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Here's some more heritage posting: My [21f] boyfriend [23m] won't stop obsessing over the fact that I'm texting people in another language. quote:My boyfriend, 'Abram', and I have been together for a year and a half. Abram is white, I am korean. Our relationship has been amazing up until a few weeks ago when my boyfriend started to get suspicious of who I have been texting in Korean. I am constantly reassuring him that I am only talking to friends and family but he does not believe me no matter what I say, and it's starting to make me rethink our entire relationship. First is where whitey is the heroine: Me [23 F - White] with my BF [24 M - Korean], 2-years in, cultural issues becoming worse quote:Hi /r/relationships - using a throwaway as I don't want people I know to know how bad things have become. Lady, I don't know if I'd call 's 'cultural' issues. Also something something, should've kicked dogs instead. Now the tables are turned, as whitey is now the villain: Had arguments with my caucasian boyfriend [32m] who was insensitive about racial issue with me[27F] (Korean) quote:So I[27f] am Korean living in US for 15 years, I came here when I was 11 years old. I have been dating my boyfriend [32m] for almost 3 years who is caucasian, and he is from Michigan. We are talking about getting engaged once I find a job. (I just graduated from nursing school and am applying for RN positions) I mean other than the Chinatown incident this doesn't seem that bad. Funny about the Korean BBQ thing because afaik, it's hip and trendy nowadays to eat dog meat. Anyway, let's look through her post hist- doubting about getting married to my ASD boyfriend. (self.aspergers) quote:I'm NT 27 female, my boyfriend is 32 ASD male. We've been dating almost 3 years and I'm getting frustrated more often about our relationship. I knew from the beginning that he has aspergers and I didn't really care. He seemed like a genuine nice guy. Goofy, quirky, I loved him. I still do, but I am doubting the relationship more and more. Goodness lady, well it's time to se- (28F) really don't want to invite my fiance's uncle(60 m) to our wedding. quote:So fiance(34 m) and I (28F) are getting married this coming October, and I REALLLLLLY don't want to invite his uncle(60m) to our wedding. Let's call him uncle Joe. My fiance and his family are from Michigan. lol that you decided to continue on with this relationship towards marriage. Guess you should have a kid- Working as a postpartum nurse makes me want to go CF.RANT (self.childfree) quote:I used to love children in my early 20s. I thought babies were cute (hate toddlers though), children were ok. As I grew up older, got into serious relationship with my boyfriend who has aspergers, I was turning more into CF person day by day. I also have history of depression and anxiety. I didn't want to pass down that gene. Okay, guess not. The rest of her posts mostly consist of talking about racial issues, anti-circumcision, and correcting childfree posters or ranting on it.
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My wife 31/F committed several felonies and is now in Rehab. Should I 31/M stay or go?quote:So I'm going to try and keep this as short and simple as possible even though its pretty complicated. I'll start at the begging. During 2015 my wife started working at a doctors office in the city we lived in at the time. I was working in the oil field making very good money so we rarely relied on the money she was making, in fact she didn't need to work at all. I ended up getting laid off and moved our family from Texas to Arizona where my parents are living. Well we really needed were last pay check and eventually ger W2 from the job. Long story short after months of arguing about what was going on, turns out she never had a job. She had placed our son in daycare for 9 months so she could either sit at home or in a store parking lot pretending to have a job. We fought for a few days and I eventually calmed down. About a week later I find pawn shop receipts in the glove compartment of my truck. Looking at the receipts I panicked, I ran to our room ( a room in parents house, we stayed with them for a short time) looked for my gun cases and found they were empty. Turns out she pawned my 2 shotguns (My Great Grand Fathers) and her wedding ring (said she had lost it in the move). This turns into a massive fight, we were able to buy back her wedding ring but were unable to get my guns back. Fast forward to September of last year and shes working at a small dentist office, everything seems to be going great, but suddenly she starts acting weird and I automatically assume shes been fired and is covering it up. I have a good job and just didn't have the time to leave and go check on her. I enable GPS on her phone so I could track her phone from work and sure enough shes there everyday. Again long story short she was parked out side the job just close enough for GPS to show her there, but far enough away to not be seen. Again big fight, lots of wtf's are you completely insane and what not. So she ends up getting a really good job at a dentists office right down the street from our home. They love her give raise monthly and me free dental work. Fast forward to 2 weeks ago. I was at work and my phone is blowing up, I'm talking with my co workers and have to excuse myself. I answer the phone. thinking it was my wife and to my surprise a local Narcotics officer answers asking me to come home. I get home and cops are all over the place, turns out my wife had been forging prescriptions for Vicoden, so many she got red flagged by the county narcotics task force. So she went to jail for a few days and was bonded out. She was taken to rehab as soon as she was released. I have only talked to her a few times as patients are only able to make a few calls the first two weeks. She does seem a little better, shes not making excuses for her action, her bitchy tone has disappeared. I talked to her last night and told her I wanted a legal separation and primary custody of my Son and she agreed. So my question is now that shes actually looking for help, should I give her another chance. My plan is, since shes going to be in rehab for another 2.5 months I would attend some counseling sessions and when she gets out I don't want her back in the house for 6 months to see if she can actually to keep to her word and make real changes in her life. I am sorry this is so long, I know this seems pretty obvious but I would like some real opinions. Thank you much in advance. Sorry spelling and grammar.
