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Nice C-SPAM av Pick
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 21:46 |
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Me [39 M] with my wife [43 F] 17 years together, she's not interested in keeping me happy, and I don't know whether to stay or go.quote:We have 2 kids (13 and 6). We're very compatible in lots of practical ways and are very comfortable with each other and our day to day lives. We've also become pretty wealthy together for our age and area we live, having a household net worth of nearly $2M.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:14 |
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lol that he'd sacrifice his happiness and sex life for 900k
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:16 |
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Did you know PRETTY women want to bang me you big fat bitch?
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:17 |
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1st AD posted:lol that he'd sacrifice his happiness and sex life for 900k I can't fathom rich people, seriously like, I can't imagine going "I'm not happy in this marriage, buuuuuuut if I get a divorce I'll have to live on only $900,000 per year, so I guess it's sexless limbo forever because I'm not a PEASANT"
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:19 |
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He isn't even really losing $900k because half that money is already hers.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:21 |
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quote:. I like the thought of sex with physically attractive women a LOT, but it's not worth $900K to me. Then you better make peace with your slam whale, hoss
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:22 |
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Its net worth, not income, and its not that much for his age so going from an assured comfy retirement to an ok one plus single parenting sounds like an appropriate concern. Granted if shes truly 40 and obese he might outlast her soon.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:23 |
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Just spray some e.coli around and she’ll poo poo off that weight in a few rounds.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:27 |
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Barudak posted:Its net worth, not income, and its not that much for his age so going from an assured comfy retirement to an ok one plus single parenting sounds like an appropriate concern. It sounds like his wife is real checked out and he's completely oblivious as to why. It also sounds like his wife might be oblivious about how she just kinda stopped caring about some real important parts of life. Creeping normality is a thing, and if I were on reddit giving advice I'd say the actual correct approach isn't to focus on your weiner but instead on trying to get your wife to realize something in her life is dragging her down. It could be an undiagnosed physical problem, it could be the reality of having kids which doesn't jive well for everyone, it could be her husband is a weenie, it could be she just isn't that interested in him or the life they've chosen. I know I personally have no tolerance for the 'we make about the same amount of money every year and never try to expand' lifestyle. It seems penny wise and pound foolish to me unless you really, really love your jobs and lifestyle. I also wouldn't care about losing 50% of my networth in a divorce unless it involved non-repeatable windfalls that my partner had no part in, but that really doesn't sound like the case. Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:35 on Feb 6, 2018 |
# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:27 |
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fat and rich sound like a good combo for a woman, imo. I'll take her OP
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:28 |
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I think the lede is being buried here a little because he's making a big deal out of the fact she refuses to stop gaining weight but she also doesn't want to gently caress anymore (these two facts may be related) so, like, it's not just "waaa my wife is fat now," they also have a sexless marriage
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:29 |
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From /r/legaladvice, here's something on a lighter note. My ex husband wants dog support. Florida. quote:Divorced in Florida. We have two kids.He was ordered to pay child support. He bought a dog about 2 years ago while we were still married but just about to separate. He didn't ask for it in the initial divorce but recently sent me a (not from a lawyer) letter about opening a case for "petimony". I didn't want the dog. I didn't agree to the dog. He just brought the dog home and was like "look kids, a dog". He is currently unemployed and is "finding it hard to keep up with child support payment and caring for the needs of a pet".
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:29 |
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Khorne posted:Nah, lots of obese people live into their mid 80s. It depends on luck and genes and stuff. There are lots of people on my mom's side of the family who lived to 84-88 despite smoking for 40 years. And even then, they kinda died to alzheimers. There’s a reddit poster that has dilemma solved! quote:Start having sex with other women, escorts even. You shouldn't have to pay million dollars because she's let herself go. Stop paying attention to her and just focus on yourself and your kids. See how that feels for a while, then consider divorce again.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:34 |
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Heavy wife needs therapy, husband needs to do more squatsKuros posted:From /r/legaladvice, here's something on a lighter note. I dont know why shes focused on petimony as much as “reason for husband to lose visitation privileges” but I dont get people.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:34 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Introducing my [18F] new online boyfriend [29M] to my very protective Asian parents. How do I (29m) go about introducing myself to my (20f) GFs parents? quote:so long story short (hopefully short) I've been talking to this girl for a while, she still lives w her parents and they recently found out snit about me avid and ran a basic background check. I got into a lot of trouble between the ages of 18-21 and got some charges, all for minor stuff, all the charges were dropped but the arrests all still show up. Needless to say GFs mom is (understandably) a bit sketched out. I've made lots of changes in the last 8 years, im 3 years continuously clean and have had 6 years of sobriety over the past 8, im also going to be starting work on my LMHC certification (licensed mental health counselor) and currently work at a drug rehab helping other addicts get clean. I get along w GF better than anyone i have ever met and really want her parents to like me. What should i do? e: these are the same people but the dude lied about her age. bird with big dick fucked around with this message at 22:54 on Feb 6, 2018 |
# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:35 |
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Barudak posted:Heavy wife needs therapy, husband needs to do more squats Yeah she sounds severely depressed honestly
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:36 |
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I feel bad for that dog.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:37 |
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Barudak posted:Heavy wife needs therapy, husband needs to do more squats ‘I’ve mentioned several times about the thinner women I could easily be banging; I don’t understand why she’s not doing anything to help herself?!’
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:44 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:There's a reddit poster that has dilemma solved!
