Geoj posted:

Cheesebag lady needs to leave clean cheese guy and hook up with cheeto finger guy.

Pinecone Sample posted:

Did you forget the part about being poly?

I mean she's living in his house, dining on his shredded cheese, there's 10 waking hours in the day to get cheesepowderfingerbanged, that's the good life.

That said, we don't know how the cheesebag household feels about cheese-flavored snack product.

Pinecone Sample posted:

Did you forget the part about being poly?

I mean she's living in his house, dining on his shredded cheese, there's 10 waking hours in the day to get cheesepowderfingerbanged, that's the good life.

That said, we don't know how the cheesebag household feels about cheese-flavored snack product.

Xenocides posted:

My (33F) husband (33M) hired a dominatrix online to meet up while he was "blackout". I found out before it actually happened. He claims he would "never do that" & that he's someone else when he blacks out, am I wrong to hold him accountable despite addiction issues?


I hate you both and you both need rehab. The rare story where the dominatrix is the sane one.

Edit: Oh wow, the husband showed up.

Vim Fuego posted:

AITA for wanting to sleep on my wife’s side of the bed?


this dude is like serial killer weird IMO

quote:

Hi Reddit,

I've been on SA for about 6 months now and met with a couple of people. I don't like to say I've actually had any real SD's because the although money has exchanged hands, I haven't really found someone that can actually live up to the long term arrangement expectation. That's what I think is extremely misleading about the site... But it's not the point.

I met someone around month two that was funny, kind, attractive and generous. He's poly in his actual life and always seems to have someone around, but he seems to have gotten sick of whatever common law relationship he had with other women and got onto SA. I met him once but continued to talk on and off with him, when he finally agreed to meet again. I realized that I didn't care if I got paid or not (my money situation got better) because I just got so sad when I couldn't spend time with him so it kind of evolved into a weird FWB thing but he'd pay for all my food and invite me out to stuff once in a while. It was nice.

But, part of me knows this won't last. I don't want to say I've got feelings for him, but it's definitely started getting kind of challenging being away from him. I really have to rationalize with myself that he's got a life outside of me and that this is only temporary, but he makes me laugh and keeps my interest for longer than a week. That said, it's made it really hard to start thinking about dating again. SA has completely soured the taste of dating apps for me and it feels like the same exhausting game (I'm pretty much done with SA too). When I think about going out to meet people, I immediately think about how much effort it will be and what low payoff it'll likely result in. This is based on many months of searching on the site just to feel like I've really had my time wasted.

Now I'm in a weird place where I can't go back on SA and I don't know how to date again. For context, my last relationship was a high school sweetheart. So I really jumped into this immediately after my first and only long term relationship.

I would love anyone's thoughts on this. TIA.

tl;dr: SA has left me feeling bitter and sad about my prospects for actual dating and I might have feelings for an SD (which can only end badly)

Edit: I pressed submit before I finished welp

CheesyDog posted:

r/relationshipsRelationships
I [28F] have this newfound aggression towards my SO [m/31] of 1 year because he eats off-brand cheese doodles?
u/creed_is_life

CheesyDog posted:

r/sugarlifestyleforum
SA makes it hard to date again
u/jesusgrapes

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

The Iron Rose posted:

Lol zopiclone is not just another "sleeping pill" it's a notbenzodiazepine that functions exactly like a loving benzo. You lose hours to days of time of memory while you're a half functional zombie. I fully buy that this guy doesn't remember that specific time he emailed a dominatrix but lol that she thinks he hasn't cheated or done this a hundred times before.

Hope that lady gets out because he's never gonna loving change.

Leon Einstein posted:

Sugar babies deserve everything they get. Nothing is free. Trading your dignity and ability to date for a little cash seems shortsighted.

CheesyDog posted:

r/sugarlifestyleforum
SA makes it hard to date again
u/jesusgrapes

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

I knew a girl who went on a sugar daddy site and got her student loans payed off in exchange for a blowjob. That wasn't the understanding or anything, she just mentioned that she had ~$20k of student loan debt, the guy was like "oh is that all?", went online and payed it off, and she figured the least she could do was suck his dick.

I agree that it's trading your dignity for cash, but everyone's got a price.

Power Khan posted:

AITA for freaking out and telling my one night stand (girl) to leave?

Rubellavator posted:

Can I get that number

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

I knew a girl who went on a sugar daddy site and got her student loans payed off in exchange for a blowjob. That wasn't the understanding or anything, she just mentioned that she had ~$20k of student loan debt, the guy was like "oh is that all?", went online and payed it off, and she figured the least she could do was suck his dick.

I agree that it's trading your dignity for cash, but everyone's got a price.

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

I knew a girl who went on a sugar daddy site and got her student loans payed off in exchange for a blowjob. That wasn't the understanding or anything, she just mentioned that she had ~$20k of student loan debt, the guy was like "oh is that all?", went online and payed it off, and she figured the least she could do was suck his dick.

I agree that it's trading your dignity for cash, but everyone's got a price.

waah posted:

That's market efficiency. That would have had to have been 200 Robert Kraft sessions or about 7 hours of work for Robert Kraft

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

Really shows that money can't buy class. Robert Kraft sees the world's finest caviar and is like "I could get 200 Big Macs for that much!"

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

My student loans are still at $80k, so I'm not sure what that entails, but I'm pretty sure I'd do it.

spacetoaster posted:

https://www.goarmy.com/?iom=OP68-90...wE&gclsrc=aw.ds

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

Ew. I was thinking more along the lines of getting hosed in the rear end.

spacetoaster posted:

When I was a kid a friend's dad introduced me to coffee cheese.

You take the sharpest cheddar you can find, and drop a small block of it in some hot black coffee. Then, when it's gooey, you fish it out with a fork and eat it.

It is the oddest, most bitter, flavor ever. And I'll be damned if it wasn't pretty good.

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

Motronic posted:

If it's the typical dynamic he's more than just involved, he's financially supporting them at least in part. One would think that's the bat to bludgeon them with.

quote:

Yeah, I do provide them with money because they aren't working right now except my mom doing some odd jobs. I'm just afraid an ultimatum like that would be devastating.

CheesyDog posted:

"Now, are you ready... to fondue it?"

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for vetoing my husband's name choice for our child?


My husband and I were having trouble agreeing on a name for our daughter, so we decided we'd each pick one and then decide which arrangement sounded better to determine which name would be a first name and which would be the middle. It wasn't an in depth conversation so we didn't discuss vetoes or anything. I genuinely didn't think there would be anything he chose that I would hate that much.

He picked the name Aryann (pronounced Ah-ree-ann). I don't know where he got that, but I'm Jewish and having a kid with a name so close to "aryan" is not okay with me. I suggested we change the spelling but he won't budge because he thinks it looks pretty. He thinks I'm reading too deep into it and that no one will think twice about the name "Aryann." Am I the rear end in a top hat for wanting to put my foot down about this and ask him to choose another name?

edit- never mind, I showed my husband this thread to get him to change his mind and he started laughing because apparently he was joking. I'd be annoyed, but I'm too relieved that he's just obnoxious and not a complete moron.

Cough Drop The Beat posted:

This is actually really dumb, lame, and ignorant on OP's part because it's just a normal name with ordinary origins. Like uh, I have an Iranian friend and his name is Aryaan. It's a common name in Arabic/Persian culture and means "beyond strength". Aryann is an equally fine name and I'm someone who is proud to be Jewish with a grandfather who survived the Holocaust. It's not like her husband wants to call their child Hitler. Lol.