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I’ve been a mistress/sugar baby to two married men for 5 and 3 years respectively. Both have been long term arrangement. One is 10k a month the other is 5k a month. The 10k a month daddy also bought me a condo (paid in full) I met these men in I guess what was the ‘old market’ because at the time I was a student and they basically met all my needs. I met the first in 2013. The second in 2015.

It’s proven a great lifestyle choice and meant through university and now work I’ve always had a nest egg building. It changed my life financially and both have become lovers/parents/life long friends. So I benefitted emotionally and financially.

I’m reading the current posts and I’m guessing the sugar baby ‘business model’ has now changed from the above (being ‘kept’) to more pay per meet and shorter term relationships.

Are these still any sugar babies in the old style arrangements?! It seems like these sort of arrangements are fading now? To the new girls are you finding men are just not open to the older arrangement styles?

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Yes you may be right. I live in NYC and both my daddies are in private equity/hedge fund/asset management circles. They both earn 7 figures a year. To put into perspective one earns 400k a MONTH so him giving me 10k is nothing.

In NYC if you’re in the private equity UES UWS circles the idea men who can afford 10k a month wouldn’t seem far fetched but I guess it’s all relative to location.

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Ok so me and my fiance live in Georgia but she is originally from Wisconsin. Her mother sent us a few things in a package for the holidays. In this package there was Wisconsin String Cheese. The package came and she had 1 piece of cheese and then flew to New York where I am from and where I was visiting my family. We then fly back on the NYE. I didn't touch the cheese until the 2nd where I had 2 pieces. I had 2 more pieces on the 3rd and then 2 today. She then sees that the bag has 2 left and gets furious. I can't help but laugh. I didn't know how many pieces were originally in the bag because it was already opened by her, and there isn't a set number in these bags. I also didn't know that she was so attached to this cheese until she flipped out. She's also been talking about getting into shape and eating healthy so I didn't even know she wanted it that bad. AITA for laughing because she got mad that I ate so much cheese that her mom sent both of us?

TL;DR: My fiance's mother sent us Wisconsin String Cheese and I unknowingly ate most of the package. She got furious and I laughed because I thought it was funny that she got mad over cheese. AITA for laughing?

CheesyDog posted:

r/sugarlifestyleforum
Am I The Only One Who Still Has Sugar Daddies Like This?!
u/theraflu2018

areyoucontagious posted:

gently caress this piece of human poo poo. It’s one thing to sucker lonely idiots with too much money, it’s another to facilitate other cheating pieces of poo poo. Maybe I’m not woke enough or whatever but anybody who identifies as a sugar baby is more likely to be reprehensible garbage. Thanks for contributing to society you loving assholes.

Kurt Loadeater posted:

Whores gonna whore. Don't feel too bad for the wives of these men, they're probably out getting dicked on the regular themselves.

CheesyDog posted:

r/relationshipsRelationships
I [28F] have this newfound aggression towards my SO [m/31] of 1 year because he eats off-brand cheese doodles?
u/creed_is_life

Vim Fuego posted:

I know I'm going to regret asking, but what is "SA" in this context?

afroserty posted:

gently caress off, someone in this thread posted this. It even has Cheeto dust fingers in it for God's sake.

afroserty posted:

Jesus the amount of dick i would suck for 20k.

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My best friend, FRIEND, I‘ve known since I was in diapers. We were neighbors throughout HS, went to college together, and shared an apartment our last year there. He’s been a brother our whole lives; we’re both an only child. We’ve talked about how we’ll be each other’s best man for as long as I can remember. I don’t really have any friends other than him; I’m not very social.

2 years ago I met the love of my life, FIANCÉ. 1 year into the relationship, FRIEND meets FIANCÉ’S best friend, MOH (Maid of Honor). FRIEND and MOH start dating. FIANCÉ and I both agreed that this might cause complications in our relationship if they have problems, but also acknowledged that we couldn’t really do anything about it. What were we gonna do, tell them they can’t date? They were great together, and MOH found him worth giving up “waiting until marriage.” A few months ago, I proposed, and we are set to be married in a little over a month. I asked FRIEND to be my best man. FIANCÉ asked MOH to be Maid of Honor.

2 weeks ago, FRIEND went out with some other friends, and ended up drunk and going home with a girl. He confessed this to me the next day, and he felt like absolute poo poo. I told him he’s gotta confess it to MOH. He hosed up and it’s only fair to her, and she’ll be a lot more understanding if he tells her himself. He agrees this is the right thing to do.

MOH‘s livid (rightfully so). I come home from work and she‘s at my apartment. She packed a bag and asked FIANCÉ if she could stay with us to get out of her apartment. I’m fine with this; I can understand she’s going through a rough time. 1 week ago, MOH decided she can’t handle dating anymore, and they break up. She‘s staying with us until she can find another apartment.

