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Nessa
Dec 15, 2008

amarantinesky posted:

Where is the galaxy owl shirt? It sounds awesome.

just at the cheap teenager clothing store in the mall here. I go there often because they have pants that fit me properly and lots of cheap clothes.

I got a cool halter-style vest from there that I've worn over blouses and dresses to dress them up, but I haven't seen it in months. I don't know where it went. :(

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HEY GUNS
Oct 11, 2012

FOPTIMUS PRIME

with extra cheese posted:

While we're doing business fashion advice, anyone have recommendations for places to find petite blazers? I'm in Canada so we don't have Ann Taylor, though I'll probably end up driving down to the States sometime soon to do shopping. I'm tired of looking like a little kid wearing her mom's work clothes.

Hispanic or Asian places/websites?


Crow Jane
Oct 18, 2012

nothin' wrong with a lady drinkin' alone in her room

with extra cheese posted:

While we're doing business fashion advice, anyone have recommendations for places to find petite blazers? I'm in Canada so we don't have Ann Taylor, though I'll probably end up driving down to the States sometime soon to do shopping. I'm tired of looking like a little kid wearing her mom's work clothes.

Do you have Talbot's in Canada? Their clothes are a little old-ladyish, but they're decently made and they have a petites section

boom boom boom
Jun 28, 2012

by Shine

a travelling HEGEL posted:

Hispanic or Asian places/websites?

Yeah, Asia.

Nessa
Dec 15, 2008

t_violet posted:

Sometimes it seems like female bosses can be a lot pickier about what young women employees wear. And I think it's even harder when you have a bust to worry about. I really hope that's not what's going on at your workplace.

When I used to work at a clothing store, my manager had to have a little "chat" with me about how although I was technically following the dress code in that I only wore clothing bought from the store, I needed to accessorize more and wear more skirts and dresses. I wore my dresses with combat boots, but I guess that was good enough.

Al Cowens
Aug 11, 2004

by WE B Bourgeois

amarantinesky posted:

Am I worse at fashion than I thought? I just looked at the sidebar and felt depressed. Thanks for the links though, I will explore them further.
I felt the same sense of being overwhelmed when somebody here showed me the nail care thread so I just remind myself that these people are enthusiasts or hobbyists and you don't have to and are hardly expected to go all out just start with the distilled wisdom that are in the megathread infodumps and then purge the latest updates from your memory, devote attention elsewhere.

with extra cheese
Oct 27, 2010
Asian clothing tends to be cut very slim in the arm, but I've lost quite a bit of weight so that may be a possibility now! I'll check out Talbot's, too. Is Banana Republic clothing worth the money? I never shop there normally because expensive, but I am willing to shell out a bit more cash for a good blazer and/or suit.

Crow Jane
Oct 18, 2012

nothin' wrong with a lady drinkin' alone in her room
Also, if you see a woman wearing something you like, compliment her on it and she might tell you where she got it. Don't do this with women you work with, though, just women on the street or whatever.

This is also a good way to find a hairstylist.

Crow Jane fucked around with this message at 03:12 on Jan 21, 2014

amarantinesky
Aug 29, 2013

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amarantinesky fucked around with this message at 03:11 on Apr 4, 2014

Crow Jane
Oct 18, 2012

nothin' wrong with a lady drinkin' alone in her room

with extra cheese posted:

Asian clothing tends to be cut very slim in the arm, but I've lost quite a bit of weight so that may be a possibility now! I'll check out Talbot's, too. Is Banana Republic clothing worth the money? I never shop there normally because expensive, but I am willing to shell out a bit more cash for a good blazer and/or suit.

I have some thrifted Banana Republic stuff, and it's nice enough. I definitely wouldn't pay retail, though.

amarantinesky posted:

I will find pictures of my pets and post them once I overcome this clothing thing.