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Dude, no wonder you have money issues, rope to let someone hang themselves with isnt free.
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Applesnots posted:If you make a gun at home it does not have to have any markings or registration. Welcome to america. If you make beer at home you better be drat sure you know your local laws before you try to sell it to anyone else, but if you make a gun you can pretty much do whatever you want with it. This country is loving bananas.
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Why do people stay with chronic liars? Is it a case of not comprehending that they can have it better?
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Modern Day Hercules posted:If you make beer at home you better be drat sure you know your local laws before you try to sell it to anyone else, but if you make a gun you can pretty much do whatever you want with it. This country is loving bananas. if you sell your unserialed homebrew zipgun and anyone in law enforcement finds out you're in for a world of hurt bootleggers can't even fathom, but short of like making backyard nuclear reactors you can pretty much do what the gently caress you like in America so long as you keep it to yourself.
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VanSandman posted:Why do people stay with chronic liars? Is it a case of not comprehending that they can have it better? I'm gonna guess that the chronic liars are really good at apologizing and promising not to do stuff ever again.
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TheKennedys posted:As we used to say in the sweaty-nerd-heavy gaming business, single/sane/attractive, pick two As I noticed from friends in the sweaty-nerd-heavy gaming business, they pick one (attractive)
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Wait, I thought it was: smart/sane/attractive/single pick two. Dating in gaming is definitely: sweaty/nerd/heavy/pick two or more E: forgot single Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 18:16 on Mar 5, 2017 |
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age/sex/location pick two
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age and location! 69/the butt
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Pvt.Scott posted:Wait, I thought it was: smart/sane/attractive/single pick two. "smart" has never been included any time I've seen it because men apparently don't give a poo poo
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 18:37 |
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Nor woman; both genders of sweaty geeks are equally terrible in their dating habits
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whoablackbetty posted:My wife 31/F committed several felonies and is now in Rehab. Should I 31/M stay or go? I'm impressed at how much story was crammed into so few words. My imagination went inter state on that one.
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whoablackbetty posted:My wife 31/F committed several felonies and is now in Rehab. Should I 31/M stay or go? Elsa posted:I'm impressed at how much story was crammed into so few words. My imagination went inter state on that one. Amen, block of text worth reading. Poor guy.
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I hope he doesn't take her back. That is some saint-like patience to have that happens over and over and still wonder if he should give it another shot
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whoablackbetty posted:My wife 31/F committed several felonies and is now in Rehab. Should I 31/M stay or go? So what, was she just getting high in her car? Isn't that how a goon died?
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Pick posted:"smart" has never been included any time I've seen it because men apparently don't give a poo poo Huh. I've never heard it without smart, and I usually truck with dorks, crazies and weirdos. might just be a regional thing.
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Pvt.Scott posted:Huh. I've never heard it without smart, and I usually truck with dorks, crazies and weirdos. might just be a regional thing. Smart has always been included when I've heard that kind of thing. I usually go for smart and hot because I am awful
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Eh I just stick to single and things work out pretty well. I'm not so great myself. Pretty sure my only appeal is "new."
