Ever since sad and unfulliled. I still feel rumination, regret and guilt for my relationship and i feel fcked it up. I feel that I could have done and behaved better and tried more and etc. It was my first relationship but dont wanna make it an excuse. It was her 3rd or 4th, dont remember. edit: My [23F] partner [30 M] of three years refuses to help because "[his] life is so much harder than [mine]" quote:My partner and I met online 3 years ago, and have been renting an apartment together for 18 months. He works in the city, which is a 2-hour commute one way, and only graduated from university last year so is still adjusting to working life. I'm a student at the university in our town, and sell homemade porn to make ends meet. I also have a physical disability which makes me get tired faster than normal people (like falling over and having no choice about falling asleep on the floor tired), and causes me a lot of muscle pain. Mameluke fucked around with this message at 13:34 on Jan 19, 2017 |
# ? Jan 19, 2017 13:31 |
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Mirthless posted:
On the one hand, this opinion pisses me off, because yes, many, many women are not flirted with on a regular basis. And people assuming otherwise leads to some very nasty resentment at times, the whole "oh, women can get laid whenever they want, can date anyone they want, women have it so easy, they get everything handed to them free" line of thinking which just isn't true. On the other hand I suspect women who go to bars hoping to be hit on are probably going to have attempts made at them at least once in a while so it seems reasonable that she is missing signals. There's a big range between 'regular basis' and 'never'.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 13:43 |
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She's getting torn into in the comments. Everyone is saying her story doesn't add up and she's leaving out details
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 14:33 |
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But really she said she'd be out of there by 8 and he starts texting her at 9:30 just to see. I'd do the same (not threaten divorce but I'd be pissed). If you're going to be later have the courtesy to let your partner know just so they know you're safe. It doesn't add up if you think about it
54 40 or fuck fucked around with this message at 14:50 on Jan 19, 2017 |
# ? Jan 19, 2017 14:48 |
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sorry, that wasn't me, teehee! don't worry about it, just one of those things sorry for going AWOL for three hours see you later
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 14:49 |
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What's weird is that I buy her story a lot more if she was drinking (losing phone, not replying to texts, etc), but she says she didn't drink at all which makes everything way more suspicious.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 14:55 |
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she didnt see the texts because she was banging the coworker
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:06 |
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Themata posted:This sums up my feeling: this is basically a simulation of the post, really Ride The Gravitron posted:She's getting torn into in the comments. Everyone is saying her story doesn't add up and she's leaving out details it's amazing that she hosed another guy and has the audacity to lie about it to the internet at least have the decency to come clean when you're begging the internet to help you save your relationship over your unbelievably loving lovely judgement oh jesus they're married, too. 54 40 or gently caress posted:But really she said she'd be out of there by 8 and he starts texting her at 9:30 just to see. I'd do the same (not threaten divorce but I'd be pissed). If you're going to be later have the courtesy to let your partner know just so they know you're safe. It doesn't add up if you think about it yeah, seriously, even if she didn't cheat not coming home until 11 and ignoring his texts? If they can recover from this they're going to have some serious trust issues to work through when the dust clears. What a loving garbage partner. quote:Everything is happening so fast. I know he's over reacting, but he does have his reasons. He's not, and I feel like the trailing statement is an admission she's leaving information out, lol quote:I have bitched out the rear end in a top hat coworker. Told him off and told him if he touched anything that belongs to me again I'm going straight to the police. What my husband is demanding is not practical. literally only mad she got caught if she wants to keep her marriage she needs to quit her loving job or transfer to a department where she will never interact with the guy she cheated on her husband with. Don't poo poo where you eat and this won't happen again in the future, you dummy Mirthless fucked around with this message at 15:24 on Jan 19, 2017 |
# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:11 |
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You don't have to be drunk to have fun and lose track of time with friends/co-workers.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:27 |
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sassassin posted:You don't have to be drunk to have fun and lose track of time with friends/co-workers. nah
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:33 |
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that woman got caught hard cause she chose an idiot to cheat on her husband with lol
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:40 |
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O lose track of time easily so I was willing to believe it but after I read the comments I grew skeptical. How are you on Facebook but don't see you are late and don't see your husband's texts. Why does this dude feel comfortable enough to go through her phone? Why would you see such a horrible message like that sent from your phone and just be so nonchalant about it. If the husband has posted that with a "this is what my wife says happened" every one would be encouraging him to file for divorce
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:42 |
