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Update: I (20M) went to a strip club with my girlfriend (20F) and it was a disasterquote:Yeah so thanks for everyone who weighed in last time. It did help me see things a bit more clearly. After she came back home she was still upset. She didn't want to talk about it, and obviously I did. And when I tried bringing it up she got mad and at one point literally told me to shut the gently caress up. That just kinda hurt tbh, and in return I got annoyed. I told her that we were going to discuss this right now, and she refused. So I just left and went to stay at a friend of mine. And when she found out where I stayed she blew up again because that friend is a girl. I didn't reply to anything until she said she wanted to talk the next day. So I came back home and she apologized, but it felt super forced and insincere. And still she solely blamed me for the strip club fiasco, saying I should've known it was her and that I intentionally didn't recognize her. Right. Long story short, I broke up with her. There was only drama for the past few days and I was/am sick of it. I'm not about to sleep on the couch for the rest of our lease so we still sleep in the same bed but I don't care. She has tried to make amends and being all cute and poo poo but I'm just tired of it. As far as I'm concerned we're done. She hasn't seemed to accept this and tried to keep acting like nothing happened and do couple stuff. I don't really talk to her. Though I think she's starting to slowly realize it's over and she's been crying and apologizing.
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MarcusSA posted:The black listed thing is a lot of bullshit but I am leaning towards agreeing with him. Why is travel approval even necessary? gently caress all of those people who were like "yes the good and proper thing is to fire this person for having the audacity to have their 9 year-old staying in the same hotel room without asking permission first", it's peak corporate culture to reach that kind of monumentally stupid decision and I only ask that you take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror if you find yourself siding with these robots.
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cumshitter posted:As a gay American of Irish descent I will never forgive this country for stealing and ruining River Dance.
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now i'm genuinely agonising irl over whether i'm racist because i thought cumshitter was chinese-american, i know so many chinese men who don't poo poo cum, why did i make this assumption help me
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QuarkJets posted:Why is travel approval even necessary? gently caress all of those people who were like "yes the good and proper thing is to fire this person for having the audacity to have their 9 year-old staying in the same hotel room without asking permission first", it's peak corporate culture to reach that kind of monumentally stupid decision and I only ask that you take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror if you find yourself siding with these robots. One, as the OP points out at the end, they are going to find out when they get the room service bill if the kid has anything charged. Two, folios sometimes say how many guests. Asking for a "heads up," just lets them go, "ah, there's nothing suspicious about the 3pm lunch charge, it's her kid, exempt it from the reimbursement." We don't know what the work is. If there's federal grant money tied up in anything they do it has to be meticulously accounted for and can gently caress Things Up if it's not done accurately. I think the OP was hosed, she had to disclose it. She didn't recommend firing. I'm in a similar position in healthcare compliance, there's a lot of stuff I have to disclose because if it ever comes up in the future it'll be obvious that I didn't disclose it, ruining my credibility in the field. When possible I work with the person to correct the mistake before it becomes documentable, but sometimes people act on their own and we're brought in too late, there's already a paper trail. I could see if it was banned or super frowned upon, but they're just asking for a heads up it sounds like? There's a difference between pre-approval and begging for permission and I'm unclear what's really going on here. The OP makes it clear it's allowed, not something you have to beg for. It seems utterly reasonable to let the company know who is staying in the room they are paying for, and I'd quit my job to join a violent communist revolution tomorrow.
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i am being forced to confront uncomfortable truths about myself and my perceptions of culture, sexuality and cumshitting
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charity rereg posted:One, as the OP points out at the end, they are going to find out when they get the room service bill if the kid has anything charged. Two, folios sometimes say how many guests. Asking for a "heads up," just lets them go, "ah, there's nothing suspicious about the 3pm lunch charge, it's her kid, exempt it from the reimbursement." None of that matters. OP is a dirty bootlicking snitch, for sure, but couldn't have expected that this would get the person fired. The real problem is the people making the decision to fire this person for something completely innocuous but technically in violation of a poorly-written policy that I can almost guarantee the executives don't even follow. quote:We don't know what the work is. If there's federal grant money tied up in anything they do it has to be meticulously accounted for and can gently caress Things Up if it's not done accurately. I think the OP was hosed, she had to disclose it. She didn't recommend firing. I'm in a similar position in healthcare compliance, there's a lot of stuff I have to disclose because if it ever comes up in the future it'll be obvious that I didn't disclose it, ruining my credibility in the field. When possible I work with the person to correct the mistake before it becomes documentable, but sometimes people act on their own and we're brought in too late, there's already a paper trail. If permission would have been given anyway because it's not a big deal, then all the more reason to just issue a warning. The fact that they didn't implies that some HR person pulled up their Disciplinary Matrix and saw "can their rear end" as the documented response for this silly "offense". It's a blatant overreaction
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Barudak posted:Japanese people in America will probably care but Japanese people in Japan wont give much of a poo poo so where do you live and also if you buy a cheap one and put it on yourself everyone will know and laugh at you forever regardless of country. japanese people in america will almost certainly not give a gently caress but will probably laugh at you forever white people in america will get up your rear end and burst out your chest like a facehugger that prefers to go in the back door
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oh my g-d i have outed myself as a racist in front of twd whom i've secretly loved ever since his ffix lp this is literally the end of my life
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Aug 29, 2019 13:23
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Aug 29, 2019 13:25
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Cumshitter isn't so much a person but more like an ideal. It doesn't matter how he appears to you, what matters is his message. It crosses nationality and ethinicty boundaries.
