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fruit on the bottom posted:Coming at you from r/legaladvice Aint no judge gonna look at this request and think "This is normal, just gonna let this move forward as a condition of the divorce without question, ooh wonder whats on TV tonight"
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That son really must suck.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:That son really must suck. Not very well, apparently.
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Can't recall if this was posted before... My [40F] husband [45H] of 10 years always ruins my birthday. quote:i had hoped this year would magically be different after having what I thought were productive conversations about his behavior in previous years, but no such luck. Once more he ended up treating me like crap and didn't do any of the things he said he would. I had a hard time just not bolding the whole thing...
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May 3, 2017 00:59
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"My partner is great except for how they spew flaming poo poo on me at random" - /r/relationships.
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Hughlander posted:My [40F] husband [45H] My gender is Husband.
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I'm trying to concoct a scenario where such behavior is warranted and it involves a 3 year old wearing a fedora emblazoned with "mommy's perfect boy" telling the dad about how he finally convinced his mom to liquidate the joint savings to sell roller skates for dogs.
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May 3, 2017 01:01
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He mad that she getting older
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May 3, 2017 01:02
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Don't some kids grow out of their asthma lol
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UnfurledSails posted:Don't some kids grow out of their asthma lol Yea which is double lol
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The dad is loving a younger woman and using his kid as an excuse.
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May 3, 2017 01:14
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Who What Now posted:The dad is loving a younger woman and using his kid as an excuse. Yea you don't go out to buy cigarettes like that if you're not about to go to another woman's house
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Who What Now posted:The dad is loving a younger woman and using his kid as an excuse. Wouldn't he want access to the irregular kid to optimize his sob-story?
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Barudak posted:Wouldn't he want access to the irregular kid to optimize his sob-story? The dude obviously isn't smart.
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May 3, 2017 01:17
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He buys his daughter a shirt with a tiara on it and the text emblazoned in glitter "Daddy's Little Prop"
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May 3, 2017 01:20
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Who What Now posted:The dad is loving a younger woman and using his kid as an excuse. If this was true, you would think he'd be smart enough to pick a better, more sympathetic sounding, lie.
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UnfurledSails posted:Don't some kids grow out of their asthma lol What, should I give give him a loving medal for breathing?
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WampaLord posted:If this was true, you would think he'd be smart enough to pick a better, more sympathetic sounding, lie. Maybe he just hates that kid as well, so two birds one stone.
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fruit on the bottom posted:What, should I give give him a loving medal for breathing? Typical millennial snowflakes can't even breathe without help
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Girlfriend (27F) "told on" me (32M) to my boss (45-50s) about something that happened on a business tripquote:We work in the same company, different departments. Recently we've had some minor overlap with work functions but it's been like 4 years of this, not a big deal. We've only been dating about a year though.
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May 3, 2017 02:08
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Doesnt sound like he needs to do much and one of these days shell bring the relationship to a crashing end all by herself.
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That's gotta be one of the more awful people we've seen recently. it'd be like drunk driving then trying to get the police who arrested you in trouble via personal connections.
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Texting and driving? Oh no no no, I was shopping and driving with a loved one asleep next to me.
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She also has a spouse and a dad figure in the work place so either she has issues or lives in a 90s sitcom.
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CharlestheHammer posted:She also has a spouse and a dad figure in the work place so either she has issues or lives in a 90s sitcom. Just Shoot Me getting a modern reboot
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Your boss hasn't said anything because he doesn't care about any of this poo poo. Please just meet your quotas. Please. He has to meet with the VP next week and he needs this more than you think.
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May 3, 2017 02:34
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Hughlander posted:Can't recall if this was posted before... I think this or a version of it has been posted before but it's a great one.
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My (24F) helicopter mother has threatened to call the police on my boyfriend (25M) if I move outquote:I'm currently living with my mother and my brother, have my own job and moved back in after uni. My mom has always been a bit controlling - I am not allowed to lock my bedroom door, not allowed to stay over at a friend's, not allowed to drink etc. Periodically, she will take my phone away to 'punish' me for coming home after a night of drinking - occasionally, this has gotten violent with her pulling my hair and continuously slapping me, to which I have (regretfully) retaliated with force at times. She can be emotionally hurtful - she has often called me a slut or a whore after she read one series of private texts between me and an ex boyfriend. She will also make constant comparisons between my father (who walked out on us) and I, saying that I 'sleep around and gently caress men'. Last month, she took $15,000 out of my savings account and transferred it to her own account without asking me (she has power of attorney to all my bank accounts), saying that it was to help out with my tax payments. 
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I work with people's money and have had to deal with PoA stuff occasionally. Usually it's older people giving a kid control of their finances so they can manage medical expenses or elderly care/home payments. My experience is limited but I think she's turbofucked until she gets that rescinded. PoA is separate from any forms a bank will give you. Even if she opened another bank account her mother could give them the British equivalent of her Social to track down the account and send in the paperwork to get control. cumshitter fucked around with this message at 05:27 on May 3, 2017 |
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Haifisch posted:My (24F) helicopter mother has threatened to call the police on my boyfriend (25M) if I move out why did the mom have custody in the first place?
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ArbitraryC posted:why did the mom have custody in the first place? Maybe we read that wrong? as in, the mother is 24?
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ArbitraryC posted:why did the mom have custody in the first place? Probably done while OP was a minor and didn't understand the implications.
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Avenging_Mikon posted:Probably done while OP was a minor and didn't understand the implications. I know but I mean like considering how awful of a person she clearly is even outside of the current problems how did the dad not win like full custody. She straight up suggests literal physical abuse in the post, that seems like a p no brainer. I'm guessing the sad truth is he either died or wanted nothing to do with the way, just depressing to think about.
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ArbitraryC posted:I know but I mean like considering how awful of a person she clearly is even outside of the current problems how did the dad not win like full custody. Seems like the dad went out to buy cigarettes, you have to go to court for custody and want it which he didn't
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She has asthma.
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ArbitraryC posted:I know but I mean like considering how awful of a person she clearly is even outside of the current problems how did the dad not win like full custody. She straight up suggests literal physical abuse in the post, that seems like a p no brainer. Custody and PoA are different (not sure if you knew), so if the dad fought for custody, that still wouldn't affect PoA status
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Can a transfer like that be reversed if you go to the bank and state that it was against your will? Present documents showing the PoA has been removed.
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Avenging_Mikon posted:Custody and PoA are different (not sure if you knew), so if the dad fought for custody, that still wouldn't affect PoA status I wasn't talking about power of attorney I was talking about the two kids living with the parent who physically abused them in the first place. Presumably she was not born as a 24 year old (not sure if you knew).
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The Lone Badger posted:Can a transfer like that be reversed if you go to the bank and state that it was against your will? Present documents showing the PoA has been removed. You can't do it after the fact. If they have established power of attorney on the account, then anything the person with POA does while it is in force is essentially the same as if you had done it. Since she said she has given her mother POA over all of her accounts, then I am assuming this was done with a trip to the bank with her and her mother, not an external legal document. If her mother has a legal power of attorney document for her then then it will be a lot harder to untangle. If it is just with her bank(s) then she just needs to go in and say "please remove this POA." Either way the money is gone and she isn't getting it back.
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