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The trash is threatening to take itself out. WIBTA if i go on a cruise against my girlfriend’s wishes quote:My girlfriend and i were broken up in December, at which time i planned a cruise with my friends. During this time she admittedly said she thought she’d never see me again. So obviously I didnt make these plans out of spite. Now that we’re back together, she wants me to cancel. Problem is Ive already spent somewhere around $3,500, none of which is refundable. She says the money doesnt matter if i value our relationship and I should respect her feelings of jealousy and give her “her place as my woman”. This jealousy stems from the fact that one of the friends is female, the other two friends male. Ive known her for over ten years, she’s always been an amazing, supportive friend when times were dark. We were never in a relationship and there was never an ounce of sexual tension or that sort of thing. We both got along well with each other’s boyfriend/girlfriends throughout these ten years as well.
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Yeah funny how money doesn't matter when it's not your own
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HelleSpud posted:For poop chat, this guy's wife convinced him that taking a shower and washing his rear end counted as foreplay: lol amazing. I am baffled that the filth goblin doesn't use know how to work a bidet or doesn't seem to use toilet paper to dry up after using the bidet. Ask Amy: Grandpa was a corrupt cop. Should we tell our kids? quote:Dear Amy: My father in-law is a retired law enforcement officer. Due to scientific advances since his retirement, it turns out that much of his career was a sham. DNA evidence has exonerated many of the people that he put behind bars — to such a large extent that a television network chose to air a story about him and his corrupt practices a number of years ago. He claims that he did the best with the information that he had. I know shame is a powerful force, but if you haven't actively disavowed racist cop grandpa by now, then I don't have a whole lot of sympathy for OP's internal struggle.
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Cookie Cutter posted:This hero of a woman discovered the insecure guy cheat codes. Ooh it makes me sooooooo horny when you shower and clean yourself babe My wife does this whenever I'm depressed and miss a day. She's the best.
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AITA for refusing to lend my sister my car for her road trip after she criticized my lifestyle?quote:My sister (27F) and I (25F) have always had a bit of a rocky relationship. Nothing out of the ordinary about sister dramas. But this would be our biggest argument ever. I'm not sure if it's my fault but I own a fairly new, reliable car that I've taken great care of, and I'm pretty proud of it. My sister's car, on the other hand, is older and has been having a lot of issues lately. I don't mean to demean her about that, just trying to picture out why she decided to borrow my car as she's planning a road trip next month with her friends. Normally, I wouldn't mind lending her my car for a day or two, but this trip is for over a week, and it would leave me without transportation. But we're family, I'm supposed to get a free pass for making GBS threads on you
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Lemniscate Blue posted:Oh Fry, I love it when you PRACTICE RUDIMENTARY HYGIENE. Suddenly Futurama Am I wrong for cutting off support to my cousin after she dissed my lifestyle? quote:My cousin, let’s call her Sara (41F), and I (28M) were pretty close. Grew up together, and even when life took us on different paths, we tried to keep that bond. I’ve done alright for myself, started a small business that’s been picking up. Not swimming in dough, but comfortable. Nom Nom I love this hand, you so abandoned family values as you are the only thing keeping me fed and housed.
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Apologies, moving to E/N
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Hughlander posted:Suddenly Futurama Captain Hygiene posted:
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I understand why you posted this in the Scandinavia thread, but I'm trying to figure out why this was the only other thread you posted it in.
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Halloween Jack posted:I understand why you posted this in the Scandinavia thread, but I'm trying to figure out why this was the only other thread you posted it in. It's busy and on topic honestly the scandi thread is cold for a while
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ReelBigLizard posted:It's busy and on topic honestly the scandi thread is cold for a while I feel for your friend but this isn't the thread for that sort of thing. Maybe e/n?
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DemoneeHo posted:lol amazing. I am baffled that the filth goblin doesn't use know how to work a bidet or doesn't seem to use toilet paper to dry up after using the bidet. Oh Amy go gently caress yourself, no it doesn't have to come from the guys son or else it's rude. The whole 'the family handles poo poo within the family' stuff is yesteryear decorum that works to protect shitheads like this. His father has cast shame upon the whole family and there's no 'good time' to air out that poo poo, trying to let him 'define the timing' blegh. His own shame blocking him from doing what is right is already the issue here, letting him decide how much longer they can put it off is not gonna help. He can't diminish the shame by revealing it at the perfect time, as much as he might wish that. Dude failed to rip the band-aid years ago and is now too paralyzed to do it, so someone else will have to do it. And if someone is a big enough rear end in a top hat there's the specials about how bad they hosed up and ruined lives, they've very much forfeited the right to privacy on that one. The kids should make sure it's spray painted on his loving grave. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 19:21 on Mar 6, 2024 |
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Ask A Manager comment quote:I did exactly that when I was the new person in a huge meeting. I said “I did not understand that last point you made. Could you restate it and clarify what you’re planning on achieving with this project?” I figured I’d get roasted but I really did need to understand what the guy was saying. The speaker said he could not dumb things down enough so someone like me would be capable of understanding anything he said. That prompted someone else to say “I have no idea what you’re trying to say either but your projects don’t affect me so I wasn’t going to question anything. The fact that you’re so defensive about being asked to explain what you’re talking about changes that.” Things got really interesting after that. Alas, they do not expand on how things got interesting. Hughlander posted:
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Tijuana-A-Go-Go posted:there's no way this defence works I just did a sensory dep tank for the first time and that guy's about to get fuuuuuucked lol, they cover all that stuff in their legal documents
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Clocks posted:Yeah. I'm sure she was getting plenty of direct abuse from his lovely family in addition to what they were indirectly dealing out via him, so she probably commisserates with him as a fellow victim. He got sympathy for the abuse he suffered but still has to deal with the consequences of the abuse he perpetuated, so like I said, he got exactly everything he deserved.