Yeah the director who commented on my clothes was an older woman. At my last internship, my (female) supervisor would say that my clothes were too low cut but I really just think stuff looks lower-cut on me :( I bought clothes thinking, "there's no way this dress will be too revealing!" and it wouldn't work.
You'd be amazed how quickly a properly fitted bra would solve that problem. If you haven't been measured, do so. Just don't get it done at Victoria's Secret.

Your boss sounds like a jerk, though.

Daikatana Ritsu
Aug 1, 2008

seems i'm destined to marry a librarian.

James Hardon
May 31, 2006

Daikatana Ritsu posted:

seems i'm destined to marry a librarian.

props

Crow Jane
Oct 18, 2012

nothin' wrong with a lady drinkin' alone in her room

Daikatana Ritsu posted:

seems i'm destined to marry a librarian.

Is she a porn librarian or an old lady with a bun and a bad attitude? Or a combination of the two?

Captain Candiru
Nov 9, 2006

These hips don't lye
Gonna let you in on a little secret. They're the same thing.

Avshalom
Feb 14, 2012

by Lowtax
ladythread i made something for you

Portals
Apr 18, 2012

Avshalom posted:

ladythread i made something for you



this is a picture of you IRL, isn't it

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
what are good places to shop in vancouver canada

Tora! Tora! Tora!
Dec 28, 2008

Shake it baby

amarantinesky posted:

I will find pictures of my pets and post them once I overcome this clothing thing.

Yeah the director who commented on my clothes was an older woman. At my last internship, my (female) supervisor would say that my clothes were too low cut but I really just think stuff looks lower-cut on me :( I bought clothes thinking, "there's no way this dress will be too revealing!" and it wouldn't work. I couldn't even just add a scarf and ignore the cut because it was an inpatient psych unit and it was a safety hazard to wear anything a patient could strangle you with.

Get some higher cut camisoles to wear under shirts so you don't have to stress over necklines. I wear a layering tank or a camisole a lot even tho' I'm pretty flat 'cause I dislike looking down and seeing cleavage (and don't want other people to see cleavage either).

Also, you could go to her and ask her for specific suggestions on what to wear. If you ask as if she was a mentor, she'll probably be really helpful. Since you've gotten a similar comment before from someone else, there might be something you're not seeing.

Hopefully, this ceases to be an issue. I can't find it but I remember reading about a young female attorney who sued her female boss for harassment. Every day the boss would complain she was inappropriately dressed, no matter what she wore. She started documenting her outfit every single day and proved in court that the boss was unfairly singling her out and that what she'd been wearing did meet the firm's dress code.

a dozen swans
Aug 24, 2012

Pick posted:

what are good places to shop in vancouver canada

Salmagundi West (rad old-stuff store downtown, go straight to the basement floor unless you really like absinthe spoons or old type samples)
Jean Queen (in cool dykey neighbourhood Commercial Drive, sells neat clothes and pretty sick leggings and tights)
Front & Co. (secondhand store, has insane finds like all the time)

Metrotown in Burnaby is a big imposing mall if you want to go to a mall for some reason. Also go eat dim sum at Jade Dynasty in chinatown and maybe get a japadog at waterfront if you want to do touristy food things.

ps: eat as much sushi as humanly possible (toshi sushi for quality, kojima for quantity/brown rice). e: no matter where it's probably good and cheap though

a dozen swans fucked around with this message at 04:12 on Jan 21, 2014

grapey
Oct 10, 2012

Avshalom posted:

ladythread i made something for you



Epic.

Re. business casual, could you wear cords for pants? Assuming you live in a place that has winters. I'm fortunate to work at a place where jeans are OK, though when the creative dudes wear super worn jeans with holes in the knees and ironic tees, I say they're pushing it too far. Oh, and flip flops, but that's basically the law in Colorado.

I went to Ulta today--with my husband, poor guy. I got my tarte blush stick stain thing. Makes it easy to do your makeup in the car on the way to the office!

teenytinymouse
Aug 3, 2005

I'm Shannon and I'm the biggest Idiot Ever!

Daikatana Ritsu posted:

seems i'm destined to marry a librarian.

