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I had a guy do that, by the way, tell tales of the female friends who fell in love with him and begged him for sex. And I was like, "ok then" and then he got mad at me. Later he professed he was a virgin. I remain wholly mystified.
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My biological son invited himself to our family vacation. How do I un-invite him without hurting his feelings?quote:REQUIREMENTS He didn't post an update other than the edit but lets take a look at some of his comments quote:
quote:We all like Jack. I like Jack. My kids like Jack as a friend. That isn't what this is about it. I cannot be a father to him like I am to my kids with my wife. Its just a different relationship and different dynamic. I can be a positive male role model in his life and I am doing that. He needs my financial support and I give him that. quote:
quote:Just to address your first point. I am much, much more established and mature than Jack's mother. Its not a huge surprise that a guy like you (a wittol/cuckold) would defend his mother but she is a huge mess. Its not even debatable. Her life is a train-wreck and I am not judging her when I say that. This is a woman who has always had issues with substances and who is an alcoholic. She has three children all by different men. She hasn't been in a committed serious relationship in years. Her life is in a mess because of her. Its not me mocking her. She has made awful choices and now its coming back to haunt her and hurt her children. quote:I'm familiar with what a wittol is. I didn't go through his posting history - I have more important things to do. I just thought it was relevant since he was defending my ex with such vigor. His particular fetish might explain his enthusiasm for defending my ex. I didn't embarrass him. I just mentioned it and suggested it might have some role in his thoughts. If I was out to embarrass him I would have said something lovely to him about his fetish. I didn't do that. Sorry for over highlighting but really the whole thing should be.
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Pick posted:I had a guy do that, by the way, tell tales of the female friends who fell in love with him and begged him for sex. And I was like, "ok then" and then he got mad at me. Later he professed he was a virgin. I remain wholly mystified. Having tried to coach somebody through why this is a terrible, terrible idea it was because they wanted to seem desirable to have sex with and since they couldnt prove it by actually having sex, and you know improving oneself to be desireable is hard and requires admitting you have things you dont like about yourself, so they lied about it to try and skip that. This creates a death spiral they cant eacape from and ends in shame, confusion, and rejection as you noted. TheTremendous posted:So the neighbor is definitely black, right? I was made to take training about the unconcious bias and decisions we make, learning about how we can identify blindspots in our preconcieved notions of the world, and yes the neighbor is black. Barudak fucked around with this message at 03:40 on May 18, 2017 |
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May 18, 2017 03:37
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Barudak posted:Having tried to coach somebody through why this is a terrible, terrible idea it was because they wanted to seem desirable to have sex with and since they couldnt prove it by actually having sex, and you know improving oneself to be desireable is hard and requires admitting you have things you dont like about yourself, so they lied about it to try and skip that. This creates a death spiral they cant eacape from and ends in shame, confusion, and rejection as you noted. It also creates a death spiral, but with higher likelihood of them murdering a woman and wearing her as a coat.
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May 18, 2017 03:47
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dudeness posted:My biological son invited himself to our family vacation. How do I un-invite him without hurting his feelings? quote:I have to admit I chuckled at this. Guess who is a mental health professional?  !!!! !!!!!!!!!!!
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Dudeness, gently caress your story since Im treating it as true. I hope that guys family leaves him to die on the side of the road like a sick raccoon. gently caress. Edit: Like, gently caress I want to find his kid and help raise him to become a high powered financial guru so he can financially ruin his father and separate him from everything he loves while telling him "it would have been better for you if you had never known the life you enjoyed because this wouldnt hurt" Haifisch posted:It's still better than the alternate ending, where they go on reddit and discover this mystical thing called "The Red Pill." Yeah, he pulled out fine with some coaching. Hes now of the kind of man unwelcome on incel boards. Barudak fucked around with this message at 03:54 on May 18, 2017 |
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Barudak posted:Dudeness, gently caress your story since Im treating it as true. I hope that guys family leaves him to die on the side of the road like a sick raccoon. gently caress. Oh no, not a Chad!
