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Runcible Cat posted:https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3792330&pagenumber=3170&perpage=40#post485913769 God bless.
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monkeytennis posted:Nice. ‘Last week she ended up on a binge, she got off her tits and showed the bouncers her minge’ is art. The Queen's English truly is poetry.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 00:26 |
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christmas boots posted:Anna Faris tried to keep Chris Pratt during their marriage. I mean he did almost immediately cheat on and divorce her afterwards so... All the while posting wholesome religious social media posts.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 00:54 |
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Bananaquiter posted:I mean he did almost immediately cheat on and divorce her afterwards so... Oh man I remember it getting revealed that his church was crazy homophobic, and his response was like "as a straight rich white man I dont see any bigotry so obviously there is none 😌" lol what a piece of poo poo
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:03 |
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Part 2 in a trilogy Update: My husband (M29) is tracking my (F28) location via the Snapchat app he thinks without my knowledge. quote:So I posted about this 13 days ago but so much has changed since then so I decided to make a new post with the updates.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:12 |
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chitoryu12 posted:I [24M] am confused about my girlfriend's [28F] actions every now and then. This one stings a bit but it comes down to the fact that they have different levels of emotional investment in the relationship. It is weird she didn’t invite him to the birthday thing and it’s weird she hasn’t introduced him to her friends. It sounds like he’s written a lot of the red flags off as her being from a different country but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s just not that into him.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:16 |
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Danaru posted:Oh man I remember it getting revealed that his church was crazy homophobic, and his response was like "as a straight rich white man I dont see any bigotry so obviously there is none 😌" lol what a piece of poo poo But his REAL crime is what Star-Lord did near the end of Avengers: Infinity War, amirite?
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:31 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:Part 2 in a trilogy Root the phone, add a GPS/location spoofer. The snaps chats will be coming from inside the house and he’ll be looking all over for you!
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:33 |
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He's cheating on her and projecting hard, I bet.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:37 |
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Cheating and projecting seems likely, but even if he isn't, he sounds loving exhausting to be married to
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:39 |
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Just leave the location enabled but stay at the divorce lawyers office all day. He should eventually figure it out when he gets the papers.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 01:46 |
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Can we get the tag for the thread switched back to pink? It doesn't look right.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:05 |
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Beachcomber posted:Can we get the tag for the thread switched back to pink? It doesn't look right. Earlier today I thought the thread was gone because the tag changed and I'm used to just looking for the old pink tag.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:09 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:Earlier today I thought the thread was gone because the tag changed and I'm used to just looking for the old pink tag.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:21 |
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Antivehicular posted:Cheating and projecting seems likely, but even if he isn't, he sounds loving exhausting to be married to Even taking the most generous stance and believe nothing is going on except that he is incredibly insecure, it's just absolutely loving exhausting. Coming home from work every day to an interview of where you've been. Having all your conversations with other people monitored... gently caress all of that. Also same re looking for pink icon, I'm too old for change and it's scary.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:26 |
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I don't get 'is cheating and projecting' vibes from that guy. I get 'absurdly controlling, sees her as a possession, and will probably get violent if confronted with the possibility of her leaving him' vibes. 'Cheating and projecting' is for stuff like the guy who picks passive-aggressive fights about you 'flirting with the waiter' every time you eat out, or the girl who doesn't want you to hang out with other women because she 'trusts you, but not them'. The guy in this story isn't accusing her of anything. He's just covertly tracking her every move, and asking her prying questions to try to get even more information. He's not acting guilty, he's acting crazy.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:29 |
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Totally acting crazy and controlling but quote:The guy in this story isn't accusing her of anything. It's probably just a matter of time. Like, trying to catch her out with some inconsequential detail. Oh you said there was a Wendy's near by when I asked you about food but the location you were at was actually 7.5km away from one, where were you actually!??!! Were you with someone else etc.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:35 |
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Yeah that's bonkers and abusive and it's only gonna get worse All these "so, I'm being abused" stories are really depressing to see posted here every day
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:53 |
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Yeah I don't think it will develop that way, or if it does it still won't be the same as when cheating partners project. If a friend of mine told me their partner was accusing them of cheating, I'd tell them it's probably projection and they should break up (or at least prepare themselves to find out that their partner is actually cheating on them). If a friend of mine told me the story posted here, I'd tell them to start putting together an escape plan (where to go immediately after leaving, a place to stay short term while finding a new place to live, packed emergency bag, etc), and to absolutely not confront her partner unless she had someone on hand to intervene if he got violent. This level of a need for control is a really huge warning sign for domestic violence. Like, there are red flags and then there are s
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 02:54 |
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Yeah, that dude is insane. Sleeping With the Enemy type poo poo. It seems like it would be a huge job to constantly worry about trying to catch your partner in a lie. Not a fun way to live. She needs to run.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:11 |
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AITA for asking my boyfriend if he did something sexual with our dog after finding some weird stuff in his browsing history?quote:Obviously this is an odd situation so I need to provide a little context.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:24 |
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Piell posted:AITA for asking my boyfriend if he did something sexual with our dog after finding some weird stuff in his browsing history? I haven’t checked in this thread for a few days and this was the latest post...
