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dudeness posted:If you want to see what happens when you spend all day writing code for Minecraft does for your empathy look no further than it's creator. I thought Notch did hardly any of the work anyhow, so how would he know?
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These TIFU posts are just dumb and gross. 'Hey guys, I totally went down on my cousin!' 'I got caught sucking my own dick, for real!'
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Hey guys, I totally went down onI found a tracking device in my car. What now?quote:NY - Two weeks ago, my car was broken into in the driveway of my home. I didn’t notice anything missing from the car, but the inner door pull on the drivers door was broken off and left on the passenger seat, which led me to believe that someone had been in the car (rather than it simply falling off from me closing the door). The following week, someone left a bouquet of red roses in the door handle of my car sometime between the time I got home at 9 pm and 8 am the next morning. My landlord put up a video surveillance in use sign after this as an interim deterrent before setting up actual cameras. The next morning, the sign was moved. No one on the property has done any of this, nor have any of our guests. This alone would be quite the problem, to put it very lightly. But some people in the comments brought up OP's past issues, and boy, do they paint a picture: Someone has tried to impersonate me and those close to me, and it's ruining my life. [NY] I found out my parents have most-likely been stalking me. What do I do? Is it possible to identify who is behind a series of cyber harassment and interference? Can you trace the source of cyber stalking and interference?
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Play posted:you should take a nice chunk of acid or mushrooms and do the same thing. you will be absolutely blown away when you close your eyes I have done an irresponsible amount of psychedelic drugs and yes I agree it super rules
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Farmer Crack-rear end posted:How actually effective is that, though? Does working retail actually make it more likely people will feel empathy for other retail workers later on, or do they just take it as an excuse of "well I had to suffer through it, so they do too, so gently caress it it's my turn to be the shithead customer!"? I worked retail for several years and the only lessons I learned was that retail is eminently terrible, demoralizing, and has absolutely no value besides a very lowly paycheck. I've gained much more empathy for my fellow human beings through my current deskside IT role where I deal with friendly, decent people who are actually happy and grateful to see me. The one and only reason why people harp on low wage retail/food service's value is because they hated their experiences and want to see you suffer before hitting the professional world too. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 01:27 on Jun 27, 2019 |
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:Me [17 M] on how to deal with my parents [45M] & [44F] On getting a Job, while I already make far more than minimum wage. buy their house and evict them
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Dazerbeams posted:I don’t know what to tell you. Walking a mile in someone else’s shoes is a way to help people understand that all jobs are lovely and that workers deserve to be respected even if the worker is some high school dropout or whatever. Sorry you don’t grasp that. Working retail doesn't really help teach empathy or build character or anything it just sucks rear end and you can kind of assume that it's gonna suck rear end without having to do it He will gain nothing useful from his parents forcing him to do this and will be losing out on time spent learning how to do a skill that, while you can debate whether it's sensible for it to be or not, is absolutely gonna set him up better for success later in life
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# ? Jun 27, 2019 01:32 |
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Dazerbeams posted:It might teach them humility or some social skills which is super important and not likely to be touched upon in any kind of STEM field. Everyone should work in retail or hospitality at least once in their life. I think your whole deal is becoming "ignore part of a story to play devil's advocate for the dumbest part of it, especially if it requires you to make things up." Because I cannot even start on how that's clearly in no way what they are doing judging by all the details.
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areyoucontagious posted:Thanks I loving hate it Well there goes most of r/tifu.
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I guess I’m not really arguing this particular instance so much as I’m defending the value of working in retail/restaurant business. Knowing that the job sucks and living it are two different things.
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areyoucontagious posted:Thanks I loving hate it I think that guy just transcribed a scene from Requiem for a Dream, right?
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chitoryu12 posted:Well there goes most of r/tifu. TIFU by posting lovely amateur erotica in the relationship trainwrecks thread
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My[26M] girlfriend[28F] called me cheap during a disagreement, and it's making me rethink our relationshipquote:My GF and I have been dating for around a year. I'd say that most of the time when we go out, I usually cover the bill and Venmo request her later. Sometimes I'll treat her to something, sometimes she'll treat me to something -- overall I'd say that I cover 55-60% of expenses and she covers 40-45%, so it's roughly equal. Also we make around the same amount of money.
