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blarzgh posted:Hey hey, get out of here, we've picked our bad guys already we can't change now, shoo! The democrats being lovely doesn’t make the Republicans good. Don’t be a child
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:Presumably her father being like he is did a lot to inform her taste in boyfriends
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Leon Einstein posted:I mean, she's going to med school after quitting her 70k a year job. Seems like they're maybe more similar than she thinks. To be fair that's the only way to earn a medical degree without being in debt your whole life - just already have a ton of money!!!!
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Say friends, who here thinks Bernie would have won?
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MightyJoe36 posted:Not from reddit, but relevant to this thread: Broken link.
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broken things are pretty relevant
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Leon Einstein posted:I mean, she's going to med school after quitting her 70k a year job. Seems like they're maybe more similar than she thinks. He's done this multiple times and keeps changing his mind, so his case is definitely worse than hers (although med school is also more expensive than pilot school so eh) Probably this is why she resents him so much for it, she sees in him what she's insecure about in herself. At the end of the day, though, what she wants is for him to support her while she pursues her dream instead of doing the same thing for himself, which is kinda dumb but would be fine if he was up for it. He's not though so they should probably just  zakharov posted:Say friends, who here thinks Bernie would have won? unironically me
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tactlessbastard posted:It's less satisfying than you might imagine gently caress no. It feels GREAT. And periodically there will be shifty little attempts at contact and you can shut them down ruthlessly knowing all they want is for you to absolve them of their guilt (that they should rightly feel for being total crapfucks). Forgiveness isn't - and shouldn't be - another opportunity to ruin your life.
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Yeah, they should just break up. I just thought it was funny how she was bringing up his possible student loan debt while ignoring hers (while living with HIS dad.)
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I wouldn't blame that guy for forgiving his mom just so that he could have a family again (and she'd probably feel guilty enough that she'd do her best to repair the relationship between him and his sister again too) but I also wouldn't blame him for deciding that ship has sailed
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Forgiveness owns, gently caress da haters (then forgive them)
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working in sales is loving horrible so I can't really fault her for trying to get out. maybe for having so little of an exit strategy that even though she had all that money going in her loser boyfriend can still gently caress it all up just by dithering
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Dannywilson posted:Broken link. https://www.dailyherald.com/news/20181009/child-marriage-in-the-us-is-surprisingly-prevalent-now-states-are-passing-laws-to-make-it-harder
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Pick posted:Forgiveness owns, gently caress da haters (then forgive them) We're talking about his mom here Pick.
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Leon Einstein posted:I mean, she's going to med school after quitting her 70k a year job. Seems like they're maybe more similar than she thinks. loquacius posted:He's done this multiple times and keeps changing his mind, so his case is definitely worse than hers (although med school is also more expensive than pilot school so eh) quote:I'm currently a full-time student and I also work full-time. I left a 70k/year job in sales to pursue my dream of medical school. I've worked my rear end off to arrange the promotions I've received at my new company while continuing my education
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Anne Whateley posted:It sounds like she's pulling at least her own weight, probably supporting both of them while he quits jobs. She didn't leave $70k just to go to school, she did it to get another job with promotions plural, in addition to going to med school full-time. It doesn't sound like she wants to slack, she just wants a partner who also pulls his own weight I mean to be fair aren't they both living with his father
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if bernie had won every coddled college baby whining about how they don't want to get a job because their chosen career doesn't *speak to their soul* would have to switch lives with a fry cook or a garbageman
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loquacius posted:He's done this multiple times and keeps changing his mind, so his case is definitely worse than hers (although med school is also more expensive than pilot school so eh)
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Blade Runner posted:I mean to be fair aren't they both living with his father Yeah she seems to be working full-time to avoid racking up student debt, which is a good move for her but isn't really "supporting both of them" as such, unless his dad is charging them rent, in which case why live with him That also explains her comments about his student debt
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That is incorrect, doctor wages are not necessarily good either. That's 1998 thinking.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:if bernie had won every coddled college baby whining about how they don't want to get a job because their chosen career doesn't *speak to their soul* would have to switch lives with a fry cook or a garbageman Why does the fry cook and garbage man have to lose their jobs?
