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Man, I have a hosed up story that should be in r/relationships that my friend just told me about another friend, it's weird when stories close to home could be reddit things.... Although this needs no advice as my friend is already doing the thing she should be, but god drat I'm sure she needs somewhere to vent/cry. Quick summary: Married a guy, had 2 kids with him, their niece ran into some tough times when she turned 15-16 and could no longer live with her parents, so lived with friend+husband. Fast forward to now, apparently husband has been sleeping with niece since shortly after she moved in, which was like 3 years ago or so... She is going to help prosecute the peddo scum which is good and my friend has moved out with kids, but she can't legally gtfo or withold rights from husband until he is prosecuted.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 01:09 |
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People will also put more effort into their earlier relationships because they aren't as good at recognizing when they're wasting their time, and their future seems more in flux.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 01:12 |
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Esoteric Scientist posted:hi pick if this ever happens to you, as soon as u realize she wants to shake hands just start having a wet nasty sounding coughing fit into your hand
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 01:19 |
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Pick posted:People will also put more effort into their earlier relationships because they aren't as good at recognizing when they're wasting their time, and their future seems more in flux. Is this about other people, some self reflection, or both?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 01:24 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:it's me, i'm the basement dad Preposterous, my house doesnt have a basement
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 01:37 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:why is it considered bad for a 20 year old girl to have had sex with 10 guys so far? http://jezebel.com/this-is-how-long-it-takes-to-have-sex-with-10-000-men-1665401342
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 01:37 |
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MF_James posted:Man, I have a hosed up story that should be in r/relationships that my friend just told me about another friend, it's weird when stories close to home could be reddit things.... Although this needs no advice as my friend is already doing the thing she should be, but god drat I'm sure she needs somewhere to vent/cry. There are basically 0 courts that won't hear an emergency ex parte + restraining order if sexual abuse allegations are involved.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 02:00 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [33 M] with my wife [32 F] Do I tell her that her mom is cheating on her dad? This is what you get for marrying cat people let this be a lesson to all of you
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 03:08 |
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Barudak posted:Preposterous, my house doesnt have a basement do you at least have stairs in your house
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 03:10 |
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:What like at the same time or over the course of a couple years? In a ROW?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 03:34 |
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13Pandora13 posted:There are basically 0 courts that won't hear an emergency ex parte + restraining order if sexual abuse allegations are involved. Maybe it's that she can't move too far until things shake out, but doesn't have to let him see them? I dunno, I'll talk to her and find out, because if she can do that and isn't I'll make sure she knows.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 03:52 |
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I'm[28M] a somewhat popular YouTuber. My wife[27F] deleted my recordings because she has never seen my crying and I'm unemotional.quote:First of all, please don't ask me who I am and my YouTube alias. I want to keep this anonymous.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 04:18 |
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Haifisch posted:I'm[28M] a somewhat popular YouTuber. My wife[27F] deleted my recordings because she has never seen my crying and I'm unemotional. Maybe he just has a healthy attitude towards death and understands that pets don't live forever?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 04:35 |
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ArbitraryC posted:ymmv but I've typically found that people who haven't already had a ton of relationships tend to be more dedicated to their current partner and more willing to work through stuff rather than just breaking things off and moving on. When you get too attached to that cycle of thinking the new guy/gal is perfect and just diving into being way too attached, then breaking up at the first sign they aren't before moving onto the next one, you end up being the kind of person who's never satisfied and always looking for that new relationship rush. We've seen several examples itt of people with that perspective. Causation and correlation. There are a ton of factors that go into how people select partners, their ability and desire to select stable long-term partners, and their ability and desire to be stable long-term partners.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 04:53 |
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Data/dog man had an update:quote:A LOT has happened. I'm not going to cover all the events of the past few days, but here's the most important stuff.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:02 |
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Batterypowered7 posted:Is this about other people, some self reflection, or both?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:05 |
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Pick posted:Don't be a sex weird. Don't date sex weirds. lol
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:07 |
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Bonster posted:Not Dienes, but a child therapist - no. That just increases the negative behavior. Psychiatric care and very consistent, firm boundaries from a young age work best. The sister isn't likely to change now because it works so well. Hmm. So if she's unlikely to change now, sister might as well get her bitch slap on.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:12 |
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Haifisch posted:Hm, there's clearly no confounding factors here. guy has it all figured out. Board up the basement door, problem solved.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:25 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:Board up the basement door, problem solved. Put a brick wall over it.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:32 |
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Haifisch posted:Data/dog man had an update: She's crazy and he will regret staying with her because this isn't gonna be the last time she does something like that. This isn't "said something outrageous in the heat of the moment" it's "planned a way to hurt him in a tangible way."