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Ride The Gravitron posted:O lose track of time easily so I was willing to believe it but after I read the comments I grew skeptical. How are you on Facebook but don't see you are late and don't see your husband's texts. Why does this dude feel comfortable enough to go through her phone? Why would you see such a horrible message like that sent from your phone and just be so nonchalant about it. The fact that she didn't call him as soon as she saw the huge log of text messages and the message from the dudebro she was with is such a huge red flag to me. Just texting him back is the kind of thing you do when you're desperately formulating a plan to recover from a fuckup. Honestly I hate this lady more than most of the people in the stories posted in this thread because she doesn't even have the decency to admit how loving terrible she is. At least the dudes who beat their wives will downplay beating their wives. This lady won't even admit she cheated, even a little. I mean, maybe I am being too harsh, maybe she really did just lose track of time, but holy poo poo everything in this story is a . The absolute best case scenario, where she's completely telling the truth and really didn't cheat, she's still a loving terrible partner for doing this and being so goddamn nonchalant about it. For all he knew you were dead, and then some rear end in a top hat texts him back in the most "I just hosed your wife" way possible? And you think your partner is being unreasonable??? Mirthless fucked around with this message at 15:56 on Jan 19, 2017 |
# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:51 |
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The first comment in the thread nailed it in saying the whole post sounded like an alibi. I can lose track too but it's just a considerate thing to do. Especially if you realize you're two hours later than you said you'd be, that's when I'd start panicking if my partner was out and not responding
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:53 |
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sassassin posted:You don't have to be drunk to have fun and lose track of time with friends/co-workers. Yeah, it happens all the time when you're sober and loving someone who isn't your spouse.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:53 |
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the biggest red flags are that clearly her and her husband exchange such texts often, and she is likely not often late. so she got him all worried by not arriving home on time, than he gets hit with a clear message from another man, and than also does not even bother calling him. if she did not cheat, she is a gigantic idiot. if she did she is just flailing about in a panic trying to avoid consequences.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:54 |
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Assuming she's telling truth, would HR do anything? "This man sent a message from my phone that implies I'm having an affair with him, and my husband is threatening divorce" seems like something HR would listen to, especially if it happened at a work related outing. I've never worked in a company with a proper HR department, so I'm not sure how they function.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:57 |
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Gerblyn posted:Assuming she's telling truth, would HR do anything? "This man sent a message from my phone that implies I'm having an affair with him, and my husband is threatening divorce" seems like something HR would listen to, especially if it happened at a work related outing. I've never worked in a company with a proper HR department, so I'm not sure how they function. It depends on the company. Some places won't do anything about anything that happens after hours that isn't a criminal matter. But if it's a rigid enough office, she could absolutely go to HR about this, and absolutely get him fired if it was serious enough. If she's actually loving this guy and there is even a single person in her office aware of it, though, that trip to HR will end with her going home with her poo poo in a box to a home that is about to be empty.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 15:59 |
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Mirthless posted:It depends on the company. Some places won't do anything about anything that happens after hours that isn't a criminal matter. But if it's a rigid enough office, she could absolutely go to HR about this, and absolutely get him fired if it was serious enough.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:03 |
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At the very least she needs to go to hr to start a paper trail and regain her husband's trust. She's not, probably because she's protecting him because the dick is good
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:09 |
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:At an after work event presumably organised by the company (in at least a semi-official capacity?), I dunno. Those things are at least 50% honeypots to bait out lovely employees' shittiness and fire them Yeah, if it was actually a work function he could definitely be fired for this, yeah. But I would say it's even more important she doesn't go to HR on this if she actually was cheating, b/c I guarantee you they're not going to be sympathetic, and I'd hate to see what kind of convoluted story she's going to cook up to explain to her husband why she got fired. Ride The Gravitron posted:At the very least she needs to go to hr to start a paper trail and regain her husband's trust. She's not, probably because she's protecting him because the dick is good I wouldn't be surprised if her affair was over at this point but yeah I think she is protecting this guy for sure. She doesn't seem to be nearly outraged enough in the post considering this guy very likely just ruined her marriage, and the fact that she's hesitant to do anything about it tells me she either a) can't or b) won't. In the former, she knows there will be consequences, and in the latter, she's too attached to let go. In either case,
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:09 |
