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Nobody is that dumb. That has to be fake. Please be fake.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Nobody is that dumb. That has to be fake. Please be fake. a 22 year old nerd who has met her family after a month of dating? yeah he's that stupid. maybe he's rich, though one of the disturbing things about getting older is realizing what a god damned idiot child you were in your early twenties. wait for it, it's fun
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Nobody is that dumb. That has to be fake. Please be fake. I was at least that dumb at 20.
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Pick posted:I don't care if she could pay for it or not, "gimme" money from your predecessors is not something any person has an obligation to touch if they don't want to. I'm sorry but you can't claim to love someone if you're willing to let them go cold because you don't want to pay a loving heating bill when you live in the same house. If I was that guy I would have ended it then and there. I mean, I would have lived in ignorant bliss cos I wouldn't have opened her mail but if I'd found out in some other way. Also, I'm sorry and your great aunt has the right to do whatever she wants but hoarding money like some dragon is pretty lovely when there thousands of worthy charitable causes and even just spending it on frivolous poo poo would put food on someone's table. Letting all that money just sit there, not being used, is making an active choice not to help people. It's her choice, but not one I could ever agree with.
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 05:36 |
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boner confessor posted:can you blame her? the existence of her money has made complete internet strangers pop a cork about her holding out based on a reddit post. money ruins relationships No hot water sure does suck, and it's a little turd that could be easily flushed if one side or the other had the ability to step back, make some different choices and actually communicate. No hot water isn't squalor. Starving and filth is squalor. You can work full time at a McJob walking that tightrope and still end up without hot water. It's not because they're stupid, and not because someone is evil and manipulative. It's not about being okay with having someone suffer to test their mettle. I don't believe anyone thinks there is a nefarious plan in place. Young people get scared. 24 is young, if you have your poo poo together at 24, round of applause - you are an exception. Some people grow up a lot between 17 and 24. Some people grow up very little. That time can fly by really quickly. I can't defend or attack either side in this story. The guy is a garbage man for feeling like he's entitled to something that isn't his, and more than likely she's either oblivious to what he's going through or doesn't want to spend resources on something she has reservations about. Money is a great thing for relationships if the two people can communicate like intelligent humans and use it to carve out a place in the world and be happy.
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Tom Gorman posted:I can't defend or attack either side in this story. The guy is a garbage man for feeling like he's entitled to something that isn't his, and more than likely she's either oblivious to what he's going through or doesn't want to spend resources on something she has reservations about. Money is a great thing for relationships if the two people can communicate like intelligent humans and use it to carve out a place in the world and be happy. all i'm saying is that it's silly to assume she would let herself live in discomfort because of financial paranoia, rather than having a particularly restrictive trust and being bad with money. like apparently she still has her own apartment, which is where the boyfriend snooped? so why not just live there this would also explain why she hasn't mentioned it, because telling your partner that you'll be worth millions eventually but not right now is a great way to end up in a long term toxic relationship boner confessor fucked around with this message at 05:40 on Dec 23, 2016 |
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boner confessor posted:all i'm saying is that it's silly to assume she would let herself live in discomfort because of financial paranoia, rather than having a particularly restrictive trust and being bad with money. like apparently she still has her own apartment, which is where the boyfriend snooped? so why not just live there https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yuTMWgOduFM Tom Gorman posted:No hot water sure does suck, and it's a little turd that could be easily flushed if one side or the other had the ability to step back, make some different choices and actually communicate. No hot water isn't squalor. Starving and filth is squalor. You can work full time at a McJob walking that tightrope and still end up without hot water. It's not because they're stupid, and not because someone is evil and manipulative. It's not about being okay with having someone suffer to test their mettle. I don't believe anyone thinks there is a nefarious plan in place. This is a really good post and I think we should let this derail end here. GEORGE W BUSHI fucked around with this message at 08:40 on Dec 23, 2016 |
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boner confessor posted:a 22 year old nerd who has met her family after a month of dating? they been friends for ages
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 05:41 |
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Tears In A Vial posted:they been friends for ages ah, so he got a passport out of the friend zone
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 05:42 |
boner confessor posted:ah, so he got a passport out of the friend zone No, not really. More like a day pass.
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 05:45 |
Feelgood holiday post What is a good christmas gift for me [23, F] to buy a severely alcohol-dependent mother[59, F] ? quote:I am trying to think of what to buy my mother for Christmas. She is severely alcohol-dependent. She puts no effort into her appearance anymore and smokes so much that perfumes, beauty products, etc. that most people would buy their mother is just a waste. I also don't have a lot of money so it can't be too expensive. Of course, something that would encourage her to give up alcohol or tobacco would be great but she is so far gone. Basically drinking herself to death now. I have tried to help her but she just becomes very aggressive.
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i hate my horrible mother. what would be a good gift to demonstrate my love?Charles Get-Out posted:No, not really. More like a day pass. tourist visa
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Charles Get-Out posted:Poor, poor dumb little idiot boy, run away. Run far away. I'd need to know the past relationship's cheating/breakup timeline before I decide exactly how terrible this is.
