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Should I [26M] skip church on Christmas because my girlfriend [27F] doesn't want to go?quote:My girlfriend and I used to spend Christmas with our own families, but starting last year we decided to do Christmas together. Last year we celebrated with her family (they live in the same city as us) and this year we are going to be with my family (3 hour plane ride away).
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:42 |
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The cheering on of bullying on a forum for nerds is confusing to me.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:43 |
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zakharov posted:The cheering on of bullying on a forum for nerds is confusing to me. I think there is a fair chunk of us that are not nerds.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:46 |
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Too early to ask a woman (my teacher) out? (self.dating)quote:I developed a bit of a crush on a language teacher. I was taking a beginners course and am now on the second course and she is not the instructor for this new course. During the first course I talked with her briefly about 3 or 4 times mostly questions to do with the course but I tried to ask her how her weekend was etc.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:48 |
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Hahahahahahahaajshahajsjajahahahh I told then not to hoard stray cats lol. Jesus Christ, SA. Imagine the human impact of a renter with neighbors hoarding cats outdoors. You can't fix everything.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:50 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:I think just wait til before sex then be like hey I don't have cancer but I am bald... I don't think it should be a huge deal It could be the opposite tbh...get different wigs and have some fun with it. zakharov posted:The cheering on of bullying on a forum for nerds is confusing to me. Who's unironically cheering on bullying though?
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:52 |
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zakharov posted:The cheering on of bullying on a forum for nerds is confusing to me. It’s called evolution
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:53 |
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Three Olives posted:I think there is a fair chunk of us that are not nerds. *that delude yourselves into thinking you're not nerds.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:55 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Should I [26M] skip church on Christmas because my girlfriend [27F] doesn't want to go? "I can spend 4 hours doing something that makes my parents happy or I can sit home with you while you pout about it".
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:56 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:Too early to ask a woman (my teacher) out? (self.dating) quote:asked me an unprompted question or two which made me think she may be interested in me.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:58 |
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zakharov posted:The cheering on of bullying on a forum for nerds is confusing to me. note that the people in question are 3O and a dude with a wrestling av so take their shitposting with a grain of salt
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:58 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:gifts above 14k per year are taxable as income No. No they aren't. Gifts over $14k per year to an individual need to be reported by the gift giver against their lifetime estate exemption of $5.49M. Never, ever, ever by the receiver.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:59 |
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Men are so convinced of their own social worthlessness that anytime someone displays even a modicum of humanity towards them they think it's about loving.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:59 |
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How do I (26F) ask FIL to stop kissing me on the lips?Non-Romanticquote:The in-laws are in town and they are nice people. However, my FIL kisses me on the lips every time he sees me. I hate this. I will not even share a drink with anyone but my husband because I do not like germs. One time I tried to just move my face to the side so he could kiss my cheek and he made a comment about how that is not how you kiss.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 20:59 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:How do I (26F) ask FIL to stop kissing me on the lips?Non-Romantic
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:00 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Should I [26M] skip church on Christmas because my girlfriend [27F] doesn't want to go? I'm not religious either, but I like to go to Christmas service with my family when I'm home. Maybe it's different for Catholics, but its usually just the story of Jesus' birth and 4 of the religious carols, one of which everyone gets a candle for and they turn off the other lights. She can't be alone for 1-2 hours? Honestly, she should really go with. It's not like she'll be kicked out of atheist heaven for experiencing something new.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:01 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Men are so convinced of their own social worthlessness that anytime someone displays even a modicum of humanity towards them they think it's about loving. Everything is about sex. Except for sex. Sex is about Pokémon cards.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:02 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Should I [26M] skip church on Christmas because my girlfriend [27F] doesn't want to go? quote:GF: Well, I don't think it's nice. You should be nice to your girlfriend and stay home with her. Dump this woman, this poo poo is just the beginning. She may not have been raised Catholic but she sure seems to understand the guilt part.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:03 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:How do I (26F) ask FIL to stop kissing me on the lips?Non-Romantic Ugh, gross. Set boundaries with this man. fruit on the bottom posted:Should I [26M] skip church on Christmas because my girlfriend [27F] doesn't want to go? No, go because you want to go. Your GF is being a baby about this.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:03 |
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FantasticExtrusion posted:Hahahahahahahaajshahajsjajahahahh nice cat meltdown
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:08 |
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Motronic posted:Gifts aren't taxable income. Dang, I didn't think of them as gifts but that's the obvious thing. Hopefully she has a 401k through him.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:10 |
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My (28M) sister (26F) found me, and wants me to be part of the family again. But I can't forgive them, any of them.quote:I'll try to make this brief. My parents have three kids, Adam (31M), me and Cathy. Adam has always been the Golden Child, smart, good at sports, popular with girls. Me...not so much. Adam was never mean or abusive to me or anything (except the usual brother stuff), but we always ran in separate crowds so we were never that close.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:12 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Dump this woman, this poo poo is just the beginning. She may not have been raised Catholic but she sure seems to understand the guilt part. If it was passive aggressive bitchiness then yeah he needs to put his foot down.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:15 |
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zakharov posted:The cheering on of bullying on a forum for nerds is confusing to me. So many of these are exercises in OP systematically stripping away any sympathy you have for them by being completely spineless, illiterate, or just plain insufferable, to the point where you're glad they got bullied or their dog died or whatever. This lady didn't seem unreasonable, though
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:16 |
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Whorelord posted:My (28M) sister (26F) found me, and wants me to be part of the family again. But I can't forgive them, any of them. Who the gently caress under 30 has a landline?
