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one thing i noticed about okc is that guys who don't want kids overwhelmingly tend to also be non-monogamous. what up with that?
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LethalGeek posted:I can't say I can help you because me having no interest in children has 0 to do with me liking to gently caress lots of people. I'm not being smart just those 2 things are separate thoughts in my head but like, it's true that you don't want children and you want to gently caress lots of people i'm not saying there's cause and effect here, i'm saying that in my experience there's a serious correlation and it is one of the many many things that frustrated me about okc
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Mar 26, 2015 21:33
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hmmmmm maybe this is weird but "poly/non-monogamous person doesn't want kids complicating their sex lives" makes sense to me, but "childfree person doesn't want monogamous relationships" doesn't
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Mar 26, 2015 21:56
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i can't use tinder because i have a windows phone like a dumbass
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Mar 26, 2015 22:55
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ChrisHansen posted:Tinder is a bunch of hookers and women who looked at the app six weeks ago. wait do dudes just not use tinder or something
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Mar 26, 2015 23:49
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using okcupid as a black woman is a loving nightmare, but i'm almost bored enough to reactivate my account please talk me out of it
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Apr 1, 2015 17:50
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Bhodi posted:no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs no thugs i have never seen this phrase on any black woman's profile, but then again i've only looked at like three black women's profiles (helping out friends) Libelous Slander posted:do you date white guys? not asking for myself, of course i date whoever LethalGeek posted:nah think of the thread content you can generate. Do it alright
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Apr 1, 2015 18:02
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even if i were 100% shallow, it's not like there's any race of dudes that is unhot
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Apr 1, 2015 18:05
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froward posted:quick reminder: black women have THE MOST difficulty dating, and you can land a woman two leagues up out of your own if you have your poo poo halfway together and aren't a racist cock. I'm an internet loser and I landed a date with an actual medical doctor. oh great, now instead of my inbox being filled with nothingness, it's going to be filled with goons two leagues down from my own
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Apr 24, 2015 02:11
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LeoMarr posted:
no it's not, it's a stroller
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May 5, 2015 03:44
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Hadaka Apron posted:I really hate that joke where a woman says they "listen to everything" and then list six bands you'd hear on the radio. i listed a bunch of my favorite bands, then discovered after searching for them that no other dudes in my area were interested in most of them i didn't even think they were that esoteric (i think i listed vreid, einherjer, and hollenthon among others), but metalhead problems i guess
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May 8, 2015 04:51
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it's the internet, people sometimes use shorthand/slang, deal with it
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Jul 14, 2015 22:19
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Chomp8645 posted:Maybe they don't think it's an UNFORGIVABLE SIN to get a wrong answer on a dating site question and that's why they just answer and move on instead of sperging out over it like you dorks. answering "the earth" on the "which is bigger, the earth or the sun?" question is pretty unforgivable imo
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Jul 17, 2015 20:53
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i finally added all my information back to okcupid, and already a man who lives over 5,000 miles away who has three references to god in his profile has messaged me. i missed this soooo much.
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Aug 10, 2015 01:57
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a guy just messaged me so i went to his profile  does not compute
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Aug 17, 2015 01:18
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Chomp8645 posted:What was the message "Hi how are you doing" nothing too crazy
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Aug 17, 2015 01:50
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Otisburg posted:Why, why are people using "boyfriend's arm around me but boyfriend cropped out" pictures on Tinder in TYOOL 2015 instead of putting up new ones? my okc profile picture is of me with a guy's arm around me, but he is not, nor has he ever been my boyfriend, and our relationship is so brother-sisterly that it didn't even occur to me that i might be scaring dudes away from my profile with it.
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Aug 27, 2015 00:44
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he is happily married, and living across the ocean edit: also he was living with his fiancee when i met him YeahTubaMike fucked around with this message at 02:02 on Aug 27, 2015 |
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Aug 27, 2015 01:57
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ElGroucho posted:That dumb bastard has to look at your okcupid profile and be like, "that's my arm" he's not even on okcupid holy poo poo is it seriously that big a deal 
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Aug 27, 2015 04:21
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Otisburg posted:See I look at it and think "If you're not over your ex enough to take a new pic, why are you here?" and pass. this s interesting. i wish my most flattering & recent pic didn't have a dude in it.