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Elsa posted:Eh I just stick to single and things work out pretty well. I'm not so great myself. Pretty sure my only appeal is "new." Please don't date newborns
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honestly, you can only really choose from 2 of young/dumb/full of cum
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# ? Mar 5, 2017 19:41 |
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The childhood version I heard said that you get to pick two of fashionable, corrigible, and scrutable.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:The childhood version I heard said that you get to pick two of fashionable, corrigible, and scrutable. woah you went to a good school
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:corrigible, and scrutable. This would be amazing and that tells me you're making a joke I don't get
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Pick posted:"smart" has never been included any time I've seen it because men apparently don't give a poo poo That's because you hang out with poo poo heads, incase you hadn't figured it out yet.
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LethalGeek posted:That's because you hang out with poo poo heads, incase you hadn't figured it out yet. that's STEM
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Pick posted:that's STEM Hang out with more poor people and Liberal Arts majors, I guess.
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Me [36 F] having hots for my brother-in-law [36 M] not able to distract myself from him?Relationships submitted an hour ago by indisusy I had always been attracted to my brother-in-law a few years since he got married to my sister younger to me by 3 years. This could be because of myself and sister sharing our personal lives between us. However I and my hubby have been able to maintain a healthy relationship between my sister and her husband (brother-in-law). Being on the friendlier side, I get along very well with my brother-in-law and sometimes end up flirting with him, which could sometimes be in presence of my hubby and sister. I havent got any negative responses/complaints from them yet on this. My brother-in-law on the other hand sometimes downplays this or plays along depending on the warrants of the situation and environment we are in. However I noticed that when we both are together alone, he too plays along with my flirtatious behavior, a good example of which would be his behavior when we both are at the disc or bar without our partners. We both haven't crossed our lines of control yet but have involved ourselves in a few naughty stuff occasionally which he consciously withdraws himself from if he finds its going out of control. Sometimes he gets too protective of me when we both are in public places as well. This behavior of his keeps me wondering if he has some kind of spark for me in him cause the spark for him is building in me. A year has a half back by husband elder to my by 7 years had to under a major cardiac operation. Post the medical procedure he has been conscious not to exert himself too much in physical activities like sports etc (the sports person he used to be - marathon runner). As a result of this medical procedure the intimacy between has come down to a trickle and sometimes nonexistent for weeks. I do play an active role in trying to build his libido up but I am not sure if he is losing or has lost his interest in me. We did look at medical options but haven't been very successful. Being very upset on what had happened (medical procedure), I also happened to share this with my sister. She tried comforting me that things would work out. My brother-in-law and sister had been a very good support to us during our difficult times and I was moved by the kind of care he was showing on me during this difficult period. He is again visiting our city on work beinging Monday and this time my husband too won't be in town as he is traveling for two weeks. I am not sure, how I would be able to can my inner feelings for him and control myself so as to not let loose the build up in me. tl;dr: how should I distract myself from my brother-in-law with me being in a kind of deprived state?
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Pick posted:Me [36 F] having hots for my brother-in-law [36 M] not able to distract myself from him?Relationships Furious masturbation is the answer.
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Pick posted:Me [36 F] having hots for my brother-in-law [36 M] not able to distract myself from him?Relationships
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Her only option is to gently caress her brother-in-law. Well, that, or exercise a normal amount of self-control and not betray her husband and sister.
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That sounds like a European art house film
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Hedenius posted:I'm generally against the death penalty but I'll make an exception for anyone using the word hubby. Sexy times with hubby.
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Pvt.Scott posted:Furious masturbation is the answer. With the porno on full volume.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:That sounds like a
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quote:A year has a half back by husband elder to my by 7 years had to under a major cardiac operation. wot Is that basically "My husband had heart surgery and has to take it easy with loving for a while how do I stop myself from boning my sister's husband instead during these trying times?" 'cuz wow
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Pick posted:tl;dr: how should I distract myself from my brother-in-law with me being in a kind of deprived state? Maybe I'm loving weird but what is wrong with people that they have to cheat once their spouse is laid up after surgery? Don't they know what a dildo or fleshlight is?
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She just wants someone to give her an excuse to bone the forbidden dick she's been pining for.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Her only option is to gently caress her brother-in-law. Well, that, or exercise a normal amount of self-control and not betray her husband and sister. Well we all know that the latter is an outrageous idea so that still really only leaves one option.
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