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:18 |
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Whorelord posted:My (28M) sister (26F) found me, and wants me to be part of the family again. But I can't forgive them, any of them. Don't do it. That voice inside you telling you to give them a chance is wrong and stupid. If they did this once they would do it again.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:18 |
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On the other hand you should reworm your way back into their lives to tell your nephews/nieces that their parents are huge pieces of poo poo.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:21 |
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Holy poo poo. Brother hosed your fiance, then married and had kids were with her. And the whole family knew about that poo poo? Yeah I'd burn that bridge and never look back too.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:21 |
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Beachcomber posted:Who the gently caress under 30 has a landline? i did for a while because of some wholly boring internet bullshit
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:22 |
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Admiral Ray posted:On the other hand you should reworm your way back into their lives to tell your nephews/nieces that their parents are huge pieces of poo poo. The pro-move here is to show up at their house uninvited on thanksgiving piss drunk and tell them what you really think of them.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:22 |
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Chomp8645 posted:Holy poo poo. Brother hosed your fiance, then married and had kids were with her. And the whole family knew about that poo poo? Because his brother is just such an amazing guy that mere contact with him ruined their relationship, she was just unable to resist his magical penis and he had the responsibility to keep her away from it? He should consider himself lucky that she left him before they got married, she would have found someone else in short order, better now than when there is a real investment. If anything he should thank his brother for saving him from the doomed marriage.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:29 |
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Whorelord posted:My (28M) sister (26F) found me, and wants me to be part of the family again. But I can't forgive them, any of them. There's so much weird poo poo in this story - Personal pet peeve "somehow, she liked me too" is such a common line for dudes and it's so loving pathetic. - Who lives in a dorm their senior year? - He seems to carry a lot of (deserved) bitterness for his brother without putting much/any blame on Diane...but that could be because the OP is focused on his family trying to contact him. - He might need to get some therapy re his opinions on having a gf ever again - Who has a home phone anymore?! What happened to him is super hosed up and I don't blame him for not wanting to talk to those people ever again though. If his sister already knows where he is and wanted to tell the rest of his family he couldn't stop her now, so if he wants to talk to her he could do that and maybe lay some ground rules around what she can/can't pass along to the rest of the family.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:29 |
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Father of my child has threatened to restart her vaccinations from the beginning when he is already aware that she is current on all of her health needs. How can I prevent this from happening?quote:North Carolina. I'm in a high conflict custody battle with the father of my toddler. I tried to inform him that she had a doctor's appointment recently and he became angry with me. Since then he has put her on his insurance and refuses to share the details with me, said he has found her a new doctor in his county 3 hours away, and told me he will be starting her vaccination schedule over from the very beginning and there is nothing I can do to stop him. I'm am the primary custodial parent and he only has supervised visitation for 48 hours at a time every two weeks. She has insurance and a doctor here where I live and she is up to date on her health assessment and vaccinations as of two weeks ago. She is due for a flu booster in two weeks. How can I prevent him from doubling down on her vaccinations just to spite me? I've heard of people refusing to get their kids vaccinated, but forcing their kids to get vaccinated again out of spite is a new one
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:30 |
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freckle posted:*that delude yourselves into thinking you're not nerds. Excuse me, but here is a form signed by a notary verifying that I gently caress.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:30 |
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Barudak posted:Excuse me, but here is a form signed by a notary verifying thay I gently caress. Nerds gently caress too that's where new ones come from.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:31 |
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Danaru posted:Father of my child has threatened to restart her vaccinations from the beginning when he is already aware that she is current on all of her health needs. How can I prevent this from happening? i loved getting vaccinated as a kid cause it meant i'd get a pretzel rod
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:31 |
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Ouhei posted:There's so much weird poo poo in this story I lived in a dorm my senior year. room and board was part of my scholarship/loan
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:33 |
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Whorelord posted:My (28M) sister (26F) found me, and wants me to be part of the family again. But I can't forgive them, any of them.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:38 |
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Beachcomber posted:Who the gently caress under 30 has a landline? Seems like a pretty legitimate use. Me? I haven't had a landline for almost 15 years.
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# ? Nov 6, 2017 21:41 |
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Whorelord posted:My (28M) sister (26F) found me, and wants me to be part of the family again. But I can't forgive them, any of them. This is so hosed. I have no idea how I'd react in that situation. I probably would take it a lot worse than OP did.
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