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I think she just needs to rip into these asscocks and possibly disinvite them to the wedding.
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They're all vampires? Body snatchers? That bizarre a situation needs a twilight zone twist.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:25
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Motronic posted:Husband's friends giving me panic attacks and social anxiety [new] This screams unreliable narrator. There is way more going on here with both sides.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:30
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MarcusSA posted:This screams unreliable narrator. There is way more going on here with both sides. I'm guessing "well off city girl making GBS threads on the country bumpkin friends." But it's also pretty weird that one of the friends is his ex and they keep inviting him without her - and he keeps going.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:33
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Motronic posted:I'm guessing "well off city girl making GBS threads on the country bumpkin friends." But it's also pretty weird that one of the friends is his ex and they keep inviting him without her - and he keeps going. Yeah and the first time they met they didn’t talk to her so she went up and cried? I dunno there is more going on.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:38
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They pointedly ignored her trying to talk to them, that's pretty goddamn strange.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:39
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Probably a Sixth Sense situation and OP is actually a ghost
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Sep 2, 2019 19:41
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SilvergunSuperman posted:They pointedly ignored her trying to talk to them, that's pretty goddamn strange.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:42
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Marchofthepenguins posted:So is being told to delete your own wedding photos from Instagram because ... they're upset about it? Like I just ... what? But they aren’t married yet? 
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Sep 2, 2019 19:43
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SilvergunSuperman posted:They're all vampires? Body snatchers? The Stepford Friends
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MarcusSA posted:But they aren’t married yet? Motronic posted:Husband's friends giving me panic attacks and social anxiety [new]
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:The Stepford Friends Oh poo poo, nailed it!
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Sep 2, 2019 19:45
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Panfilo posted:I know a couple 'stay at home dads' that are like this. They are home all the time, but don't really take care of their kid in spite of having all the time - that task often gets delegated to a female relative like mom or a sister. No, he just ignores the baby when she cries. I imagine more than once my friend has told him it's his turn, and he just rolls over and sleeps, knowing she will eventually do it if he doesn't. Same thing in regards to diapers, laundry, etc. He refuses to be left home with her either. Kid is barely four, five months old. I can't wait till she starts crawling or walking.
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I'm also assuming he just pops in earplugs or something when his daughter is crying in the middle of the night?
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Sep 2, 2019 19:50
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That friends one is bizarre. It's like a movie where the op is dead, she is "the ex girlfriend in the group", and she's haunting the boyfriend who talks to her still. That's why they don't talk to her, get upset seeing her wedding photos, don't invite her directly, etc. He moved away to get away from the trauma of losing his loved one.
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Sep 2, 2019 19:52
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That Stepford Friends one has some comments by the OP regarding their background:quote:Yes! Many others (we are based in London) and I get along extremely well with ALL his other friends and family! We have been based in London for 8 years now and formed stronger friendship groups, which is why - I genuinely think - our relationship is 'healthy', bar his childhood friends. My childhood friends LOVE my husband to bits. I'm not making any calls here, but it could be the BF clinging to a friendship well past it's expiration date because they've known each other such a long time, or the friends could have some chip on their shoulder after he moved away to London and focus it on the OP?
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LadyPictureShow posted:I'm not making any calls here, but it could be the BF clinging to a friendship well past it's expiration date because they've known each other such a long time, or the friends could have some chip on their shoulder after he moved away to London and focus it on the OP? If that's the case the boyfriend/spouse should have been standing up for her from day 1, and the fact that he isn't (actually asking her to take down her own wedding photos????) should be a deal breaker.
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Sep 2, 2019 20:22
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Pretty sure the friend group still thinks him and his ex are Meant To Be and are just counting days until he opens his eyes to his true love and dumps the weird interloper, thereby restoring their circle.
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Sep 2, 2019 20:22
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Shageletic posted:irregardless I don't like your vernacular.
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Sep 2, 2019 20:25
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Yea, that's what I took away from all that. It's odd as heck, but if the courtroom wedding photos thing is correct, the problem is with him not her nor them (as much).
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Sep 2, 2019 20:26
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That photos thing is the odd bit to me. Old friends you just hang onto for the inertia? I've got those. A tight social circle that just invites him to things because they only see her as "the girlfriend/fiancee"? Yup. Awkwardness about having to interact with and entertain someone you've got nothing in common with? The foundation of any extended family gathering and lots of folks are terrible at it. But the photos, I just can't get that to fit.
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Bruceski posted:That photos thing is the odd bit to me. Old friends you just hang onto for the inertia? I've got those. A tight social circle that just invites him to things because they only see her as "the girlfriend/fiancee"? Yup. Awkwardness about having to interact with and entertain someone you've got nothing in common with? The foundation of any extended family gathering and lots of folks are terrible at it. It's this: Straight White Shark posted:Pretty sure the friend group still thinks him and his ex are Meant To Be and are just counting days until he opens his eyes to his true love and dumps the weird interloper, thereby restoring their circle. Nothing else could possibly explain it.