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May 18, 2017 03:53
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Barudak posted:Having tried to coach somebody through why this is a terrible, terrible idea it was because they wanted to seem desirable to have sex with and since they couldnt prove it by actually having sex, and you know improving oneself to be desireable is hard and requires admitting you have things you dont like about yourself, so they lied about it to try and skip that. This creates a death spiral they cant eacape from and ends in shame, confusion, and rejection as you noted. I didn't even dislike him but it was a big turnoff even before he admitted he was lying. Because in my world, telling me about other girls you want to get with = you want to get with other girls (not me), so my interest, if there was any, disappears.
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I [25F] recently found out that my fiance's [26m] friend [26m] is secretly gay and am uncomfortable with the way they "joke" with each other nowquote:My SO and I have been together for three years, and were recently engaged.
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Barudak posted:Dudeness, gently caress your story since Im treating it as true. I hope that guys family leaves him to die on the side of the road like a sick raccoon. gently caress. I agree, it's the first story to make me angry in a long time.
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Recently I kind of made this new guy friend. He's about my age and we share the same career interests. We actually met over this online forum about our career interests. My new friend insisted we meet even though doing so was outside of my social comfort zone. However, we did meet and we had an intense four hour lunch together. He was so nice and treated me as if I was an old friend. In fact, he told me that I have another friend in him. I got a really good first impression of him. After our first outing, I felt these strong feelings of brotherly affection toward my new friend that I have rarely felt before. I wanted to pursue a more intimate friendship with him. I also really believed that our meeting was "meant to be." My new friend and I also hung out a second time the next week for over two hours. Unfortunately, my Asperger's and my strong feelings for my friend led to me coming on strong to him in electronic communications. Eventually, my friend cut off contact with me. I've been trying to make up with my friend, but it's been very difficult. I have realized that I was coming on way too strong to my friend and not respecting his "space." However the only reason that I came on strong is that my friend came on strong during our first outing and even before we met. I wanted to become really good friends with him and I sincerely believed (and still do to some extent ) that the feeling was mutual. However, now, I'm not sure what his intentions were and for all I know, he didn't even know what his own intentions were. My friend knows that I have Asperger's. I mentioned it on that online forum before we first met. Unfortunately, my friend hasn't been able to accept my differences, mostly because we don't know each other very well. After I sent the text that made my friend cut off contact with me, I left several text and phone messages with him in which I tried to explain myself and open up to him more. I even said that I have trouble expressing myself to others and knowing how others will react to what I say and do. I was hoping that he would understand my differences better. However, this only made matters worse and likely made my friend more uncomfortable and even scared of interacting with me. Almost two weeks after he cut off contact, he finally messaged me and told me that he understands that I have trouble making friends, but that doesn't give me the right to disrespect his feelings. However, if he really understood me and my differences , then he wouldn't have reacted the way that he did. And by the same token, if I really understood my friend and his differences, then I wouldn't have acted the way that I did. I also believe that my friend has some kind of issues of his own, maybe even Asperger's or a similar condition. He came on strong during and before our first outing and was enjoying himself so much that he hung out with me for over four whole hours. But after our first outing, he sure didn't come on strong. I think that he may have simultaneously wanted to become friends with me and also became scared of getting close to me. I just know that if I got my friend to willingly communicate and even meet with me again, then we could understand each other and our respective personal issues and differences better and become good friends. I think that both of us have problems with intimacy. But my big mistake was trying to rush the intimacy between us, even if it was only unintentional. Intimacy within all relationships should never be rushed and always needs to be given time to develop. And it's even more imperative to follow this advice when it's a platonic friendship between two straight men as straight men usually fear intimacy with other men.
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Maybe the vacation can involve a lengthy road trip and they can push him out of a moving car without his wallet
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Pick posted:Because it's men who stare at women who are passed out and think about how much they want to rape them. You know I never really got why people detest you so much till just now.
