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Also you can get pinned by someone way weaker than you. The leverage is against the person in the bottom position. You can learn reversals in a BJJ class or judo class or whatever but like, someone smaller and weaker than you can definitely hold you down if they get the position right.
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Hellblazer187 posted:Guy with strong horsewife could just like, life weights for a few months. He would likely eclipse her strength drastically in a fairly short period of time if he really cared about how strong he was. His thing isn't that he's strong, it's that she's supposed to be weaker than he is. That's all he wants.
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cumshitter posted:The optimal solution here is for her to ask for help opening a pickle jar or something and then swoon over how great he is. She would have to loosen it up for him though. No, the optimal solution is for her to leave her dork partner.
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Jan 1, 2019 02:33
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Motherfucker posted:strong horsewife Powerful name
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Admiral Ray posted:His thing isn't that he's strong, it's that she's supposed to be weaker than he is. That's all he wants. that's some precursor-to-abuse poo poo
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Jan 1, 2019 02:34
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FAUXTON posted:that's some precursor-to-abuse poo poo So is every other misogynistic bullshit thing
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Hellblazer187 posted:Also you can get pinned by someone way weaker than you. The leverage is against the person in the bottom position. You can learn reversals in a BJJ class or judo class or whatever but like, someone smaller and weaker than you can definitely hold you down if they get the position right. the most important thing when dispensing relationship advice is to maintain mathematically rigorous levels of tactical realism
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Jan 1, 2019 02:37
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Foo Diddley posted:So is every other misogynistic bullshit thing very true, but being financially dominating is a few stops up the line from "I need to know I can overpower her at any time" on the train to full blown domestic violence.
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FAUXTON posted:that's some precursor-to-abuse poo poo So yeah, some misogynistic poo poo.
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Jan 1, 2019 02:42
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Incoherence posted:It's an idealized-relationship-as-seen-for-most-of-the-20th-century thing, which is why there are so many men who adhere to it. 
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Jan 1, 2019 02:48
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FAUXTON posted:very true, but being financially dominating is a few stops up the line from "I need to know I can overpower her at any time" on the train to full blown domestic violence. Absolutely not my dog. Financial power is everything in the United States of America and is used to dominate others way more than physical force. I fully believe someone who beats thier wife can be rehabilitated but someone with actual power? Theyll do whatever the gently caress they want, whenever the gently caress they want.
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FAUXTON posted:very true, but being financially dominating is a few stops up the line from "I need to know I can overpower her at any time" on the train to full blown domestic violence. True, true I guess I don't think much about the whole "who can overpower whom" dynamic because I'm just a little scrawny guy. I just assume that I'm the one that's gonna get overpowered and try to avoid contests of strength
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Anne Whateley posted:This is a really weird take. She wasn't nagging at all, and she wasn't doing any kind of tit-for-tat or oneupmanship. This didn't kick off when she asked him to wash dishes or something, it started when she told her husband he was sexy. Their relationship is garbage for sure, but it appears to be flowing in one direction; she wasn't poisoning him. lol yeah the guy you quoted inserted a lot of his own ideas into whatever’s going on. Dude freaked when his wife expressed some kind of horniness and then yelled at her for not wanting sex after he blew up on her for no reason.
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Jan 1, 2019 02:52
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Foo Diddley posted:True, true I don't understand anyone who thinks it's not cool and good when both partners can carry equally heavy poo poo for stuff like yardwork.
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Meme Emulator posted:Absolutely not my dog. Financial power is everything in the United States of America and is used to dominate others way more than physical force. Uhhhh
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Tetramin posted:lol yeah the guy you quoted inserted a lot of his own ideas into whatever’s going on. Dude freaked when his wife expressed some kind of horniness and then yelled at her for not wanting sex after he blew up on her for no reason. Wanna bet they never screwed while she was pregnant because of HIS child?
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The Iron Rose posted:Uhhhh Sorry? What exactly is the problem here? Never met a rich piece of poo poo?
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Anne Whateley posted:This is a really weird take. She wasn't nagging at all, and she wasn't doing any kind of tit-for-tat or oneupmanship. This didn't kick off when she asked him to wash dishes or something, it started when she told her husband he was sexy. Their relationship is garbage for sure, but it appears to be flowing in one direction; she wasn't poisoning him. Sorry, I meant she probably left something out of her take of the story to make it appear that she's only getting his outrageous(and, no matter the take really, loving awful) behavior for no reason. I am not condoning nor defending either person when I say that there just seems like some detail is purposely omitted. No matter the take, these two need some kind of counseling and/or sever. Tetramin posted:lol yeah the guy you quoted inserted a lot of his own ideas into whatever’s going on. Dude freaked when his wife expressed some kind of horniness and then yelled at her for not wanting sex after he blew up on her for no reason. Yeah, I was just speculating about what these two were doing but it's just face value fuckery on my part. But, in the history of all arguments I've been around, no one just snaps like that without there being an underlying cause. Cause is either his mental stability or he has an axe to grind due to something that offended him earlier. Maybe both! Papa Emeritus III fucked around with this message at 03:22 on Jan 1, 2019 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:No, the optimal solution is for her to leave her dork partner. She's a horse lady she's used to dealing with big, dumb animals and... no, he doesn't qualify she should sever.
