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new phone who dis posted:If you have sex for compensation you are a whore. Hope this helps. I have for compensation and that compensation is a happy relationshipo
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Me [29 F] with my husband [30 M] of 8 yrs, he threw out almost everything we own without telling me and I am seriously wanting to end my marriagequote:When you have tried therapy many times, and your spouse has made attempts and some improvements, how do you decide if their effort is enough? quote:Two things came up: Autism and bipolar disorder. They were suggestions as he did not want to pursue a diagnosis. He did take depression medication for a time and it improved his irritability somewhat. quote:Yeah, I could see it when the counselor was describing it to me. He works in IT, he's a very brainy guy, and doesn't deal well with change or see others' POV. It makes it tough to think of him that way though because I think what a scum bag a guy would be if he left my daughter for her condition... and what a terrible person I would be if I promised to love him for better or worse. And reneg when I realized worse was going to be the status quo for a while.
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:33 |
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*sigh* that could have been us... I miss him
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:39 |
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purple death ray posted:It doesn't matter how lovely or abusive or no-contact your parents are, if they are alive and you are younger than 26 their income has to be included on your financial aid forms. If they refuse to give you that information, or if you don't even know how to get in touch with them to ask, guess what, no college for you.
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:40 |
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This is not from reddit, it is in fact from a dating advice blog called Dr. Nerdlove, and hooly poo poo does he get some doozies writing in. For example:quote:Dr. NerdLove, How the gently caress do you get separated for six years out of an eight year marriage? Also lol at "Well I decided just to be her friend, but also to extort her with lavish gifts."
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:41 |
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Pick posted:*sigh* that could have been us... I miss him hmmm. women are sad.
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:41 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:A lot of people take the line that if you never explicitly condition the relationship on money (or gifts) it's not prostitution. That's what the whole sugar baby thing was originally. There's never an explicit dollar figure quoted or exact terms discussed, it's just that the first date involves shopping or whatever and the girl would simply never show up without money and gifts. So which ones am I allowed to not treat as people?
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:44 |
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blarzgh posted:You don't have to have your parent's information to fill out a fafsa. If you're under 26 you either have provide your parents info or you have to go through lot of bullshit to prove you're not dependent on them anymore.
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Ham Sandwiches posted:The context of the story is that people want to fess up to her being a whore. But she wasn't a street whore turning tricks so she feels weird owning that. She had an arrangement with a wealthy guy, which is something a lot of people do, but people in this thread are being kinda weird about it. Yeah wealthy / rich / old dudes and young women don't happen? Some arrangements are more formal than others, sometimes it's a paid apartment and sometimes there's cash. A big part of the issue is that she's been pretending this was anything other than escort work all along, so when her john rolls up and makes a show of trading her time and attention for money right in front of her fiance and she just casually accepts it and acts like nothing's weird it's not quite her going off and sucking the guy's dick in the restaurant bathroom for a hundo, but it's the two of them carrying on the business exactly as she's described it, and the situation's no longer "my fiance used to be a prostitute" it's "I just watched my fiance hooking and now she's gonna pretend it didn't happen" A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 20:55 on May 16, 2017 |
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One of the other children managed it without being a hooker. Maybe ask them for the details.
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:48 |
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NomChompsky posted:hmmm. women are sad. *nods sagely*
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:50 |
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:One of the other children managed it without being a hooker. Maybe ask them for the details. Nope quote:So, I gave it up and moved on. My parents always had a problem with it (and I get it). They thought I was prostituting myself for money. Sure, but they wouldn't help with a cent for school, my father's fake old world attitude meant I had to sink or swim. Out of 4 girls, I'm the only one that graduated university because I am the only one who could get the resources together. He wouldn't help with loan applications, nothing, so I had to take drastic measures.
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# ? May 16, 2017 20:56 |
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Ohh good point, I missed that. I read it as being they didn't necessarily withhold anything, and she just didn't know how to fill out the form.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:00 |
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Ohh good point, I missed that. If she's in the US she can't really opt out of her parents' income dramatically affecting the financial aid she's eligible for without dad actively cooperating. FAFSA don't calculate how much of their money your parents actually intend to contribute. it can be a lovely situation and the out she found was totally understandable, what's not is failing to grasp loving boundaries and thinking some goofy circumlocution is a good substitute for definitively closing the door on that part of your life once you're in a committed relationship. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 21:07 on May 16, 2017 |
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Dunning Krugerrand posted:If you're under 26 you either have provide your parents info or you have to go through lot of bullshit to prove you're not dependent on them anymore. Hmm, that does seem more difficult than gobbling wrinkle-dick for money. Gosh, college can be so cruel.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:06 |
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Lol at the guy that probably had no college debt looking down on a kid that figured out a way to go through college without debt.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:13 |
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Real talk: I used to really beat myself up I've never had a "real" relationship (long term), but after reading this thread I've realized I actually just have self respect. (Also I should probably hit the gym)
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:13 |
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MF_James posted:Lol at the guy that probably had no college debt looking down on a kid that figured out a way to go through college without debt. I had a poo poo load of debt, zero support, and managed to fund everything without blowing the elderly. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 21:39 on May 16, 2017 |
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Honestly if you can get a guy to throw you hundreds of dollars by flashing your tits and appealing to his fetish for being abused, more power to you.