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Gerblyn posted:Assuming she's telling truth, would HR do anything? "This man sent a message from my phone that implies I'm having an affair with him, and my husband is threatening divorce" seems like something HR would listen to, especially if it happened at a work related outing. I've never worked in a company with a proper HR department, so I'm not sure how they function. Yep, absolutely they could. You don't have to be on the clock when something happens for it to be actionable. That's like rule #1 if you're working for a large organization.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:16 |
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ArbitraryC posted:She says she didn't want him to fight the two dudes with a knife (or maybe more) so what did she want him to do? Had he not run best case scenario is that everything happens the same way it did except they both lose their stuff. If things were going to get violent then it'd just be two victims instead of one. maybe stick around instead of instantly abandoning his partner to her fate to save his own yellow-striped rear end? just spitballing here, I mean I'm sure game theory says something about optimization in a crisis but these humans can be so illogical
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:41 |
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Me [28M] approaching a self esteem crisis over women's constant disappointment with my average penis, seeking advice u/sizedisappoints1m I am really in need of advice from women or other men who perhaps have experienced something similar, so thank you in advance for reading. I am 28 years old, and at risk of being extremely immodest, it is important to note that I am tall, athletic (6'3, a muscular 220 lb), and generally told I am very handsome. The problem is that I have a penis that doesn't otherwise match my physique at all, and is under 5". I grew up in a not so big town in the midwest and went to a similar college there where I played a lot of college football and ran track. I lost my virginity to my high school sweetheart and we were together through all of college too, until I decided it was time to move to a bigger city and pursue a different kind of life. This was an extremely difficult decision, but I felt it was the right one. Despite an incredible amount of female interest during college and beyond, I was faithful and had only slept with her until I moved, which was when I was 23. Since then, I have been on innumerable dates on and off throughout the years. Many women have been extremely flirtatious and interested in me at first, but when we finally get back to the bedroom to be intimate, it is the same story over and over. As I take my pants off virtually every girl I've been with has looked stunned, perhaps expecting me to be completely hung to match my body. I'm not. Either we have sex where they tend to seem disappointed (maybe that's just my false interpretation) or they just want to do foreplay and leave it at that. This has happened about 25 or so times over the past few years. I even tried expectation setting to some degree, letting them know what I have, which was usually played off as cute banter prior to the reveal. It hurts to see the same look on their faces over and over. I workout frequently and have maintained myself very well, which is a lot of work! It doesn't seem like it matters anymore and I'm getting depressed. This pattern has been consistent and I am at the point where I am nearing a self esteem crisis. I don't mean self harm or something like that, but I am seriously contemplating moving back to my hometown and begging my ex to take my back. She is still single and we talk every now and then. At least she liked what I was born with. I am too shy to discuss with female friends, hence, Reddit. Please help. Also, I am about to go to work where it will be difficult to reply, so please forgive me on that. TL;DR - Below average penis size consistently disappoints prospective lovers despite having an otherwise blessed physique which is starting to take a serious toll on my mental health.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:42 |
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# ? May 30, 2024 12:44 |
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I'm glad none of you are on my jury, Christ. Lady leaves phone somewhere after saying she thinks 8ish is maybe when she'll be done, drunk idiot tries to be funny via text on lady's phone and in the process clears the notifications that would have been on the home screen, lady loses track of time but eventually checks phone when on the way home, drama happens. If you've never had friends or acquaintances vandalize your logged-in Facebook with statuses about how much you love cock (or more likely MySpace, backwhen people were less savvy about logging out on shared comps) or send inappropriate texts/send pictures of ballsacks/leave weird voicemails from your phone...well you probably had better friends than I did at that point in my life. A drunk coworker sending "pithy" innuendo on an open phone does not strain my credulity in the slightest. By timestamps, she left her phone laying around somewhere for two hours. Oh no, better sever the relationship! I've had my phone on me before and missed text messages because the phone was on vibrate, but stowed in baggy clothing and not pressed against my body, and there was enough ambient noise to drown out the little humming noises. Usually I was having a meal and conversing with a friend or doing something else enjoyable that ended up lasting longer than planned. When I check my phone after leaving, oops, there's 15 missed messages about something that needed my attention an hour or two ago. I've just started leaving my phone face down on the table at lunch or whatever so I can hear the buzz to at least be aware that I'm getting messages. Then, when there's a lull in the convo, I can take a quick peek and see if it's anything I need to reply to. That's why I leave it face down, so I don't look at it while talking to someone. Her man has every right to be wary and suspicious, but come on. How is she instantly a deceiving, heartless cheater to you guys? Show me on the doll where your heart was broken.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 16:44 |