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new phone who dis posted:Start banging softly on the door and making angry monkey noises. calm monkey noises "ooo oooo? oo oo? ooooo? "
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I (51F) want to move with my son (17M) out of our neighborhood because he has gotten involved with a serious gang retaliation situation. My husband (63M) doesn't want to because he has 'roots' in the neighborhood. My son also wants to stay. What am I supposed to do?quote:4 weeks ago, we found out 2 of my sons good friends were mowed down about 5 blocks from where we live. About a week later, one of my sons friends opened fire on a crowd of teenagers who apparently started the problems in the first place, killing 1 and hitting 4. Following THAT, that kid and his father were killed in a driveby. Since then the stories have become more loosely related, it seems to have turned into a much bigger deal than it started as.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 05:28 |
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That one hits a little close to home honestly, that poor family
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 05:32 |
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Danaru posted:[WA] Girlfriend and me have restraining order, court said she needs to be in a DV class by July 21 or she goes to jail It's the domestic violence edition of one of wint's tweets. https://twitter.com/dril/status/384408932061417472 After getting reamed in the comments of the original post, our superstar OP has posted a follow-up thread where his abusing girlfriend is responding. [WA] How do you go about getting a no contact order rescinded in Washington State? She's been violating her restraining order for over a year and is only now, with less than a month to go, looking to get enrolled in her court-ordered class to avoid jail time. OP and abuser are ignoring advice to move out and are instead asking for advice on how to trick her parole officer into believing they hadn't been living together for the past year. quote:We can make all that work. I will scam the system as much as possible to keep her in my house. Doggles fucked around with this message at 06:30 on Jul 4, 2017 |
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Haifisch posted:I (51F) want to move with my son (17M) out of our neighborhood because he has gotten involved with a serious gang retaliation situation. My husband (63M) doesn't want to because he has 'roots' in the neighborhood. My son also wants to stay. What am I supposed to do? Move. Just... loving move, just move, just leave the murder hell loving... GO... stop loving STAYING and MOVE AWAY, get OUT, you are not a MEDIVAL loving FARMER who never sees anything outside of their farm just loving MOVE just MOVE just MOVE just MOVE, fffffUUUUCCCCCKKK!!!! Leave your husband in his warzone and GO AWAY FROM THE BAD PLACE you IDIOT. I seriously don't get this poo poo why, why the gently caress would you stay? what force would keep you in this hosed up place? Motherfucker fucked around with this message at 06:18 on Jul 4, 2017 |
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Danaru posted:
hahaha oh my god I lost it at this part /r/relationships: I'm trying this new thing where I don't freak out and get violent
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Motherfucker posted:Move. Just... loving move, just move, just leave the murder hell loving... GO... stop loving STAYING and MOVE AWAY, get OUT, you are not a MEDIVAL loving FARMER who never sees anything outside of their farm just loving MOVE just MOVE just MOVE just MOVE, fffffUUUUCCCCCKKK!!!! Leave your husband in his warzone and GO AWAY FROM THE BAD PLACE you IDIOT. Yeah, I don't understand this poo poo in the slightest. Also, it's like, you know you can still visit your friends or whoever, right? It's not like if you move 30 minutes away there's no way for you to see any of them ever again.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 08:24 |
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I'm guessing OP and her family are members of a marginalized ethnic minority in a neighborhood that has historically "belonged to" that minority, and personal politics in those situations can be really complicated. They should absolutely get out but I understand why her husband doesn't want to. It might feel like admitting defeat.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 08:40 |
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I feel like people who don't understand the emotional attachment to a home town or at least a place you lived a long time must have moved a lot as kids or lived in cookie cutter suburban hell where there is no community. Its irrational but also very universal to want to stay in a place you think of as yours, especially if your family has been there a long time. I mean look at places in Africa or the Middle East where poo poo gets demolished every 10 years and people want to stay
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 12:42 |
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Larry Parrish posted:I feel like people who don't understand the emotional attachment to a home town or at least a place you lived a long time must have moved a lot as kids or lived in cookie cutter suburban hell where there is no community. I get that its a very black thing, you don't wanna move some place else only to find your neighbors are all leery eyed walking to the other side of the street when you pass vandalizing your mailbox secret KKK assholes But like, I'd take that any day of the loving week over risking my kid getting gunned the gently caress down or worse, growing up side by side with drug dealing criminals.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 12:53 |
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Larry Parrish posted:I feel like people who don't understand the emotional attachment to a home town or at least a place you lived a long time must have moved a lot as kids or lived in cookie cutter suburban hell where there is no community. Hell, I moved every 2-3 years growing up, and leaving a community was always heart-wrenching.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 13:08 |
Motherfucker posted:I get that its a very black thing, you don't wanna move some place else only to find your neighbors are all leery eyed walking to the other side of the street when you pass vandalizing your mailbox secret KKK assholes I don't think it's a black thing. I grew up in a pretty rough town and the only reason I left was because I was forced too. It ended up being one of the best decisions ever forced upon me but regardless I did NOT want to leave the crappy crime-addled place I grew up in because it was MY crappy crime-addled place.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 13:28 |
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I've never had that problem and especially not as an adult, I'd drop a place in a loving heartbeat these days.
