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scrubs season six posted:It's not the porn. It's that the guys are retarded. Or extremely inexperienced. Or both. Basically. Any "porn ideas" about sex should vanish once the guy actually starts having sex. It just fills virgin's minds with dumb stuff. If they don't get over them quickly once they start having sex then they are just dumb and nothing will save them.
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loquacius posted:I freely admit that I was working off of no knowledge of the exact thinking and approach you were making reference to and assumed it was guys thinking women love it when you bust in their faces or tear their clothing or something (e: or do the James Deen thing where you grab their cheeks and stare intensely into their eyes), but I am gonna say that if you're waiting for a guy who is not corrupted by porn and also isn't a fundie with really weird views RE sex for a multitude of non-porn-related reasons, you might be waiting a while. I never said it was a dealbreaker or I assumed it wouldn't influence guys I was dating, just that I'm not a fan of ways I think it affects how men view women and sex. And even then, I think it would affect their thinking less if they were better at communicating with women generally. The big hurdle is honest communication, and men are socialized to not really engage in that way. Just the other week, I was hanging out with some friends of mine, chatting social this-and-that, at at hour five I cracked "Isn't it great that men also spend this much time discussing how to not hurt each other's feelings?" Big laughs . But then again, women often advise one another to not talk about emotions with guys because they "don't get it" or that it will annoy them, so we hide stuff or seem angry about the wrong things. I got frustrated at a guy recently because he said if he were in the same city as other family members, he'd rather hang back and not bother them; bugs me because it seems impossible to convince him people do want him around. But I was tired and hormonal and was a bitch instead. I apologized but if I'd been clearer about how I felt instead of getting weird out-of-nowhere snappish, I might have been able to come across as appropriately supportive instead of mean. Pick fucked around with this message at 23:38 on Oct 21, 2016 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My girlfriend tells me to jerk it and has no qualms about it because we both know that the mood strikes us sometimes and it's perfectly healthy. I don't get these crazy weirdos who think that porn and masturbation is the worst thing ever. It's bizarre to shame people for the most normal thing in human history. I agree with George Carlin that if masturbation were so wrong we'd have shorter arms.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:33 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My girlfriend tells me to jerk it and has no qualms about it because we both know that the mood strikes us sometimes and it's perfectly healthy. I don't get these crazy weirdos who think that porn and masturbation is the worst thing ever. It's bizarre to shame people for the most normal thing in human history. Like poo poo when they were digging up pompeii they found a poo poo ton of porn Also, people gotta stop being so uptight over their partner's fantasizing if it doesn't really go anywhere beyond just masturbating on their own time. Gotta grow the gently caress up and realize both men and women have their porn in some sense to get off to.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:34 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I [26M] slept with my best friend's sister [19F]. Nice to have a plain, regular palate cleanser between all the deep dives into the r/relationship bull prepping trough.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:36 |
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scrubs season six posted:It's not the porn. It's that the guys are retarded. Or extremely inexperienced. Or both. As a non retard I can watch pornography without thinking that women want nine inch hog legs and the most appropriate place for semen is always in her eyeballs. A lot of guys are super insecure about their dicks because the measurement which is often tossed around by dumb teens as the bare acceptable minimum is higher than the statistical average, and you can't even talk about how hosed that is without people immediately thinking you have a tiny dick, even if your dick is as insanely large as mine is. But it also doesn't make sense to blame that 100% on porn. We kind of have an unhealthy fixation on dick size as a society and it leaks into non-sexual stuff all the time. Pick posted:I never said it was a dealbreaker or I assumed it wouldn't influence guys I was dating, just that I'm not a fan of ways I think it affects how men view women and sex. And even then, I think it would affect their thinking less if they were better at communicating with women generally. The big hurdle is honest communication, and men are socialized to not really engage in that way. Just the other week, I was hanging out with some friends of mine, chatting social this-and-that, at at hour five I cracked "Isn't it great that men also spend this much time discussing how to not hurt each other's feelings?" Big laughs . Ah. The context of the conversation kind of indicated otherwise; this is a totally understandable stance yeah (Men are definitely socialized to think that if they ever show pain or vulnerability everyone will think they are either a weakling or a lunatic and that definitely influences the way we act)
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Was my [18 M] way of asking a girl [18 F] out on a date rude and/or inconsideratequote:So basically there's this girl in my stats class I've been crushing on for about a month or so. Cute, fun, seemingly my type, the usual nine yards. I decided to ask her out on a date to a local eatery since we've been talking a decent amount in and out of class. Unfortunately, when I asked(yes, I DID use the word 'date') she got apprehensive and gave a weak maybe saying she was really short on money. When I offered to pay on her behalf, she said I shouldn't need to do that. reddit response: op is basically a predator and should send her an apology on facebook
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:45 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My girlfriend tells me to jerk it and has no qualms about it because we both know that the mood strikes us sometimes and it's perfectly healthy. I don't get these crazy weirdos who think that porn and masturbation is the worst thing ever. It's bizarre to shame people for the most normal thing in human history. My girlfriend doesn't watch porn but she tries to guess the kind of porn I like. She doesn't care at all.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:46 |
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Maybe those guys should buy their SO's a rabbit. Or a sybian. Help them understand the difference between good sex with SO and fun solo adventures.
