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Depressio111117 posted:Were there even cliques/popular kids in anyone else’s college experience? People divided themselves into friend groups sure, but it wasn’t clique-ish the way high school can be. People in frats and sororities who were extremely into which frat/sorority other people in frats/sororities were in, and then the rest of us who never had to interact with the first group because they never came to class
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CheesyDog posted:People in frats and sororities who were extremely into which frat/sorority other people in frats/sororities were in, and then the rest of us who never had to interact with the first group because they never came to class Oh right, kinda forgot about those. For folks who wanted High School 2.
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Fatkraken posted:I think this goes double for people who don't HAVE nuts; we ladies really don't have anything comparable in terms of vulnerability, ovaries are like any other internal organ and there is no specific sensation to being hit in them versus a general punch in the lower abdeomon, and by all accounts tits just aren't that sensitive, I've been hit in the tits plenty of times playing contact sport and it can smart but not "doubled over and vomiting" level. While you are correct, ladies do have a weak spot that’s just extremely tiny. On the offchance someone hits you in the groin and manages to hit your clit it can make you double over. Not “roll around throwing up and crying for 5 minutes” bad, but still pretty drat bad. Getting your tits hit when you are in the part of your cycle that they are extra sensitive is a bad time too. I jabbed my nipple into the edge of a cabinet once and never forgot the pain.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Kicking each other in the nuts was practically the national sport back in primary school and I never saw any reactions that severe, but then again grown adults are probably a lot stronger. a grown woman kicking you full on in the sack with drunk strength from a position where you have no hope of deflecting it even slightly is going to hurt a lot more than a 12 year old kicking you in the nuts at half strength because he doesn't want to get in trouble
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I don't blame anyone for not listening to the Dear Prudence podcast, because Prudie tends to meander and repeat his advice. But this past week, the podcast has dug up gold. Subject: I Gave Away My Boyfriend's Dog And I Lied About It quote:Dear Prudence: Five years ago I did something unforgivable. While my boyfriend Kyle was out of town, I gave away his beloved dog. I hate dogs. Kyle is a dog nut who's totally obsessed with them. Instead of breaking up with someone whose values were different than mine, I acted cruelly. I regretted it almost immediately. But I didn't know how to extract myself from this situation without losing Kyle, so I lied and said his dog ran away. We searched for her for months. The more I've fallen in love with Kyle and the longer we've been together, the worse my guilt has become. The fear of him finding out the truth petrifies me too. Now I'm pregnant and the stress of this secret has been crushing. I feel like I've trapped Kyle and I despise myself for it. He knows that I'm stressed, but not why. What do I do? P.S. I deserve the hate and condemnation I will receive.
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DemoneeHo posted:I don't blame anyone for not listening to the Dear Prudence podcast, because Prudie tends to meander and repeat his advice. But this past week, the podcast has dug up gold. buy the dog back, pretend you found it
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A story of integrity My (22M) GF (21F) encouraged her best girl friend to cheat on her boyfriend with one of my good friends. We are in a huge argument over it. [new] I (22M) have been dating my gf (21F) for a year, and we are both in our last year of college. Yesterday, her best friend (I'll refer to her as K) from another college was visiting and we went out to bars last night. Girlfriends best friend has a boyfriend, who I've met twice and who was not with us last night. For the most part, our night was going great. I was getting along with K and she was getting along with all of my guy friends we were out with. Around midnight, my girlfriend tells me that K wants to hook up with a boy tonight, and that K thought one of my friends was hot. As she says this, K jumps into the conversation. Suddenly I feel on the spot for deciding whether K should cheat on her boyfriend with one of my good friends. K tells me she is planning on breaking up with her boyfriend in a couple months anyways. I tell her she shouldn't cheat and should break up with him now if that's how she feels. This is when I removed myself from the conversation. I partly just didn't want to deal with it but I also wanted to see what my girlfriend would tell K to do. The night goes on and my gf and K are sitting in the corner chatting in a secretive way. Meanwhile, I let my good friend know that K