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fruit on the bottom posted:So which ones am I allowed to not treat as people? the ones who listen to Nickelback
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blarzgh posted:Hmm, that does seem more difficult than gobbling wrinkle-dick for money. Gosh, college can be so cruel. Honestly, probably. And she didn't have any debt afterwards.
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blarzgh posted:Hmm, that does seem more difficult than gobbling wrinkle-dick for money. Gosh, college can be so cruel.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:18 |
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chitoryu12 posted:Honestly if you can get a guy to throw you hundreds of dollars by flashing your tits and appealing to his fetish for being abused, more power to you. I think a lot of hatred of sex workers comes from a mixture of MRA-eque anger that men can't be paid for sex, mixed in with a little incel-lite notions that the idea someone could so easily obtain sex they can withhold it offends them on a personal level. (Add in a dash of "my face looks like a twitter egg but my frail male ego can't handle acknowledging that both sexes are harmed by unrealistic standards of beauty)
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:18 |
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:I had a poo poo load of debt, zero support, and managed to fund everything without blowing the elderly. Well I wasn't actually referring to you, but you can be added in as well. How awesome would it have been to NOT have a shitload of debt and end up paying off the loan+interest for the next X amount of years (hell maybe you don't have it paid off yet)? It was her choice to do this and from a financial point of view, it was a fairly sound choice, but she probably shouldn't have told anyone since sex-work is pretty heavily looked down on in America in many respects, including legality.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:19 |
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Yeah stick it to the rich by letting them gently caress your pussy for a fiver
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:19 |
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gently caress, if that was an option for me, I'd probably have done it myself
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:it can be a lovely situation and the out she found was totally understandable, what's not is failing to grasp loving boundaries and thinking some goofy circumlocution is a good substitute for definitively closing the door on that part of your life once you're in a committed relationship. I don't think she had anything to do with the guy coming up to her and him paying for their meal was a big overstep of boundaries. If it was the same situation (hypothetical) with some stripper in a club I saw before, it wouldn't be cool that I go up and be like "oh wow yeah you have a great pussy" and slap $40 on the table.
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Pick posted:Yeah stick it to the rich by letting them gently caress your pussy for a fiver Let economics trickle down your face
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Ham Sandwiches posted:I don't think she had anything to do with the guy coming up to her and him paying for their meal was a big overstep of boundaries. If it was the same situation (hypothetical) with some stripper in a club I saw before, it wouldn't be cool that I go up and be like "oh wow yeah you have a great pussy" and slap $40 on the table. yeah dude was totally showing off his dick but strippers generally are enough not in denial about their job that they'd tell you to gently caress off and refuse the money if you tried that poo poo in front of their MMA guy boyfriend
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:22 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yeah dude was totally showing off his dick Yeah the thing is it sucks either way. Whether the stripper gets mad and tells you to gently caress off or tries to keep it low key, it sucks that she had to deal with that in her real life instead of a dude respecting boundaries. The whole thing just sucks the old bankroll is a giant piece of poo poo that felt the need to poo poo on her new relationship just because.
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MF_James posted:How awesome would it have been to NOT have a shitload of debt and end up paying off the loan+interest for the next X amount of years (hell maybe you don't have it paid off yet)? Pretty awesome. But you say people without debt are bitching about it, which is total BS.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:30 |
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Pick posted:Yeah stick it to the rich by letting them gently caress your pussy for a fiver Sometimes there's just no good solution to a problem.
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purple death ray posted:Sometimes there's just no good solution to a problem. ?
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:33 |
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As a highly successful gigolo, I ask that people stop prostitute-shaming. We live in a capitalist society. Everybody's gotta sell something.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:34 |
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If you murder him you don't get to drain his
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:35 |
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purple death ray posted:Sometimes there's just no good solution to a problem. How about figure out your loving fafsa which is easier than any goddamn job on the planet? A Moose posted:yeah those poors having ideas above their station, she should just realize college isn't for everyone am i right? And in that moment he realized he was advocating for literal prostitution over "figuring out paperwork" because his worldview was so entrenched in class warfare he couldn't back down now.
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:35 |
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Who getting ed would have enabled this lady to pay for college? I guess the parents, cause then she wouldn't need their finances, plus maybe some insurance money or inheritance. Alright go back in time and kill your parents. Butterfly Effect 2
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:36 |
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blarzgh posted:How about figure out your loving fafsa which is easier than any goddamn job on the planet? You should read things better, you're yelling at an illiterate dick suckin strawman that has nothing to do with the reality of the situation
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:38 |
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What a gross old dude. ''This gal is a great person man, congratulations, I can vouch for her dicksucking skills.''
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# ? May 16, 2017 21:41 |
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purple death ray posted:You should read things better, you're yelling at an illiterate dick suckin strawman that has nothing to do with the reality of the situation He's haunted by the ghost of poor reading comprehension. ooooOOOOoooo
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