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If you think about it, every grandparent that pronounced Pokémon wrong on purpose was trolling. Me [55 M] kicked out my son (29 M) and his girfriend (27 F). quote:TLDR : Was I wrong to kick out my son and his girlfriend after a very nasty fight? Y-you think you overreacted?
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:11 |
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# ? Jun 3, 2024 00:45 |
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Dienes posted:Never said it was intercourse, just that it was a form of sex.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:11 |
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Pick posted:I can’t reconcile you having a good job with knowing what case closed is. *looks in the mirror* oh my god The best way to sell an instrument is to play a song that was popular when the purchaser was 18. Ask me about my go to comments regarding late 80s-90s nick despite being too young and not having cable in that era
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:16 |
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Dienes posted:Never said she was a whore or that sex work was a bad thing. Also, different people can point out different things from a single post! You're the guy jumping through semantic hoops to conflate being on a cam with having physical sex Like if she was a sex line operator, you'd still be claiming she's having sex with strangers for money? Ok, then I'm claiming your definitions are dumb as poo poo 'Having sex for money' usually implies physically touching someone, talking sexy or sending your images to people is generally considered different, and if the word 'sex' is not specific enough to clarify that, then just imagine people are using whatever term does encompass that nuance
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:16 |
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girl pants posted:Bro she literally said in the post that she was a camgirl who stopped camming when it was bothering her boyfriend and her boyfriend said she was meeting up with people to have sex with them against his wishes. That isn't 'semantic hoops', that's straight up lying on his part. And nobody said it wasn't sex work so I don't know why you're arguing that at all quote:Forth, I have never traded sex for money. How ludicrous!!
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:17 |
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Jack-Off Lantern posted:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/7o27ef/fiance_of_10_years_slept_with_uncle_for_drugs/ Oh drat.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:17 |
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Barudak posted:The best way to sell an instrument is to play a song that was popular when the purchaser was 18. God, so true. But that’s salesmanship for you. Always pander to when the buyer was around either 15 to 20, depending on whether you think they were being beaten at home.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:20 |
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My wife [32F] and I [34M] spent the better part of the past year custom building a house. Now that it's done she hates it and refuses to move in. I'm lost.quote:My wife and I have been married for 6 years. No kids and no plans to have kids. About 2 years ago we started looking into buying a home. After a lot of consideration we decided the best route was custom-building. We live in a fairly cheap housing area that is quickly growing. It seemed like the best way to get exactly what we want while opening us up to the opportunity for future profit. Something tells me this isn't about the house.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:26 |
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Lots of people have that experience, especially when there's a long gap between making a bunch of small choices and seeing the outcome. It really sucks too. In the future they shouldn't custom build a house, but rather buy that one she has seen and likes, because then it's simply a finished thing and there's no time for feelings to change.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:29 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:My wife [32F] and I [34M] spent the better part of the past year custom building a house. Now that it's done she hates it and refuses to move in. I'm lost. God maybe if you didnt hide that you had started smoking again this wouldnt have happened, Ben!!! But seriously its not about the house and you should move your stuff in because youre going to get a divorce.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:31 |
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Barudak posted:The best way to sell an instrument is to play a song that was popular when the purchaser was 18. it took me a minute here to realize that you were probably talking about guitars because I couldn't stop imagining an old Austrian luthier with a big bushy mustache cracking out Sweet Child o Mine on a $5000 violin.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:32 |
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Um to the "it's not about the house" people, the conflict and post is about the house and the conflict is escalating as the house nears completion, what is the buried secret she's hiding that you think will come out?
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:32 |
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Oh my god bitch move into the loving house
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:33 |
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girl pants posted:it took me a minute here to realize that you were probably talking about guitars because I couldn't stop imagining an old Austrian luthier with a big bushy mustache cracking out Sweet Child o Mine on a $5000 violin. It really is any instrument, but obviously easiest with guitars and pianos given the nature of pop music. For Violins being sold to a parent Id recommend Come on Eileen.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:33 |
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Ham Sandwiches posted:Um to the "it's not about the house" people, the conflict and post is about the house and the conflict is escalating as the house nears completion, what is the buried secret she's hiding that you think will come out? she never loved him the entire time they were together but he was a nice guy and she didn't want to break his heart so she decided to stick it out because she was already in too deep and now it's all coming to a head. would be my guess.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:34 |
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“I don’t like my new house” says whiny bitch who thinks a new house isn’t good enough for her despite being entirely to spec, gets attention by whining
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:34 |
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Ham Sandwiches posted:Um to the "it's not about the house" people, the conflict and post is about the house and the conflict is escalating as the house nears completion, what is the buried secret she's hiding that you think will come out? They are giving her the benefit of the doubt. If it really is about the house she is the most irrational woman in the world.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:35 |
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girl pants posted:she never loved him the entire time they were together but he was a nice guy and she didn't want to break his heart so she decided to stick it out because she was already in too deep and now it's all coming to a head. I see, so for this person faking their way through their relationship, pretending she likes the house is the charde that's a step too far, but spending every night with a guy she despises is somehow no problem
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:35 |
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The house is a metaphor for the family she never started.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:36 |
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She can pick a shed she likes and live out back
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:36 |
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Ham Sandwiches posted:I see, so for this person faking their way through their relationship, pretending she likes the house is the charde that's a step too far, but spending every night with a guy she despises is somehow no problem A lot of people think this way. I didn't say it had to make sense.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:36 |
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Universe Master posted:They are giving her the benefit of the doubt. If it really is about the house she is the most irrational woman in the world. People have stuff custom built all the time and they end up hating the result all the time. Cars, homes, decor, websites, logos, you name it. Kim and Kanye had a huge conflict over an expensive remodel that was presumably what they wanted but didn't agree on the results.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:37 |
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Ham Sandwiches posted:People have stuff custom built all the time and they end up hating the result all the time. Cars, homes, decor, websites, logos, you name it. Kim and Kanye had a huge conflict over an expensive remodel that was presumably what they wanted but didn't agree on the results. But enough not to want to move in, and to lose an enormous amount of money?