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:44 |
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Al Borland Corp. posted:I don't think Mormons have a practice of shunning people anymore. They're all about being friendly and luring you in with low pressure to slowly indoctrinate you, and if you leave are like "Just key us know if there's anything we can do for you, you're always welcome here" It’s like the Church of England, with about the same number of wives.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:44 |
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loquacius posted:I think the lede is being buried here a little because he's making a big deal out of the fact she refuses to stop gaining weight but she also doesn't want to gently caress anymore I feel like his approach to fixing that issue probably contributed to it being worse. Like from what he wrote he's basically telling her to stop being a fatty and bringing up other hot chicks he could be banging instead. That's a good way to make her depressed and not want to gently caress him. Like there's no silver bullet to getting a partner to take better care of themselves but the bare minimum would be a more tactful approach, start eating more healthy together, start being more active together, like losing weight wouldn't even require hitting the gym they could just adjust their diet as a family and make an effort to go on walks together more often, their kids aren't babies anymore they could easily just spend more time in the park or walking around their neighborhood/etc. Whatever triggered her letting herself go could be (probably is) also mental, sounds like they could easily afford some sort of counseling yet he doesn't really mention them exploring that option at all.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:46 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:‘I’ve mentioned several times about the thinner women I could easily be banging; I don’t understand why she’s not doing anything to help herself?!’ I know your libido is down, but mine is not, I want to gently caress. but not you. you are gross. I hope this motivates u
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:49 |
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The guy is trawling for a oneway open relationship, hoping this situation will be why hes allowed to, hes not really interested in continuing to gently caress this lady.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:52 |
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Open the jar of Nutella and the relationship
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 22:59 |
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ArbitraryC posted:I feel like his approach to fixing that issue probably contributed to it being worse. Like from what he wrote he's basically telling her to stop being a fatty and bringing up other hot chicks he could be banging instead. That's a good way to make her depressed and not want to gently caress him.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:00 |
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Beachcomber posted:Open the jar of Nutella I dont see how this is unfair, theyre both gonna nut.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:00 |
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I wonder if these idiots ever saw a picture of David Rockefellers wife. Marry for love and don’t give a poo poo about the other stuff. She clearly owned and made him v happy
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:02 |
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Pick posted:I wonder if these idiots ever saw a picture of David Rockefellers wife. Marry for love and don’t give a poo poo about the other stuff. She clearly owned and made him v happy Physical attractiveness isn't a thing. - Pick
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:04 |
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Chaosfirev posted:Physical attractiveness isn't a thing. - Pick You are fighting with the wrong person on this one buddy
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:06 |
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Well it sounds like he still wants to gently caress her though so it's not like he isn't attracted at all anymore. It's normal to have a sex drive. Going from regular sex to 0 sex in a marriage isn't just 'welp no worries I guess.' Unfortunately we are fleshy biological beings that need some sexual contact for our happiness and well being. Also, while probably done in a stupid way, he is expressing his dissatisfaction and the fact that she apparently just doesn't give a poo poo is a problem also. He rightfully points out previous times where he compromised and did things for her and is confused as to the lack of effort on her part to make him happy. They sound like they need some couples therapy or something at least. Hoping she'll just 'get better' isn't gonna do poo poo but breed resentment. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 23:11 on Feb 6, 2018 |
# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:08 |
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david rockefeller's wife looked completely normal, so i'm confused
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:08 |
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Yeah guys the spark has gone out of their marriage, he's not dumb for questioning if he wants to stay in it He should probably try to get his wife in counseling first though bc I maintain that the issue seems to be that she's depressed as hell
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:10 |
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veiled boner fuel posted:e: these are the same people but the dude lied about her age. Maybe she had a birthday and he remembered it because he is a good boyfriend! LadyPictureShow posted:There’s a reddit poster that has dilemma solved! Why do people who gently caress escorts think anyone knows or wants to know? Reminds me of a guy who spent a month putting up fliers around my old neighborhood with an escort (or possibly an ex's) picture to notify everyone that "this escort stole my wallet." Cool, thanks for the heads up guy who hires escorts.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:11 |
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loquacius posted:Yeah guys the spark has gone out of their marriage, he's not dumb for questioning if he wants to stay in it Agreed, I don't know why he thought telling her that other attractive women were interested in him was in any way appropriate.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:11 |
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YeahTubaMike posted:david rockefeller's wife looked completely normal, so i'm confused Yeah a normal person, and he never traded her in.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:12 |
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Pick posted:I know your libido is down, but mine is not, I want to gently caress. but not you. you are gross. I hope this motivates u incompatibilities between partners' sex drives is a big deal imo
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:12 |
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Pick posted:I wonder if these idiots ever saw a picture of David Rockefellers wife. Marry for love and don’t give a poo poo about the other stuff. She clearly owned and made him v happy I'm googling a just see a skinny white lady who eventually got old?
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:13 |
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Moridin920 posted:Well it sounds like he still wants to gently caress her though so it's not like he isn't attracted at all anymore. Comedy option, she's perfectly happy with not loving and eating blue cheese dressing by the bucket, and when he brings up these hot women who wants to gently caress him she's actually saying go for it, I'm happy to open up the relationship rather than go for it divorce me.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:14 |
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Pick posted:Yeah a normal person, and he never traded her in. There's a difference between "not smoking hot" and "unattractive." I get what your saying and we don't have pics, so it's possible that this guy is freaking out over his wife gaining just a little weight. However, if I were in a relationship with someone then after a year gained 100 lbs, I would expect a talk.
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# ? Feb 6, 2018 23:21 |