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WampaLord posted:How about you don't haggle percent points with your partner at all when you both make effectively the same money. If the rent is $3000 a month, it works out to a difference of $180 a month or $2160 a year.
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# ? Jan 21, 2017 23:16 |
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Beachcomber posted:If the rent is $3000 a month, it works out to a difference of $180 a month or $2160 a year. hahaha, jesus loving christ, that's pitiful i'm sure they have a happy life together ahead of them
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# ? Jan 21, 2017 23:19 |
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Gluten Freeman posted:the balls on this girl to ask for this lmao. i love it They both make about the same how is this even an issue? Khorne fucked around with this message at 23:36 on Jan 21, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:hahaha, jesus loving christ, that's pitiful "Honey, I bought lunch last tuesday so it's your turn." "Yes but I didn't want to go to that restaurant, the bill was $80 and now I'm obligated to reciprocate in kind" "Well you don't have to spend the $80 but you can get something else to make up the difference" "What about those shoes I bought you they cost $125?" "What about them they were a gift" "A Gift? You asked me to buy them because you lost your card, I never wanted to buy shoes." I'm sure obsessing over percentage points of income won't lead to actual murder if these two stay together
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# ? Jan 21, 2017 23:39 |
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How has that couple been together for 2 whole years and dude's nutty girlfriend somehow decided this was a good idea out of the blue?
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# ? Jan 21, 2017 23:47 |
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Sometimes the unreasonableness and insufferableness doesn't come out until you try to budget together and merge household expenses. e: if she thinks her boyfriend is a personification of the patriarchy and needs to be punished for the economic oppression of all women everywhere, maybe she should date girls. Clark Nova fucked around with this message at 00:02 on Jan 22, 2017 |
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Beachcomber posted:If the rent is $3000 a month, it works out to a difference of $180 a month or $2160 a year. For a couple that makes a combined 155k a year. Jfc what
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:11 |
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Clark Nova posted:Sometimes the unreasonableness and insufferableness doesn't come out until you try to budget together and merge household expenses. My friend is going through a nasty divorce, and once of the reasons for the divorce is financial disagreements that didn't show up until they'd been living together a good while and she quit an easy if boring office job for...no reason given, and never bothered to find another job. When he would sit down with her to review finances she would get up and literally run from the room and ---I poo poo you not--- told him that seeing bills 'triggered' her, despite not even being the one paying for them.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:19 |
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quote:[M]y (27) wi[f]e (28) of 8 years doesn't want to have sex and told me to cheat instead
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:27 |
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The wife should try having sex with a woman.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:28 |
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RE budgeting couple: I also love how the exact same argument has been posted several times before but with TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES instead of progressive politics
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:29 |
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Its not cheating if its with permission.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:30 |
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Dienes posted:Its not cheating if its with permission. Yea he just has a permanent hall pass.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:33 |
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quote:My [29M] wife's [25F] adopted brother [26M] is in love with her, what do we do now?
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:35 |
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in a shocking twist she doesn't want to have sex because she has been cheating for years and is trying to convince mister clueless to do it so they are even
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:36 |
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Dienes posted:Its not cheating if its with permission. I'm not sure how much would actually change if they just divorced. Taxes, I suppose. Gaunab posted:TL;DR: Wife's adopted brother is in love with her, don't know what to do now. WTF kind of name is "Mon"? Beachcomber fucked around with this message at 00:44 on Jan 22, 2017 |
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Dienes posted:Its not cheating if its with permission. Honestly it's one thing to say she'd be okay with it, but she probably wouldn't if she ever found out. Or maybe she would. Either way if her libido just dropped off a cliff she should probably go to therapy or the doctor just to see what's up even if she's perfectly fine with it as is.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:41 |
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Mirthless posted:they both make stupid amounts of money, too On the upside, he didn't get surprised by this after they moved in together. Better leverage to keep things separate when he can be like "nah I'll renew my lease, get your own place"
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:52 |
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Beachcomber posted:I'm not sure how much would actually change if they just divorced. Taxes, I suppose. short for Monica, or Monster Hunter
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 00:53 |
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imagine if your brother woke up one day and started screaming at you for putting him in the friend zone
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 01:14 |
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i can imagine this dude all sad-sackily obsessing over every negative thing about every one of her boyfriends, trying to get her to free herself up, buying her poo poo, doing favors for her all the time, and thinking, "When is my sister going to finally notice and gently caress me?"
