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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:I [19M] won't be able to celebrate my girlfriend's [30F] birthday with her and she is very upset. i feel like knowing them since they were 9 and then waiting til they are 17 to start "getting closer" to them takes it from pretty standard age gap to borderline pedophilia
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How much you wanna bet she likes to be called mommy in bed?
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Moridin920 posted:People just don't know how to negotiate for themselves anymore. They are told that work is the best and working is life and be diligent and don't be lazy blah blah blah then on the backend management fucks them because they recognize a schlub that will hack code for 60+ hours a week until forever and never ask for a raise or seek alternative job offers and work them to death. most of the people working 60+ hour cube farm jobs are in that position cause they're The Jungle-level expendable drones management doesn't give a poo poo about, with no real negotiating leverage other than being willing to take on two normal jobs for the pay of one and a half and be permanently on call ER-style if their boss says so. Just cause programmer nerds get paid a lot doesn't mean these dudes are doctors or lawyers or something where it takes like twenty years to just get minimally qualified for the job and there's a trade guild restricting the competition; there's bountiful cheap alternatives who can do the same work 90% as well as they can, they're just barely clinging onto a super toxic ununionized trade where there's a few niches for high-skilled workaholics. Tolkien minority posted:i feel like knowing them since they were 9 and then waiting til they are 17 to start "getting closer" to them takes it from pretty standard age gap to borderline pedophilia pretty sure what this guy was doing qualifies as grooming yeah A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 19:08 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:pretty sure what this guy was doing qualifies as grooming yeah It's actually a rare older lady story.
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That code monkey sex dude story is also even sillier when you realize he's all like "I guess my wife wants to have a kid. It's fine. I'm not really into it. " Imagine his attitude when he's still doing 60+ hour work weeks with an irritable pregnant wife, and then later a crying baby and equally irritable overburdened wife who can't even hand off her kid to her dumbass husband because he's almost never around.
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a lot of tech jobs are that exact sort of insane garbage but there are a bunch of companies where you can get paid really decent money straight out of college to make websites for them or modernize a database or whatever, but those are boring and use a lot of old technology so kids trick themselves into thinking that working double overtime every single day is fine as long as they get to use a programming language with a cool name startups are the worst, basically, and any job that has to convince you that it's cool is probably actually awful
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Maybe it would help motivate the code guy for more sex and less work if his wife cut out the creepy dirty talk about mixed babies.
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Fullhouse posted:a lot of tech jobs are that exact sort of insane garbage but there are a bunch of companies where you can get paid really decent money straight out of college to make websites for them or modernize a database or whatever, but those are boring and use a lot of old technology so kids trick themselves into thinking that working double overtime every single day is fine as long as they get to use a programming language with a cool name my friend got a job at Northropp right outta college with a decent but not amazing GPA. 40 hours a week except every other Friday off. Full benefits. $75k+ when he started (it is more now that he has been there a couple years). Nothing super sexy, nothing super flashy, but he also isn't killing himself. My other friend did the same exact thing down to the every other Friday off but at another company. I don't doubt there is tough competition in the field (and increasingly so as people swarm to it) but c'mon you can't tell me it is just average to work 60+ hours a week and get treated worse than a dishwasher and they gotta just take it up the butt and deal.
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Moridin920 posted:I don't doubt there is tough competition in the field (and increasingly so as people swarm to it) but c'mon you can't tell me it is just average to work 60+ hours a week and get treated worse than a dishwasher and they gotta just take it up the butt and deal. This. The people working 60 hours are doing it wrong, that is not the norm.
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WampaLord posted:This. The people working 60 hours are doing it wrong, that is not the norm. But I need to keep up my overtime to retire 5 years earlier!!!! *forgets that I'm now divorced, balding, and I missed out on having fun in my life*
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I'm picturing a blue and white sailor outfit with a sucker in his mouth.
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WampaLord posted:This. The people working 60 hours are doing it wrong, that is not the norm. Tech giants have worked really hard to obfuscate this fact. The fact that they primarily employ very young people right out of college is not a coincidence.
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r/incest_relationships is more hosed up than it sounds. Fair warning, apparently graphic descriptions are against the rules but they don't seem to be enforced. [/quote] Grevling fucked around with this message at 19:48 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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ThePeavstenator posted:Tech giants have worked really hard to obfuscate this fact. The fact that they primarily employ very young people right out of college is not a coincidence. What %age of hires at tech giants are new grads? What's the average work week length at those companies? I'm curious to compare your information to my own.