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:38 |
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Universe Master posted:But enough not to want to move in, and to lose an enormous amount of money? Yes, if they chose it and they hate it then some people have this reaction like it's their fault and that being around this failure of their own creation is some kind of referendum on them. It's really weird. Sometimes people will viscerally hate the things they chose when seeing it in a finished product, and then by extension hate the fact that they chose those things. Hence my suggestion, if they stay together, buy finished products not works in progress.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:40 |
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Universe Master posted:They are giving her the benefit of the doubt. If it really is about the house she is the most irrational woman in the world. This is it, really. It's a childish behavior to completely eschew something you bought for hundreds of thousands of dollars because you don't like it. It's more reasonable if you really can't get over it to discuss selling it to cut your losses, but just throwing your hands up and ignoring the situation at the age of 32 is a huge red flag.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:41 |
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Universe Master posted:But enough not to want to move in, and to lose an enormous amount of money? Yes. People are obscenely stupid and as weve seen conflict avoidance is a staggering number of peoples only strategy for dealing with problems. That said if she was happy with all initial walkthroughs she likes the bones of the house and since this is America theres no goddamn reason she couldnt have elaborated or communicated what she wants changed.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:42 |
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value-brand cereal posted:Holy hell did you make this? I love it. no im a talentless hack. luckily somebody else did and I felt like this thread is probably its true home. All credit to forums user: unless they stole it also. who can say?
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:42 |
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she really didn't want to move in with him but went along with it out of fear or something else, and now that it's reality she is freaking out
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:43 |
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Also I wish there was a way I could share stories like this or distilate the feeling of self loathing at ones art to inject in the veins of every person who thinks they can do their own interior design or other such artistically inclined products. Also in my fantasy we imprison the designer from trading spaces who glued hay to peoples walls and put sand on their floors.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:46 |
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Barudak posted:Also I wish there was a way I could share stories like this or distilate the feeling of self loathing at ones art to inject in the veins of every person who thinks they can do their own interior design or other such artistically inclined products. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0SQIJNSaWc&t=111s Lest we forget
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:49 |
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Demon Of The Fall posted:she really didn't want to move in with him but went along with it out of fear or something else, and now that it's reality she is freaking out they've been married for 6 years though and the way he writes strong imply they're already living together for quite some time though- but I do think you're correct that she's basically having some sort of quarter life crisis about her future (otherwise she's just insane)
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:50 |
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*puffs on pipe* You see the female desires children but the male has expressed that they do not have nor do they desire them, a decision surely reached by application of the male logic which has no regard for the act of creation and indeed must be driven by its nature to destroy. Bereft of fulfillment, the female attempts to displace her desire by creating. Since she cannot create a family, she instead creates the dwelling in which a family would live. The tragedy is that the house is only a substitute for the womb, and a poor one at that, and thus no matter how painstakingly she brings her design to life it cannot fill the void and can only ever disappoint her. A tragic and futile quest. Also the IKEA furniture was a poor move aesthetically.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:51 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:*puffs on pipe* A-are you saying that building a house is the ultimate IKEA test?!
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:54 |
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girl pants posted:A-are you saying that building a house is the ultimate IKEA test?! Some custom home builders recommend “jokingly” you have a divorce attorney in mind before you start construction.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:57 |
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Lmao I think I am saying exactly that
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:58 |
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Barudak posted:Also I wish there was a way I could share stories like this or distilate the feeling of self loathing at ones art to inject in the veins of every person who thinks they can do their own interior design or other such artistically inclined products. Hahaha oh man I still think about that.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:58 |
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Maybe their design decisions took on a different meaning in the interim time, like 3 years ago they decided to base the interior on the house from The Cosby Show.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 20:59 |
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Some people are just whiny little shits. Move into your haywall poop house.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 21:00 |
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I forgot how cute that trading spaces girl is.
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# ? Jan 4, 2018 21:00 |
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Honestly I wouldn't even build a house with another person in the Sims let alone in real life.
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