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Sep 2, 2019 20:50
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It has to be that. There's no other reason a small group of people, all still good friends with and including his ex, would treat his new girl like that. He's a shitass doormat for asking his wife to remove their wedding photos because his friends are uncomfortable. If he doesn't sever with them she should sever with him, because it's pretty obvious he cares more about crappy friends than his own wife.
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Sep 2, 2019 20:59
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Serephina posted:The live-in bang maid? It's a bit on the nose, don't you think? Usually a "live-in bang maid" situation is bad because the woman doesn't sign up to be in that role. This situation is pretty different and unusual. She signed on to be a maid, and for a maid she's probably making pretty good effective income. He doesn't want to have sex with her and it sounds like they're both fine with that, even if they did make that mistake once. So not really a bang maid at all, just a maid.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I wish that it were a movie so the husband could set up an elaborate ruse to pretend she's pregnant while could the paperwork to adopt two kids and then drug her while she, uhh, gives birth. Instead..... An alternative scenario is that she tries to steal some babies, born or not. That's a thing that's happened quite a few times. Being a visibly pregnant woman is really dangerous.
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ParserGirl posted:An alternative scenario is that she tries to steal some babies, born or not. That's a thing that's happened quite a few times. Being a visibly pregnant woman is really dangerous. lol
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ParserGirl posted:An alternative scenario is that she tries to steal some babies, born or not. That's a thing that's happened quite a few times. Being a visibly pregnant woman is really dangerous. i don't know if pregnant women need to live in fear of that but it does happen. this story is pretty wild: https://nypost.com/2011/01/20/woman-abducted-as-an-infant-from-harlem-hospital-reunites-with-parents/ tl;dr: a woman posing as a nurse stole a newborn baby from a new york hospital and raised her as her own child for 23 years also, the biological parents kept a trust fund for the child and one of the attorneys handling the case was skimming funds from it
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Yeah, my wording was a little strong. In my head I was including the increased rates of domestic violence during pregnancy, but that's unrelated. Sometimes women survive the unwanted C-sections. One mom was cut open outdoors and managed to painstakingly crawl towards help. They had to remove gravel and debris from her uterus. Don't remember whether the baby lived or if she was able to have more children.
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Well I mean the number one cause of death in pregnant women is murder apparently
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Sep 2, 2019 21:53
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regardless of whether the friends are personally assholes, the husband is stuck between a clear desire to decolonize himself and the necessity of keeping his home situation with an (unintentional) colonizer stable. i recommend giving time and money to charity and providing meaningful good to the lives of those as marginalized or more than his friends and to consciously keep solidarity with the class of his birth in the back of his head when navigating the world but otherwise he can cut the friend group out once his guilt is assuaged
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AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama?quote:I work at a petting zoo here, and this weekend we had two teenager (around 16, boyfriend and girlfriend) who were antagonizing a llama.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama? the only wrong move here is not filming this
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Midnight Voyager posted:Why the motherfuck do so many families decide to teach their kids that it's not okay to say no to physical contact with an adult??? My wife made her grandma cry because she didn't want to hug her on one visit. Her dad spanked her when they got home. She was fourteen.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama? play llama games, win llama prizes
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Sep 2, 2019 22:03
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama?
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Aramoro posted:Reminds me of my mum who as a child went to get a present for her mum, she had saved up and gone down to the haberdashery to get an embroidered handkerchief. When she was asked what letter to get on it she just said 'M please, M for Mummy!' Old post, but that is adorable and I would be absolutely tickled if one of my kids did that.
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Cowslips Warren posted:No, he just ignores the baby when she cries. I imagine more than once my friend has told him it's his turn, and he just rolls over and sleeps, knowing she will eventually do it if he doesn't. Same thing in regards to diapers, laundry, etc. He refuses to be left home with her either. Kid is barely four, five months old. I can't wait till she starts crawling or walking. I really think we should waive the 'domestic violence is never okay' rule for manchildren like this who likely justify their inaction by saying "it's not my job".
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for allowing two teenagers to be spit on by a llama? Two teenagers covered in vomit and mucus barrel towards the building like a slightly greener, more viscous dawn of the dead remake. OP jumps over the front desk, dives for the door and manages to lock it just in time. “Snot today, motherfuckers!”
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Captured llama? My dude, llamas were domesticated before horses and generally enjoy hanging out with people. Also lol at anyone making one of those spit, they're generally so even-tempered that you have to be a real dick to get the green goop. Glad the kids got spit on.
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:rear end in a top hat towards the llama. Your captured llama is already suffering from being trapped in some lovely petting zoo, and now you're letting two teenagers annoy him/her. Captured llmao
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