|
I guess by “the guy” I mean “any person who uses THAT IS NOT LOGICAL as an argument when I DONT WANNA would suffice.” The specific guy in the story has enough to deal with.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:24 |
|
|
# ? May 31, 2024 03:44 |
|
Miserable Maid posted:From a bit back, but can't seem to find this one, even in archives. I really wanna see the comments! Your wish is my command! https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/99e7lc/i26_f_did_nothing_wrong_so_why_is_my_bf_27m_mad/
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:37 |
|
ArbitraryC posted:50th seems like a pretty important one to me, if my mom was throwing a party for it I'd make sure to go even if it meant driving 10 hours each way or even a plane trip. If my mom threw a party for something important to her, I'd probably come. It's just that the idea of someone throwing a party for their anniversary and inviting someone who is not their spouse is so utterly foreign to me as a concept. Anniversaries are something just for the two of you, it's like asking your brother if he wants to come to a party for the first time you and you wife banged.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:38 |
|
LadyPictureShow posted:Your wish is my command! You're my hero, LadyPictureShow
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:41 |
|
Defiance Industries posted:If my mom threw a party for something important to her, I'd probably come. It's just that the idea of someone throwing a party for their anniversary and inviting someone who is not their spouse is so utterly foreign to me as a concept. Anniversaries are something just for the two of you, it's like asking your brother if he wants to come to a party for the first time you and you wife banged. You would drive 18 total hours over two days with a kid in the back seat? Because that's what's being discussed.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:51 |
|
My (19m) boyfriend (19m) loathes sexual attention from me but has a near addiction to spilling various liquids onto himself. quote:Throwaway because frankly this whole situation is embarrassing.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:52 |
|
Hahahahahahha what the hell
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:54 |
|
2018 is hosed. up.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 07:54 |
|
OH MY GOD. I thought my kids were making poo poo up when they told me sex water was “totally about to become a thing, Dad.” e: Nevermind. Gay couple. Is pouring water on [other] guys sexy too? because that would still make more sense to me. burial fucked around with this message at 08:21 on Aug 23, 2018 |
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:01 |
|
...what ARE they putting in the water nowadays?
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:02 |
|
is it a gay couple or a typo e: it a gay couple
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:17 |
|
Defiance Industries posted:If my mom threw a party for something important to her, I'd probably come. It's just that the idea of someone throwing a party for their anniversary and inviting someone who is not their spouse is so utterly foreign to me as a concept. Anniversaries are something just for the two of you, it's like asking your brother if he wants to come to a party for the first time you and you wife banged. I went to my grandparent’s 50th. I can’t imagine going to another unless it was their 75th and they didn’t make it.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:20 |
|
LadyPictureShow posted:
Closeted straight guy hoping his boyfriend is into water sports?
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:21 |
|
Nah that dude just spent his formative years watching Wetlook fetish videos on Youtube and now he can't jack off to anything else.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:23 |
|
Huh My GF [28F] of two years thinks I cheated and gave her Chlamydia. I [30M] absolutely did not. quote:u/tway767676 Brb, writIng a movie script for a Doctor who gives false positives to manipulate people into dramatic relationship implosions.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:35 |
|
Milotic posted:Huh Good job, dude. You're better off without her.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 08:41 |
|
Remember the racist guy who got laid out by a single lady punch? Update: Social Worker attacked me and no one will help me (self.legaladvice) submitted 9 hours ago by WoodenTumbleweed quote:I am unsure how to link because I'm on mobile. The short version is that I got drunk and behaved badly. I was knocked unconscious by a woman. I wanted to ruin her life for ruining mine.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 11:24 |
|
GF [29F] and I [30M] had a money talk - didn't get wellquote:Been seeing a girl for 9 months, and we made things official official not too long ago. We do not live together. I decided to talk about money/spending habits today. Did not go too well.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 11:38 |
|
let her bankrupt herself, who cares Sounds like a person who grew up rich who doesn't understand money. Who the hell borrows money because they have none and then say "who gives a poo poo about 500 dollars lol"?
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 11:47 |
|
CheesyDog posted:Remember the racist guy who got laid out by a single lady punch? Still hoping that video will get out.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 12:43 |
|
Smirking_Serpent posted:Husband(31M) is uncompromising and it’s draining me (29F) This is 100% like someone I know. It's infuriating to plan something with a group of people, have everyone on board, and him try to replan everything so that he doesn't have to travel as much.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 13:26 |
|
blugu64 posted:This is 100% like someone I know. It's infuriating to plan something with a group of people, have everyone on board, and him try to replan everything so that he doesn't have to travel as much. On the other hand it sounds like he's developed this as a defensive mechanism against her short sightedness and irresponsibility. If she can't even look after a loving CAT without him having to pick up the slack then arguing against a dog based on that logic rather than her emotional whims seems pretty wise. Without being a fly on the wall it's hard to know ho reasonable his approach actually is, though to be honest it sounds like they're not really that compatible, it's more like a parent child relationship where the grown up one of the pair brings a bit of rationality to things and the other one sulks that they didn't get their way.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 13:46 |
|
It sounds less like he's a hyper logical Vulcan Android thing and more like she's a loving moron who wants to do irresponsible things constantly and then gets mad when he says no because it doesn't make any sense for them to do it She's basically looking for an argument against "yeah it doesn't at all make sense and will be mostly on you to figure out, but I want it!!!"
