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areyoucontagious posted:Right? Like yeah in the current situation he’s being weird and honestly it’s weird to have that board up but given their ages it’s just kids being dumb college kids. Saying “you’re missing some pins, let’s go gently caress in Honduras” is a win-win i dont think hes being weird i think its a reasonable reaction to the situation and its weird and gross to have a sex tourism map
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Gone Fashing posted:i dont think hes being weird i think its a reasonable reaction to the situation and its weird and gross to have a sex tourism map Yeah I don’t think he’s being weird. Like it’s fine people have past sexual relationships but to have it kinda in your face like that is weird and not healthy for the relationship.
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Apr 8, 2019 20:27
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CodfishCartographer posted:I mean I wasn’t trying to say the dude is a jackass or anything, I think he’s been more than generous to pay for so much for her. But I literally did suggest they save up together for a year just like you’re suggesting lol. I will say it clearly here: her asking him to pay for her vacation when she hasn’t contributed anything is lovely, especially if she’s throwing a big fit about it. However I don’t think there’s really enough in that post to determine if she’s being a greedy leech who will never get a job and just suck up his money for years, like what’s posted at the top of this page. I think the argument she made that I quoted about "never knowing when she'll get this time to travel," is a good indicator that he isn't unreliable or at fault and she just Wants To Go On This Trip. I wasn't suggesting that you didn't see it as well, but that's such an obvious solution that it paints her in a really poor light. MarcusSA posted:Yeah I don’t think he’s being weird. Like it’s fine people have past sexual relationships but to have it kinda in your face like that is weird and not healthy for the relationship. Anything that relates to "keeping score" of any kind when it comes to sex is an immaturity red flag to me. Number of people, number of places, keeping track of every race or ethnicity they've had sex with once you're a grown rear end adult in the dating world is friggin weird. 
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Apr 8, 2019 20:28
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Vacation girl has played that dude like a piano, he's put her through college and now she's going to dump his broke rear end LOL
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CodfishCartographer posted:That being said, she probably should just accept that it ain’t happening and they could both start working towards saving up for a nice vacation in a year or something instead, but that'd require some kind of communication and compromise on both parts. You mean like the wedding (and likely honeymoon) the boyfriend has been saving for?
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charity rereg posted:I think the argument she made that I quoted about "never knowing when she'll get this time to travel," is a good indicator that he isn't unreliable or at fault and she just Wants To Go On This Trip. I wasn't suggesting that you didn't see it as well, but that's such an obvious solution that it paints her in a really poor light. Yeah that's a good point. If nothing else it certainly sounds like she doesn't really understand how gracious he's being here, or probably what the value of a dollar really is. Thinking about it, it kinda comes off like a kid going "what do you mean you can't afford to get me that new game console? You make like a billion dollars!"
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Apr 8, 2019 20:42
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Unless that women is studying to be a doctor the idea that she needs a vacation after graduating is goddamn hilarious.
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Apr 8, 2019 20:44
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CheesyDog posted:r/relationship_advice Yikes. Wasn't there some story in the news some time ago about a teacher sleeping with her student and getting pregnant? Was it 13 years ago?? 
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CodfishCartographer posted:Devil’s advocate for vacation girl, but I can understand wanting to take a short vacation after the stress of college before diving into the stress of your first real job. There may also be some unreliable narrator stuff going on, the “When do i get to recharge?” bit sounds real petty and bitter. Also, it doesn’t seem unreasonable that even the most hard-assed boss would be able to let someone take a single day off work for a long weekend or something with a few months heads-up - she did ask him to TRY, and it didn’t seem like he did. That being said, she probably should just accept that it ain’t happening and they could both start working towards saving up for a nice vacation in a year or something instead, but that'd require some kind of communication and compromise on both parts. Bosses make people come in while they are dying. His boss may be an unreasonable piece of poo poo, like a lot of bosses are. If he's stressed about the cost, about work, etc, the vacation will suck no matter what. It's better for her to wait a bit before going on a long vacation, especially since he's been supporting them both financially and saving for the wedding. Ideally, she'd take them both on it as a sign of gratitude for that support (she doesn't have to, obviously, and just paying for her own half would be fine), unless he's also planning on going back to school or something.
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CheesyDog posted:r/relationship_advice Girl should double check her math and make sure she's got the right dates before confronting the parents. 13 and 28 is a nightmare pedophile situation.
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JFairfax posted:Unless that women is studying to be a doctor the idea that she needs a vacation after graduating is goddamn hilarious. After the grind of high school and college, just going to work and having it end when work was over was like a vacation.