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:38 |
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quote:My wife then comes in, sees me. I tell her what happened. She tells me she did it. She wanted to see me cry Hey honey, oh your clothes? They're in that burning oilcan just outside.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:45 |
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Wife is probably not crazy, just did a singular crazy thing tbh.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:47 |
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E- actually he deserves it for not taking backups.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 05:51 |
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Pick posted:Causation and correlation. There are a ton of factors that go into how people select partners, their ability and desire to select stable long-term partners, and their ability and desire to be stable long-term partners. Yeah I mean my opinion on this topic is difficult to express, it's not that I feel like there's anything wrong with casual sex it's just that my experience has show me that people who stray too far from the average, in either direction, tend to either make for for p bad partners or tend to be overly accepting of bad partners. I think you'll find there are bajillions of internet people willing to point out how too little experience is bad so i didn't really find the need to dwell on it too hard, I just also have noticed that the flipside to this has become a bit unacceptable to address without people accusing you of being a bad person so I was trying to be as neutral as possible in saying that I would personally find it a bit of a red flag. Personally I tend to invest in each of my relationships with the intent they could go the distance, and when one doesn't work out I take a break to work on myself and look at what I want in a partner. After some time I get back into dating I'll shop around a bit but when I find someone I like I'll invest in them again. As someone pushing 30 this has put me basically slap dab in the middle of average # of partners and I've generally found my best relationships have been with people on the same page. I think the topic of people who haven't dated at all has been beat to death, but it's also worth stating it's not necessarily slut shaming or w/e to be uncomfortable with people who have an established history of always having another option lined up cause in my experience, it's a good indicator of how emotionally invested they will actually be in to you.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 06:56 |
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Haifisch posted:I'm[28M] a somewhat popular YouTuber. My wife[27F] deleted my recordings because she has never seen my crying and I'm unemotional. Wasn't John Wick an entire movie about a man murdering hundreds of dudes because somebody killed his dog? By extension, the sequel is also about the original dog offense as the action stems from the events of the first movie. I guess I'm assuming a bit here, since I haven't gotten around to watching either yet. The point is, this seemed right and justifiable to audiences. People take their doggos seriously on the whole. I hope John Wick gets a new dog and some mafia goon punches its stupid head off. Make it a trilogy.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 07:05 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Wasn't John Wick an entire movie about a man murdering hundreds of dudes because somebody killed his dog? By extension, the sequel is also about the original dog offense as the action stems from the events of the first movie. I guess I'm assuming a bit here, since I haven't gotten around to watching either yet. The point is, this seemed right and justifiable to audiences. People take their doggos seriously on the whole. They killed the dog left to him by his dead wife so he wouldn't be alone. Watch the movies, they're pretty good!
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 10:17 |
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At first glance, I thought that was a bidet full of spaghetti.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 14:13 |
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sixth and maimed posted:They killed the dog left to him by his dead wife so he wouldn't be alone. Watch the movies, they're pretty good! it's a really adorable beagle puppy too
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 14:24 |
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WoodrowSkillson posted:it's a really adorable beagle puppy too Well, not for long.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 14:26 |
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Chill Nazi Frog posted:In a ROW? 10 at once seems a little unrealistic. I mean I think the most partners anyone could satisfy at once is like 4, maybe 5 tops if they were like some really good sex haver. Anything over that and some of those people gotta be just a little
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 14:46 |
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:10 at once seems a little unrealistic. I mean I think the most partners anyone could satisfy at once is like 4, maybe 5 tops if they were like some really good sex haver. Anything over that and some of those people gotta be just a little I see you are unfamiliar with the John Dough classic, 'The World's Luckiest Man'
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 14:52 |
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:I see you are unfamiliar with the John Dough classic, 'The World's Luckiest Man' Ladies are tricky though you gotta keep their motor revving, you can't just do something dirty and ignore them for 15 minutes while their in agony and then get back to them. Bit of a juggling act I would think. That's why I think a piss diffuser would be cool so you could just do like 20 at a time.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 14:59 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Wasn't John Wick an entire movie about a man murdering hundreds of dudes because somebody killed his dog? By extension, the sequel is also about the original dog offense as the action stems from the events of the first movie. I guess I'm assuming a bit here, since I haven't gotten around to watching either yet. The point is, this seemed right and justifiable to audiences. People take their doggos seriously on the whole. To be fair they killed his dog, stole his car and sent an entire squad of people to try to kill him. The dog was just the worst part of what they did.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 15:05 |
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ranbo das posted:To be fair they killed his dog, stole his car and sent an entire squad of people to try to kill him. The dog was just the worst part of what they did. Then he kills like the entire friggin mafia by himself without any of his special matrix powers or whatever.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 15:08 |
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quote:40 f with 50m who talks baby talk. Would this weird you out?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 15:20 |
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putrid aidsman posted:He did this during dinner last night. As we were cooking salmon he started rubbing his fingers together and says let me feel something else soft and pink ...and he acted like he was fingering my ***** I think the answer is yes. Yes, it is time to be creeped out.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 15:28 |
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Haifisch posted:I'm[28M] a somewhat popular YouTuber. My wife[27F] deleted my recordings because she has never seen my crying and I'm unemotional. Usually when people don't get upset over a death, but then break down crying over something much less worth crying over, they're actually upset over the death and just processing it weird. I'm not getting that here for some reason.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 15:37 |
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Death is a terrible thing that is also a fact of life, it happens. As a result people process it differently than other things. Some still are extremely outwardly emotional, others are more reserved in their grief. What she did was erase months of this guy's effort. That's completely unexpected and just a feeling of despair. I imagine most people would have a similar reaction if say, their entire term paper was deleted or a piece of art ruined.
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ranbo das posted:To be fair they killed his dog, stole his car and sent an entire squad of people to try to kill him. The dog was just the worst part of what they did. My favorite part of the whole thing before the killing starts is when the shithead kid brings the car to the Chop Shop, and the chop shop owner slaps him silly once he realizes what the poo poo he did. When his crime boss dad called the chop shop to kindly ask why he shouldn't kill the owner for daring to lay a hand on his son, and finds out that he crossed John Wick, he too beats his kid silly.
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