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Motherfucker posted:I've never had that problem and especially not as an adult, I'd drop a place in a loving heartbeat these days. I've never been good at letting go of things. Did you spend most of your formative years in the same place?
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The body of this post was deleted within an hour of its posting, but the title plus context clues from the comments sure are something. Me [32F] with my boyfriend [35M] of six years. We're pregnant and he is insisting on a cesarean birth. Is my outright refusal unreasonable? quote:This guy wants you to have major surgery for the sake of his sex life. quote:I think giving birth improved my sex life! Is this guy the one growing a human? No. He's being selfish and stupid. Major surgery isn't something to mess with unnecessarily. You are NOT unreasonable. Trust your gut. quote:
quote:My kids are older now (13 and 18) but I have to say that I've never heard of a C-section as an option. Insurance will allow this as an option they will pay? Please check with your doctor because a C-section is so much more expensive and requres multiple day hospital stay. I can't get my head around insurance willingly paying for a optional C-section. I think your guy is an rear end, but I'll share my experience with you. My first pregnancy, I was in 8 days late and in labor for just under 42 hours before they did an emergency C-section. My daughter was huge, 11.2 pounds and simply wouldn't drop, and no amount of pushing (from the doctor and nurses down, she just kept going back up), would get her moving in the right direction. It required a four day hospital stay and about 10 weeks until I felt back to normal. I wouldn't even consider sex for almost three months as the incision area was crazy sore and very painful. My second daughter was tracking bigger, so they scheduled a C-section. Another four days in the hospital, released and then had to go back in (there was a problem with my bowels obstructing my urine somehow and I literally almost popped. They had to recathiterize me until the problem got fixed. Another painful recovery with about 4 months before I'd even consider sex. He's being so selfish. He's willing to put you at risk of a major surgery so his dick stays happy. quote:The thing that jumps out at me is that he recruited his mother to talk about how great a C-section would have been. quote:He's wrong to have blabbed to his parents and friends about a decision that is exclusive to her body, in an attempt to get them to pressure her into making a bad decision for the sake of his sex life. I'm also concerned about what his friend said about his wife in an attempt to help, given that OP says it was actually due to PPD. It sounds like they are all incredibly dismissive over the physical downsides to childbirth. If he shows the slightest hint of happiness over the baby being put at risk such that a c section ends up the way it's born, the OP is going to have a terrible time trying to not divorce the jerk every time he asks for sex.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 14:31 |
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It would be funny if she caved and got a c-section and then he dumped her when she can't get rid of the belly pooch that usually stays around because of it
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 14:46 |
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Courtesy of the Bad With Money thread in BFC:quote:I posted this in r/relationships but I was told to post here. I live in Florida and so do my parents. This rest of this is a direct copy paste of what I posted there.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 14:51 |
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I can't help but feel that that's a plot to a bad movie.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 14:55 |
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Known Lecher posted:Courtesy of the Bad With Money thread in BFC: I hope someone has put the OP in touch with a local LGBTQ activist / support group or something so they aren't trying to do this alone. The dad is lucky OP doesn't get some friends together and literally beat the info out of him. E: oh my god all the legaladvice comments were about how to get the money back But Rocks Hurt Head fucked around with this message at 15:22 on Jul 4, 2017 |
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That's pretty loving horrible
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 15:35 |
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That's what you have groups of friends willing to do stuff for you no questions asked for. Murder in this situation is just the correct choice.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 15:50 |
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Op's dad was sick at the thought of his daughter being gay, and so he needed an expensive procedure (conversion therapy camp for his daughter) to be well again. I'm not seeing where he lied to OP.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 16:00 |
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I still hope it's fake
Space Kablooey fucked around with this message at 16:42 on Jul 4, 2017 |
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I normally wouldn't wish physical harm on people but I hope those people suffer for what they've done. He really should do everything he can to tell everyone they know that they sent their daughter to a torture camp. That's about all he can do, I suppose. No, actually, he should beat the living hell out of his father until he gives up where exactly they sent his sister so that he can loving rescue her from that place with extreme prejudice.