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Aug 29, 2019 13:50
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There is a little cumshitter in all of us
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Aug 29, 2019 13:51
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There's a little of all of us in cumshitter
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Aug 29, 2019 13:52
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yeah, VERY little hiyoooo
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QuarkJets posted:None of that matters. OP is a dirty bootlicking snitch, for sure, but couldn't have expected that this would get the person fired. The real problem is the people making the decision to fire this person for something completely innocuous but technically in violation of a poorly-written policy that I can almost guarantee the executives don't even follow. keeping people from using discretion and making decisions is 100% the goal of policies like this, yes
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Last I heard Japanese companies were trying to get kimonos to catch on overseas so traditional Japanese clothing doesn't die out. Yeah, there was a thing in I think Boston a few years ago where a Japanese company tried to hold an event with kimonos at a university and got shut down when all the angry white people claimed "cultural appropriation" and protested it. Because you're not allowed to wear a kimono if you're not Japanese, I guess?
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chitoryu12 posted:Yeah, there was a thing in I think Boston a few years ago where a Japanese company tried to hold an event with kimonos at a university and got shut down when all the angry white people claimed "cultural appropriation" and protested it. Because you're not allowed to wear a kimono if you're not Japanese, I guess? I know a vietnamese guy waltzing around in 17th century Qing dynasty clothing casually. For work, etc.
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chitoryu12 posted:Yeah, there was a thing in I think Boston a few years ago where a Japanese company tried to hold an event with kimonos at a university and got shut down when all the angry white people claimed "cultural appropriation" and protested it. Because you're not allowed to wear a kimono if you're not Japanese, I guess? iirc Douglas MacArthur wore kimonos around from time to time and you don't get more Japanese than being a deranged generalissimo who conquered the islands in war
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nankeen posted:now i'm genuinely agonising irl over whether i'm racist because i thought cumshitter was chinese-american For what it’s worth I had the same impression for some reason. Wouldn’t be the first time I had totally the wrong idea about someone.
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Xik posted:No poo poo, she sounds mentally unstable and like one fight away from going over the edge to physical abuse. Also no one uses phrasing like "IM A LOW TEST MAN" except for people who gently caress around in alt-right poo poo online. So that's another huge strike against her.
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I think my [27/F] boyfriend [28/M] sniffed the chair my friend [28/F] sat onquote:This is a but weird but I don't know what to think, or if I might be misunderstanding everything. Sorry for grammar, English is not my native language.
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Elderbean posted:Oh poo poo, read this on mobile and somehow missed the last half the story. Oh yeah he's being abused. same, now I feel like a dick Also the pedo poo poo, I don't know I'M SO CONFUSED ilovebeersooomuch fucked around with this message at 14:36 on Aug 29, 2019 |
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Aug 29, 2019 14:32
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How much odor would a seat have after just sitting on it? Was he hoping she ripped some raunchy farts on it?
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ilovebeersooomuch posted:same, now I feel like a dick Maybe we should just be happy two apparently terrible people are together.
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Leon Einstein posted:How much odor would a seat have after just sitting on it? Was he hoping she ripped some raunchy farts on it? This person is actually a professional tracker and is adding to their mental repository in the event their friend goes missing.
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Imagine if it was the same drat friend who never wears underwear and leaves a snail trail of feminine discharge on the passenger seat on hot days.
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Imagine doing anything that might have a chance of making a single mom's life harder
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Pinecone Sample posted:I think my [27/F] boyfriend [28/M] sniffed the chair my friend [28/F] sat on Lmao, I just remembered the dude who yelled delightedly about getting hard when his gf's mom ripped a fart in the kitchen.
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Power Khan posted:I know a vietnamese guy waltzing around in 17th century Qing dynasty clothing casually. For work, etc. weirdly the dude I know that goes full geisha pretty commonly, including at work, is a super gay Vietnamese guy is traditional Vietnamese dress not as interesting as other Asian cultures?
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Phones M19 F19quote:I call her a phone addict because she basically is. I really don’t know if all girls are like this I mean I see it all the time, but I hope in relationships they aren’t this quiet. I don’t understand how she is talk on social n text but real life come on. I’m not that talkative myself because aren’t that valid to get much speech outta me. Like rn she is next to me head down on her phone. I tell her every other time that her phone attention skills are too pro for my pallet. She's probably bored to death by you. Gifts are an act of aggression My (23F) sister (25f) gives obligations, not gifts. What do I do? quote:What the title says.