FIANCÉ tells me that there’s no way MOH will be able to handle being at the wedding, especially walking down the aisle with FRIEND. I told her that they don’t need to walk down together, or do anything together, but I can’t tell him he can’t be my best man. It would devastate both of us, as well as leaving me without a best man. FIANCÉ tells me I shouldn’t even want to be friends with him anymore, and offers her brother as my best man. She put her foot down on him even being AT the wedding. She says that one of them can’t be there, and that it’s not fair for MOH to both get cheated on, and then ALSO not able to go to the wedding because we “chose” FRIEND over her.

FRIEND is already devastated that he hosed up his relationship. I hate cheaters, but you don’t just turn on your lifelong best friend because he hosed up. I understand that it is very challenging for MOH, but I also feel like since this is MY wedding, it should be determined by what me and FIANCÉ want, and that I shouldn’t go through my wedding without a best man because of MOH. I also don’t think that it should be a choice of one or the other, and that they should both come and be professional and avoid each other.

AITA for standing by having him as my best man?

Vim Fuego posted:

Uh, well, good luck with that.

Anyway, I love the new thread title. It's a worthy replacement to "difficult to poo poo on my wife."

Have a gander at this genuine quandary, y'all:

AITA for wanting my best friend as my Best Man, even though he cheated on the Maid of Honor?


I kinda think the MOH and Best Man just have to suck it up and pretend to be ok for the wedding. I don't think there's any right answers for the OP, cause this guy qualifies as his best man regardless of if he cheated on someone he was dating or not. But OP probably does have to give him the boot because who wants to start their marriage with Wife & her best friend being righteously angry at you? But then again, not standing by his best man would show a lack of character.

The Iron Rose posted:

Lol zopiclone is not just another "sleeping pill" it's a notbenzodiazepine that functions exactly like a loving benzo. You lose hours to days of time of memory while you're a half functional zombie. I fully buy that this guy doesn't remember that specific time he emailed a dominatrix but lol that she thinks he hasn't cheated or done this a hundred times before.

Hope that lady gets out because he's never gonna loving change.

Vim Fuego posted:

AITA for wanting my best friend as my Best Man, even though he cheated on the Maid of Honor?

2 years ago I met the love of my life, FIANCÉ. 1 year into the relationship, FRIEND meets FIANCÉ’S best friend, MOH (Maid of Honor). FRIEND and MOH start dating. FIANCÉ and I both agreed that this might cause complications in our relationship if they have problems

DemoneeHo posted:

More cheese for the cheese god

AITA for not being concerned that my fiance is mad that I ate most of the string cheese?

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First-time poster, so sorry if I'm not doing this right.

AITA because... my MIL wants our future children to call her mommy(mil first name) and me be a mommy(my first name).

I told my Dear Husband (DH) that I am not ok with that at all. If I can't be my own child's mommy then I'm just not having kids. He thinks it's not a big deal and I'm just being dramatic.

He doesn't see a problem with it because his brother's kids call her that. And he says they don't have any problems with it. I told him that the Mommy thing put a strain on both of his Brothers relationships and they are now broken up over it. He says they broke up because of other reasons but either way I think that I should have a say in what they call her/me.

Also, he supposedly called MIL's mother (mommy first name) which is why he is mad at me.

(Edit for added comment/clarity and because I suck at this. Sorry if its still not very easy to follow.) For those that asked I'm pretty new to Reddit so I didn't really know where to post this that's why I put it in this one. But now I know that JustnoMIL is a better one for this situation. But I posted it here because I worried that I was in the wrong because everyone in my life (besides my own mother) thinks that I should just ignore it because that's not a good reason to get divorced over. We don't disagree on a lot so the whole situation is stressing me out a lot.

I am going to show my husband some of the comments so that he will hopefully understands a bit better why it bothers me.

Also thanks to everyone for all the advice and the good ideas on

Elephant Ambush posted:

No seriously what does SA stand for? I get SD = Sugar Daddy and SB = Sugar Baby but what is SA?

Oh and thanks for the new thread title. It's good.

CheesyDog posted:

"Sorry for the mess" I said, escorting my newest poly catch into my solo bedroom. "My wife has been in, looks like she's gotten into my shreddies again."

My date pursed her lip; my heart skipped a beat as I took in the look of concern that flashed across her beautiful, ample face. Her Fetlife photos had not done justice to her Reubenesque features; I silently cursed my wife's dairy list for putting my tryst with this moon-faced angel at risk.

"Are you sure this is.... how we do this?" she asked. "Won't she hear?"

"Don't worry. Don't worry..." I quickly brushed the stringy queso crumbs off of the bed, tossing the empty bag into the recycling bin I kept at the foot of the bed. My sweet queso fresco sat down readily, relieving legs weary from the basement stairs.

"She is fine with it, and besides she'll be asleep for another 13 hours." I opened up the smart home app on my phone; the lights of the Cheese Cave dimmed to a romantic annatto hue.

"Now, are you ready... to fondue it?"

hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:

Elephant Ambush posted:

No seriously what does SA stand for? I get SD = Sugar Daddy and SB = Sugar Baby but what is SA?

Oh and thanks for the new thread title. It's good.

Vim Fuego posted:

But then again, not standing by his best man would show a lack of character.

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Wash hands.

Grab bag of cheese.

Proceed to the couch.

Grab handful of cheese.