is interested in him, but I made it clear she has a boyfriend and that it's probably best he doesn't get involved. He agrees and says he's not really interested. However, he's a single guy and if an attractive girl is dead set on going home with him, I know he wouldn't turn her down. I just wanted to be straightforward with him. Moving forward to when we leave the bar to go home. The four of us (myself, gf, K, and my guy friend) walk out together. When we get outside, my gf and I start walking to her house, but instead of K coming with us, my gf basically tells her to go home with my friend. My friend gives me a weird look, knowing K has a boyfriend, but I don't say anything in the moment. Maybe I gave him a shrug, as if to say "it's her choice." K says goodbye to us and walks away with my friend. Once it's just me and my gf, I express how uncomfortable the whole situation was and how I'm disappointed in how she encouraged her best friend to cheat. This caused gf to panic, start crying, and call K repeatedly trying to get her to not go home with my friend. She didn't answer, but after asking my friend this morning, he confirmed he did not hook up with K, and she slept on a couch at his house. Anyways, we ended up arguing for hours until like 4am. Basically, I am angry that she put me in a tough spot by asking me whether K should go home with my good friend. Furthermore, I am angry about how she facilitated K cheating on her boyfriend. I see this as a major red flag. Our arguing basically got us nowhere last night. I expressed my dissatisfaction, and she basically just kept deflecting and telling me "I love you" "I wanna marry you someday" and "our relationship isn't like her friend K's." My conclusion is that, at the moment, she's completely missing the point of why I am upset. So first, am I justified in being so upset over how my gf handled things last night? I know K can make her own decisions whether I like them or not, but I really feel like my gf egged her on. Second, how can I communicate why this is such a big deal to me and get her to understand my viewpoint. I'm seriously questioning my gf's morals and how she thinks about relationships right now. Thank you for any advice. TLDR: GF encouraged her best friend to cheat on her boyfriend, with one of my good friends, last night. She put me in a tough spot between her, her friend, and my friend that I was not comfortable with. Now I am questioning my gf's morals and how she views relationships.
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sneakyfrog posted:you will never feel bad enough. Don't punish the child. Sell the woman to pirates and leave the child with the loving father instead! That way everyone wins
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Feb 24, 2019 19:47
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DemoneeHo posted:I don't blame anyone for not listening to the Dear Prudence podcast, because Prudie tends to meander and repeat his advice. But this past week, the podcast has dug up gold. Jesus loving Christ. What a hosed up thing to do. I agree that you take that mother fucker to the grave, but wow.
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Feb 24, 2019 19:49
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SMH if you're willing steal a dog for your own personal convenience but are still soft enough to let your conscience eat you up about it. Put on your big girl panties.
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Feb 24, 2019 19:54
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tactlessbastard posted:SMH if you're willing steal a dog for your own personal convenience but are still soft enough to let your conscience eat you up about it. Put on your big girl panties.
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Feb 24, 2019 20:15
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/r/relationshits: I started pushing but found it difficult to poo poo on my wife
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sneakyfrog posted:a better plan Maybe it's because of all the prank stories recently, but my fairytale plan is: Prudie advises her to tell him, and she does. He's obviously upset, but, as part of a long game revenge, pretends to forgive her eventually. Just when she's feeling like everything's gonna be okay and the matter is done, she goes out shopping or working one day. She comes home and finds him chilling on the couch, baby --- and all of baby's belongings --- nowhere in sight. "Where's the baby?" "Sweetie, I should've brought this up earlier in our relationship, but... I never really liked babies, so I gave her away." (Baby is actually safe with a sitter) She freaks the gently caress out, of course. He reassures her with: "Honey, it's okay. Look, I even got a good trade for her. I got these ---" and hands her the divorce papers. What was Prudie's reply, anyways?
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SalTheBard posted:Jesus loving Christ. What a hosed up thing to do. I agree that you take that mother fucker to the grave, but wow. Anyone who does something like that will do equally hosed-up things when pressured; she should tell him so he can leave her.
