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DoubleNegative posted:AITAH for ghosting my bf after he said we were not a couple?
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 04:52 |
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Troublemaker posted:I absolutely love when people give ultimatums and the other person is like, "Ok, cool. I'll take the other thing, then." The part of that story that made my skin crawl the most was the way he ambushed her with that request at a public event in front of everyone, putting her on the spot in an environment where the maximum pressure could be applied to change her mind. OP showed considerable fortitude by shooting that poo poo down on the spot. He should be uninvited from the wedding for that alone.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 04:53 |
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NGDBSS posted:I feel like the BF here is not out to his homophobic family, but that's no excuse for his later conduct.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 04:54 |
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NGDBSS posted:I feel like the BF here is not out to his homophobic family, but that's no excuse for his later conduct. It actually says in the story that he's out to his family. So 'J' was just being a dingus!
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 04:55 |
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Oh yeah that really makes no sense
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 04:56 |
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Only other thing I can think of is him being scared of anything sounding like an official commitment label like ‘boyfriends’.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:05 |
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FMguru posted:Someone laying down an ultimatum and then being stunned when the other person picks it up is one of my favorite recurring thread tropes. Yeah, Stepdad even admits he purposefully put her on the spot because he thought she wouldn't be so rude as to refuse him in front of everyone.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:06 |
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AITA for telling my husband he poops too much?quote:My husband poops several times a day. He makes 2-3 trips to the bathroom in the morning (right after waking up + right after breakfast), then at least three more times throughout the day. Each of these sessions is at least 20 minutes, and I know he is actually pooping, although he takes his phone with him (that's not the point of this post, I don't care about the phone). When I asked him why he poops so often, he told me he feels like he's bloated and needs to poop after each large meal. Recently, I lost my patience and told him that his pooping was affecting my life and that he needs to go to a doctor because this is completely abnormal. We have a kid and I find it annoying to have to accommodate my husband's pooping schedule among everything else we need to get done each day. He was offended by this and said it's normal to poop this much for the amount of food he eats. I continue to insist that he must have some type of disease such as IBS or something, that is causing his constant need to poop. AITA for upsetting my husband and insisting that he goes to a doctor for his excessive pooping?
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:17 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:I can understand the alarm as a problem, but what on earth is going on with a keypad that's loud enough to wake people up? Is that a thing? I have slept in a bedroom next to an exterior door that had a beefy older keypad lock, and the beeps were decently audible (either through the near wall, or outside window, or a combo of both) and the actual noise of the motor+lock would be enough to wake a fussy baby. That was like 2005-tech, but also I assume people don't replace front door locks all that often.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:20 |
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DoubleNegative posted:It actually says in the story that he's out to his family. So 'J' was just being a dingus!
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:22 |
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Debated just posting the title for this one, but have the whole post I guess. Should I end it with a weeaboo? quote:TL;DR;: been dating a guy for a couple of weeks and found out he is a weeaboo. Should I call it off?
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:26 |
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AITA for refusing a coworkers gift of used housewares?quote:So I (30F) recently eloped with boyfriend, well now husband (39M). We purchased a home on the lake in a new subdivision and it is truly our dream home. We had closed on our house about a month prior to the elopement so we already had moved our belongings in and purchased anything else we needed and sold any other belongings that we had in each of our apartments since the leases were up or almost up. Update: quote:UPDATE: HR was miraculously able to see me this morning. She also found the address issue concerning. Ah, justice.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:27 |
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Are commitment issues really such a rare and strange phenomenon? I feel like it’s a shopworn cliche.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:28 |
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mystes posted:I kind of wonder it's some weird thing where he doesn't want to say they're a couple because of like internalized homophobia or something? At first glance, it reads to me pretty clearly that he considers calling each other 'boyfriend' to his parents is a big deal and hadn't thought through if he's ready to make that commitment or not, and this is the first time the topic has really been brought up. But the "I tried to discuss it with him multiple times, but he brushed it off," is the part that makes me join in the 'this doesn't make sense'. If he really wants to be FWB or uncommitted or whatever you label 'banging but not BF' then he shouldn't accuse OP of cheating, and if he doesn't then he should have discussed it one of the multiple times OP brought up the topic. Until I went back and caught that line, I thought OP was being a drama queen by moving away, but since he did try to discuss it I give a thumbs up to the 'new address, who this?' maneuver. EDIT to add: Halloween Jack posted:Are commitment issues really such a rare and strange phenomenon? I feel like it’s a shopworn cliche. I don't find the 'commitment issues' strange (though it does seem like other people do), for me it's the 'I am acting like I have commitment issues, but also refuse to talk about the relationship, but also expect my partner to act like we've made the commitment I distinctly said I wasn't making and refused to talk about' that makes it odd. Pantaloon Pontiff fucked around with this message at 05:39 on Apr 30, 2024 |
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ApplesandOranges posted:Debated just posting the title for this one, but have the whole post I guess. Dumping a weeaboo is always the right decision.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 05:56 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for telling my husband he poops too much? I poop two times in the morning I poop two times at night I poop two times in the afternoon It makes me feel all right I poop two times in time of peace And twice in time of war I poop two times before I poop two times And then I poop twice more (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:03 |
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trickybiscuits posted:How the hell did I miss it the first time around? Maybe this will atone for my sin. Long but worth it. YAY for OP. YAY for her figuring out she is worth more than being a consolation prize. Boo to the husband. Boo I say.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:03 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for telling my husband he poops too much? whats his username
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:08 |
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DeeplyConcerned posted:whats his username please don't doxx me like this
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:32 |
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Halloween Jack posted:Are commitment issues really such a rare and strange phenomenon? I feel like it’s a shopworn cliche. Pantaloon Pontiff posted:I don't find the 'commitment issues' strange (though it does seem like other people do), for me it's the 'I am acting like I have commitment issues, but also refuse to talk about the relationship, but also expect my partner to act like we've made the commitment I distinctly said I wasn't making and refused to talk about' that makes it odd.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:47 |
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:I met my long term partner on Tinder and when I told my dad about it he got on there and banged like half of the rich divorcees in Los Angeles and goes on vacations all over the world with them. I know a lot of people who are in long term relationships from tinder but ymmv A friend of mine likes to say he's had a 50% success rate with Tinder. His first Tinder date was a total disaster and they never spoke again; his second Tinder date is now his wife, and they have a house, daughter, and dog together. Also your dad's a loving legend lmao Mx. posted:AITA for telling my husband he poops too much? As someone with Crohn's: see a doctor bruh, you can in fact most likely get your poops under control!