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FAUXTON posted:I don't understand anyone who thinks it's not cool and good when both partners can carry equally heavy poo poo for stuff like yardwork. I'm imagining saying "Hey, put that down, I'll carry it (because you're threatening my masculinity)" to anyone, male or female, and just laughing
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FAUXTON posted:I don't understand anyone who thinks it's not cool and good when both partners can carry equally heavy poo poo for stuff like yardwork. My wife. She work plow while horse sick. So proud of wife.
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HOT BREAD! posted:the male ego is so loving exhausting
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Hellblazer187 posted:Also you can get pinned by someone way weaker than you. The leverage is against the person in the bottom position. You can learn reversals in a BJJ class or judo class or whatever but like, someone smaller and weaker than you can definitely hold you down if they get the position right. The real red flag is his woefully limited understanding of physics imo
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lol but seriously I posted:the most important thing when dispensing relationship advice is to maintain mathematically rigorous levels of tactical realism
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Meme Emulator posted:Sorry? What exactly is the problem here? Never met a rich piece of poo poo? The take that people with money are worse and less redeemable than violent domestic abusers is pretty legendarily bad hth
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The Iron Rose posted:The take that people with money are worse and less redeemable than violent domestic abusers is pretty legendarily bad hth Don’t be absurd, neither are redeemable
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How much money do you have/make in order to be considered rich and therefore to be a guaranteed shithead? I believe in BFC the consensus is that $99,999.99/yr is not rich but one more penny and you get the guillotine.
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The Iron Rose posted:The take that people with money are worse and less redeemable than violent domestic abusers is pretty legendarily bad hth Not really. An abuser who is rich has a lot more options to gently caress up your life than one who isn’t. A non-rich abuser is still terrible obviously, but having money gives you so many more ways to be a horrible person. Plus rich people just suck in general.
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I (24F) exploded on my Grammy (75F) during Christmas Dinner in front of the entire family. My parents want me to apologize.quote:A little back story: My grandparents are wealthy, which I think is significant to the story because it’s the reason why they get away with treating people horribly. The rest of the family puts up with it so they don’t get cut from whatever inheritance there might be. Time to put Grammy in a home (the home is a grave)
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christmas boots posted:I (24F) exploded on my Grammy (75F) during Christmas Dinner in front of the entire family. My parents want me to apologize. 
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cumshitter posted:My wife. She work plow while horse sick. So proud of wife. Oh I bet she works plow
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In Soviet Russia, wife plows you!
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lol but seriously I posted:the most important thing when dispensing relationship advice is to maintain mathematically rigorous levels of tactical realism This but unironically.
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quote:My Grammy and I were really close and we spent a lot of time together. My parents had opened their own business and they were gone most of the time. So my Grammy was kind of like a mom. She picked me up from school, took me to all my extracurricular activities, etc. We were really close. quote:Side note, I’m not even fat but for some reason she has been obsessed with my weight my entire life. She started telling me that I needed to diet when I was in elementary school and I think it’s part of the reason I have low self-esteem as an adult.
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Hellblazer187 posted:No, the optimal solution is for her to leave her dork partner. Wrong, he's just upset that she didn't start loving him while she had him pinned down. He was ready to go but she just sat there and didn't make a move, she just needs to figure out how to be a more effective dom
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christmas boots posted:I (24F) exploded on my Grammy (75F) during Christmas Dinner in front of the entire family. My parents want me to apologize. ... and that Grammy was Lucille Bluth.
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Incoherence posted:OP was grasping so tightly onto the "I'm the favorite" card that she didn't notice that Grammy was lovely to her even then. Why does the rest of the family put up with her poo poo? she’s rich
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Is there anyway of getting your trust fund back if your parents donated all 100,000$ of it to a church because the child came out to them? Not me but my friend recently told me that his parents had sent him a thank you letter from the church for his contribution of 100,000$ to them and that it would be going towards building a basketball court. I'm just wondering if there is any way to reappropriate it under his name only or anything? I'm just furious at hearing that instead of loving their kid and giving him a future that they decide to throw away him and any educational support in the most horrendous way I can think. Btw they called him on Christmas to tell him that he should move back so he can go to the churches "straight away" program (it tries to turn them straight with biblical propaganda and threats of hell etc.) Edit: living in Canada quote:It's basically a cult church and its local so they know the family and the story behind it and support the parents...
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Incoherence posted:OP was grasping so tightly onto the "I'm the favorite" card that she didn't notice that Grammy was lovely to her even then. Why does the rest of the family put up with her poo poo? Possibility of inheritance. 100% death tax imo.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:she’s rich Starts and ends there, friends.
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