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CannonFodder posted:Med school is more expensive, but doctors make good money right away to pay down the debt. Pilots earn poo poo right out of pilot school because veteran pilots take all of the hours and overtime while rookies get the minimum required. "Right away" is used kind of loosely here because as a resident she'd be making SOME money but less than she did before
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CannonFodder posted:Med school is more expensive, but doctors make good money right away to pay down the debt. Pilots earn poo poo right out of pilot school because veteran pilots take all of the hours and overtime while rookies get the minimum required. Doctors don't make much at all to start and won't ever make much unless they go into very specific specialties
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loquacius posted:Yeah she seems to be working full-time to avoid racking up student debt, which is a good move for her but isn't really "supporting both of them" as such, unless his dad is charging them rent, in which case why live with him Serious question; is it possible to work full-time while going to medical school?
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:if bernie had won every coddled college baby whining about how they don't want to get a job because their chosen career doesn't *speak to their soul* would have to switch lives with a fry cook or a garbageman garbageman speaks to my soul, that's why I post here.
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MightyJoe36 posted:Serious question; is it possible to work full-time while going to medical school? Yeah but it sucks rear end and you'll get like an hour of sleep a night
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Blade Runner posted:I mean to be fair aren't they both living with his father
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Well I'm wrong on doctor pay, but right on pilot pay. Who gets paid these days, aside from the 15 successful YouTube / Twitch streamers. CannonFodder fucked around with this message at 20:23 on Oct 10, 2018 |
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MightyJoe36 posted:Serious question; is it possible to work full-time while going to medical school? I assume it's possible but will leave you an empty husk Nota bene, she is not in med school yet, probably getting some pre-med bachelor's degree right now
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MightyJoe36 posted:Serious question; is it possible to work full-time while going to medical school? Maybe for the first year or two, depending on the school (some straight up forbid it.)
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Anne Whateley posted:Yeah, but even if she took a pay cut to $50k or whatever, that would be more than enough to pay her own rent even if she lived in NYC. Free (presumably) rent is obviously a huge help, but she would be getting by alone, whereas when the guy quits jobs, he needs not just free housing but also like money to eat and exist with. Sure, but it feels like his point was that it's a bit hypocritical to call him out on being indecisive and accuse him of switching jobs while expecting her to support him, even though she just switched jobs and moved in with his family
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tactlessbastard posted:It's less satisfying than you might imagine
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loquacius posted:"Right away" is used kind of loosely here because as a resident she'd be making SOME money but less than she did before I mean if the bar is "makes more than 75% of America ever will right out the gate" I think she's going to have to study marrying real estate barons.
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Anne Whateley posted:Yeah, but even if she took a pay cut to $50k or whatever, that would be more than enough to pay her own rent even if she lived in NYC. Free (presumably) rent is obviously a huge help, but she would be getting by alone, whereas when the guy quits jobs, he needs not just free housing but also like money to eat and exist with. Are you talking about the scenario after she finishes med school, because presumably he'll be done with pilot school by then too (I dunno how long pilot school takes but probably less time than med school) e: oh wait you mean right now, I was thrown off by doctorpaychat Well yeah that's what happens when someone switches careers, and if she's not on board for this she should and get on to paying her own rent rather than complaining about it from his dad's basement
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also she's at a pretty much normal going to med school age even for people who don't stop to do a highly lucrative sales job for a couple years and this dude's pushing 30 and still wants to be an astronaut, no, an elephant when he grows up
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MightyJoe36 posted:Serious question; is it possible to work full-time while going to medical school? No. The vast vast majority of schools make you sign a waiver stating you will not work during school. At least during the first two years you might have a month or two during the summer to work. Some people get around this by bartending or serving for cash under the table but they burn out quickly.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:also she's at a pretty much normal going to med school age even for people who don't stop to do a highly lucrative sales job for a couple years and this dude's pushing 30 and still wants to be an astronaut, no, an elephant when he grows up Honestly he sounds pretty depressed and after they break up he should rack up some more debt by seeking therapy
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the kind of depressed only people who can count on Mommy and Daddy to indefinitely subsidize their depression can get, maybe
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