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FoolyCharged posted:If we take the dude at his word: Hi, buddy, reread my post. I explained WHY she might have said no even if he DID do it. dudeness posted:I can't imagine someone advertising their car wash fundraiser for a family that lost their home as being staffed by bikini teens. 
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Hellblazer187 posted:This one's iffy. There's a mens rea component here. If he's just getting his car cleaned because 1) it's dirty, and 2) he wants to help the family that lost their home, it's not his fault the organizers put 15 year old girls in bikinis. However, if the girls in bikinis are what drew him to the event, he is bad and gross and you should be upset with him. It also depends on the advertising - did the event say "young girls in bikinis" or just "charity car wash"? That's what I was thinking. If he has a history of being a creep, then sever his head from his neck. First offense though, I would give him the benefit of a doubt.
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dudeness posted:I can't imagine someone advertising their car wash fundraiser for a family that lost their home as being staffed by bikini teens. Good point. How the car wash was advertised should play a role in the judgement
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QuarkJets posted:Good point. How the car wash was advertised should play a role in the judgement The ones I’ve seen in Southern CA at least they have like the kids in say shorts and t shirts holding the signs but girls in swim suits washing the cars. It’s really creepy because if you pull in you wouldn’t even see who is washing the car till you are already in line for it. I’ve never stopped at one but I could see how you could do it without knowing what was up. The bikini car washes have been in pop culture since at least the late 70’s.
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There is a level of ambiguity, because the OP says that the car wash was organized by a friend of the family. Were the girls who washed cars daughters of the family who lost their house or were they daughters of the friend? How was the car wash advertised? Of course, regardless of the answers, tactlessbastard posted:You could always donate money and not patronize the car wash
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AITA for filming my music video in a store with my friend and then accidentally making a mess? My juggalo friend and I were walking into this local walmart this after noon and yes we were wearing facepaint and other juggalo poo poo but its not like walmart isn't used to seeing weird hosed up poo poo and the workers didn't even give us a second look. so anyways we were here to film a music video for our rap duo so we had to sneak are camera in the store which we did pretty good. anyways part of my vision of this music video is me being showered in faygo as i walk down the feminine product aisle, so that's exactly what we did. i took about 2 bottles of faygo from the cooler, shook them up and started making it rain faygo as my friend was filming. this caused one of the employees to alert her manager who promptly told us to leave. i explained we were doing a music video and told him i entended to pay for the faygo that i used but he wouldnt hear us. he also band us from coming to the store again unless we wanted police called on us. personally i consider myself a juggalo before an american and i consider icp to be the figure heads of my religion. this is simply a religious practice and the manager was being inflammatory to my 1st amedmint rights. my friend has video evidnce of the entire incidence. was i an rear end in a top hat for doing this even if i offerd to pay for the faygo? also shoud i consider suing this walmart for religious discrimanation?
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HMS Beagle posted:AITA for filming my music video in a store with my friend and then accidentally making a mess? This is way too on the nose to be real but I still love it
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CharlestheHammer posted:I wish I cared about anything like white people cared about rules lawyering the N word 
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HMS Beagle posted:AITA for filming my music video in a store with my friend and then accidentally making a mess? This is amazing and this needs to be the thread title. The whole post. 10/10
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:Hi, buddy, reread my post. I explained WHY she might have said no even if he DID do it. I think he would have mentioned her bothering hr/managers. The dude is pissed at her. No way he would leave that out. A past history of her being a poo poo, true or not, would be hugely sympathetic. Keep in mind the coworker's only listed offense is opposing gay marriage and he could be one of those weird religious types that thinks handing gay people a different titled form that does the same poo poo isnt marriage.
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FoolyCharged posted:I think he would have mentioned her bothering hr/managers. The dude is pissed at her. No way he would leave that out. A past history of her being a poo poo, true or not, would be hugely sympathetic. Okay, so I have to spell it out again: If a manager asks someone if they've been harassed, what they're asking is "can you PROVE you were harassed" because otherwise, they aren't going to do poo poo. They'll probably crack down on the person who spoke up if anything, out of the perception that the person who reported the abuse is "creating drama."
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:Okay, so I have to spell it out again: That is one hell of a take on things.
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If any of y'all disagree feel free to get a lovely manual labor job and try raising a complaint, any complaint, literally any complaint to your manager, and see what happens.Barudak posted:If you rock the boat expect to get pushed overboard except the boat is capitalism and "overboard" is either space or sleeping in culverts. PHIZ KALIFA fucked around with this message at 03:03 on May 6, 2019 |
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tactlessbastard posted:You could always donate money and not patronize the car wash Didn't his friend organize it? Maybe he thought it would be the friend in a bikini
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MarcusSA posted:This is amazing and this needs to be the thread title.
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My hot take is that you should wait until somebody commits (or attempts to commit) a fireable offense before firing somebody for such offense. Also right to work and at will states are bad and people ITT using them to justify firing somebody you disagree with aren't the woke individuals they think they are.
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Being homophobic is 100% a fire-able offense. Either that or you have to homophobe so hard the Supreme Court decides to screw over all of society because the one straight baker in the entire goddamn world got a bug up his rear end about the biblical sacrament of fondant.