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Now she'll never get on the cover of Motherboy.
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Please don't post incest stories; they're just sad.
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Grevling posted:r/incest_relationships is more hosed up than it sounds. Fair warning, apparently graphic descriptions are against the rules but they don't seem to be enforced.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:I [19M] won't be able to celebrate my girlfriend's [30F] birthday with her and she is very upset.
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Gaunab posted:Please don't post incest stories; they're just sad.
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Grevling, this thread is not where you build your spank bank.
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Sorry, I'll delete the stories. I should have known better.
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Subjunctive posted:What %age of hires at tech giants are new grads? What's the average work week length at those companies? I'm curious to compare your information to my own. The example I've dealt with personally (never worked there, know people personally who have) is Epic in Madison, WI. They advertize their huge campus and how the buildings are all themed and all the cool benefits you get the longer you stay an employee. They heavily recruit at colleges, and usually those grads say for 1-3 years and then leave. From what I understand about the hours per week, it's variable but hovers around 50-60 and spikes up to 80 sometimes. They also have that nice tech cult thing where they have lots of internal certifications that mean nothing to anyone outside of the company. Some posters in YOSPOS have worked there and have told some horror stories. Tech Giants/Startups aren't the worst places to work in the grand scheme of things, you get paid and the workplaces have all the advertised stuff, but there's a reason that 30-40 year olds with a decade of experience in their career look at those places and go "nah". ThePeavstenator fucked around with this message at 19:51 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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Grevling posted:Sorry, I'll delete the stories. I should have known better. Thank you.
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ThePeavstenator posted:The example I've dealt with personally (never worked there) is Epic in Madison, WI. If you think Epic is a tech giant, we're not really going to agree enough on basic facts to have a useful discussion, I fear.
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That is probably exactly what poo poo tons of tech companies that exploit grads do though. Like when you call the number promising a great job opportunity for college kids and it is just Vector Marketing.
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My girlfriend [17] says she will not allow me [20] to purchase a motorcycle.quote:Although I have never ridden one, I have had an interest in motorcycles for quite some time. I have been toying with the idea of purchasing a sport bike for a couple of years, but I have pretty much decided to give it a shot in December or January. Here's where my dilemma is: my girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years (our anniversary is on New Year's Day) and I absolutely love her unconditionally. My underage girlfriend won't let me, an adult male, purchase something I want. Also he says he is an EMT and totally downplays the statistical risks of riding a bike and in the comments blows off other EMTs saying motorcycles are donorcycles and he should never get one. Going through his posting history he never updated this story, but he has purchased a bike a few years ago and his friends all made fun of him for what he got
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Moridin920 posted:That is probably exactly what poo poo tons of tech companies that exploit grads do though. There are lots of lovely companies in software, finance, insurance, entertainment, agriculture, etc. I was asking about a more specific assertion, which doesn't match my observations.
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I dunno what "will not allow me" means other than she'll stop dating him or something but dude should just get a bike if he wants one that bad. She's totally right that he'd be an idiot to get one but hey. Comparing riding a motorcycle to a horse lmao okay dude that's gonna be of great help to you when a fuckwit merges into you going 80mph on the highway. Subjunctive posted:There are lots of lovely companies in software, finance, insurance, entertainment, agriculture, etc. I was asking about a more specific assertion, which doesn't match my observations. Oh well yea then idk. The idea that 60+ work week is normal and required is coming from somewhere though; but yeah maybe not necessarily tech giants. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 19:56 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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I mean, everyone who starts riding motorcycles is accepting more risk than most people. Really, though, the problem is he got involved with a Horse Girl. What biek did he get? Edit: Oh his friends peer pressured him into going with an R6, a 600cc supersport that hates you for being new to riding. Coulda had an FZ6 that actually might not have killed him but still had a 600cc engine. Or the blue sv650 that literally everyone owned at some point. Yea, this dude's judgement is bad. TheScott2K fucked around with this message at 20:01 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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TheScott2K posted:I mean, everyone who starts riding motorcycles is accepting more risk than most people. Really, though, the problem is he got involved with a Horse Girl. edit: im wrong, I misread his posts, you nailed it
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Mods please tile this and the Mario dodging a bullet .gif as the background of this thread, I dont care how many people's internets can't handle it.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Right. People who seriously subscribe to the ideal of American work culture where working as long and hard as possible until you die is the ideal are missing out on life. People should be working enough to support an enjoyable lifestyle with their loved ones and friends. That's it. Leave the heavy lifting to the other fools who are into American work culture. TheScott2K posted:My life got so much better once I figured this out. Oh man, I've spent the last few months in danger of this. I graduated post secondary, and immediately got hired part time in my field, but I kept my serving job because it was great money. In August I got moved up to full time hours in my field but I am still working 30-35 hours as a waiter at night. This has had a huge negative effect on my social life, my health (I have no time to go to the gym), my sex life, my personal time, etc. On the upside, I have a timeline. I'm two months out from salary and benefits, and 3 months out from paying off all of my student and credit card debt. Eyes on the prize, and I will be working my dream job comfortably with no debt and I can stop working in the god drat service industry (or at least do it less) This is my story about work-life balance being good.
