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Mirthless posted:vvv People are more important than pets. Pick posted:counterpoint screw you You seem like the kind of person who calls their cats furbabies.
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Patrick Spens posted:People are more important than pets. some people are more important than some pets
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subhuman filth posted:Uhhhh actually pretty sure acting on it makes you the piece of poo poo and desires just make you a normal human being with a normal sex drive The words you used were, and I quote: "Literally everyone wants desperately to gently caress around outside their relationships." This does not describe most people, sorry. If you are desperate to gently caress other people, why are you in a monogamous relationship in the first place? Patrick Spens posted:People are more important than pets. If a person relatively new to your life comes into it and tells you to make changes - including getting rid of pets that were there before your relationship started - it is a huge and a sign that your relationship with that person is going to have control issues. They haven't been together long enough for him to make a sacrifice like this. If she really can't sleep because of a purring sound (bullshit) she should go get a prescription for some ambien or lunesta and get over it. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 21:13 on Jan 19, 2017 |
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we the court find you, goon, guilty, of wanting to gently caress
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:12 |
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Mirthless posted:The words you used were, and I quote: "Literally everyone wants desperately to gently caress around outside their relationships." Because I love my girlfriend and her feelings and emotional security are more important than indulging my animal impulses
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:12 |
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Another insane thing I can do sometimes, is not eat even when my body hurts because it wants food
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:13 |
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subhuman filth posted:Because I love my girlfriend and her feelings and emotional security are more important than indulging my animal impulses Yeah, well, your animal impulses are a bit more intense than other people's and many of us would appreciate you not lumping us in with your overactive dick. I respect my wife enough to not resent her so much that my desire to gently caress other people reaches the point of desperation "I'm so thirsty! I'M SO THIRSTY! But I'm keeping it in my pants for you baby!"
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:14 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Honestly, I wouldn't say there's anything inherently wrong with poly-relationships. It's just that every person you add to the equation increases the complexity exponentially, particularly where communication is concerned. So every potential relationship issue is magnified. The fundamental issue is that relationships are more than who you are loving and hanging out with. Inevitably, given enough time, there will come a time where one partner is left high and dry due to some circumstance. For example, one partner is hospitalized due to say, appendicitis. The other partners are there and supportive, but go home together at night, leaving the other alone in a hospital bed feeling miserable while the others are at home, presumably engaging in normal relationship activities. Good luck not having some resentment develop there. What happens if 2 tragedies happen close by, who takes priority? Or 2 happy things? Eventually something like that happens, and someone gets burned, and poo poo unravels.
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i would never gently caress
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Nazzadan posted:I almost don't want to post this, but I know some people including me get a kick out of the sad ones. This is a rollercoaster of being on the girls side, hating her guts, being on her side, then hating her again. WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:Me [36 M] with my girlfriend [36 F] one year relationship, huge fights over my cat sleeping in the bed with us.. She needs to either get over it, communicate better, or resign herself as the new cat (pussy ) and sleep on the floor. When I was with my ex, I was on the floor while her and her (new) Maltese got the bed. Sucked to get woken up by it whining at me cause it was up early and too scared to jump off the bed, but then she'd come lay down by me or come try to lick me if she saw me looking at her. We also spent a lot of time chilling together while the ex ignored us both, so I'd like to think we bonded. Mirthless posted:She's probably one of those people who thinks all animals are inherently filthy or something, and her jealousy over the affection is laughably absurd. with this narcissistic control freak immediately Cats and dogs poop with their butts, and then sit their exposed butts on surfaces, getting poop germs everywhere. Makes you think.
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Mirthless posted:Yeah, well, your animal impulses are a bit more intense than other people's and many of us would appreciate you not lumping us in with your overactive dick. I would love to lump you onto my overactive dick but I made a promise to another. Oh I see you have edited your post to try to burn me harder.
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Mirthless posted:Yeah, well, your animal impulses are a bit more intense than other people's and many of us would appreciate you not lumping us in with your overactive dick. you look like a roadie for system of a down and you have the personality of an intel 486 so pardon me if I don't think your self control is the main reason you're not swimming in strange
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Mirthless posted:If a person relatively new to your life comes into it and tells you to make changes - including getting rid of pets that were there before your relationship started - it is a huge and a sign that your relationship with that person is going to have control issues. I like cats but "I don't want a cat around my face when I sleep" is a perfectly reasonable thing to want, and not a red flag at all.
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Patrick Spens posted:I like cats but "I don't want a cat around my face when I sleep" is a perfectly reasonable thing to want, and not a red flag at all. She didn't want it at her feet, either. She didn't want it anywhere on the bed. She also got jealous over him cuddling the cat.