I know a lady librarian and she showed me round the new library in Waterford and it's gorgeous. So many libraries get real, serious architectural work put into them and then are completely ignored by internet using kindle buyers like us. Support your local libraries folks.

Edit: I bought 3 pencil length bodycon skirts for like £10 each which work okay as business causal with a £19 (on sale) Dorothy Perkins blouse and a lovely £25 blazer. Though I have a conference coming up in March so I will probs buy some trousers from Next to be on the safe side. I'm presenting a really lovely piece of work so I'll be freaking out in 2 months FYI ladythread.

teenytinymouse fucked around with this message at 04:33 on Jan 21, 2014

Portals
Apr 18, 2012

I'd been a size 12 in pants for ages and I picked up some nice dress slacks a year ago as an investment for when I start having an actual job, but then I dropped a bunch of sizes accidentally and they're all super baggy on me now. It's a strange mix of depressing and great.

defectivemonkey
Jun 5, 2012

grapey posted:

Epic.

Re. business casual, could you wear cords for pants? Assuming you live in a place that has winters. I'm fortunate to work at a place where jeans are OK, though when the creative dudes wear super worn jeans with holes in the knees and ironic tees, I say they're pushing it too far. Oh, and flip flops, but that's basically the law in Colorado.

I went to Ulta today--with my husband, poor guy. I got my tarte blush stick stain thing. Makes it easy to do your makeup in the car on the way to the office!

I'm lucky -- my husband loves Ulta. Re: cords, I think cords with tight rows (I don't know the real name) would be fine. The wider they are, the more casual.

Portals posted:

I'd been a size 12 in pants for ages and I picked up some nice dress slacks a year ago as an investment for when I start having an actual job, but then I dropped a bunch of sizes accidentally and they're all super baggy on me now. It's a strange mix of depressing and great.

I just lost a bunch of weight and most of my pants are so big on me. I'm just keeping them for eventual maternity clothes.

Olivanderp
Jan 12, 2012
ladies, where/how do you store your drugs?

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Jun 4, 2011

by LadyAmbien

Olivanderp posted:

ladies, where/how do you store your drugs?

Are you the police

Crow Jane
Oct 18, 2012

nothin' wrong with a lady drinkin' alone in her room

Olivanderp posted:

ladies, where/how do you store your drugs?

In a little carved wooden turtle. The shell comes off and it's curved on the inside for minimal waste, plus it looks pretty cute.

Olivanderp
Jan 12, 2012

UnnaturalSELECTION posted:

Are you the police

uh... nooooooOOOOOOOOOOO!
just ur avg mean. like...
1-1-2-2-3-4-5-6-6-6-8-9-10-11-11-12-13-13-13-13

7.45

Al Cowens
Aug 11, 2004

by WE B Bourgeois

Olivanderp posted:

ladies, where/how do you store your drugs?
Three days worth of them on my person in an altoids smalls tin. The rest in their original prescription bottles in my bathroom cabinet along with prescription info.

toe knee hand
Jun 20, 2012

HANSEN ON A BREAKAWAY

HONEY BADGER DON'T SCORE
cupboard above my kitchen sink

pixelbaron
Mar 18, 2009

~ Notice me, Shempai! ~
according to the hit show cops drugs are stored in the vagina

poopkitty
Oct 16, 2013

WE ARE ALL ONE
I don't have any except for the legal ones (but they're benzos.) The last time I had drugs I was 18 and had them in a little crochet pouch around my neck. I'll bet it's a lot more expensive now, huh? (I was 18 literally half my life ago.) The klonopin is in my bathroom between my tampons and my CC cream because I'm hard like that.

E: Oh! And I also have 2 pills each in my desk and my purse in little flowered pill holders that I bought at the drugstore. Because again, hard.

