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BENGHAZI 2 posted:what about when their expectations are so low that not making GBS threads on the floor makes you amazing ...And the only way I could get off anymore was when she would poo poo on the floor of a days inn.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 02:15 |
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HoAssHo posted:Right. Considerate gestures are great but the real sappy romantic flowers and chocolates stuff isn't for everyone and isn't real proof of devotion. . This just makes it easier for lazy people. Then you abalogues of Pick who get in stuck in these joyless marriages where their husband maneuvered himself into never truly being obligated to do anything and the wife is scratching a bloody crater into her head wondering to Reddit if perhaps he can cook his own chicken tendies once in a while.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 02:39 |
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Pick posted:11 years ago we found a USB stick with footage of me [27F] in bathroom. My brother [26M] was blamed for it and disowned. Now I learned that it was my father's, who has passed away.Non-Romantic Jesus Christ run away run very far away and keep healing your damaged relationship with your brother too i guess
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 02:44 |
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Panfilo posted:This just makes it easier for lazy people. Then you abalogues of Pick who get in stuck in these joyless marriages where their husband maneuvered himself into never truly being obligated to do anything and the wife is scratching a bloody crater into her head wondering to Reddit if perhaps he can cook his own chicken tendies once in a while. Nah, we don't have a joyless marriage at all and do plenty of kind things for each other. I just don't like corny stuff like rose petals leading to the bedroom.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 02:59 |
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HoAssHo posted:Nah, we don't have a joyless marriage at all and do plenty of kind things for each other. I just don't like corny stuff like rose petals leading to the bedroom. One of the most normal and well adjusted posts I've read itt
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 03:01 |
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lol perfect
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 04:36 |
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Hey here's a crazy idea, couldn't ya do a sex where both people are dominating each other at the same time?
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:37 |
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HoAssHo posted:Right. Considerate gestures are great but the real sappy romantic flowers and chocolates stuff isn't for everyone and isn't real proof of devotion. . I actually think she's just looking for considerate gestures rather than generic sappy stuff. If anything generic sappy stuff is for people who don't know anything about their partners so they just buy em flowers and chocolate because it's a "romantic" gesture. An easy example being my gf absolutely loves sushi, recently she accomplished some stuff that was worthy of celebration so I took her out to a sushi place we like but don't go to too often cause it's a bit spendier than our normal goto. I didn't ask her where she wanted to eat because I both knew where she would like to go and also importantly that she doesn't really like choosing the restaurant when she's being treated. This is the type of thing you should be able to do for the person you're emotionally invested in. This dude didn't even need to go that far because she said twenty times she wanted a specific cake, can't get any easier than just ordering that cake to celebrate. Dude's just woefully inconsiderate, nothing to do with grand romantic gestures he just doesn't give a poo poo.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:39 |
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Hey here's a crazy idea, couldn't ya do a sex where both people are dominating each other at the same time? Wrestling?
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:40 |
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Hey here's a crazy idea, couldn't ya do a sex where both people are dominating each other at the same time? Divorce proceedings seem an expensive way to get wet and wild.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:41 |
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Barudak posted:Divorce proceedings seem an expensive way to get wet and wild. No I mean what if 2 doms were like each other's religion? Wouldn't that be romantic?
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:49 |
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I found a hilarious reddit.txt response to husband who couldn't even order a loving cake when given directions:quote:Has he done romantic activities in the past? Candle light dinner? Surprise flowers? Etc. "i don't think I deserve sex for not being a shitstain but if I don't get it then I'm not gonna bother"
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:51 |
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ArbitraryC posted:I actually think she's just looking for considerate gestures rather than generic sappy stuff. If anything generic sappy stuff is for people who don't know anything about their partners so they just buy em flowers and chocolate because it's a "romantic" gesture. An easy example being my gf absolutely loves sushi, recently she accomplished some stuff that was worthy of celebration so I took her out to a sushi place we like but don't go to too often cause it's a bit spendier than our normal goto. I didn't ask her where she wanted to eat because I both knew where she would like to go and also importantly that she doesn't really like choosing the restaurant when she's being treated. This is the type of thing you should be able to do for the person you're emotionally invested in. Yeah, I agree with this. In that specific case, the dude sounded like a loser. And even if she was into all the sappy stuff, if he knows she's that kind of woman, he should try to do that stuff for her once in a while.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:54 |
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reddit.txt posted:At our core, people are animals, and often times men more so than women. If you reward a dog with a treat, they'll continue that behavior. You give it a squirt from the bottle, and they'll be discouraged from repeating a behavior. It's simple carrot and stick psychology. The problem that guys can run into is that sometimes we go ahead and plan a romantic gesture, and...we don't get a treat, or at least not the treat we were hoping for. Yeah, I'm talking about sex. /r/relationships: [CONFUSED DOG NOISES]
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 05:55 |
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Hey here's a crazy idea, couldn't ya do a sex where both people are dominating each other at the same time? many have tried but nobody has ever returned to tell the tale
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 06:07 |
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ArbitraryC posted:"i don't think I deserve sex for not being a shitstain but if I don't get it then I'm not gonna bother" "I don't deserve sex for being a good partner but I expect it for being a good partner"