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:54 |
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ApplesandOranges posted:Only other thing I can think of is him being scared of anything sounding like an official commitment label like ‘boyfriends’. Some people cannot handle the idea of admitting they are in a committed relationship. I used to know someone who would only call her boyfriend her "gentleman caller." Nobody's loving calling on anybody, you've lived together for a year and dated nobody else. She also flew off the handle at the suggestion that there exists a human being that won't cheat, so that one was a bundle of issues. Malachite_Dragon posted:It's the kind of thing that *usually* gets worked out of ones system one way or the other by the ages they were at. The person I'm talking about was in her 30s, too.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 06:59 |
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quote:Dear Care and Feeding, Anyone who doesn't appreciate farts should not be allowed to raise children
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 07:03 |
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trickybiscuits posted:Anyone who doesn't appreciate farts should not be allowed
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 07:07 |
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Probably potential good parenting there in asking those kinds of questions. The little things matter!
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 07:10 |
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It was probably in one of these threads I read that “those who don’t find farts funny are stupid because they go through life with less joy and the same amount of farts”.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 07:43 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for telling my husband he poops too much?
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 07:45 |
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Sir Sidney Poitier posted:It was probably in one of these threads I read that “those who don’t find farts funny are stupid because they go through life with less joy and the same amount of farts”. Yeah, but then you could apply that same logic to blinking or sneezing, and then the logic becomes a bit daft.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 07:53 |
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I'm not entirely sure it's meant to be serious.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 08:15 |
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Samovar posted:Yeah, but then you could apply that same logic to blinking or sneezing, and then the logic becomes a bit daft.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 08:19 |
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Fil5000 posted:I love my dog so much that I will carry what's left of his corpse with me at all times Hear me out:
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 08:28 |
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AITA for insisting that a closed friendship breakup happened over the phone instead of over text?quote:Context: I (mid-20’s male) had a friend I was pretty close with (late 20’s female.) We were friends all throughout college, dated for about a year and a half, had a messy breakup, reconnected as friends almost a year later. So we’ve known each other for about eight years. Curious about the things u/copaceticconvert is deliberately not saying here, but lol at trying to my-way-or-the-highway someone who literally just told you she's chosen the highway.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 08:51 |
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Lottery of Babylon posted:AITA for insisting that a closed friendship breakup happened over the phone instead of over text? If he's religious why is he asking Reddit instead of, you know, god?
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 09:00 |
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Lottery of Babylon posted:AITA for insisting that a closed friendship breakup happened over the phone instead of over text? "We either debate over the phone whether or not breaking up this friendship is justified, or we stop talking." "Okay, so either way we stop talking? Then we stop talking." "Hey, what about our meeting?"
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 09:05 |
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3D Megadoodoo posted:If he's religious why is he asking Reddit instead of, you know, god? God didn't give him the answer he wanted
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 09:05 |
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AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?quote:I f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I didn't want it to go to waste.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 09:07 |
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NGDBSS posted:Oh yeah, so he's just...self-sabotaging because he's an idiot? Still dealing with internalized homophobia? Scared of commitment labels like ApplesandOranges said? I'm grasping at straws here. Maybe his family fawns over each S.O. he brings by, and starts breaking out the baby pictures, and 5 months is too little for him to deal with that poo poo.
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 09:15 |
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Elviscat posted:Maybe his family fawns over each S.O. he brings by, and starts breaking out the baby pictures, and 5 months is too little for him to deal with that poo poo. And that's why he shut down any further discussion on it for the next several days...
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# ? Apr 30, 2024 09:18 |
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3D Megadoodoo posted:If he's religious why is he asking Reddit instead of, you know, god? He only likes debates, and God hasn't participated in those since the Oven of Akhnai.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)? God drat hubby's family sucks. Hey your mom just died and we did gently caress all to help while she was sick but we should get to have a rad NYE party with your inheritance!
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