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Dazerbeams posted:Girl should double check her math and make sure she's got the right dates before confronting the parents. 13 and 28 is a nightmare pedophile situation. Yeah that’s what I was thinking. If I had to guess she got her math wrong or looked at the dates incorrectly. Like it’s not impossible but it really seems highly unlikely.
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Dazerbeams posted:Girl should double check her math and make sure she's got the right dates before confronting the parents. 13 and 28 is a nightmare pedophile situation. Yeah hopefully she's off by at least 5 years because otherwise holy poo poo her mom is a disgusting child rapist.
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Admiral Ray posted:Yeah hopefully she's off by at least 5 years because otherwise holy poo poo her mom is a disgusting child rapist. she should definitely have phone privileges revoked
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Apr 8, 2019 20:59
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AITA for wanting to shower right before I fall asleep?quote:Last night, my roommate sent this text: Hey girls, about to go to bed so when/if y'all come to the apt tonight plz try to be quiet, and no more late night/early morning showers
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those wake me up. Let's keep showers between 7am-9pm. Thanks!
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CodfishCartographer posted:I mean I wasn’t trying to say the dude is a jackass or anything, I think he’s been more than generous to pay for so much for her. But I literally did suggest they save up together for a year just like you’re suggesting lol. I will say it clearly here: her asking him to pay for her vacation when she hasn’t contributed anything is lovely, especially if she’s throwing a big fit about it. However I don’t think there’s really enough in that post to determine if she’s being a greedy leech who will never get a job and just suck up his money for years, like what’s posted at the top of this page. Personally, I think calling the guy petty and bitter for having a perfectly understandable emotional response went beyond standard devil lawyering. There was a good one today that's sadly already been deleted. A guy found out that his wife hosed her dying best friend two years ago and his 1-year old daughter isn't actually his.
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Gone Fashing posted:i dont think hes being weird i think its a reasonable reaction to the situation and its weird and gross to have a sex tourism map Yeah, uh, not saying he should drop his girlfriend immediately or revoke her phone privileges, but it's really weird and kind of super trashy that she and her roommates have a world tour sex map.
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Apr 8, 2019 21:06
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Weddings are a stupid waste of money, she's actually smart to want to go on vacation instead
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Dienes posted:1) Because the university requires us to use Canvas and its easier to have them use one website rather than two. If you keep a backup on github (like just paste whatever into a word document,) You'd have source control for when canvas inevitably fucks your poo poo 6 ways from sunday. source: I was an online proctor who regularly worked with students who got burned by not having backups and just using canvas. e: It's actually super important to keep a back up somewhere not just saving all your poo poo on the lowest bidders web presence since like 2005
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sebmojo posted:she should definitely have phone privileges revoked Let's not be too harsh here.
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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:Yikes. Wasn't there some story in the news some time ago about a teacher sleeping with her student and getting pregnant? Was it 13 years ago?? There’s a rather famous case of a high school teacher loving one of her students, going to jail for a few years and then resuming the relationship with the student once she got out and he was 18. I think they got married and have kids now. I think the student was a bit older than 13 at the time though. I read some article about them a while ago and it was basically “well, it’s a weird situation but they seem happy together  ” which is mega hosed up, personally speaking.
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Straight White Shark posted:My (24M) girlfriend (23M) has a world map plaque with pins showing where she has had sex. It angers me. Am I petty? This guy needs to shut the gently caress up and accept his girlfriend is a sexual being that likes to and seems to be successful at getting it on. He should be happy she settled with his boring rear end with his 1 pin map.
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Errant Gin Monks posted:This girl needs to shut the gently caress up and accept her boyfriend is a sexual being that likes to and seems to be successful at getting it on. She should be happy he settled with her boring rear end with her 1 pin map. I mean I get it's not a one for one comparison in this kind of thing, but lol
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Norton the First posted:Personally, I think calling the guy petty and bitter for having a perfectly understandable emotional response went beyond standard devil lawyering. if you still have the link to the deleted post, change "reddit" to "ceddit" and try that. it sounds like a juicy post
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:AITA for wanting to shower right before I fall asleep? This is fine for a murder suicide situation sebmojo posted:I mean I get it's not a one for one comparison in this kind of thing, but lol I get what you are saying I guess I just find people who get mad at sexual pasts annoying. It’s not in his house, it’s in a shared apartment of girls.
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Errant Gin Monks posted:This is fine for a murder suicide situation oh, I didn't pick that up - i guess that's a bit different sebmojo fucked around with this message at 21:42 on Apr 8, 2019 |
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Apr 8, 2019 21:29
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My (24M) gf (23f) doesn’t appear to be over her potentially very well hung ex (m26)quote:So I met this girl 6 months ago and we were seeing each other for a while before things became exclusive (probably around 3 months ago).