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Seth Pecksniff posted:I feel for your friend but this isn't the thread for that sort of thing. Maybe e/n? Apologies I am on super patchy connection and I was just trying to get something out before we're in the middle of the Baltic for the whole night. I'll delete and repost there as quickly as I can
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ReelBigLizard posted:This is a long shot and probably against the thread rules, if so I'll take the rap because I'm out of options: Sorry about your friend but FYI spoiler tagging personal information does not do anything to prevent it from getting scraped by bots or viewed by guests, so you probably want to edit that out unless you are comfortable with having your email and phone publicly posted forever
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for refusing to lend my sister my car for her road trip after she criticized my lifestyle?
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ReelBigLizard posted:Apologies I am on super patchy connection and I was just trying to get something out before we're in the middle of the Baltic for the whole night. I'll delete and repost there as quickly as I can I don't know how to help but I wish you and your friend good luck and good tidings. May she escape to safety and find a new life beyond.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for refusing to lend my sister my car for her road trip after she criticized my lifestyle? mystes posted:If the sister has a "real" job and the OP doesn't then why doesn't the sister just buy a new car with her real job money if her current one is that unreliable rather than leech off her more financially precarious sister? Seems pretty lovely of the sister.
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Some finely-executed revenge. AITAH for using my husband's affair with my cousin against them? quote:My grandparents give each of their grandkids enough to buy a house when we graduate from college. We have to get through college on our own. My older brother made it through with some debt so he paid that off and still had enough for a 50% down payment and money in the bank for emergencies.
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r/relationships: I found out because they are both stupid
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MagusofStars posted:I can’t imagine loaning my only vehicle out for someone else to take a week-long road trip, full stop, even before we get to the lifestyle criticism. Yeah. I've been on the borrower's end with my dad's car before when I had my own car trouble, but between the family members who lived at home they had plenty of vehicles to get around. I wouldn't have even thought about doing that if it would've impacted their ability to drive somewhere. e: Magic Hate Ball posted:r/relationships: I found out because they are both stupid
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Magic Hate Ball posted:r/relationships: I found out because they are both stupid
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Pope Corky the IX posted:From what I remember she was told by a coworker at IHOP. brilliance
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FMguru posted:AITAH for using my husband's affair with my cousin against them? quote:My ex asked me how I knew. I told the dumbass his texts were all showing up on our tablet before he deleted them.
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FMguru posted:Some finely-executed revenge. My eyes just about shot out of my head at “they gave me her money” Magic Hate Ball posted:r/relationships: I found out because they are both stupid
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FMguru posted:
"Incredibly stupid guys trying to be sneaky" is one of my favorite genres. Edit: a short and sweet one. AITAH for telling my gf no more Vegas until debt is paid? quote:We’re about to move in together. After much prodding I 49m just found out she 42f has almost 50k in cc debt mostly from gambling. We both make low 6 figures so this seems like a huge debt especially with nothing to show for it. I’m starting to ask a lot more questions and I’m saying she should completely stop gambling and going to Vegas until this is paid and I want to see more financial info.(she’s been going 1-2x a year for a long time sometimes with friends, and twice with me). I’m thinking of canceling moving in if she doesn’t start complying. AITAH? SpaceViking fucked around with this message at 20:15 on Mar 6, 2024 |
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The Maroon Hawk posted:My eyes just about shot out of my head at “they gave me her money”
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Magic Hate Ball posted:r/relationships: I found out because they are both stupid
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SpaceViking posted:"Incredibly stupid guys trying to be sneaky" is one of my favorite genres. Wow what a catch If he is lucky, she will begin opening credit cards in his name to gamble with
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Lemniscate Blue posted:Oh Fry, I love it when you PRACTICE RUDIMENTARY HYGIENE. A smelly monk posted:the Danes, thanks to their habit of combing their hair every day, of bathing every Saturday and regularly changing their clothes, were able to undermine the virtue of married women and even seduce the daughters of nobles to be their mistresses.
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Magic Hate Ball posted:r/relationships: I found out because they are both stupid
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SpaceViking posted:"Incredibly stupid guys trying to be sneaky" is one of my favorite genres. I love when someone makes some kind of argument that they think will get them out of trouble but it's awful. Sovereign citizens are a good example.
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Alien Arcana posted:...and what, exactly, did you do with the fourth banana? It's okay, it's still alive! (the recipe only called for 2-3 bananas)
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someone should buy you that avatar. not me though im broke.
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I figured the Fourth Banana was in the go bag
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Hopes Fall posted:I figured the Fourth Banana was in the go bag There's always banana in the go bag clicks tongue
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FMguru posted:Some finely-executed revenge. "Enough to buy a house" means we're talking mid to high six figures. Like, drat OP, keep the money but understand that cousin and her parents are going to die hating you.
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AITA for not making my son play games with is cousin?quote:I have a rocky relationship with my family mainly because of my sister. This has bled over into my family. My 16 year old son Jake plays video games with his friends online. Mainly his childhood best friend who has moved away. He connects and talks while playing several nights a week. Jake is a good student and does band and his debate team so I don’t paythis free time much attention.
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