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JacquelineDempsey posted:What was Prudie's reply, anyways? Prudie and the guest tell the letter writer to be honest with Kyle, cause the shame is killing her, and to accept any consequences that follow. Also she should talk about what they plan to do with the baby first before dropping the "I hate dogs and got rid of yours" confession. Prudie tells Kyle that if he is listening, he should break up with LW. The question happens around the 16:00 to 32:00 minute marks.
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sneakyfrog posted:a better plan easier on the pirates too. no one thinks about the pirates
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I'm honestly surprised gasoline prank girl didn't get hurt. If I thought I had been doused in gas and someone came at me with a lighter in hand, my first move would be to run the gently caress out of there, but if I was cornered I would absolutely grab the nearest hard object and try to break their arm or wrist to get the lighter out of their hand.
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Doc Hawkins posted:Anyone who does something like that will do equally hosed-up things when pressured; she should tell him so he can leave her. Agreed. If she can't just come clean about not liking dogs around and acts that impulsively, what happens if she gets post-partum depression? Not a fun scene to envision.  For that matter, if she keeps mum about it, what's to stop him from getting another dog, anyways? Is she planning on stealing dogs for the next 60 years or something? She said herself he's a dog nut, odds are he might want another one someday.And for those of you who enjoyed my revenge fantasy, the alternate endings: Don't pull the prank, but respond with "It's okay, I understand you not liking dogs... You're jealous, right? I mean, there's only room here for one bitch." (if his beloved pup was a girl) That would probably be the most Pete-like. Bonus if he puts on shades "deal with it" style while walking out. Or Do pull the prank, and finish with "Honey, it's okay. Look, I even got a good trade for her on Craigslist. C'mere, Rex!" [puts leash on new doggie that comes bounding into the room; walks out the door] JacquelineDempsey fucked around with this message at 21:19 on Feb 24, 2019 |
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I (32m) think my girlfriend (35f) lied about where she wasquote:I’m in mobile so sorry for any typos or formatting issues.. This is a Hell of a lot of mental gymnastics and suspicion due to not calling for 35 minutes.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I (24M) love my girlfriend (24F) but her poor hygiene is really bothering me. Gardnerella vaginosis sucks. It's pretty easy to treat. It's actually not really a hygeine issue. More of a PH imbalance. Often caused by semen getting in there and upsetting the balance. A lot women also develop bacterial vaginosis during their periods when the PH turns less acidic. Usually the body rights itself, but there's one over the counter remedy that fixes it up if you're body is being sluggish about balancing itself, though I can't figure out the science behind it. There's also antibiotics that will fix it, but you risk switching over to a yeast infection from those. She should still go to the gynecologist to make sure there's not some other bacterial overgrowth going on in there. But if she isn't having any discomfort, it's most likely a gardnerella infection. quote:In addition to this I don't think she cleans herself after defecating. Bored fucked around with this message at 21:28 on Feb 24, 2019 |
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My (35M) girlfriend (38F) of 6 years suddenly wants to be a dishwasher and I'm not ok with thatquote:Throwaway for privacy. Some quick notes about my GF: humble, funny, thoughtful, has a master's degree, wrongful death situation with her parents left her basically set for life a decade ago. She doesn't need to work, but she pretty much always does, and works hard too, sometimes two or three jobs at a time, some of them specialized and related to her degree and others really random, like pilates studio, shelter worker ect. What an rear end in a top hat.
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LadyPictureShow posted:I (32m) think my girlfriend (35f) lied about where she was  Jesus, dude.I had an ex like this. She would be like "It takes 20 minutes to drive from work to home. Why did you get home in 30 minutes?" It only took two instances of her saying poo poo like that for me to cut the cord. It will only get worse, imo, and I didn't want to be a part of it.
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LadyPictureShow posted:My (35M) girlfriend (38F) of 6 years suddenly wants to be a dishwasher and I'm not ok with that Married har for the money but she has to be the housekeeper as well.
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LadyPictureShow posted:My (35M) girlfriend (38F) of 6 years suddenly wants to be a dishwasher and I'm not ok with that She could be having a real crisis of some kind but there's no way to tell with him as the source.