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It's fine to tip it one way once in a while as long as you have a plan and whatnot but the people that are all "if you only work 40 hours then you are a lazy piece of poo poo" are straight outta like 1810 or something.
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Moridin920 posted:my friend got a job at Northropp right outta college with a decent but not amazing GPA. 40 hours a week except every other Friday off. Full benefits. $75k+ when he started (it is more now that he has been there a couple years). Nothing super sexy, nothing super flashy, but he also isn't killing himself. yeah but they're not making the deece six figgies there's the totally fine technical niches with mediocre pay and a normal work-life balance and there's the prestige jobs for Google or startup.com or whatever that sound wildly overpaid on paper except actually, you're not, you're just working two fulltime jobs for the salary of one and a half fulltime jobs. And since dumbfuck kids straight out of college go into those jobs and never develop any other work experience (or experience with living on less than one and a half salaries per person) they decide that's just life and they have to keep doing that forever or they'll starve. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 20:23 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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My fiancee [22 M] and I [20F] (4 years) Get in fights over me getting a job.What should I do?quote:He has been getting mad because I don't have a job I understand that but he should also understand its because of my anxiety and PTSD (I did NOT have that when we started dating but have had it for a year and a half) Someone in the comments nailed it perfectly quote:I'm going to bet that your fiancee isn't mad that you don't have a job so much as he's frustrated that you don't seem to be doing anything to try to get over your crippling anxiety. You seem to have just accepted that this is the way it's going to be, period. Also she just posts on a subreddit devoted to making GBS threads on Christians all day. Not related to her inability to get help for her anxiety, but funny. Some of her threads -What will happen if the rapture doesn't happen like Christians think it will because of gay marriage? -Why can't Christians understand that passing gay marriage isn't taking away their religious rights? -Why do women follow ANY type of Christianity? -Goodness gracious,Chistians being percicuted again... lol Fake edit: Found this in her posting history in a thread titled "Things you can't do" quote:Push ups,I can't even do one and couldn't even do one when I was in shape. I can't even do the "girl pushup" either
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yeah but they're not making the deece six figgies The Northropp dude is about to be though. I dunno I just always remember my good friend in middle/high school's dad who was an investment banker at Goldman Sachs - dude had a stupid amount of money but never got a chance to enjoy it. I guess he enjoyed his nice BMW to and from work but yeesh dude seemed miserable.
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"I couldn't even do one push-up when I was in shape!" Then you weren't in shape, sweetheart.
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The fiance [30sM] of my best friend [29F] wants me [29F] to stop calling her the nickname I gave her. I don't know how to diplomatically tell him no.quote:So there's me [29F], my best friend [29F], and her fiance [30sM]. They just got engaged last week. I'm going to be her maid of honor. Yay! Maybe fiancee just hates snitches. Oh well, OP and his friend can get married and enjoy excellent television together now.
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this ones kinda interesting [32M] love my girlfriend[32F] of 8 years, but she's asexual and it's tearing me apart submitted 8 hours ago * by iwannadoasex quote:We've been together for 8 years and she still makes my heart leap. We still read each other's minds, get excited about the same stuff, turn to each other when we're struggling. But she doesn't like sex. We've tried, but it takes too much emotional energy to keep going with someone that doesn't feel lust, or a drive to want their partner sexually. Even when we've had sex that we've both enjoyed, I know she'd quite happily never do it again. And in a way I support her, she has every right to that part of her personality.
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Grevling posted:The fiance [30sM] of my best friend [29F] wants me [29F] to stop calling her the nickname I gave her. I don't know how to diplomatically tell him no. This sounds like a case of not very Easy D.
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