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 14:06 |
|
idunno, if you need to borrow money maybe 4 vacations in one year is bad bad dumb dumb
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 14:22 |
|
datajugend posted:idunno, if you need to borrow money maybe 4 vacations in one year is bad bad dumb dumb wow good job of destroying her dreams, her spirit, her hope you loving monster, you oval office how can you not be more supportive of her? You imp, you toad
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 14:27 |
|
Defiance Industries posted:If my mom threw a party for something important to her, I'd probably come. It's just that the idea of someone throwing a party for their anniversary and inviting someone who is not their spouse is so utterly foreign to me as a concept. Anniversaries are something just for the two of you, it's like asking your brother if he wants to come to a party for the first time you and you wife banged. Once you start getting old, it becomes a bigger event when you’ve been together for so many years. Parties like this are frequently organized by adult children and take place in a community hall. For the milestone years, there are cards, gifts, cake and a slideshow. It’s not about celebrating the first time you and your wife banged. It’s about celebrating your lives together and all the things you achieved as a couple. Many marriages don’t last, but you managed to make it 50 years together and raised wonderful children who care about you. I’ve been to 50th and 60th wedding anniversaries for grandparents and aunts and uncles in my family. They can be anything from a casual party with all your family to a grand event in a rented out venue, similar to a wedding, complete with speeches, dancing and catered food.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 14:27 |
|
She needs four vacations a year to get away from the stress of borrowing money for four vacations a year. Next year she will need to up the dosage.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 14:28 |
|
Anniversaries are a cultural thing, like I know some folks who are in their 20s who still live with their parents and they celebrate their folks' anniversaries, but it's because they come from that nuclear family culture where that's what you do. You spend all the celebrations together, regardless of what they are. I think it's really sheltered way of being, but that's how some folks like to be. Do I think it's loving weird to spend a day with your folks, when that day is intended for people to take a moment to intimately re-connect with their partner, to remind themselves of their romantic love and gently caress? Yes. Yes it is. 50/60th anniversaries make sense to celebrate with your community because that's a huge benchmark of achievement. Plus at that age no one is expecting you to scuttle off to bone right away. But the random one-off ones? loving WEIRD FAMILY BOUNDARY ISSUES if you celebrate that with your parents. There's a point where you're supposed to celebrate your own anniversaries (whatever those may be), and stop celebrating your parents' achievements as if they're yours every year. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 15:17 on Aug 23, 2018 |
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:14 |
|
A 50 is a big deal though because it's the last big round number event before your parents die. 60 is like edge and if your parents were on the older end when they married it's probably wise not to bet on it.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:16 |
|
Or they can be like some of my relatives and make it to their 75th anniversary and smugly lord over everyone else, even in death.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:18 |
|
Wife demands I give up beer to save money but Spend $50 on kids Halloween costumequote:My wife lost her job, because of this and because our sons need after school care (so my wife can work a part time job) we have moved in with my MIL. We’ve cut back on expenses as much as we could but my wife and MIL think I should give up my beer, of which I spend maybe $40 a month. This resulted in a fight last week when I purchased a case of cheap beer, which seemed to piss them off. On the flip side of this my wife borrowed money fom her mom for kid’s Halloween costumes. To the tune of 50 bucks. In August. Mostly posting this because some of the comment section are pretty... uh, interesting. quote:KOPBrewHouse That’s right folks, switching to instant is exactly the same as buying coffee! https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/99mstb/wife_demands_i_give_up_beer_to_save_money_but/
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:19 |
|
What is 50? The diamond anniversary or something? But yeah it's half-a-century, which is very satisfying to humans as a means of measure. It's not just X amount of years, it's a sizeable portion of a much bigger measurement. That's worth celebrating with the fam. EDIT: It's gold.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:21 |
|
LadyPictureShow posted:
Maybe he really likes water? Like, REALLY likes water. A lot.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:21 |
|
Barudak posted:Or they can be like some of my relatives and make it to their 75th anniversary and smugly lord over everyone else, even in death. why'd you let them make it to 75? that's just plain negligent. i said 50 should be the last anniversary and i meant it.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:23 |
|
Some things are just excuses for a nice party and to celebrate the good things in your life. Round numbers, saints' deathdays, whatever.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:24 |
|
LadyPictureShow posted:Wife demands I give up beer to save money but Spend $50 on kids Halloween costume On the one hand, plenty of people spend $40 on one single night of drinking, so if you're stretching it out over a month that's actually not egregious. On the other, it sounds like he just drinks all this alone by himself, and I'm willing to bet they have to stretch it out like this because he is unable to moderate himself and needs a steady stream of cheap beer in his system in order to get by with all the stress of being on the poverty line, and that that's taking a toll on their relationship as a whole. Really, I think she wants him to stop drinking, and the money thing is an excuse. And he doesn't want to stop drinking, so he's focusing on the 'logic' of the money thing instead of seeing how his behavior is damaging the relationship.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:26 |
|
Pick posted:A 50 is a big deal though because it's the last big round number event before your parents die. 60 is like edge and if your parents were on the older end when they married it's probably wise not to bet on it. She can drive there her loving self, then, not expect this dude to act as her chauffeur for 18 hours over two days and then go right back to work immediately after Like he's not opposed to her going, he's just refusing to drive her
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:33 |
|
Pick posted:why'd you let them make it to 75? that's just plain negligent. i said 50 should be the last anniversary and i meant it. They built their house with their own hands and until she was a hundred the woman in the relationship left hair-trigger bear traps on her property to break off deers legs so she could watch them suffer before blasting their heads off point blank with a shotgun. I let time deal witith then.
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:34 |
|
How do I (M35) ask out my therapist?quote:letting my friend use my account to post this
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:34 |
|
|
# ? May 31, 2024 03:44 |
|
Barudak posted:They built their house with their own hands and until she was a hundred the woman in the relationship left hair-trigger bear traps on her property to break off deers legs so she could watch them suffer before blasting their heads off point blank with a shotgun. Was she Nathan Explosion?
|
# ? Aug 23, 2018 15:35 |