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Relationships are like sharks, they hafta keep moving forwards or they die.
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ArbitraryC posted:Relationships are like sharks, they hafta keep moving forwards or they die. This is true
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Jan 29, 2017 09:16
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ArbitraryC posted:Relationships are like sharks, they hafta keep moving forwards or they die. And occasionally you mistake a surf boarder for a seal and rip off one of their limbs.
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Jan 29, 2017 09:17
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Command Ant posted:And occasionally you mistake a surf boarder for a seal and rip off one of their limbs. There is no you in the relationship shark, only us.
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Jan 29, 2017 09:20
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ArbitraryC posted:No he says that one of the reasons he married her is he thought she'd make a great mom but now among other p standard "drifting apart" stuff the idea that he might not even want kids is making it hard for him to see a future together. There is a reason why the term "starter marriage" exists. They were immature when they got married and now that they've grown and changed it turns out they aren't necessarily headed down the same path anymore. It happens, especially when people marry fairly young. Just have to  and move on or things are only going to get worse.
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Jan 29, 2017 10:00
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Tolkien minority posted:further proof that cat people suck boxer dogs are loving ugly
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Jan 29, 2017 10:07
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Whorelord posted:boxer dogs are loving ugly There's no such thing as an ugly doggy. Or an ugly kitty cat.
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Jan 29, 2017 10:52
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What came to mind with metamour is a play on paramour using the logic of 6 carbon ring nomenclature -  because the 'meta' position is two position removed from the original functional group (R). A 'para'mour is kept as far as possible from the original functional group (hidden lover). A orthomour is a regular spouse?
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Jan 29, 2017 14:55
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- hi
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i don't like dogs
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Jan 29, 2017 17:01
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you bitch motherfucker
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Jan 29, 2017 17:13
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I (22M) Broke up with GF (22F), kicked her out of my house at night and she ended up getting assaulted. Met this girl at university a year and a half ago and we've been dating ever since. I come from a well off family so I've been able to support myself and her for about the year we've been living together, bought her a car, paid for 2 trips and just general living expenses while she studied and finished her last year of university. Turns out the last 2 times she said she was 'going to study' she was actually cheating on me. So as you can expect, when I found out. I absolutely lost it. Long story short, after yelling at her for a few hours, i kicked her out of my house, but first I took her car keys and wallet (I loving paid for them) I gave her, her university ID and drivers license and told her to get the gently caress out. The next part comes from her FB post, but she tried to walk to the train station which is about a 20 minute drive away at 1am, ended up getting mugged, or at least an attempted mugging, when the guy found out she didn't have anything, he punched her in the face, she posted a picture of the black eye online. And now I feel really bad. I didn't want that to happen. Should I leave her alone? Apologize? TLDR Kicked exgf out of my house late at night, she ended up getting robbed.
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Jan 29, 2017 17:17
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Ride The Gravitron posted:I (22M) Broke up with GF (22F), kicked her out of my house at night and she ended up getting assaulted.
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Jan 29, 2017 17:25
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id rather get a black eye then get cheated on multiple times by my girlfriend of over a year. i think thats just karmic balancing in action idk the gloating might tip the scales slightly against him and something minorly bad will happen, like a waiter will spit in his hamburger or something. best to play it safe vvv Tolkien minority fucked around with this message at 17:40 on Jan 29, 2017 |
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Jan 29, 2017 17:33
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Tolkien minority posted:id rather get a black eye then get cheated on multiple times by my girlfriend of over a year. i think thats just karmic balancing in action Maybe he should just comment "karma, bitch" on the photo, I think it would go well
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Jan 29, 2017 17:34
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Her cheating is dumb but I don't see how him taking her keys, wallet, university ID and license was at all warranted or okay. Like what the gently caress?
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Jan 29, 2017 17:45
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Clocks posted:Her cheating is dumb but I don't see how him taking her keys, wallet, university ID and license was at all warranted or okay. Like what the gently caress? he didnt take her id or license hes just really bad at the english language. edit Therapist or TheRapist?? I'm (28F) not sure if what mt therapist (30sM) said to me is creepy and inappropriate quote:So I started seeing my therapist a few months ago and after the first session I decided I liked him and felt like I could trust him. We've recently been doing some work on my lack of assertiveness/ inability to call people out if they upset me because I'm scared of hurting their feelings. Tolkien minority fucked around with this message at 17:58 on Jan 29, 2017 |
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Jan 29, 2017 17:50
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Tolkien minority posted:he didnt take her id or license hes just really bad at the english language. What. The. gently caress. 
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Jan 29, 2017 18:08
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To the licensure board, away!
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Jan 29, 2017 18:10
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Tolkien minority posted:
I go to therapy, and this makes me not want a male therapist even more. Sent shivers down my spine. He is extremely creepy and unprofessional, she should call his supervisor if he has one.
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Jan 29, 2017 18:11
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Subjunctive posted:To the licensure board, away! That poo poo needs to be reported yesterday. If he's done it to her, he's done it to his other female patients.
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Jan 29, 2017 18:16
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I cannot but agree.