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:26 |
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HazCat posted:I don't get 'is cheating and projecting' vibes from that guy. I get 'absurdly controlling, sees her as a possession, and will probably get violent if confronted with the possibility of her leaving him' vibes. I just think lovely people tend to also be hypocrites.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:30 |
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It's like Lolita but the main character is dating Shaggy to get with Scooby. Rorita.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:30 |
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Burt Sexual posted:I haven’t checked in this thread for a few days and this was the latest post...
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:34 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for sending my entire class an email telling them to not be so small minded, rustic and to expand their thinking? from way back but i gotta say this kid fuckin rules
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:42 |
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MarcusSA posted:Just leave the location enabled but stay at the divorce lawyers office all day. I was about to post this, you're pretty smart and cool
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:43 |
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Piell posted:AITA for asking my boyfriend if he did something sexual with our dog after finding some weird stuff in his browsing history? I’d rather be a judgmental bitch than a person that needs to crowdsource whether or not to date a dog fucker, aspirational or otherwise.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 03:59 |
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HIJK posted:come on now enjoy the exhibitionist thrill of your bitter and vengeful ex sending your boss your nudes What does your boss do if it turns out you have a huge dick
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:12 |
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Giant_Pupils posted:Paying for your own background check and providing references are SOP. That's not unreasonable at all. Most apartment/rental communities that I have encountered do the same. I'd be afraid to sneeze in that place though. It looks like some sort of weird hipster museum. uh, no they are not and they are expressly illegal in many municipalities, namely the ones with any sort of decency.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:13 |
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PetraCore posted:I mean it doesn't matter if he's cheating and projecting because he's stalking his own wife in a severely scary way that's escalating. I think tracking of any kind is possessive and weird. Many of my friends track their partners, though it's hard to tell if it's really that common or if my friends are just like that.They have the "find my friend" thing on their phone so you can always see where the other person is, so it's not one sided or anything, but ugh. That just seems so loving weird to me. I will never ask my fiance for her tracking data and won't give her mine either (not that she has ever asked). Trust who you're with, or don't. Jeez. If someone is going to cheat they will. If anything, the earlier that happens the better off you are because you can drop them sooner. Trying to catch it in real time doesn't solve anything, because people are generally not smart enough to keep up the lie for long in most cases.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:15 |
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Piell posted:AITA for asking my boyfriend if he did something sexual with our dog after finding some weird stuff in his browsing history? that is revolting and you should have broken up with him the second he did that. holy hell
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:38 |
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OMGVBFLOL posted:from way back but i gotta say Yeah making fun of someone on some super impersonal level is p lovely. It’s not like an inclusive sort of thing where you even feel motivated to make fun of something about them back. Especially if the joke is like “hurr durrr you look dumb duurrrrrr”
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:42 |
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Taima posted:I think tracking of any kind is possessive and weird. Many of my friends track their partners, though it's hard to tell if it's really that common or if my friends are just like that.They have the "find my friend" thing on their phone so you can always see where the other person is, so it's not one sided or anything, but ugh. My wife and I share locations on our phones to make pick up/drop offs easier. It’s not weird at all.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:44 |
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Sharing locations is like sharing passwords or bank accounts or anything else of a personal nature. If it's an expected step in a relationship to create or maintain trust then it's creepy and controlling, but if it happens organically because you already trust each other and it makes daily life more convenient then it's not a big deal.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:53 |
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OMGVBFLOL posted:from way back but i gotta say i imagine one future, where they realize they're an rear end in a top hat, and make honest efforts to both treat people well and learn more about the world and another future where this shame, unexamined, turns into an interminable performance at a failing cafe.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:53 |
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Piell posted:AITA for asking my boyfriend if he did something sexual with our dog after finding some weird stuff in his browsing history? and straight to hell with the boyfriend, thanks. Taima posted:I think tracking of any kind is possessive and weird. I don't think it's weird if both people are doing it in good faith and have a healthy relationship. Like, if you frequently pick each other up or as an emergency or something. My wife and I don't share right now but if we had kids and had crazy schedules with one car or something I could see it being helpful.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 04:59 |
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Leon Einstein posted:He can't go to sleep earlier; he stays up playing Anthem and looking at porn.
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 05:00 |
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Burt Sexual posted:My wife and I share locations on our phones to make pick up/drop offs easier. It’s not weird at all. I also track your location
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# ? Jun 15, 2019 05:03 |
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Xik posted:and straight to hell with the boyfriend, thanks. We have 4 cars, 2 kids. She picks me up from work/the pub, I pick kids up from practice sometimes which rotates locations, she’s bring dinner take out home (don’t txt and drive!). Just a few
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