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loquacius posted:A lot of guys are super insecure about their dicks because the measurement which is often tossed around by dumb teens as the bare acceptable minimum is higher than the statistical average, and you can't even talk about how hosed that is without people immediately thinking you have a tiny dick, even if your dick is as insanely large as mine is. But it also doesn't make sense to blame that 100% on porn. I don't--as I said, I think pornography reinforces it (heavily). So do jokes about small dicks, which is why I don't tell jokes about dick size even though they're still socially acceptable for some reason. But in return, it would be helpful if guys didn't say stuff like "I can't wait to see the tears in your eyes when you choke on it" because that's a big turn-off. (Or worse, the earlier daddy cummies in the no no zone or whatever the gently caress it was in the earlier story.)
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:48 |
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Facebook Aunt posted:Maybe those guys should buy their SO's a rabbit
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Tolkien minority posted:Was my [18 M] way of asking a girl [18 F] out on a date rude and/or inconsiderate I don't see anything wrong with this exchange from either party.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:49 |
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Tolkien minority posted:Was my [18 M] way of asking a girl [18 F] out on a date rude and/or inconsiderate That's a super normal thing from both people and no one really screwed up imho
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:50 |
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Chomp8645 posted:I don't see anything wrong with this exchange from either party. uhhh op clearly triggered the girl p hard???? wats not to see quote:Yes. You were incredibly rude. That sort of interaction is incredibly uncomfortable for many women because men (as a group) have a history of getting violent when they're shot down.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:49 |
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Pick posted:I don't--as I said, I think pornography reinforces it (heavily). So do jokes about small dicks, which is why I don't tell jokes about dick size even though they're still socially acceptable for some reason. But in return, it would be helpful if guys didn't say stuff like "I can't wait to see the tears in your eyes when you choke on it" because that's a big turn-off. (Or worse, the earlier daddy cummies in the no no zone or whatever the gently caress it was in the earlier story.) You just have a broken moron detector in your head. Date guys 5 years older than you and it should turn out better.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:51 |
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Pick posted:But in return, it would be helpful if guys didn't say stuff like "I can't wait to see the tears in your eyes when you choke on it" because that's a big turn-off. Is this something normal guys say, or is this based on your awful history with men?