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Doc Hawkins posted:There are enormous gaps missing from this testimony to the point where it's obvious this fella is a huge self-absorbed baby. He handwaves all of her decisions, reasoning, and personal history. She got paid off when her parents died, but who cares. She had "issues" from a car accident, perhaps meaning injuries, but who cares. She presumably has some reason she wants to work in a restaurant instead of doing any of the other jobs she's had, but who cares. That's basically the impression I got. She's keeping her mind busy with constant work and he is unable to catch any idea of how she may feel.
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Doc Hawkins posted:There are enormous gaps missing from this testimony to the point where it's obvious this fella is a huge self-absorbed baby. He handwaves all of her decisions, reasoning, and personal history. She got paid off when her parents died, but who cares. She had "issues" from a car accident, perhaps meaning injuries, but who cares. She presumably has some reason she wants to work in a restaurant instead of doing any of the other jobs she's had, but who cares. She's probably just tired of staying home all day and "taking care of everything" for him. She has enough money to do whatever she wants or nothing at all, so she probably just thinks working in a restaurant sounds fun. But yeah, he just nonchalantly mentions all these traumatic things that have happened to her like they're no big deal. The boyfriend is a major loser. How is working as a dishwasher more embarrassing than not having a job at all? I hope he tells he that he's embarrassed by her and she dumps him.
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Bored posted:Gardnerella vaginosis sucks. It's pretty easy to treat. It's actually not really a hygeine issue. More of a PH imbalance. Often caused by semen getting in there and upsetting the balance. A lot women also develop bacterial vaginosis during their periods when the PH turns less acidic. Usually the body rights itself, but there's one over the counter remedy that fixes it up if you're body is being sluggish about balancing itself, though I can't figure out the science behind it. Having a vagina sounds exhausting. Not that the penis is trouble-free, but I think it's much lower maintenance.
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I've joined a few relationship advice groups and they are an untapped goldmine. Who is ready for some good old-fashioned  ?
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:She's probably just tired of staying home all day and "taking care of everything" for him. She has enough money to do whatever she wants or nothing at all, so she probably just thinks working in a restaurant sounds fun. But yeah, he just nonchalantly mentions all these traumatic things that have happened to her like they're no big deal. OP posted:I do think it is beneath her and she could do way better. I also don't look forward to conversations where people are like "oh what does she do for a living?" because I think its trashy. quote:Idk I feel like its like the difference between supporting someone who wants to be a 40 year old rave party promoter vs supporting someone who wants to be a nurse or something quote:Those are good points. She does have amazing work ethic. And I'm getting the sense that it's not my place to choose or judge where she puts that energy. But it just seems so random and wrong. Like, this is what someone half her age should be doing, you know? And maybe that's why it takes some extra effort to respect it now. She should  and find someone who doesn't think work like that is beneath them.
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OP posted:I also don't look forward to conversations where people are like "oh what does she do for a living?" because I think its trashy. Oh well it's a good thing he won't have to worry about that once she breaks up with him.
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darkwasthenight posted:I've joined a few relationship advice groups and they are an untapped goldmine. Who is ready for some good old-fashioned Put everything else about this aside and just think of how much money they wasted because he is a jackass. That's reason enough to sever cause financially this man is a disaster.
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My [29M] fiancée [30F] is obsessed with her side business, and it's taking over our lives.quote:Background: I'm a graduate student, just wrapping up my PhD, living in LA. My fiancée and I have been dating for two years, and engaged for three months. She works in corporate strategy at a big company. Neither of us make a lot of money, we live in a tiny 1 BR/BA.
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darkwasthenight posted:I've joined a few relationship advice groups and they are an untapped goldmine. Who is ready for some good old-fashioned Hoooooooooly poo poo. I would absolutely refuse to convict if she stabbed him to death in his sleep, or in his awake, or whenever she felt like it. Goddamn is that a gross violation. What the gently caress is she doing giving him any options that include "stay together," though? Lady, pack up and get the gently caress out.
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