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 01:15 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:We should show this thread to any economist who insists that people are always "rational actors" They'll just tell you that the rational choice in the moment was to risk getting caught for the extremely exciting and pleasurable indulgence. After all, most who cheat are never caught. Most who steal are never punished. Many murders go unsolved or are blamed on the wrong person. The odds are in your favor. Economists are assholes.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 01:59 |
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Beachcomber posted:I'm not sure how much would actually change if they just divorced. Taxes, I suppose. Short for Mons Venus.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:06 |
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quote:Once again, we find ourselves surrounded by misbehaving crotch-fruit in a non-child focused environment. (self.childfree) Who in the hell thinks a chain coffee shop is an adults only space? I mean the kids were being annoying and all, but drat.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:27 |
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Lmao why is it childfree people write so goddamn insufferably. Forthwith we must retreat to the coffee shop! Away!
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:29 |
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quote:Too scared to have sex (self.childfree) I'm pretty sure this is some deep anxiety that needs therapy, not a reddit echo chamber. La Brea Carpet fucked around with this message at 02:53 on Jan 22, 2017 |
# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:48 |
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Sounds like a hormone imbalance
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:50 |
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Mirthless posted:i can imagine this dude all sad-sackily obsessing over every negative thing about every one of her boyfriends, trying to get her to free herself up, buying her poo poo, doing favors for her all the time, and thinking, "When is my sister going to finally notice and gently caress me?" This is basically the plot of The Hotel New Hampshire except that the brother is the protagonist and the sister actually is serially sexually abused by her lovely partners and doesn't find happiness until she rides her brother's healing dilz.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:55 |
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Antivehicular posted:This is basically the plot of The Hotel New Hampshire except that the brother is the protagonist and the sister actually is serially sexually abused by her lovely partners and doesn't find happiness until she rides her brother's healing dilz. Also bears and Vienna to complete the John Irving hat trick.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 02:56 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:I'm pretty sure this is some deep anxiety that needs therapy, not a reddit echo chamber. Sounds like she should sleep with women or invest in the dildonics industry. AND GET loving THERAPY
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 03:07 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:I'm pretty sure this is some deep anxiety that needs therapy, not a reddit echo chamber. She needs a good ol' copper IUD. Done. Although I can't blame her entirely - getting birth control and dealing with an unwanted pregnancy is going to get a LOT harder for the next 4+ years.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 03:18 |
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Moh's hardness scale isn't logarithmic, it's ordinal. It's just a ranking of what is harder than what, there isn't a direct conversion to any of the proper objective measures of hardness.
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open container posted:Moh's hardness scale isn't logarithmic, it's ordinal. It's just a ranking of what is harder than what, there isn't a direct conversion to any of the proper objective measures of hardness. Well, sure, but do you think that's fair to Moh's GF's dog?
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 04:17 |
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My [29F] Husband [39M] of 2 years has one particular friend [28M] that he does not let me meet.quote:Happy Saturday all! So, my husband "Ralph" has had this close friend "Frosty" for a little over a decade. They met when they were working a retail job together, and became close right away. quote:Frosty is the person he used to go to the strip clubs with as single men. I do not mind strip clubs, but if it embarassed my husband in some way, maybe he is worried Frosty would tell me the truth about where they go or what they act like?
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 05:43 |
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Ralph is loving Frosty (Excellent fake names, BTW)
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 05:45 |
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:My [29F] Husband [39M] of 2 years has one particular friend [28M] that he does not let me meet. Your husband is a hitman. E: he's icing someone every time he gets together with his "old buddy" because he has debts, real or imagined.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 05:46 |
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Antivehicular posted:Ralph is loving Frosty Yeah, that's either some hot, gay loving or they're rounding up strippers and doing the Shenzhen Special with them.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 06:01 |
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Barudak posted:Yeah, that's either some hot, gay loving or they're rounding up strippers and doing the Shenzhen Special with them. I figured Frosty just was hugely successful back when they were bachelors so Ralph doesn't want Frosty taking his wife. If Ralph was breaking into her accounts and giving her poo poo for talking to guys before they ever even knew each other then he is insecure enough to think exactly that way and try and keep his wife away from someone he sees as a threat. Which means they are loving since he sees Frosty as this adonis that could steal his wife with just the faintest hint of contact.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 06:07 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:Who in the hell thinks a chain coffee shop is an adults only space? I mean the kids were being annoying and all, but drat. Starbucks is a much too sophisticated and refined space to bring children to! A majority of their sugar drinks have a mild coffee flavor! Adulting!
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:My [29F] Husband [39M] of 2 years has one particular friend [28M] that he does not let me meet. yep either he's loving Frosty and enjoying hot gay orgies or he doesn't exist period.
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