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Known Lecher posted:Courtesy of the Bad With Money thread in BFC: Oh hey it's those camps where torturing teenagers is totally legal for ?????? reasons. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tranquility_Bay I have no idea why these places are allowed to operate without facing kidnapping charges. These parents belong in prison.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 16:46 |
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Religion is a pox
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 16:52 |
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zakharov posted:Oh hey it's those camps where torturing teenagers is totally legal for ?????? reasons. (iirc a few states have cracked down on them, but the parents in them just ship their kids to other states instead. )
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 17:04 |
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Haifisch posted:But see, cracking down on these camps would be destroying the parents' religious freedom! We can't have that! Please ignore the trail of dead & mentally broken children. The fuckers who run those places. Seriously you have got to be one hosed up jacksuit to work or run one of those places. Same parents who send their kids to those shitstorms are usually the same ones who flip the gently caress out at the idea of 'sharia law.' edit: Jesus Christ I reread the entire mess. I came out to my mom when I was in my 20's. My dad still doesn't know. If my parents were both ultra religious nutjobs, I'd maybe tell them when I turned 18. Once I already had all my poo poo ready to get the gently caress out. I remember being dumb and 16 but loving hell, I doubt the girl expected to be shipped off to a rape conversion therapy place. She still shouldn't have said a loving word to her parents! Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 17:43 on Jul 4, 2017 |
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Jim Barris posted:I normally wouldn't wish physical harm on people but I hope those people suffer for what they've done. He really should do everything he can to tell everyone they know that they sent their daughter to a torture camp. That's about all he can do, I suppose. No, actually, he should beat the living hell out of his father until he gives up where exactly they sent his sister so that he can loving rescue her from that place with extreme prejudice. Yup. Holy gently caress these people are walking garbage. I'm a very non-violent person, but there are situations where inhuman pieces of trash like OP's dad deserve the worst consequences. He should be beaten to the inch of his life and then his kids should sue him and whichever kidnapping rape facility for emotional distress.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 19:15 |
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A swift death for the parents is too noble.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 20:11 |
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That poo poo is real. If I were the dude, I'd organize a rescue for his sister by getting my hands on all records the dad has, figuring out where she is, and calling friends and advocacy groups to get any help possible. Take a week or two paid vacation from work to make it happen. Also start talking to a lawyer about getting custody of his sister as legal guardian.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 20:28 |
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On a less note: Parents are mad at me [18f] for taking one day off work. Are they right? quote:Let me start off by saying my "parents" are actually my grandparents. I live with them. They are both in their 50s.
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Haifisch posted:On a less note: republicans
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My [28 M] wife [28 F] booked a vacation in the middle of my mom's visitquote:Been married ~5 years. My mom wanted to visit from across the country, and booked a flight two months a go to where we live, staying a week. About few weeks ago, my wife decided she wants to go on a vacation (for both of us) somewhere, also far (5-6 hours). She knew exactly the dates my mom would be here, but she chose a departure date where my mom would still be here. So I would only be able to spend 2-3 full days instead of a week with my mom. My wife says the reason she chose those specific dates is to accommodate for her period & time of month, since it affects her mood & energy levels. She's also telling me my mom is fine staying here by herself for 3 days, and she wants to visit the city, not just me (not entirely true.) From my point of view, this is ridiculous and I don't know how to react. I told my wife's sister on the day my wife booked the tickets and she was furious that my wife did that. My wife started crying. She still didn't cancel the tickets in the 24 hour period, and the tickets are already booked for two.
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Haifisch posted:My [28 M] wife [28 F] booked a vacation in the middle of my mom's visit I dunno, how lovely is your mom cause Id do things like this.
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# ? Jul 4, 2017 22:20 |
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That bitch crazy
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Barudak posted:I dunno, how lovely is your mom cause Id do things like this. Shameful
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Blue Train posted:Shameful Look at Mr. My Mom isnt a drain on everyone she deals with and having to put up with her is decided by drawing lots
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Barudak posted:I dunno, how lovely is your mom cause Id do things like this. If your mom is so lovely that you're booking vacations to dodge her visits, you shouldn't be having her visit.
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