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Straight White Shark posted:TIFU by posting lovely amateur erotica in the relationship trainwrecks thread
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I'm imagining these old crones in ratty robes standing around him in a circle chanting "cum in your mouth" as part of a spell or something maybe and his upended rear end in a top hat is the cauldron.
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I mean I guess if I was the dude's assistant I'd stick around to see if he actually came in his mouth before I ran out, completely mortified.
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My [29F] BF [32M] made a matching dog instagram with his ex [30ishF]quote:My boyfriend and his ex are friends. They dated throughout highschool and most of college, lived together. They broke up and remained friends. She has a bf and he has me. I am ok with their friendship. I encourage it. We invite her to do things with us. I think she is cool.
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Pibur posted:TIFU deepthroating myself in front of my new assistant lmao that owns not surprisingly, there is a whole reddit devoted to autofelatio. goes well with the_donald i guess really kinda amazing that like 99% of tifu is completely fake, seems like way too much effort just to get reddit gold for some fake posting on a throwaway account, but whatever. too mcuh detail trying too hard to know what they're talking about to not appear fake Xaris fucked around with this message at 02:36 on Jun 27, 2019 |
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Haifisch posted:My [29F] BF [32M] made a matching dog instagram with his ex [30ishF]
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My GF(31F) is upset I(25M) don’t trust her word. I love her but she’s constantly wrong and mixes stuff up and it gets me in uncomfortable situations.quote:My GF has a heart of gold but misunderstands stuff ALOT. It’s gotten to the point where if she tells me something I normally look into it to confirm it’s true. Example:
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chemtrail huffer posted:My GF(31F) is upset I(25M) don’t trust her word. I love her but she’s constantly wrong and mixes stuff up and it gets me in uncomfortable situations. Lol, little things like getting stuck in Cuba, and fines for probably about $200 CDN for not having your less than $5 ticket. Just loving break up with her, she's either a pathological liar or just plain dumb.
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Haifisch posted:My[26M] girlfriend[28F] called me cheap during a disagreement, and it's making me rethink our relationship Also feels weird to play the wage gap card if they have equal income and he's already paying a bit more, but that more boils down to whether or not you trust how the OP is portraying it. Perhaps her point was more that she in their relationship has to spend $x extra a month on things he appreciates from her and wants him to make that up by taking a larger share of the date budget which is a reasonable thing OP may or may not have left out whether intentionally or by being oblivious.
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chitoryu12 posted:Well there goes most of r/tifu. And nothing of value was lost.
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I would not be able to live with someone that stupid. I've had friends start to believe serious conspiracy poo poo and dropped them for that. I can't really imaging spending my life with someone that had the same understanding of the world that a child has. He's going to stay with that woman until she forgets their child in a hot car halfway across the planet.
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chemtrail huffer posted:My GF(31F) is upset I(25M) don’t trust her word. I love her but she’s constantly wrong and mixes stuff up and it gets me in uncomfortable situations. poo poo, it's my dad. Sorry, but it's terminal. Also she might have ADHD. Seriously, it's not necessarily stupidity, it's mental illness. Dad remembers things poorly, but he's got lifelong untreated ADHD and I guess that's just how every memory feels to him, so he thinks whatever he's poorly remembered is right.
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Scathach posted:I would not be able to live with someone that stupid. I've had friends start to believe serious conspiracy poo poo and dropped them for that. I can't really imaging spending my life with someone that had the same understanding of the world that a child has.
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Scathach posted:I would not be able to live with someone that stupid. I've had friends start to believe serious conspiracy poo poo and dropped them for that. I can't really imaging spending my life with someone that had the same understanding of the world that a child has. I had go to through this with someone. Once, at dinner, I had to patiently explain that there were not 56 weeks in a year. She was very smart but would get very, very fried by stress. The last part was one of my huge fears about continuing the relationship that I didn't dare bring up.