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May 18, 2017 04:07
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Motherfucker posted:You know I never really got why people detest you so much till just now. dude I was quoting a guy who literally described doing that exact thing in this exact thread lmao
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Haifisch posted:I [25F] recently found out that my fiance's [26m] friend [26m] is secretly gay and am uncomfortable with the way they "joke" with each other now Umm... so the obvious answer is that the OP and the girlfriend are both beards and the dudes are loving like rabbits, right?
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Haifisch posted:I [25F] recently found out that my fiance's [26m] friend [26m] is secretly gay and am uncomfortable with the way they "joke" with each other now The fiance knows. He wants the D.
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Haifisch posted:I [25F] recently found out that my fiance's [26m] friend [26m] is secretly gay and am uncomfortable with the way they "joke" with each other now I found the best comment: quote:Well, quite frankly, if it's dick that "Bruce" and / or your "SO" are looking for, you're not equipped to compete.
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maskenfreiheit posted:that's like the time you've gotten moderated for being rapey - have you considered obtaining a reddit account? How is a story about him being raped "rapey"
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dudeness posted:My biological son invited himself to our family vacation. How do I un-invite him without hurting his feelings? I like how the guy keeps reiterating that he's a good person, a good dad, a positive role-model, making the best out of a difficult situation etc. He knows he's a piece of poo poo. It's like when obvious racists start a sentence with "I'm not racist, but".
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Motherfucker posted:You know I never really got why people detest you so much till just now. It is important to detest women for pointing out when a man is rapey. That's a good reaction. Ignore the guy who got probated for the rapeyness, focus on the women here.
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Pick posted:dude I was quoting a guy who literally described doing that exact thing in this exact thread lmao you think rape is bad. DETESTABLE.
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Pick posted:dude I was quoting a guy who literally described doing that exact thing in this exact thread lmao oh ok. I missed the joke because I was too eager to get those sick owns
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Cumslut1895 posted:How is a story about him being raped "rapey" my bad, he was racist then graduated to wanting to rape sleeping women. you have won an argument on the internet, your prize is... nothing
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Motherfucker posted:oh ok. I missed the joke because I was too eager to get those sick owns you're forgiven
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maskenfreiheit posted:my bad, he was racist then graduated to wanting to rape sleeping women. you have won an argument on the internet, your prize is... nothing What the gently caress are you talking about (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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dudeness posted:I have to admit I chuckled at this. Guess who is a mental health professional? I guarantee that guy is playing fast and loose with that constitutes a mental health professional. That "I am a net positive. I am a good person. I've done what I can" screams of being some litany he repeats to convince himself he isn't a douchebag that resents that poor kid for even existing.
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Pvt.Scott posted:Wide eyes means ready for action. Can't believe you guys let this one slide, step it up guys.
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I'm a good man. I just don't want my son to know that.
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Cumslut1895 posted:What the gently caress are you talking about posts. on the internet.  
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maskenfreiheit posted:posts. on the internet. hosed up if true. It's amazing how being raped can sour you on the other gender
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Cumslut1895 posted:hosed up if true. It's amazing how being raped can sour you on the other gender what the gently caress are you talking about
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Pvt.Scott posted:Let me know the next time your cat's fiancée decides to take your dick for a ride while you're passed out drunk on a futon. Posts on the internet
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this is the part where you screenshot exactly what you mean because the other person is mentally slow 
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maskenfreiheit posted:this is the part where you screenshot exactly what you mean because the other person is mentally slow Phone. Quote will have to do
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Cumslut1895 posted:Phone. Quote will have to do stop posting
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with all these layers of irony I can't tell whos raping who anymore.
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Motherfucker posted:with all these layers of irony I can't tell whos raping who anymore. in general, being raped in not a probatable offense... but making snarky redpill comments is. you be the judge.
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fruit on the bottom posted:Submarine Sandpaper's last recorded post. Archived for posterity. success! tbf my cat would do nothing but kneed on my leg when awake if able.
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