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 06:35 |
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Cakefarts Carol posted:"I don't deserve sex for being a good partner but I expect it for being a good partner" I dunno if you're trying to really stretch paraphrasing here to push it to an almost defensible position but that's not what he said, it's literally that "if men don't get sex in return for showing up with flowers they'll stop doing it". yeah you should leave sexless relationships in general but that doesn't translate to the idea that considerate gestures are only worthwhile if they're used as a straight up bribe for sex which is what that dude is directly saying. To begin with you shouldn't have to bribe your so for sex, that's just part of a healthy relationship. Doing nice things for them because it makes you happy to make them happy is a separate but also important part of a healthy relationship.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 07:13 |
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Everyone knows you don't pay a woman for sex - even if with gifts - you pay the woman to leave afterwards.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 07:33 |
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ArbitraryC posted:I dunno if you're trying to really stretch paraphrasing here to push it to an almost defensible position but that's not what he said, it's literally that "if men don't get sex in return for showing up with flowers they'll stop doing it". yeah you should leave sexless relationships in general but that doesn't translate to the idea that considerate gestures are only worthwhile if they're used as a straight up bribe for sex which is what that dude is directly saying. And we know if you're doing it just to get sex of if you're doing it because you legitimately want to do something nice for us. And your chances of it getting you laid are ironically much higher with the latter.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 07:40 |
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new phone who dis posted:I told you it was an action figure. You mean a doll?
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 09:13 |
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blarzgh posted:So I can un-bookmark this thread now? Not without the safe word.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 09:22 |
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areyoucontagious posted:The easy answer is "don't touch the bird" except it flies around areyoucontagious posted:I have cats Hey, a problem and a solution all in the same post.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 12:58 |
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My (21F) co - worker (47M) said some disturbing and inappropriate things to me. What should I do?quote:Okay so I would just like to know how I should approach an extremely uncomfortable situation. Report it to HR then
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 14:10 |
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Danaru posted:My (21F) co - worker (47M) said some disturbing and inappropriate things to me. What should I do? is this guy indian? there's a thread for that.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 14:15 |
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Who the gently caress is sharing memes in group chat with their middle aged coworkers after hours? Good lord.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 14:29 |
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:Who the gently caress is sharing memes in group chat with their middle aged coworkers after hours? Good lord. People in their first real job. Then things like this happen and you realize remaining cold, distant, and appearing vaguely fond of HR is the only personality you should have.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 14:31 |
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Danaru posted:My (21F) co - worker (47M) said some disturbing and inappropriate things to me. What should I do? from the comments: quote:You need to go to HR or your boss if you don't have an HR. OP posted:I am the HR loving lol
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:27 |
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:Who the gently caress is sharing memes in group chat with their middle aged coworkers after hours? Good lord. probably me if i ever got a job
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:29 |
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Esoteric Scientist posted:from the comments: the Pagliacci of workplace harassment
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:31 |
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Esoteric Scientist posted:from the comments: Well she ought to know what to do, then. Why is she running off to reddit?
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:34 |
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If you sexually harass HR you are too dumb to have a job.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:37 |
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tactlessbastard posted:Well she ought to know what to do, then. Why is she running off to reddit? Yea she's obv not very good at her job smh. This is why people say hr is a joke
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:37 |
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tactlessbastard posted:Well she ought to know what to do, then. Why is she running off to reddit? she doesn't want to "ruin his life," as if his actions had nothing to do with the situation
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:37 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:[Az] Is it illegal to punch a pigeon in self defense. This went unappreciated because of the pizza coupons but I enjoyed the imagery of this guy being bullied by a pair of ratty pigeons.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:53 |
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Huntersoninski posted:she doesn't want to "ruin his life," as if his actions had nothing to do with the situation And as if they couldn't ruin the lives of other employees.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 15:59 |
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My [22M] date with a girl [22F] I met on-line went badly, and I fear that I've really hurt herquote:
Hope he doesn't own a bunny.....
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 20:23 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [22M] date with a girl [22F] I met on-line went badly, and I fear that I've really hurt her Nope
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 20:26 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:My [22M] date with a girl [22F] I met on-line went badly, and I fear that I've really hurt her Yeah, no. Block her and never look back. Space Kablooey fucked around with this message at 20:30 on Jun 8, 2017 |
# ? Jun 8, 2017 20:27 |
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Maybe he was just really bad and she just wanted his penis to shrink back inside of his body so it would end.
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# ? Jun 8, 2017 20:30 |
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There's a difference between using someone for sex and lying about wanting a relationship, and abandoning ship because she went from 0 to Saran Wrap on day 1
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