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Jan 29, 2017 18:17
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Dienes posted:That poo poo needs to be reported yesterday. If he's done it to her, he's done it to his other female patients.
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Jan 29, 2017 18:21
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quote:Went on to hint that my rape was my fault. Do I sack him off? I've never heard this phrase before and thought she was asking if she should blow him but had a typo
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Jan 29, 2017 18:37
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The girl in this story is going placesquote:I [15M\ cheated on my girlfriend [15M] now she's dating with one of the football guys [15M]
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Jan 29, 2017 18:51
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A loin den with lots of sausage sounds pretty kinky
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Jan 29, 2017 18:53
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La Brea Carpet posted:The girl in this story is going places Hey buddy, what about that girl you cheated on her with? She must be way better since you did that. Ah well youre 15 and hopefully this is an abject lesson for you and once everyone is done ripping on you in highschool forever you can be a better person.
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Jan 29, 2017 18:57
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La Brea Carpet posted:The girl in this story is going places One of the Football Guys Bitches and Whores, am i rite?
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Jan 29, 2017 19:11
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Ocean Book posted:What came to mind with metamour is a play on paramour using the logic of 6 carbon ring nomenclature - Googling orthomour turned up one post with this exact question and one Tumblr where the poster only knew paramour and jokingly asks about metamours and orthomours. So maybe?
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Jan 29, 2017 19:14
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The_Franz posted:There is a reason why the term "starter marriage" exists. They were immature when they got married and now that they've grown and changed it turns out they aren't necessarily headed down the same path anymore. It happens, especially when people marry fairly young. Just have to Yeah I completely agree I just thought it was off the wall someone's response to that fairly mundane post was "he views her as nothing more than a vagina and is ruining her life". Marriages ending when the spark fades after a couple years is incredibly common, just be glad they don't have kids.
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Jan 29, 2017 19:15
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Tiny Deer posted:My (27/f) meta (29/f) is freaking out because I asked my husband (32/m) to stay with me rather than go on a date with her. Remember when I said poly poo poo never works forever cause some tragedy eventually pops up. This is exactly what happens.
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Jan 29, 2017 19:23
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La Brea Carpet posted:The girl in this story is going places She should make a sign that says "Jeff (presumed name) you suck" and wave it around while watches the royal rumble alone, sobbing.
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Jan 29, 2017 19:27
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WoodrowSkillson posted:Remember when I said poly poo poo never works forever cause some tragedy eventually pops up. This is exactly what happens. Death in the family is like one of my goto examples of "what if you need emotional support but your partner is off bangin someone else".
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Jan 29, 2017 19:31
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ArbitraryC posted:Death in the family is like one of my goto examples of "what if you need emotional support but your partner is off bangin someone else". Excuse me but I'm an emotional libertarian and cannot be assed if my wife's mother just died, I have a mistress' tits to jizz
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Jan 29, 2017 19:43
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Pick posted:Excuse me but I'm an emotional libertarian and cannot be assed if my wife's mother just died, I have a mistress' tits to jizz Yeah, really, if she's sad because her mom died that's an aggressive act towards me and I really don't appreciate it. She should feel bad. 
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Jan 29, 2017 19:45
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Poly couples and their emotional libertarian metamours should all 
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Jan 29, 2017 19:50
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On the brightside maybe they'll talk it out how things played out when she really needed him and realize that poly relationships sacrifice some of the most vital parts of a relationship, they'll dump their sidepieces and live happily ever after. Lol that aint gonna happen
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Jan 29, 2017 19:53
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The husband actually left too, not the day of but he did run to her side to comfort her over I guess the trauma of being such a raging self-absorbed motherfucker. All this work and elaborate design, all these rules and regulations and terminology, and just to gently caress up a relationship in exactly the same way as you would with a regular mistress. Now for a guy with a different problem: Is it just me, or is there an inherent gender imbalance in this entire equation? quote:Wife and I opened our relationship about a month ago. Of course the community immediately came to his rescue, with helpful comments like: quote:You started by making up things in your head, about what hypothetical people think. And then went from there to use those thoughts as data points to state that the agreement is in her favor. quote:This has never been an issue for me. We don't compete, and the guy I am dating doesn't have a problem finding other women. quote:Or, to look at it differently, talking about online poly dating for example...there are hundreds of comments in this forum about how bad the messages and profiles of the majority of men on OKC who message women are. Oh no nevermind it's all his fault. The comments are usually the best part of these as dozens of people get together to tell the person posting that any emotional issues they have are ultimately their own fault and if they were a better person they wouldn't feel the way they do. These people claim to be a supportive, inclusive community.
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Jan 29, 2017 20:03
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Tiny Deer posted:
a hallmark of toxic communities
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Jan 29, 2017 20:09
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Tiny Deer posted:The husband actually left too, not the day of but he did run to her side to comfort her over I guess the trauma of being such a raging self-absorbed motherfucker. lmao im glad i can say retard in gbs cause drat whata bunch of retards
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Jan 29, 2017 20:11
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Lonely Virgil posted:She should make a sign that says "Jeff (presumed name) you suck" and wave it around while watches the royal rumble alone, sobbing. I take umbrage at this.
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