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TheKennedys posted:weirdly the dude I know that goes full geisha pretty commonly, including at work, is a super gay Vietnamese guy generally no for men, kinda drab and practical unless you're going formal and getting married https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=53Fbbl00-i4
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LadyPictureShow posted:Phones M19 F19 Seems he is less interesting than what is on her phone, not sure why this is so hard for him to grasp.
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cumshitter posted:This was the premise to a great episode of News Radio where Phil Hartman's boss owns the radio station and the magazine that reviews them and Hartman's character has a complete meltdown over being described as adequate. That's the best episode. I love it "Adequate is getting straight Cs!" "But weren't you a C student?" "That's not my point!"
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Orgy with a drug addict aftermathquote:Me and my girlfriend are on vacation in Miami Beach and we decided we wanted to go hard on our last day and went to some pool party. When we were there we met this couple that seemed super chill and after hanging out with them for around two hours we decided to go in together on some coke (we were drunk and wanted to party). After asking one of the attendants we were able to score some and I paid around $20 for what seemed like not that much(like a dime bag idk Come measurements). Anyway we went back to their place and ended up having a 4 way after my girlfriend and him did some of the coke in the shower. During the whole thing I kept asking him if I could get a bump and he kept saying he’d get me but never told me where he put it/gave me any. After we finished it turns out his WIFE (important later) did not know about the coke at all and he was a former heroin addict that completely lied to her about it. The reason she found out was because her lips were going numb after kissing him. Anyway after a long discussion she decided she wanted to take their flight home the had booked for later that evening and left him to go to the airport. Me, min, and my girlfriend talked to him for a couple of minutes on what he wanted to do (this is when he told us he was an addict and admitted to using heroin in the last week) and then I realized he was just using me for my money. I got pissed and told my girlfriend “let’s go this guy is a piece of poo poo who used us to buy drugs and left.” Only my girlfriend decided to stay for a little bit longer and he told her he was going to kill himself. Now me and my girlfriend are in a fight because she stayed and talked to him after I said we should leave and she stayed for about an hour and talked to him. What should I do to solve this? We’ve been together for almost 2 years and had never done anything this crazy before and she’s saying it was her “duty” to help him out of his depression but it seems to me like he was just trying to play her.
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AITA for having sex a month after my husband passed away? posted:My husband passed away in an accident two months ago. In the deluge of condolences, my ex message me as well. He came over a few times in the weeks after that and he was very supportive. A month later, one night we got a bit too drunk and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. We have been continuing it over the last month. A couple of days ago my sister dropped by my house and heard us having sex. She has been angry at me ever since and saying she can't believe I have moved on. They were quite close and she is still grieving. But I haven't moved on, sex is just something I'm doing rather than me forgetting about my husband.  Uh I think your sister is pissed at you because she thinks you were having an affair before your husband passed. Also, I love all the people in the comments saying "it's okay you have to grieve in your own way" Uh no if jumping into bed with someone before your husband's body is even cold is how you grieve then you need some goddamn therapy. It's no different than drinking heavily or getting into drugs as a coping mechanism.
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I [25F] am an open heroin/opioid addict and a guy [36M] pressured me into a relationship. I robbed him and now he's madquote:As the title says, I am an open drug addict. Everyone and their grandma knows I do drugs. A friend's friend/coworker thought I was pretty and kept trying to get with me. I told him I did not want a boyfriend. A drug buddy, sure. A boyfriend, no. I am not relationship material. But he wouldn't take no for an answer. He kept asking me out on dates and bought me gifts. The more valuable gifts I traded for drugs. One time I was going through a bad withdrawal when he asked me out. I said yes this time thinking I could get a good meal and possibly bum some money off him. We had dinner and a movie and crashed at his place. He managed to rope me in from there. At first he would give me money. Plenty of it. Then it dropped down to like $5 every week. Eventually he stopped giving me money at all.
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For my (26M) peace of mind I would like to take a paternity test once my gf(26F) gives birth to our first child next year.quote:((Throwaway)) Is it MGTOW or Redpill that's leading to this many r/relationships posts about 'I totally trust my wife... but I want a paternity test!'
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QuarkJets posted:Why is travel approval even necessary? gently caress all of those people who were like "yes the good and proper thing is to fire this person for having the audacity to have their 9 year-old staying in the same hotel room without asking permission first", it's peak corporate culture to reach that kind of monumentally stupid decision and I only ask that you take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror if you find yourself siding with these robots. It's entirely possible that a) The poster was an rear end in a top hat for reporting her for something he could've turned a blind eye too b) The poster was required by law to disclose to his employer any policy violations c) The woman was an rear end in a top hat for being aware of the policy issues and ignoring the ones that were inconvenient d) The nature of the work requires 100% compliance with all rules and regulations or get fired on the spot (federal contracts, medical settings for example) When the choice is either "document any policy violations" or "lose my job" you can't rake someone over the coals for covering their own rear end and making sure they don't face professional consequences for the actions of another.
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Ebola Roulette posted:
It's ok to just want to gently caress. Sex isn't that big a deal. Nutting isn't heroin. Husband isn't coming back and it's not like she's moving the dude in and telling the kids to call him dad.
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