Tilt my head back like a baby bird.

Drop cheese into my mouth like one of those claw machine games at the Walmart.

Repeat steps 4-6 until I am satisfied with the amount of cheese I have eaten.

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I eat a pretty big salad for lunch every day. All those raw veggies, plus the granola I have with breakfast, I don't have any problems with my BMs.

Smirking_Serpent posted:

AITA for stopping my one night stand from kissing me after she gave me a blowjob?

So I (21M) had a one night stand recently with a girl (19F) and we were kissing in the club.

When it got to the bedroom we had sex. Kissing involved. Now afterwards we went for round 2, she gave me a blowjob but I didn't cum, she went to kiss me after and I stopped her from doing that I said ''Woah woah don't do that poo poo after doing that'' and she stopped. Decided to end it there, AITA?

Straight White Shark posted:

Really? Where was that sacred fraternal bond when the best man hosed him over by blowing up his wedding plans?

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The groom's priorities are clear and he only has one option, call off the engagement and marry the best man.

Thumbtacks posted:

Vim Fuego posted:

Have a gander at this genuine quandary, y'all:

AITA for wanting my best friend as my Best Man, even though he cheated on the Maid of Honor?


I kinda think the MOH and Best Man just have to suck it up and pretend to be ok for the wedding. I don't think there's any right answers for the OP, cause this guy qualifies as his best man regardless of if he cheated on someone he was dating or not. But OP probably does have to give him the boot because who wants to start their marriage with Wife & her best friend being righteously angry at you? But then again, not standing by his best man would show a lack of character.

CheesyDog posted:

lovers/parents/life long friends

Vim Fuego posted:

Uh, well, good luck with that.

Anyway, I love the new thread title. It's a worthy replacement to "difficult to poo poo on my wife."

Have a gander at this genuine quandary, y'all:

AITA for wanting my best friend as my Best Man, even though he cheated on the Maid of Honor?


I kinda think the MOH and Best Man just have to suck it up and pretend to be ok for the wedding. I don't think there's any right answers for the OP, cause this guy qualifies as his best man regardless of if he cheated on someone he was dating or not. But OP probably does have to give him the boot because who wants to start their marriage with Wife & her best friend being righteously angry at you? But then again, not standing by his best man would show a lack of character.

PHIZ KALIFA posted:

that sounds impressive until you remember that in the 70s coke was like 90 percent stolen infant formula and 10 bicycle tire rims, and grass was actual grass, like you skinned ur knee on. boomers are pussy poo poo.

Smirking_Serpent posted:

I [25 F] think my [57 F] mom is joining a cult or at the very least into some wacky spiritual poo poo and I don't know how to tell her it scares me.

tl;dr i think my mom and stepdad are in a cult that's teaching them to talk to the dead and it scares the poo poo out of me

So my mom and stepdad started getting into this thing at the Monroe Institute. They've gone to week long retreats there a few times this past year and they buy all the books, audio books, meditation cds, even special headphones from this guy. The retreats cost from $1,900- 3000 each. So they're spending a lot of money on this. She says she's learning to astral project, lucid dream, and talk to the dead. It scares the poo poo out of me. When they talk about it they're all excited and even more excited to share what they've been learning, but it honestly makes me so anxious that I want to throw up sometimes. Especially when my stepdad or mom mentions that they've been talking to my dad who committed suicide when I was 17. At first I wanted to be supportive because they say that they've gotten a lot from learning to meditate but I've looked at scientific papers from this guy's hemi-sync binural beats technique that's been patented and everything and none of them come up with any conclusive results. At best it just relaxes them, at worst they're scamming my parents out of a bunch of money and helping them deny the finality of death. My stepdad also lost his son when his son was just 15 weeks old before he met my mom so he says he wants to be able to reconnect with his son. It honestly boggles my mind that they'd be into this because they're both scientists with graduate level degrees (psychologist and electrical engineer) so I just do not understand how they haven't done their own background research. And I've listened to one of their tapes with them and it talks all about 'levels' you have to achieve via meditation and it just gives me SUCH a culty vibe. The thing is there isn't much information about it from third party perspectives online, aside from these few studies I've found from respectable journals.

How do I talk to them about how dangerous it sounds to me? At the very least get them to stop telling me they're talking to my dead dad. ESPECIALLY getting my stepdad to stop telling me he's talking to my dead dad.

DreamingofRoses posted:

How is shredded cheese nutritionally any different from cheese cubes?

Pirate Radar posted:

Did one of them start eating cheese out of the bag and then the other was like “hey, that’s a great idea!”

Or is it that they both did it before they got together???

CheesyDog posted:

r/sugarlifestyleforum
Am I The Only One Who Still Has Sugar Daddies Like This?!
u/theraflu2018

jobson groeth posted:

If you used to be a server then you should know just how much of a dick move this is.

bell jar posted:

dude is absolutely an rear end in a top hat, just give the whole thing including tip at once, why bother splitting it in two

jobson groeth posted:

If you used to be a server then you should know just how much of a dick move this is.

therobit posted:

So when is it ok to complain about a bad service experience?