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Aug 27, 2015 04:23
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quote:I'm alliterate  edit: quote:distinguishly deteriated 
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Sep 21, 2015 16:47
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i went on a really pleasant date with a dude who was nice & cute and he kissed me in the rain which was super cliche but still nice. then he stopped answering my texts lol
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Sep 22, 2015 23:01
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he straight up said "let's get together soon" and gave me the old fade-out
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Sep 23, 2015 00:40
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The Mentalizer posted:You guys know it's possible to be confused or annoyed with being faded on without being an obsessive clingy weirdo, right? Saying "huh, I wonder why he said 'lets do this again' if he didn't actually want to?" isn't the same as thinking you're irrevocably bound to each other because some smooching happened, you goonlords. thank you! Otisburg posted:Realpostin' some advice-- I had good success in the past using a direct but casual approach when I was feeling like I was being slowghosted on after a rather amorous couple dates, it was something like: i really don't care that much. we had two exchanges that were like me: hey, how was your weekend? him: good. i did x, y, and z. you? me: good. i did a, b, and c. [days-long silence] me: hey got any weekend plans? him: going to dinner with a friend. you? me: not much, watching the subway series, otherwise free. [more silence] i can take a hint. The Mentalizer posted:It just seemed like everyone was yelling at YeahTubaMike for absolutely no reason, since nothing she said sounded like she was being an obsessive weirdo at all. nice to know i wasn't imagining that
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Sep 24, 2015 01:36
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Shumagorath posted:anonymous tip: speaking of annoying blowhards  profile quotes: "I have no skin color/racial preferences. I am however, very faithful to god and although I find debating with atheists fun, I don't think I could find a deep intamacy with a "non-believer"." "I'd like to start a family someday. So I think unconsciously I dig ladies with curvy hips." my profile specifically says i'm atheist and don't want kids
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Sep 28, 2015 18:43
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this dude who was a 20% match, who believes abortion and same-sex relationships are wrong, messaged me "What's up." i'd think that if i was so wildly incompatible with a guy i was into, i'd make at least a little effort to send a funny/interesting first message.
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Sep 30, 2015 20:07
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Monstrous Dooklord posted:how can people still use this site with tinder around? there's no way it's anything like it was 3-4 years ago i was going to say "some of us are windows phone users" but it turns out there's a windows phone tinder app. hmmmmm...
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Oct 2, 2015 13:35
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Business Gorillas posted:i dont understand people who put the "DONT loving BOTHER ME WITH SMALLTALK" on their stuff. getting messages that just say "Hey" or "How r u" is really annoying and bothersome, like, at least put in a minimal amount of effort to ask me about something on my profile or tell me a little bit about yourself
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Oct 5, 2015 23:07
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Yawgmoth posted:Because (for me at least) I don't want to interact with someone who obviously doesn't give a poo poo. If you can't be buggered to at least open with "I like [thing in profile] too, what do you think about [something that relates to that]?" then you're probably dumb and/or boring. You don't have to expertly craft a piece of literature, you just need to demonstrate a basic level of literacy and intellect. this also, if i'm so loving interesting, could you please at least be bothered to take the time out of your busy day to spell out three-letter words in their entirety? i mean geez louise the last first message i sent was about oatmeal cookies (he said he was good at making them) and reykjavik (he said he had visited there recently). it took me about two minutes to write.
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Oct 6, 2015 20:20
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lol you might be right also i would really love it if dudes with kids stopped messaging me
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Oct 7, 2015 16:17
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notZaar posted:Have you tried switching to heterosexuality?? i am already heterosexual 
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Oct 7, 2015 19:22
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Monstrous Dooklord posted:Please don't worry about if a goon is a girl in 2015, if you wanna know what her profile looks like pick anyf of the ones posted in the other 125 pages. i don't look anything like any of the chicks that have been posted here
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Oct 17, 2015 13:23
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i was supposed to have a date tonight with a guy, but he canceled because he was hitting it off with some other chick. it would have been nice if he'd told me about her earlier, like at any time in the week since we set the date, but it's cool. i have nothing against multi-daters.
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Oct 19, 2015 22:13
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Shumagorath posted:How did you know he hit it off with someone else? He actually told you instead of making up the usual "family issue" excuse? "Hey, I'm sorry to flake out on tonight like this, but I've been out with another girl a couple times recently and it's been going well." that was only the first sentence of the message, but yeah, you get the gist 11 hours notice on a date cancellation struck me as rude, but hey
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Oct 19, 2015 22:23
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Oct 19, 2015 22:48
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he canceled the day of, that's early enough to...come home and watch the ALCS or something. yay? anyway, i'm not that bummed or anything. i just thought it was weird because i feel like he would have known that he was into this other chick before 8:30 this morning, but it really isn't worth thinking about either way.
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Oct 20, 2015 02:32
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okay
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Oct 20, 2015 02:35
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totally
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toggle posted:dont worry date canceled goon (goonette?), theres more internet bums out there to be disappointed from indeed counterfeitsaint posted:I think the point was the person cancelled the day of the planned date, and that it's poor form to give such short notice. But I guess that's less important than getting the chance to demonstrate just how well adjusted you are by smugly explaining things to other goons. this is it. also, maybe it wasn't clear before, but this was meant to be a first date. again, whatever been chatting up a metalhead dude who doesn't want kids, and it's been pretty nice
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