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Oh God he also posted it in r/nyc Attention! DO not go to the Seacaucus NJ walmart. I was banned from the store
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HMS Beagle posted:Oh God he also posted it in r/nyc  I don’t care if its fake or not its hilarious.
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That has to be fake. Yes, juggalos are that lacking in self awareness and basic tenets of humanity but I still think it's a troll.
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HMS Beagle posted:AITA for filming my music video in a store with my friend and then accidentally making a mess? Hatchet, God, Country. In that order. Also the first two are the same.
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:Being homophobic is 100% a fire-able offense. Either that or you have to homophobe so hard the Supreme Court decides to screw over all of society because the one straight baker in the entire goddamn world got a bug up his rear end about the biblical sacrament of fondant. A baker put a bug up he own rear end, a shameful baker
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AITA for telling random guy that he loving sucks? So I was just putting my backpack down at a seat a campus run dining hall (I had my food on the tray and was going to fill up my glass with soda from the machine) . My backpack was on the chair at a two person table. I had my laptop and other books and stuff in it. I fill up my glass and two guys come up to my seat. As I turn around I see one of them lift my backpack up and drop it on the ground at like a 3 foot drop. He then moved my tray to another table. I quickly walked back over and was like wtf guys theres plenty of open seating. He's like oh we thought you were done and had a blank expression on his face. I then said dude you just dropped my backpack with my laptop in it, you're and idiot and you loving suck. He then said I loving suck in response. I then grabbed my backpack and tray and walked away. Thankfully nothing was damaged but AITA ? honestly i just love the title of this one
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AITA for asking my husband to stop doing things that bother me and other people? Whenever I tell my husband something is bothering me he says I’m a nag and such. But I don’t mean to nag, I just want whatever is bothering me or possibly bothering others to stop. For example, in a restaurant he will be on his phone looking at facebook and watch a video with the volume loud enough for people at other tables to hear. I’ll ask him to turn it down a bit. He gets mad, turns it off and throws his phone on the table. If he’s driving and keeps veering over into the wrong lane or riding a car’s bumper. I’ll point that out because it honestly makes me nervous. He’ll immediately get angry, rant about how much he hates riding with me in the car because when he’s by himself no one bitches at him. I don’t think I’m being bitchy. I really do word it as “can you please turn the volume down a notch?” Or “Babe, can you stay in your lane please.” Or “slow down please.” I feel like I have to word everything so carefully or else he calls me a bitch, but lately it seems like no amount of sugar coating works. But if I don’t say anything then I just have to be embarrassed/uncomfortable with what he’s doing. If I ask why he gets so angry over this he tells me I’m dramatic or bitchy. Being honest it does happen alot, usually because he ignores me and just keeps doing whatever he wants no matter how much it bothers me or anyone around us. So I’ll ask a few times before he either blows up or I give up. I really want to know if I’m the rear end in a top hat here.
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AITA for taking truth or dare bit too far? We were at house party, playing truth or dare.We were also extremely drunk. One kid got absinthe from somewhere. I was sitting right between my ex and boyfriend. We were doing like regular truths and dares. Someone span the bottle and it landed on me and this girl. She’s a bitch. First class oval office. I picked dare, Idk why, I should’ve picked truth. She dared me to kiss my ex. Right in front of my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend both said no. But everyone started bitching because why should they have to do the dare if we don’t do one. So I kissed him. Few turns later It landed on me and that girl’s boyfriend. He asked me to say who had bigger dick. Ex or boyfriend. Wow, so mature, I said it. I was extremely extremely angry. It landed on me and her few turns later and I asked her if she knew that her boyfriend was cheating with her. I knew it because I walked in on him with someone in changing room one time. I said it without even realizing. She got white like a ghost, got up and ran out. So now basically, whole school says that I’m the rear end in a top hat. My boyfriend is mad at me and I’m having to avoid that girl’s boyfriend at all costs. o w n e d
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https://twitter.com/legaladvice_txt/status/1125156670106210304?s=21
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for asking my husband to stop doing things that bother me and other people? How do all these idiot children manage to get married?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for taking truth or dare bit too far? This is a great one haha Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for taking truth or dare bit too far? This is the sort of ice burn so powerful before you say it everything pauses for a second with a huge zoom on your face as the the background and music changes in anticipation
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Cyks posted:My hot take is that you should wait until somebody commits (or attempts to commit) a fireable offense before firing somebody for such offense.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for asking my husband to stop doing things that bother me and other people? Ugh, why did you marry this utter dipshit?!
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Resting Lich Face posted:How do all these idiot children manage to get married? How does anyone not manage to get married if these utter morons can do it?
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Pirate Radar posted:How does anyone not manage to get married if these utter morons can do it? 
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Miserable Maid posted:Ugh, why did you marry this utter dipshit?! This poo poo is mindboggling to me. It's not like the guy would have acted any different prior to the marriage. I'm similarly confused by people in relationships where they barely even interact with each other.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for taking truth or dare bit too far? loving lmao
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [22 M] bisexual girlfriend [23 F] says she needs physical contact with her female friends or she can't function. How do I not get jealous? just tell her "Bi Bi, baby"
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