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Straight White Shark posted:My (24M) girlfriend (23M) has a world map plaque with pins showing where she has had sex. It angers me. Am I petty? If a guy did this, it would be considered sleazy and gross. When a gal does it, she’s sexually liberated and worldly.
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Vacation after graduation story: My friend dated a really entitled rich girl who just HAD to go to Italy after she graduated. Despite having rich parents they only paid for her school, not her living expenses, so instead of getting a part time job she just moved in with my friend and lived off his income. Going to Italy was a huge cost for him, didn't have parents buying him a trip for a present, but it was important to her so he scrimped and saved over the year. He couldn't get as much time off so he was to join her a week later into the month long trip. A couple days before he left he got an email from her saying she had met a much more exciting guy in Italy, wants to live and work in Italy, and they're done. He was devastated and felt pretty used, but carried on and had a great solo trip in europe that he totally couldn't afford. A couple months later he gets another email from her saying she hates Italy, the boy she shacked up with dint work out and with no job she has nowhere to stay in Italy so is coming back to Canada and hopes to move back in with him and she'd reconsider their relationship. He Pete'd her good, having a spine and all. She had to live with her parents for a couple years until she found a wealthy finance guy to very quickly marry, not sure she ever worked a day in her life.
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If you're making a sex map you should invest in a globe at the least, class it up y'know.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:if you still have the link to the deleted post, change "reddit" to "ceddit" and try that. it sounds like a juicy post I guess ceddit doesn't retain posts that are deleted by the author? The post is still gone, but his comments go from quote:That's creepy. But I'm sure that she's my daughter. when someone points out the timeline and suggests a paternity test, to quote:Yeah, everyone here was right. It's not my child. My wife just told me. I'm leaving this marriage. Idc what happens to anyone.
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Errant Gin Monks posted:This guy needs to shut the gently caress up and accept his girlfriend is a sexual being that likes to and seems to be successful at getting it on. He should be happy she settled with his boring rear end with his 1 pin map. Yeah, lol at thinking that taking down the map would make him feel better about it. His memory of the pins would probably just get worse over time and he would build it up in his head as having even more than are actually there. At least now he can see that she had a fun life before she met him.
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Norton the First posted:I guess ceddit doesn't retain posts that are deleted by the author? The post is still gone, but his comments go from You'd think if you had raised a kid thinking it was your own, you'd still give a poo poo what happened to said child that you presumably loved. Dude could be just as lovely as his wife 
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Scathach posted:You'd think if you had raised a kid thinking it was your own, you'd still give a poo poo what happened to said child that you presumably loved. Dude could be just as lovely as his wife i guess if you're just going to jump to the assumption that any given parent gives much of a poo poo about their kid as a human being in the first place
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Moist von Lipwig posted:Honestly, having seen long battles with cancer, at a certain point, especially when it's clear they're not going to make it, they stop being the person they were to you and just become... something else. They still require tons of care, especially of their primary caregivers, and the medications make them start behaving strangely. It's horrible but you get to the point where you want then to go and it feels like that's when you start moving on. I've been through it with grandparents and other family members and I can't imagine going through it with a partner. It may seem a little weird but I feel like I get that guy. Imposing your own stipulations on someone's grieving is kind of hosed up unless their behaviour is really exceptional. Still creepy that the new wife looks like the dead one and doesn't know or care. My friend was dating this woman for a while and they broke up, and she started dating another guy who looks exactly like my friend, and they're all friends still. I make excuses not to hang out with all of them because it creeps me out. That said, it wasn't a long battle, she succumbed and then took a long time to die. These are the worst because the person can live for months or even years despite a guaranteed prognosis of death, except they are incapable of caring for themselves. This is why euthanasia should be legal. I can't imagine anyone willingly living in palliative care for more than a few weeks. I wouldn't be surprised if they had secretly met while the dead wife was still alive.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:i guess if you're just going to jump to the assumption that any given parent gives much of a poo poo about their kid as a human being in the first place Well gently caress.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:My (24M) gf (23f) doesn’t appear to be over her potentially very well hung ex (m26) He refers to himself as 9 inch? Yeah, I'm sure the OP has a lot to worry about. He should just dump her though.
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Scathach posted:You'd think if you had raised a kid thinking it was your own, you'd still give a poo poo what happened to said child that you presumably loved. Dude could be just as lovely as his wife I think when you just found out your kid isn't yours you're probably allowed to make a comment like "Idc what happens to anyone" without it being taken literally. I'd be too drunk to type at that point.
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