EXTREME INSERTION
Jun 4, 2011

by LadyAmbien

pixelbaron posted:

according to the hit show cops drugs are stored in the vagina

Or the butt

EXTREME INSERTION
Jun 4, 2011

by LadyAmbien
Seriously though I used to put them in a cereal box and forget, go to make cereal and end up with a bowl of mj

Corn Thongs
Feb 13, 2004

in my pen drawer

defectivemonkey
Jun 5, 2012

Sabel posted:

Three days worth of them on my person in an altoids smalls tin. The rest in their original prescription bottles in my bathroom cabinet along with prescription info.


Mini Altoids ton storage buddy!

pixelbaron posted:

according to the hit show cops drugs are stored in the vagina

That's why we all use diva cups.

Tora! Tora! Tora!
Dec 28, 2008

Shake it baby
The closest thing I have is cough syrup with codeine in my fridge. But I bought a set of cute little boxes and the guy checking me out was flirting and kept asking me what I was gonna store in them and when I didn't wanna answer, I think he thought it was :420:. I didn't wanna tell him it was tampons. :ssh:


That possum keeps coming back and we're getting to be friends. I'll hear munching in the kitchen and go "possum, you know you're not supposed to be in here" and instead of scurrying under something and hissing, he'll just look at me and go back to eating. So I go "c'mon, out, out" and point at the door and he'll reluctantly turn and lumber out the front door.

toe knee hand
Jun 20, 2012

HANSEN ON A BREAKAWAY

HONEY BADGER DON'T SCORE

t_violet posted:

That possum keeps coming back and we're getting to be friends. I'll hear munching in the kitchen and go "possum, you know you're not supposed to be in here" and instead of scurrying under something and hissing, he'll just look at me and go back to eating. So I go "c'mon, out, out" and point at the door and he'll reluctantly turn and lumber out the front door.

congrats on your new cat

MY PALE GOTH SKIN
Nov 28, 2006


meow
Sometimes thrift stores will have awesome little pill boxes, or just unspecific tiny boxes to put pills in. That's where I got the tiny metal box I keep my (entirely legal) emergency medication in, fits in a purse pocket.

I found in high school that a pink Mary Kay compact with the makeup removed works as well. It's boring makeup, so no one wants to see it.


A person with a large bust asked about clothes, forget who


Seconding the cheap camis and tanks to wear underneath. I am 5 feet, two and a half inches, and I have an annoyingly large bust as well. Basically all the shirts/dresses that will fit over my bust are too low-cut for business wear once they're on. Many of them are too low-cut for walking out the door, and I've learned to live with a certain amount of cleavage showing. Get the camis with adjustable straps, if you can. If you find some that fit well, buy several, especially if they're cheap. Target usually has some that aren't too pricey, but last a decent amount of time.

eshakti.com has you enter your height, and adjusting for that is included in the price of the garment, and then a lot more options that you can pick and choose that don't cost much. I know they have an option for length on any top, relative to your height as well. I think they have some blazers under 'jackets,' and I know they're having a sale right now. Modcloth also has a ton of blazers. If you check those out, search 'blazer,' don't look at their 'work appropriate' section unless you're willing to see a lot of stuff that won't cut it for you, like open-toe shoes. They do have some nice, dressy, low wedges, and some basic shirts and skirts, and they're having a sale right now as well.

MY PALE GOTH SKIN fucked around with this message at 12:25 on Apr 4, 2014

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Jun 4, 2011

by LadyAmbien

t_violet posted:

The closest thing I have is cough syrup with codeine in my fridge. But I bought a set of cute little boxes and the guy checking me out was flirting and kept asking me what I was gonna store in them and when I didn't wanna answer, I think he thought it was :420:. I didn't wanna tell him it was tampons. :ssh:


That possum keeps coming back and we're getting to be friends. I'll hear munching in the kitchen and go "possum, you know you're not supposed to be in here" and instead of scurrying under something and hissing, he'll just look at me and go back to eating. So I go "c'mon, out, out" and point at the door and he'll reluctantly turn and lumber out the front door.

My uncle has made friends with some skunks in his backyard. They are now tame. One is all white

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Motherfucker
Jul 16, 2011

I certainly dont have deep-seated issues involving birthdays.
But what is a lady? seriously.

I've been too shy to ask.

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