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The stable guy is what women are told they should look for, a lot of them like the emotional rollercoaster. Except me, because I'm boring
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Charles Get-Out posted:Feelgood holiday post This one is easy. Since most of the incoming calories are liquid and any solids are probably heavy in fat and oil, I'd recommend https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVlvnCOUqog
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 05:57 |
Pick posted:The stable guy is what women are told they should look for, a lot of them like the emotional rollercoaster. Except me, because I'm boring I feel like everyone has that phase. And then they either learn emotional rollercoasters are poo poo rides that leave you with aching headaches and psychological scars or they don't learn anything at all. Tom Gorman posted:This one is easy. Since most of the incoming calories are liquid and any solids are probably heavy in fat and oil, I'd recommend Oh man good choice. edit: for clarity Nancy fucked around with this message at 06:12 on Dec 23, 2016 |
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 05:59 |
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quote:My [22 F] grandpa [77 M] will be alone for the first Christmas ever. How can I make it less lonely? I mean, I feel like 4 hours total driving to see your old rear end Grandpa who is your father figure isn't that bad of a drive....
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2 Hours is not very hard, jesus, just go visit the guy
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 06:29 |
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Charles Get-Out posted:Poor, poor dumb little idiot boy, run away. Run far away. This one is just sofballing the thread. Bang your gf's ex, you'll feel better.
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[Sex Toys] Wife uses vibrator and dildo - but doesn't want to have sex and doesn't want me to use a masturbator toyquote:When I first met my wife, she loved sex. We had sex nearly every day for the first 2-3 years of our relationship.
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 07:36 |
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Virigoth posted:I mean, I feel like 4 hours total driving to see your old rear end Grandpa who is your father figure isn't that bad of a drive.... Isn't the issue work not distance?
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sinking belle posted:[Sex Toys] Wife uses vibrator and dildo - but doesn't want to have sex and doesn't want me to use a masturbator toy
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 07:40 |
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Khorne posted:What's the takeaway from this post? Relationships are the worst?
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Gaunab posted:Isn't the issue work not distance? it's kind of vague because they combine lack of time off with the 2 hour drive as an excuse. This makes it sorta sound like they have some free time around christmas but they can't make a long trip out of it, which would make 2 hours of travel seem like kind of a dumb reason to not visit your family because that's not very far even for just a 2 day thing imo. Who knows though as they might mean they literally work sat/sun/mon full time and that would be a lot more understandable. In such a case tho it seems a bit weird the mom would come up and visit just to be alone chillin in their apartment for 8 hours a day. Sometimes these posts seems like they're carefully crafted to leave out as much important information as possible while still posing a problem people can project their own personal biases on, like some sort of relationship rorschach test. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 08:28 on Dec 23, 2016 |
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Khorne posted:What's the takeaway from this post? Relationships are the worst? It doesn't seem like one of those "look at these hilarious inept idiots" posts, more like "here is a pitiable couple".
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Charles Get-Out posted:Feelgood holiday post A carton of smokes and some booze, dipshit.
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sinking belle posted:[Sex Toys] Wife uses vibrator and dildo - but doesn't want to have sex and doesn't want me to use a masturbator toy Steal the toys and use them himself. In his rear end. And don't clean them after.
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Charles Get-Out posted:Feelgood holiday post This could be my mom but she died a couple years ago at 56
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 09:55 |
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timefly posted:This could be my mom but she died a couple years ago at 56 So what did you buy her for Xmas?
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monkeytennis posted:So what did you buy her for Xmas? I got her a weed grinder once. Oh yeah she was a pothead too
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504 posted:And here I was thinking the chair derail was stupid pointless boring poo poo laden garbage.
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 11:05 |
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I am a moronic cuck but I also want to eat the rich, can I come in
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sinking belle posted:[Sex Toys] Wife uses vibrator and dildo - but doesn't want to have sex and doesn't want me to use a masturbator toy Why on gods green earth did we need to know the masturbation toy for him was shaped like an rear end
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Why on gods green earth did we need to know the masturbation toy for him was shaped like an rear end so you have an idea of how weird/expensive it is i guess
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 12:23 |
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Maybe she grew up wealthy and this is her pilgrimage to the other side of the tracks, if you know what I mean. I did it. It was loving awful but I'm glad I did. Taught me to appreciate money and also appreciate owning a mattress.
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The girl who was uninvited from a wedding while her boyfriend stayed posted an update. I can't find the original post in this thread even with search but luckily she's posted screenshots if you need a refresher. I [24f] was just uninvited from a wedding that had already started. Am I overreacting? [UPDATE] quote:Basically I went to a wedding of my boyfriend's oldest friend from school and got uninvited from the wedding breakfast as it was starting. My boyfriend stayed at the wedding.
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quote:I[34F] just found out that my husband[37M] has been catfishing people online
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# ? Dec 23, 2016 13:51 |
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boner confessor posted:wow you are super jealous of rich people lol rich people got lucky and act like they worked harder than everyone else.
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"i just found out that my husband's a monster."
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I think I'd rather have my SO cheat than be such a massive rear end in a top hat, who's also lying to me.
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