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# ? Jun 27, 2019 03:03 |
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My girlfriend [22/F] just ruined our vacation because she overreacted to a joke I made.quote:Last week, me and my girlfriend went on a vacation that we had been planning for a while. We flew out to Los Angeles for a getaway and the plan was to just get a nice hotel and do all sorts of things like go to the beach, sight-see, eat at fancy restaurants and all of the typical L.A. stuff. But this past weekend in the middle of the trip, we were walking back to our hotel from a restaurant and we stopped at this nearby dessert place that sells Italian ice. We both got a little cup and when I asked her what flavor she got, she said "Wild cherry." I responded with "That's the most wild we've been all trip."
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Ah poo poo it could be ADHD/depression/anxiety/etc. so now I feel bad. Anxiety makes my memory loving terrible some days. Well if it's that I feel sorry for her, but if she's just garden-variety stupid I hope he doesn't marry her.
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Scathach posted:Ah poo poo it could be ADHD/depression/anxiety/etc. so now I feel bad. Anxiety makes my memory loving terrible some days. Well if it's that I feel sorry for her, but if she's just garden-variety stupid I hope he doesn't marry her. She's still an rear end for getting offended he doesn't trust her memory when it's clearly a constant problem that keeps causing them grief. And finding a way to cope with this problem would be nice. Maybe she should just always keep paper records of any promotional. It won't help with the artist one, but it would help with other things. It really does mess with your mind how confident someone with this problem can sound though. I'm just over 30 and I still have to remind myself sometimes not to trust Dad's word, to make sure he has something written or double-check any information with Mom. He never sounds unsure, not even a little.
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LadyPictureShow posted:My girlfriend [22/F] just ruined our vacation because she overreacted to a joke I made. 1000% guarantee that this dude makes little mildly cutting jokes constantly, always very slightly at her expense, and it's been bottling up for however long they've dated
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LadyPictureShow posted:My girlfriend [22/F] just ruined our vacation because she overreacted to a joke I made. Lol dude you shoved your gf into a pool and are blaming her for making a scene
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LadyPictureShow posted:My girlfriend [22/F] just ruined our vacation because she overreacted to a joke I made. That right there is what makes me sick. That's not ok, in no ones mind should this be ok. He is literally saying, my anger got the best of me so I hit her. She may be passive aggressive (according to him), but he is a straight up physical abuser (also according to him). I also think DragQueenofAngmar hit the nail on the head.
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ScentOfAnOtaku posted:That right there is what makes me sick. That's not ok, in no ones mind should this be ok. He is literally saying, my anger got the best of me so I hit her. She may be passive aggressive (according to him), but he is a straight up physical abuser (also according to him). And yeah obviously something prior went down on that trip for her to go full meltdown over that quip to the point of assaulting him and then running away. Sounds like there was already a cloud over them both and the comment struck a nerve because she was already stressed out thinking he wasn't enjoying the trip.
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SirSamVimes posted:And nothing of value was lost.
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My[M17] first time asking a crush[F17] out for coffee. Got rejected and said something stupid af. How to apologise and still seem masculine?quote:I met Jean* when we were submitting university applications. We talked about the applications and the conversation slowly turned into more personal things like hobbies, ambitions and about our home countries. Her replies included a response followed by questions which seemed to indicate that she wanted to get to know me better. I felt like we shared some chemistry.
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DemoneeHo posted:I admit that I suggest as a solution a lot. But never has it been more justified until now mom your new bf is trying to molest me and my bff.
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Haifisch posted:My[M17] first time asking a crush[F17] out for coffee. Got rejected and said something stupid af. How to apologise and still seem masculine?
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AITA for thinking my girlfriend is grieving too much over a turtlequote:So my girlfriend’s pet turtle of 1 year recently died. She came back from a trip to discover a broken filter and her precious turtle floating upside down. It broke her heart because she feels at fault for not investing in better equipment, which could be true but honestly situations like these are unpredictable and could happen to anyone. She cried for hours on end the first day and it was hard to see her so upset.
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chitoryu12 posted:Well there goes most of r/tifu. It can take the rest of it with it. chemtrail huffer posted:My GF(31F) is upset I(25M) don’t trust her word. I love her but she’s constantly wrong and mixes stuff up and it gets me in uncomfortable situations. ‘Heart of gold but misunderstands stuff a lot’ just means dumb, dude. She’s dumb, and you already know you can’t live with it forever. Fuck Your Website fucked around with this message at 04:28 on Jun 27, 2019 |
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