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Tolkien minority posted:Was my [18 M] way of asking a girl [18 F] out on a date rude and/or inconsiderate Ahaha that poor guy grew one half of a testicle for one moment and now will regret it for the rest of his life. Also jesus christ shut up about porn.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:53 |
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Tolkien minority posted:uhhh op clearly triggered the girl p hard???? wats not to see The redditor that posted this can suck my loving dick. Also why in the world, if we take the premise that he DEEPLY TRIGGERED her at face value, would she want a follow up apology? That would just be even worse. The whole thing is best left alone at this point whether you think anyone wrong occurred or not.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:53 |
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Pick posted:But in return, it would be helpful if guys didn't say stuff like "I can't wait to see the tears in your eyes when you choke on it" because that's a big turn-off. I am gonna file this particular thing under "you should probably know enough about the difference between porn and real life not to do this", yeah
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:54 |
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WampaLord posted:Is this something normal guys say, or is this based on your awful history with men? I know a lot of guys and we limit our dirty talk with our girlfriends and wives to mostly texting because it is awkward in person
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WampaLord posted:Is this something normal guys say, or is this based on your awful history with men? Why ask when everyone already knows.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:55 |
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Regulation Size posted:Also jesus christ shut up about porn.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:55 |
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WampaLord posted:Is this something normal guys say, or is this based on your awful history with men? It's one I got, I don't remember the exact phrasing but it was like a second date so after that I just told him I wasn't interested in seeing him again. I've gone on dates with loads of guys, but if anything my broken moron detector is too sensitive because I'm the one who tells them nah. Like maybe he was trying to do a bit or something, but I'm pretty straightforward and am going to take him at his word, in which case nah because if I choke I'm gonna barf. I don't want to spend the rest of my life barfing on some guy's dick all the time.
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# ? Oct 21, 2016 23:56 |
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Some women would also find that hot and not a turn off (No one should find the "daddy's cummies" thing anything but horrifying though) Jumping right into that kind of dirty talk without testing the waters is amateurish and dumb, though, and the porn talk is a symptom of idiocy and not the cause
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Chomp8645 posted:The redditor that posted this can suck my loving dick. decided to check their comment history, not convinced their not a troll. this one is especially topical with the whole "crazy beez and porn" deal we got goin on quote:So, this post will get down voted, but the reality is that she may well be telling you the truth. sexting randos while in a relationship: totally cool and basically the same thing as watching porn and its prob the partners fault anyway for not satisfying them
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 00:02 |
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Pick posted:It's one I got, I don't remember the exact phrasing but it was like a second date so after that I just told him I wasn't interested in seeing him again. No one cares. She (31f) killed my (27m) nice guy side after a 2 year relationship. what do i do? quote:This is going to be a long one, so please bare with me.
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 00:03 |
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do you ever think dating really weird messed up dudes might be related to being a furry? also all this talk about porn is awesome and fun I wish there was a whole thread dedicated to it! oh http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3794930
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 00:02 |
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^^ double lolTolkien minority posted:decided to check their comment history, not convinced their not a troll. this one is especially topical with the whole "crazy beez and porn" deal we got goin on fukken lol
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Regulation Size posted:She (31f) killed my (27m) nice guy side after a 2 year relationship. what do i do?
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 00:05 |
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Regulation Size posted:No one cares. That was a direct response to a question you idiot.
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 00:31 |
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Pick posted:That was a direct response to a question you idiot. quote:No one cares.
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 00:35 |
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Please don't fight in this thread, just talk about strange folks from reddit. "no one cares" does not contribute anything.
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Regulation Size posted:No one cares. This is just depressing.
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 01:24 |
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Pick posted:I don't--as I said, I think pornography reinforces it (heavily). So do jokes about small dicks, which is why I don't tell jokes about dick size even though they're still socially acceptable for some reason. But in return, it would be helpful if guys didn't say stuff like "I can't wait to see the tears in your eyes when you choke on it" because that's a big turn-off. (Or worse, the earlier daddy cummies in the no no zone or whatever the gently caress it was in the earlier story.) my gf isnt a prude likes to be choked by daddys cock
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 01:31 |
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Pick posted:I'm actually less tolerant of porn than I used to be because of how many guys have demonstrated to me that it informs their thinking and approach. If it didn't then I wouldn't care. Same. Also, if someone in a relationship is jerkin it to porn a lot that is usually a good indicator that there is a larger problem.
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 01:55 |
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quote:My[23M] girlfriend[24F] said the "N word" last night and it really upset me. Is this something to be worried about?
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 02:06 |
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There is only one way to proceed: he must close her forum without warning.
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# ? Oct 22, 2016 02:08 |
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Jim Jeffries had a show where he somehow landed a ridiculously hot woman with this exact problem. I forget how he solved it though, on the grounds that Jim Jeffries is not a good leading man and the show kind-of sucked.
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Tender Bender posted:I hope he visited You Look Like poo poo and is following goon advice to buy sheets of raw denim to cut and sew into his own jeans, which he never washes. I want to believe. Is this a real thing?
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