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Our catte used to jump onto the bed in the morning and nuzzle me in the face to get up and feed her but for some reason she stopped and now I am sad
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Patrick Spens posted:I like cats but "I don't want a cat around my face when I sleep" is a perfectly reasonable thing to want, and not a red flag at all. "The bed is my territory" and being so obviously threatened by a cat, however, is.
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No need to eat our own when there are plenty of redditors owning themselves friends.
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Moridin920 posted:"The bed is my territory" and being so obviously threatened by a cat, however, is. Yeah, I kinda skimmed the actual post, getting jealous of a cat is dumb and weird, y'all were right.
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I only like my cat on days when he sleeps somewhere other than right by my drat head between me and my fiancee. He doesn't even have the decency to sleep with his face between us. No. She gets his cute head, I get his ugly butt.
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food court bailiff posted:you look like a roadie for system of a down and you have the personality of an intel 486 so pardon me if I don't think your self control is the main reason you're not swimming in strange Don't be mean
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:29 |
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Also cat purring is the best white noise ever
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He just needs to have her clean the litter box until she acquires the necessary brain parasites to learn to love kitties. Seriously though, being jealous of your SO cuddling a pet is pretty goddamn pathetic.
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haljordan posted:Also cat purring is the best white noise ever It's "I'm happy and I love you" on repeat, try getting that from anywhere else
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haljordan posted:Also cat purring is the best white noise ever seriously, quiet, deep, rhythmic sound is the kind of thing that gently coaxes most normal people to sleep, this lady has to be seething with resentment for this cat to actually be bothered by it
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food court bailiff posted:you look like a roadie for system of a down and you have the personality of an intel 486 so pardon me if I don't think your self control is the main reason you're not swimming in strange Bit harsh.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:41 |
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I'm just saying, cats are better than people and should be treated that way
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Pick posted:I'm just saying, cats are better than people and should be treated that way Actually they are bad
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Leon Einstein posted:I think you got that backwards. Poly isn't the next step in emotional maturity. No, I think that's what I'm getting at. It takes more emotional maturity to make it work, but also I think the more mature you are, the less interested you'd be.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:46 |
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fwiw I bet you there's a lot of 50-60 year olds who have been married for 10-20 years doing all kind of swinging/orgy poo poo and they get through it just fine because they aren't drama bombs posting on Reddit
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I found out my boyfriend is into [transgenders] through reddit (help?)quote:I posted this in r/sex, but I feel like this might be a better place to post this. She is so perplexed by the whole trans thing she completely glosses over that he was totally at the very least emotionally cheating on her.
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Moridin920 posted:fwiw I bet you there's a lot of 50-60 year olds who have been married for 10-20 years doing all kind of swinging/orgy poo poo and they get through it just fine because they aren't drama bombs posting on Reddit I guess I'm naive but isn't that not poly? Banging other old people with your partner or having Xsomes seems different than completely opening your relationship to the point of dating multiple people/cohabitating with all the members of the relationship. I guess I'm just a dumb mono
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Nazzadan posted:I guess I'm naive but isn't that not poly? Banging other old people with your partner or having Xsomes seems different than completely opening your relationship to the point of dating multiple people/cohabitating with all the members of the relationship. You're right, but originally I think Mirthless simply said "people in this thread and in general are too hung up about group sex stuff" and then immediately everyone was like 'haha poly relationships are doomed you fool.' but yeah idk open relationships + cohabitating seems like it might work but prolly not for most people and def not for 20 year olds who can't even live with 1 other person without trouble. Although I feel like the line between swinging and open relationship gets pretty drat blurry esp if you're talking about a key party type situation.
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 21:54 |
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Pick posted:CAT CAME FIRST every time my rear end in a top hat cat lies down to cuddle with me it's like i won the lottery. who would try to limit such good fortune?????
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# ? Jan 19, 2017 22:04 |
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My (34m) wife (33f) of 7 years has become obsessed with an online community related to her line of work.quote:My wife is in (book) publishing, and she has become obsessed with the online community surrounding it to the point that she is on Twitter for about 8 hours a day.
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quote:Me [35 F] with my boyfriend [32 M] does not want me in the same room as him when we do taxes. I find it odd. need advice.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:My (34m) wife (33f) of 7 years has become obsessed with an online community related to her line of work. truer words
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subhuman filth posted:Don't be mean Naw man, that was probably my favorite internet burn of 2017.
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quote:Me [26 M] with my FWB [24 F] of 2 months, she told me something I can't get out of my head..
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:My (34m) wife (33f) of 7 years has become obsessed with an online community related to her line of work. social media addiction is a real thing and it's going to be something people talk about increasingly over the next 5-10 years as people wreck their lives obsessively checking their phones
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:My (34m) wife (33f) of 7 years has become obsessed with an online community related to her line of work. quote:Though most of them are Young Adult Literature writers so it makes sense.
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